FabSwingers.com forum: Awkward meets

By *bbott24 OP Couple
over a year ago

Devizes

Not that it's happened to us but how do you deal with a meet that one or both of you don't fancy the people you meet without offending them.

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By *bi_AstrayTV/TS
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Not that it's happened to us but how do you deal with a meet that one or both of you don't fancy the people you meet without offending them. "

Apologise and say it's not working for me and leave, hastily... It happens and shouldn't be a problem, there's no obligation to have sex with anyone on a meet. I said it and been told it, it's life...

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Many options, including the truth, "I don't fancy you".

The last time I said that, it turned out to be mutual and we ended up being platonic swinging mates for ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not that it's happened to us but how do you deal with a meet that one or both of you don't fancy the people you meet without offending them. "

It has happened to us in the past, unfortunately it's usually because the people had aged alot from the face pics we had exchanged.

We asked one couple how long ago the pic they sent us was taken and they told us it was 10 years ago!!

Shame they didn't tell us that before we arranged to meet as it was a very awkward drink

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Not that it's happened to us but how do you deal with a meet that one or both of you don't fancy the people you meet without offending them.

It has happened to us in the past, unfortunately it's usually because the people had aged alot from the face pics we had exchanged.

We asked one couple how long ago the pic they sent us was taken and they told us it was 10 years ago!!

Shame they didn't tell us that before we arranged to meet as it was a very awkward drink

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yep. Meet with one couple who were 15years & 4 stone away from their pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not that it's happened to us but how do you deal with a meet that one or both of you don't fancy the people you meet without offending them.

It has happened to us in the past, unfortunately it's usually because the people had aged alot from the face pics we had exchanged.

We asked one couple how long ago the pic they sent us was taken and they told us it was 10 years ago!!

Shame they didn't tell us that before we arranged to meet as it was a very awkward drink

yep. Meet with one couple who were 15years & 4 stone away from their pictures "
the 4 stone heavier seems to be a common theme.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

And that’s why it’s always best to have a social meet first. We’ve had a good laugh over drinks but not fancied the other couple but at least we had a nice evening out with no obligations.

I feel like I took one for the team a little bit on our first meet so lessons have been learnt since then!

Lou x

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"Not that it's happened to us but how do you deal with a meet that one or both of you don't fancy the people you meet without offending them. "

We had one it was feeling obliged to stay but cringed and was awkward no play but lots of cringe. Next time we meet someone who doesn't resemble their profile or pics we will say a polite sorry but no thanks as liars don't appeal or have an attraction. We were very disappointed and wasted time and effort.

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick

WhatsApp solves the issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do social only meets first. On the very rare occasion that I have planned to do more than social then I would have to be pretty sure already that I think it will progress and I would have plans in place just incase ie mutual location, my own hotel room etc

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Allways have a social meet first and if like them make another date if I dont will say something like will have a think and b in touch x

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