FabSwingers.com forum: Has the Fun Gone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has the Fun gone/going out of swinging.

The days where you could just have a chat, flirt then have some fun seems to disappearing and being replaced with regimental procedures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something something global pandemic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know about the pandemic and won't be meeting until safe to do so. I'm meaning in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are posting this after 5 months of no meeting. Of course its gonna feel like the fun has gone as you can't just do what you've posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of the pandemic, swinging has changed for the worse.

I’d never been one for on line meets preferring club visits but decided to sign up and move with the times.

I’ve never had so much abuse and insults thrown at me and what for. For daring to message people who meet my criteria.

Yes I fear on line has changed swinging for the worst.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are posting this after 5 months of no meeting. Of course its gonna feel like the fun has gone as you can't just do what you've posted "

I get that, as I said earlier this is just a general observation from before the pandemic also.

I used to prefer going out socialising having a chat flirt but up a rapport and if happy have a bit of fun. Since most meets are arranged online that bit of it seems to be on the decline.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regardless of the pandemic, swinging has changed for the worse.

I’d never been one for on line meets preferring club visits but decided to sign up and move with the times.

I’ve never had so much abuse and insults thrown at me and what for. For daring to message people who meet my criteria.

Yes I fear on line has changed swinging for the worst."

This is awful. Why can't women just reply no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are posting this after 5 months of no meeting. Of course its gonna feel like the fun has gone as you can't just do what you've posted

I get that, as I said earlier this is just a general observation from before the pandemic also.

I used to prefer going out socialising having a chat flirt but up a rapport and if happy have a bit of fun. Since most meets are arranged online that bit of it seems to be on the decline. "

Let me just get this straight

You are saying that people are loathe to arrange to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fear so. It was much better in the days of contact mags as pre-meet chit chat and boundary drawing was so much more difficult. In those days, like the photo, arrange a meet usually at the pub but sometimes straight at the house and either there was an instant mmm this isn't right or we got down to it. Long long gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, putting the current situation aside.

Before the pandemic I was attending my local club regularly, I got to know some lovely people and had fun playing with some of them. I did occasionally arrange meets through fab, but I used it more as a way to keep in touch with people I'd met at club events, and to keep an eye on event listings.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Regardless of the pandemic, swinging has changed for the worse.

I’d never been one for on line meets preferring club visits but decided to sign up and move with the times.

I’ve never had so much abuse and insults thrown at me and what for. For daring to message people who meet my criteria.

Yes I fear on line has changed swinging for the worst."

Think you will find there has been a mass influx of non swingers who have discovered the site during lockdown and think its a chance at guaranteed sex.

The real folk are all still here.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Has the Fun gone/going out of swinging.

The days where you could just have a chat, flirt then have some fun seems to disappearing and being replaced with regimental procedures. "

The fun disappeared out of pretty much every facet of our lives, at the end of March, and is struggling to return even now. The very nature of swinging; meeting people for intimate fun, is obviously going to be hit really hard by the restrictions enforced on us all, so it’s not surprising attitudes have changed recently. I’m very lucky to have the circle of friends built up before the pandemic hit though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the funs gone out of swinging it's just situation atm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has the Fun gone/going out of swinging.

The days where you could just have a chat, flirt then have some fun seems to disappearing and being replaced with regimental procedures. "

What regimental procedures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pandemic aside...

We found arranging meets on here became too much of a run about, dreamers, timewasters etc. So we decided to attend our local club and see what happens... It was a lot better from my point of view (fem) could chat have a laugh and if went further then it did.. if not we had a good night out regardless....

don't get me wrong still had some issues mainly those who cannot accept a club only meeting and we just go.... we dont pre arrange we just go for the night (depending on sitters etc)...

Only thing ive seen since the pandemic started is more demanding to play on cam. So im not on cam as much as i use to be.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Don’t think so, it’s become a little divisive like Brexit though, the older worrier types and the forward thinking adventurous types are much more distinct now, but that’s a good thing. We never did quick hookups or sex in woods or at clubs with strangers so nothings much has changed for us

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