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"All our Mff have started at clubs, some have then gone more private as friendship developed. It’s fantastic when everyone hits it off. Not sure the forums work, think for this type of relationship works better face to face. Think a number of threads support that. Love to be proven wrong though. " I agree entirely!!! I found it easier to make connections in clubs. In the absence of the club option how else can the interest be drummed up? | |||
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"All our Mff have started at clubs, some have then gone more private as friendship developed. It’s fantastic when everyone hits it off. Not sure the forums work, think for this type of relationship works better face to face. Think a number of threads support that. Love to be proven wrong though. I agree entirely!!! I found it easier to make connections in clubs. In the absence of the club option how else can the interest be drummed up? " Possibly an opportunity, don’t know. I suspect, and this is me, too many single ladies feel the internet profiles have some odd motives and not very congruent. I will go back to face to face, it removes incongruity. We are lucky, we have stunning friends, okay, it’s not luck. | |||
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"All our Mff have started at clubs, some have then gone more private as friendship developed. It’s fantastic when everyone hits it off. Not sure the forums work, think for this type of relationship works better face to face. Think a number of threads support that. Love to be proven wrong though. I agree entirely!!! I found it easier to make connections in clubs. In the absence of the club option how else can the interest be drummed up? " I've REALLY struggled to make connections in the clubs, but then it's REALLY difficult to be a solo guy in the club scene. I'm just in the throes of organising another fmf meet with two of my regular friends, and I have another fmf waiting in the wings too. NONE of my circle of friends I have met through the clubs, most through their Fab profiles, and two from another site. If a mate asked for a recommendation, ie using Fab or the club scene, I would always advise him to stick with Fab as a solo guy, and visit clubs with a female friend | |||
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"Most of our meetings have been with single women, we’ve built some good friendships and a lot of laughs. " Ha ha you are so right, too much focus gets in the way of fun. | |||
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"Get messages about mff from couples all the time so seems like it's definitely somwthing that's still a thing.. " Not surprised you’re stunning, any couple would be over the moon to have you join them | |||
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"I thought they were a myth! We’ve got absolutely nowhere, ghosted constantly " Couldn't agree more,it seems like a lot of people struggle to form more than one sentence when messaging also. | |||
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"Don't think they're a thing of the past. From a single female point of view there are plenty people who are looking for a female to join them, but it often feels like it's all about what they want rather than actually what they can offer the female. " We have had a few of our single friends say that's how it can meke them feel, we always go with the flow and let the Single girl lead the pace and play,and had some very memorable nights | |||
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"Do couples still search for single women? Do single women still search for couples? Feel free to use this as a matchmaking thread (For future arrangements, meeting responsible social distance guidelines etc) Pm me i like to hear about any connections made " Yes... I have a couples profile with my boyfriend and we meet single females. We meet a lovely single female fwb who we enjoy together and individually. Her x | |||
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"I have only had one successful fab ffm in 2 years. I get messages from couples, understandably they are going to letting some woman into their bedroom so it's a big deal, but I always feel like as a single woman I'm getting vetted for weeks. It's much more laid back way of meeting couples in a club and obviously not spending weeks chatting just for messages to stop, you just have fun and swap details afterwards clubs are the way forward for ffms in my opinion. " That’s crazy. We definitely wouldn’t hang around if we got chatting. xx | |||
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"It's something we would love to find. Rhi has really enjoyed her mmf fun but now wants to share me and watch me have fun. She says she feels guilty but I'm totally happy with how we are. We go with the flow and what happens happens. I get my pleasure from watching her have fun and let herself let go . I'm not selfish lol" Like the word “fun“, it’s not mentioned a lot in this type of forum | |||
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"It's something we would love to find. Rhi has really enjoyed her mmf fun but now wants to share me and watch me have fun. She says she feels guilty but I'm totally happy with how we are. We go with the flow and what happens happens. I get my pleasure from watching her have fun and let herself let go . I'm not selfish lol Like the word “fun“, it’s not mentioned a lot in this type of forum " If there isn't fun what's the point? We a dead a long long time. Have fun, make people laugh and make them feel good. Spread happiness where you can and go out laughing. That's sounds like a good life to us. | |||
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"Don't think they're a thing of the past. From a single female point of view there are plenty people who are looking for a female to join them, but it often feels like it's all about what they want rather than actually what they can offer the female. " I do get some messages from couples but it tends to be the female half wanting to "put on a show" for the male half (Oh it's his birthday, let's put on a show for him. He's had a promotion in work, let's put on a show for him. It's his fantasy, let's put on a show for him). I'm not a performing seal so I tend to back away sharpish. I think it would be tougher to arrange on here than in a club where things could build more naturally. | |||
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"Don't think they're a thing of the past. From a single female point of view there are plenty people who are looking for a female to join them, but it often feels like it's all about what they want rather than actually what they can offer the female. I do get some messages from couples but it tends to be the female half wanting to "put on a show" for the male half (Oh it's his birthday, let's put on a show for him. He's had a promotion in work, let's put on a show for him. It's his fantasy, let's put on a show for him). I'm not a performing seal so I tend to back away sharpish. I think it would be tougher to arrange on here than in a club where things could build more naturally." I agree with your comments, very few couples that message consider the female at all. Purely the couple wanting the extra for a fun show. That said I have met 3 very lovely couples, all I consider to be good friends. It's all about the approach taken | |||
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"Do couples still search for single women? Do single women still search for couples? Feel free to use this as a matchmaking thread (For future arrangements, meeting responsible social distance guidelines etc) Pm me i like to hear about any connections made " I fucking hope not | |||
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"I dip in and out of fab depending when I'm single, or more recently was on with a guy I was in a relationship with. Didn't get to do Mmf with him as lockdown hit. We've split up since, but going back to a single on here, Mmf or ff is what I look for. I've had some good Mmf and some not so good. The best couple I had several Mmf with I'm still friends with in vanilla way too now. I always do social first, have to feel comfortable with them out of a play setting first. Just what makes me feel comfortable. " We wanna try Esteban in Chorley your welcome to join us for a social Drinks on us. | |||
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