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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it cheeky to asked to be picked up for sex if you pay ur way for petrol ect..

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

It depends on a whole lot of things really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's cheeky as long as it is patently obvious from the outset.

If you agree to meet and then slip that gem in, I can understand why someone might be miffed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it's cheeky as long as it is patently obvious from the outset.

If you agree to meet and then slip that gem in, I can understand why someone might be miffed."
i recently got rid of my car.. So when i say if u can pick me up, an il pay i think thats y im not gettin anywer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's cheeky as long as it is patently obvious from the outset.

If you agree to meet and then slip that gem in, I can understand why someone might be miffed. i recently got rid of my car.. So when i say if u can pick me up, an il pay i think thats y im not gettin anywer "

personally id tell ya to catch the bus! i wouldnt want to be fannying about pickin up, would be taking the time getting ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's cheeky as long as it is patently obvious from the outset.

If you agree to meet and then slip that gem in, I can understand why someone might be miffed. i recently got rid of my car.. So when i say if u can pick me up, an il pay i think thats y im not gettin anywer

personally id tell ya to catch the bus! i wouldnt want to be fannying about pickin up, would be taking the time getting ready "

so if i pick him up and bring him to yours, can i watch ?

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

its a bit cheeky but if you dont drive...

If they really think its a cheek, then you should ask yourself: if you should be meeting them in the first place. You might end up regeting the experiance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the hell is your Avatar?

No we wouldn't pick you up, if you can offer to pay for petrol I'm sure you can pay for a taxi...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it's cheeky as long as it is patently obvious from the outset.

If you agree to meet and then slip that gem in, I can understand why someone might be miffed. i recently got rid of my car.. So when i say if u can pick me up, an il pay i think thats y im not gettin anywer

personally id tell ya to catch the bus! i wouldnt want to be fannying about pickin up, would be taking the time getting ready "
yea i sayin out of bus hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it cheeky to asked to be picked up for sex if you pay ur way for petrol ect.."
I think if your open about not having a car and truthfull people will see were your coming from if wish to meet you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's cheeky as long as it is patently obvious from the outset.

If you agree to meet and then slip that gem in, I can understand why someone might be miffed. i recently got rid of my car.. So when i say if u can pick me up, an il pay i think thats y im not gettin anywer

personally id tell ya to catch the bus! i wouldnt want to be fannying about pickin up, would be taking the time getting ready

so if i pick him up and bring him to yours, can i watch ? "

Hell, why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it cheeky to asked to be picked up for sex if you pay ur way for petrol ect.."

Ask your mum to drop you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it cheeky to asked to be picked up for sex if you pay ur way for petrol ect.."

To be honest.. I wouldnt think it was cheeky but a bit rude.

What happens after.. are you going to expect a lift back too.. What is wrong with a taxi.. or the bus.

I dont meet people that cant get to me.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im best off forgetting about it i think... Stupid car smash it was fixable but with children its not that cheap is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not accomodate instead, let them come to you.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not accomodate instead, let them come to you............."

Play nice !

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"What the hell is your Avatar?

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Agree, what the hell is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not accomodate instead, let them come to you.............

Play nice ! "

What? was just a suggestion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it cheeky to asked to be picked up for sex if you pay ur way for petrol ect..

To be honest.. I wouldnt think it was cheeky but a bit rude.

What happens after.. are you going to expect a lift back too.. What is wrong with a taxi.. or the bus.

I dont meet people that cant get to me.

Cali "
i dont mind accomindating when i have free house but when they ask to meet an i cant accom an i turn around an say ud have to pick me up but il pay all expenses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not accomodate instead, let them come to you.............

Play nice !

What? was just a suggestion"

Don't play the innocent when the devil lurks beneath

In fact, go on then, do.

I am feeling mischievious too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can accom when the kids go to granparents jus not every tme someone asks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have met the person before it may not be that cheeky but I can't understand why you can't get a taxi, especially seen as you can't accomodate? That means the person has to accomodate and travel!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it cheeky to asked to be picked up for sex if you pay ur way for petrol ect.."

I don't think that's cheeky at all ... it's just logistics and if you can't get there it's just good old fashioned manners ... which seem quite rare, I have to say. No lift no fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Cali i dont mind accomindating when i have free house but when they ask to meet an i cant accom an i turn around an say ud have to pick me up but il pay all expenses "

I can honestly say that if someone sent me that ( and I have had it a lot lately with young guys) That I simply wouldnt meet... as it wouldnt work for me.

and if your offering to pay expenses.. then get a taxi

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont think u understand a taxi in a rural area from a village to 10 miles away is 45 pound would you reli pay that ther an bk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think u understand a taxi in a rural area from a village to 10 miles away is 45 pound would you reli pay that ther an bk "

Depends how badly I wanted to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Id rather spend it on the children no affence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think u understand a taxi in a rural area from a village to 10 miles away is 45 pound would you reli pay that ther an bk "

No i wouldnt.

I accomm & travel but only on days/nights im able to. I wouldnt book a babysitter to come look after my children whilst i go off shagging and i wouldnt have anyone in my home whilst my children are there. I have to turn down many meets as im not available when they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it all the time...depends what the driver gets eh lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I totally agree with u x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I totally agree with u x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id rather spend it on the children no affence"

well there you have your answer

i am not questioning your priorities btw - i think they are spot on

what other transport options are open to you ?

if you are talking late night trips out for a quick knee trembler, if you live rurally and have no transport of your own then you are going to have logistics issues

if however, you pre plan your meets and travel at times that suit you and you have your kids taken care of, then that opens a lot more doors for you

as i said in my initial posting, i don't think it is cheeky as long as it is stated upfront rather than as an after thought.

i have been and collected a few people, but they have all lived within 10/15 minutes drive, so distance and accessibility does figure.

if you live in a rural area, distances and hence time would be more of an issue than in an urban area.

so really, you must accept than many won't want the bother of collecting and (i assume) dropping off again afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I have been very lucky I think in that I will met a guy in a certain place and if we go from there to play I hop in his car, he pays all the costs

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"Is it cheeky to asked to be picked up for sex if you pay ur way for petrol ect..

I don't think that's cheeky at all ... it's just logistics and if you can't get there it's just good old fashioned manners ... which seem quite rare, I have to say. No lift no fuck.

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Hey buffy like you reading these responses yours a refreshing breath of fresh air - i think we are a dying bread that has sumfink like manerzz. No wonder we gat a lot of bleeters on here about failed meets - their a bunch of selfish %$£*:'s - now watch the flames as i take cover.

Good on you babes keep going with what we know is good... Da Respect inint

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