FabSwingers.com forum: Married woman contra just being gf

By *issyEM OP Woman
over a year ago

Nearly

Question for married couples with hot wife scenario.

(but not only)

My partner has been married 3times.I had 3 long term relationship. I was the person who never wants getting married but now everything changed. I would love that. Problem is he don't. I tho being just hot girlfriend is not enough for me. Do I am wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not wrong for wanting what you want, no one can help how they feel.

But at the same time, you can't expect him to want the same thing, you're each allowed to make your own decisions about it- and if you want different things and it's a deal breaker for one of you, then it's just a case of incompatibility.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"Question for married couples with hot wife scenario.

(but not only)

“Do I am wrong?“

No young Jedi master yoda says wrong you are not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not wrong to want something that someone else doesn’t. It’s not wrong for him to not want it. You just need to decided if it’s a deal breaker or not.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nobody is wrong, however as others have said, you need to decide if all this is enough for you, if he doesn't want to change his mind

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

He's been married 3 times, I don't think marraige is his thing.

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By *exy Black JenWoman
over a year ago

London/Eastbourne weekends

"He's been married 3 times, I don't think marraige is his thing."

I agree...more that he may not be very good at being married, so he's probably doing the right thing in not wanting another one.....

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Sounds like he has learned that marriage is not for him. It would appear that this is a growing trend for men .

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By *stonMTMan
over a year ago

cleveland

Think you need to talk it through there acommitment issue but even if married people will move on if they that way inclined

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By *issyEM OP Woman
over a year ago

Nearly

I am seeing this lika he doesn't want any commitment. Its nice life life in present and thats it. He spent a lot of time with his ex and children and looks like that bond will last forever. I don't really want to be someone gf only.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I am seeing this lika he doesn't want any commitment. Its nice life life in present and thats it. He spent a lot of time with his ex and children and looks like that bond will last forever. I don't really want to be someone gf only. "

Then the two of you have some difficult conversations ahead.

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