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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. " No | |||
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"I suspect its the male half thats pmed you compared to the lady. Most ladies do read the profiles of others unlike there male counter parts." I've had ladies message that clearly haven't read my profile either. | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. " My profile says straight and that I'm not interested in couples and I still get messages from them. It's not only single men that don't read profiles. | |||
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"I have now blocked couples from messaging me which has solved the problem" I have done this previously and will probably have to do it again. It's a shame because I'm open to anyone messaging me for a normal conversation or off a thread but it's frustrating when the profile hasn't been read. | |||
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"Before blocking why don’t you go to the extent of putting in your bio that you don’t want to meet couples. A profile that states Bi-curious, looking to meet men, and women, and includes threesomes....I’d say it’s not too wild of an assumption to say you’ll get a lot of couple interest, even if they have read your profile." Mine does say that and I still get messages from couples lol. | |||
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"Before blocking why don’t you go to the extent of putting in your bio that you don’t want to meet couples. A profile that states Bi-curious, looking to meet men, and women, and includes threesomes....I’d say it’s not too wild of an assumption to say you’ll get a lot of couple interest, even if they have read your profile." But why should she specifically write that? I do have it written in mine and it doesn’t stop them. I find it incredibly rude. | |||
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"Before blocking why don’t you go to the extent of putting in your bio that you don’t want to meet couples. A profile that states Bi-curious, looking to meet men, and women, and includes threesomes....I’d say it’s not too wild of an assumption to say you’ll get a lot of couple interest, even if they have read your profile. But why should she specifically write that? I do have it written in mine and it doesn’t stop them. I find it incredibly rude." Yep, then those same couples complain about men not reading profiles. I've even had couples tell me they read it but just decided to 'try their luck' anyway. It's disrespectful. | |||
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"I guess that many couples here are bit hypocritical as they complain about single guys but they do exactly the same towards single women. " Very much so. | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. " Nope, we have zero interest in meeting single fems. | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. Nope, we have zero interest in meeting single fems. " That's fair enough. I should of worded the OP better, it was aimed at the ones that want to meet single women. | |||
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"Before blocking why don’t you go to the extent of putting in your bio that you don’t want to meet couples. A profile that states Bi-curious, looking to meet men, and women, and includes threesomes....I’d say it’s not too wild of an assumption to say you’ll get a lot of couple interest, even if they have read your profile. But why should she specifically write that? I do have it written in mine and it doesn’t stop them. I find it incredibly rude. Yep, then those same couples complain about men not reading profiles. I've even had couples tell me they read it but just decided to 'try their luck' anyway. It's disrespectful. " I've had that too. Not just from couples though. If I've dropped my filters for a game or something and people can get through that don't match my looking for, they've pointed it out and still said they were trying their luck. | |||
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"Before blocking why don’t you go to the extent of putting in your bio that you don’t want to meet couples. A profile that states Bi-curious, looking to meet men, and women, and includes threesomes....I’d say it’s not too wild of an assumption to say you’ll get a lot of couple interest, even if they have read your profile. But why should she specifically write that? I do have it written in mine and it doesn’t stop them. I find it incredibly rude. Yep, then those same couples complain about men not reading profiles. I've even had couples tell me they read it but just decided to 'try their luck' anyway. It's disrespectful. I've had that too. Not just from couples though. If I've dropped my filters for a game or something and people can get through that don't match my looking for, they've pointed it out and still said they were trying their luck." Yeah, I never drop my filters for games now, I just ignore the bitchy remarks in the threads about them not going able to join in because of filters. | |||
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"Before blocking why don’t you go to the extent of putting in your bio that you don’t want to meet couples. A profile that states Bi-curious, looking to meet men, and women, and includes threesomes....I’d say it’s not too wild of an assumption to say you’ll get a lot of couple interest, even if they have read your profile. But why should she specifically write that? I do have it written in mine and it doesn’t stop them. I find it incredibly rude. Yep, then those same couples complain about men not reading profiles. I've even had couples tell me they read it but just decided to 'try their luck' anyway. It's disrespectful. I've had that too. Not just from couples though. If I've dropped my filters for a game or something and people can get through that don't match my looking for, they've pointed it out and still said they were trying their luck. Yeah, I never drop my filters for games now, I just ignore the bitchy remarks in the threads about them not going able to join in because of filters. " Good advice  | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. " We don't assume anything, always best to ask politely. I have contacted people from our couples account looking for single connections but created this profile as i didn' t want anyone thinking I was misusing or abusing our couples account to bypass filters etc. With regards to contacting, we won't 'chance our arm', I have been known to message someone who's profile states no interest in attached, given that it is ambiguous. There have been threads where opinion is split whether the person posting it meant without knowledge/permission or attached in entirety. I'm upfront when I message and ask the question for clarity and the replies have ranged from 'fuck you, you're not single' to 'I only meant cheaters'. If however a profile says have no interest in attached whether with permission or not I won't contact. | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. " Do they? That's a conundrum  | |||
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"But then we wouldn't be able to message absolute nonsense to you, Sparkles
Disclaimer: were not looking for anything for the foreseeable future "You're allowed | |||
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"I don't believe this is the only scenario on fab where people make assumptions. I wouldn't sweat it. It's easy enough to ignore those that message that aren't what you're looking for. " No, it's not, it was just a question. | |||
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"I don't believe this is the only scenario on fab where people make assumptions. I wouldn't sweat it. It's easy enough to ignore those that message that aren't what you're looking for. No, it's not, it was just a question. " I realise that. My point was assumptions are made by everyone. It's part of human nature. That's why couples do it. | |||
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"I don't believe this is the only scenario on fab where people make assumptions. I wouldn't sweat it. It's easy enough to ignore those that message that aren't what you're looking for. No, it's not, it was just a question. I realise that. My point was assumptions are made by everyone. It's part of human nature. That's why couples do it. " *some couples | |||
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"I suspect its the male half thats pmed you compared to the lady. Most ladies do read the profiles of others unlike there male counter parts." This^ | |||
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"If the single woman have chosen her preference as a MF instead of M then anybody would assume that she wants to meet cpls. Many people chose MF category and their profiles come up on couples updates . It's not couples fault in that case." How about we drop trying to cast blame as we can only use the presets Fab allows us. Unfortunately there isn’t a M or F one  | |||
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"If the single woman have chosen her preference as a MF instead of M then anybody would assume that she wants to meet cpls. Many people chose MF category and their profiles come up on couples updates . It's not couples fault in that case. How about we drop trying to cast blame as we can only use the presets Fab allows us. Unfortunately there isn’t a M or F one "If you are looking for just single Men or single women to play with then you can go to Looking for section and select the relevant category . So you won't get couples in your updates but singles and only they can message you . Nothing is preset on Fab, we have to set it . | |||
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"If the single woman have chosen her preference as a MF instead of M then anybody would assume that she wants to meet cpls. Many people chose MF category and their profiles come up on couples updates . It's not couples fault in that case." I only have looking for men on my profile and they still message me, whose 'fault' is it then? | |||
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"If the single woman have chosen her preference as a MF instead of M then anybody would assume that she wants to meet cpls. Many people chose MF category and their profiles come up on couples updates . It's not couples fault in that case. How about we drop trying to cast blame as we can only use the presets Fab allows us. Unfortunately there isn’t a M or F one
If you are looking for just single Men or single women to play with then you can go to Looking for section and select the relevant category .
So you won't get couples in your updates but singles and only they can message you .
Nothing is preset on Fab, we have to set it .
"I'm only looking for men but still have couples messaging me so that's not true. | |||
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"If the single woman have chosen her preference as a MF instead of M then anybody would assume that she wants to meet cpls. Many people chose MF category and their profiles come up on couples updates . It's not couples fault in that case. How about we drop trying to cast blame as we can only use the presets Fab allows us. Unfortunately there isn’t a M or F one "You have chosen Men as looking for category,so you will never feature in couples updates. If they are still contacting you for MFF play then they are just stupid . | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. My profile says straight and that I'm not interested in couples and I still get messages from them. It's not only single men that don't read profiles. " Exactly, I've had 2 messages today alone from couples. I don't want to kiss or touch a woman intimately and I'm sure my profile agrees with me.. Bloody annoying isn't it Lmp | |||
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"If the single woman have chosen her preference as a MF instead of M then anybody would assume that she wants to meet cpls. Many people chose MF category and their profiles come up on couples updates . It's not couples fault in that case. How about we drop trying to cast blame as we can only use the presets Fab allows us. Unfortunately there isn’t a M or F one
If you are looking for just single Men or single women to play with then you can go to Looking for section and select the relevant category .
So you won't get couples in your updates but singles and only they can message you .
Nothing is preset on Fab, we have to set it .
"So let me get this straight, you're saying that because I'm looking for single men and single women that it's my fault that couples message me without reading my profile first because I come up in their updates even though I'm not looking for them? And the only way to change that is for me to go looking and stop anyone messaging me? Is that what you mean? Actually, don't answer. I asked a question, I didn't expect to get bashed for my preferences  | |||
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"If the single woman have chosen her preference as a MF instead of M then anybody would assume that she wants to meet cpls. Many people chose MF category and their profiles come up on couples updates . It's not couples fault in that case. How about we drop trying to cast blame as we can only use the presets Fab allows us. Unfortunately there isn’t a M or F one
If you are looking for just single Men or single women to play with then you can go to Looking for section and select the relevant category .
So you won't get couples in your updates but singles and only they can message you .
Nothing is preset on Fab, we have to set it .
"She has only chosen the single men and women categories, not mf couples. | |||
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"If the single woman have chosen her preference as a MF instead of M then anybody would assume that she wants to meet cpls. Many people chose MF category and their profiles come up on couples updates . It's not couples fault in that case. How about we drop trying to cast blame as we can only use the presets Fab allows us. Unfortunately there isn’t a M or F one
If you are looking for just single Men or single women to play with then you can go to Looking for section and select the relevant category .
So you won't get couples in your updates but singles and only they can message you .
Nothing is preset on Fab, we have to set it .
"I'm only looking for men. My profile says straight. Yet I get couples and single women asking me to meet. So I've set my preferences and yet some people don't bother to read them. Which is the whole point of the original post. Just because people CAN message a person doesn't mean they SHOULD. And they certainly shouldn't get moody and abusive when their message is deleted with no reply or replied to with a polite no thanks. I'll talk to anyone and shouldn't have to close all my filters because some people can't read or don't read. Or think they'll just try their luck. And that's the point that the OP is making. | |||
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"If the single woman have chosen her preference as a MF instead of M then anybody would assume that she wants to meet cpls. Many people chose MF category and their profiles come up on couples updates . It's not couples fault in that case. How about we drop trying to cast blame as we can only use the presets Fab allows us. Unfortunately there isn’t a M or F one
If you are looking for just single Men or single women to play with then you can go to Looking for section and select the relevant category .
So you won't get couples in your updates but singles and only they can message you .
Nothing is preset on Fab, we have to set it .
I'm only looking for men. My profile says straight. Yet I get couples and single women asking me to meet. So I've set my preferences and yet some people don't bother to read them. Which is the whole point of the original post.
Just because people CAN message a person doesn't mean they SHOULD. And they certainly shouldn't get moody and abusive when their message is deleted with no reply or replied to with a polite no thanks.
I'll talk to anyone and shouldn't have to close all my filters because some people can't read or don't read. Or think they'll just try their luck. And that's the point that the OP is making. "This 100% and of course all computer algorithms have presets | |||
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"If we are talking about assumptions, We usually assume that single women with their verifications hidden, are actually single men. We are usually proven right, unfortunately. "Your profile pic gave me an erection. | |||
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"If we are talking about assumptions, We usually assume that single women with their verifications hidden, are actually single men. We are usually proven right, unfortunately.
Your profile pic gave me an erection. "Your profile made my fanny flutter | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. " No. Some women don't have that listed as who they want to meet. That's a much better indicator. | |||
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"If we are talking about assumptions, We usually assume that single women with their verifications hidden, are actually single men. We are usually proven right, unfortunately.
Your profile pic gave me an erection.
Your profile made my fanny flutter " | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. " Not us Her x | |||
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"If we are talking about assumptions, We usually assume that single women with their verifications hidden, are actually single men. We are usually proven right, unfortunately. "I'm definitely not a man and there's a few people in this thread that can vouch for that. My verifications are hidden for different reasons. I'm sorry you've been catfished though | |||
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"Why are people so angsty? If it bothers you so much just block couples. Problem solved ...or are people enjoying the drama this brings them. Fab gives you tools to use, so use them to make your fab life easier. We don't meet single fems off here, only meet in clubs wheere we can all see whether there is any attraction. So much easier and levels out the playing field." Because I often speak to couples on here that I've met in clubs. I shouldn't have to block them because they are too inconsiderate to read my profile. | |||
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"Why are people so angsty? If it bothers you so much just block couples. Problem solved ...or are people enjoying the drama this brings them. Fab gives you tools to use, so use them to make your fab life easier. We don't meet single fems off here, only meet in clubs wheere we can all see whether there is any attraction. So much easier and levels out the playing field. Because I often speak to couples on here that I've met in clubs. I shouldn't have to block them because they are too inconsiderate to read my profile. " You can still talk to couples you know. Anyone that you have exchanged messages with is excluded from your filters. | |||
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"Why are people so angsty? If it bothers you so much just block couples. Problem solved ...or are people enjoying the drama this brings them. Fab gives you tools to use, so use them to make your fab life easier. We don't meet single fems off here, only meet in clubs wheere we can all see whether there is any attraction. So much easier and levels out the playing field. Because I often speak to couples on here that I've met in clubs. I shouldn't have to block them because they are too inconsiderate to read my profile. You can still talk to couples you know. Anyone that you have exchanged messages with is excluded from your filters." Yeah but sometimes couples I've met at clubs find me and message on here, I should be able to leave my filters open to a certain extent and expect people to have the decency to read my profile and accept my preferences. | |||
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"Is it not fair to say some people from all groups - singles and couples - will message those who aren't compatible in some way, or will completely disregard the profile of those they're messaging? It's one of the pitfalls and I guess you've three options: put filters in place, get irate about it, or just ignore the messages and concentrate on those whom you are interested. Of course in an ideal world we shouldn't have to do any of those things but it's not, people are people, and some people will do whatever they want" Oh, I know it isn't all couples and I do mostly ignore them but a thread was made about it and I joined in the conversation. Most couples are perfectly fine | |||
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"Why are people so angsty? If it bothers you so much just block couples. Problem solved ...or are people enjoying the drama this brings them. Fab gives you tools to use, so use them to make your fab life easier. We don't meet single fems off here, only meet in clubs wheere we can all see whether there is any attraction. So much easier and levels out the playing field. Because I often speak to couples on here that I've met in clubs. I shouldn't have to block them because they are too inconsiderate to read my profile. You can still talk to couples you know. Anyone that you have exchanged messages with is excluded from your filters. Yeah but sometimes couples I've met at clubs find me and message on here, I should be able to leave my filters open to a certain extent and expect people to have the decency to read my profile and accept my preferences. " But if it giving someone so much angst that they feel the need to start a thread about it then surely the best thing to do is block couples, unless they are not wanting to solve the issue and prefer the drama. Why make life harder than it needs to be. The solution is there if people want to use it. | |||
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"Why are people so angsty? If it bothers you so much just block couples. Problem solved ...or are people enjoying the drama this brings them. Fab gives you tools to use, so use them to make your fab life easier. We don't meet single fems off here, only meet in clubs wheere we can all see whether there is any attraction. So much easier and levels out the playing field. Because I often speak to couples on here that I've met in clubs. I shouldn't have to block them because they are too inconsiderate to read my profile. You can still talk to couples you know. Anyone that you have exchanged messages with is excluded from your filters. Yeah but sometimes couples I've met at clubs find me and message on here, I should be able to leave my filters open to a certain extent and expect people to have the decency to read my profile and accept my preferences. But if it giving someone so much angst that they feel the need to start a thread about it then surely the best thing to do is block couples, unless they are not wanting to solve the issue and prefer the drama. Why make life harder than it needs to be. The solution is there if people want to use it. " She isn't really making life harder though, it's the couples ignoring the preferences that make it harder. | |||
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"If we are talking about assumptions, We usually assume that single women with their verifications hidden, are actually single men. We are usually proven right, unfortunately.
Your profile pic gave me an erection.
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. Nope, we have zero interest in meeting single fems. " I'm the opposite, single fems have zero interest in meeting me | |||
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"I would just feel flattered that they were interested enough to message me, no harm done. Many people try there luck on here and there is no reason why couples are any different. I never message single fems though, except in a non sexual way and I'll definitely be sure not to now "It's abit different when you keep getting 'are you sure you can't be tempted?', 'I'm sure you'll enjoy it if you try it', 'my man can just watch'. It's so disrespectful when it's stated very clearly that I do not want to play with couples. Men get enough crap for it from couples. | |||
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"I would just feel flattered that they were interested enough to message me, no harm done. Many people try there luck on here and there is no reason why couples are any different. I never message single fems though, except in a non sexual way and I'll definitely be sure not to now
It's abit different when you keep getting 'are you sure you can't be tempted?', 'I'm sure you'll enjoy it if you try it', 'my man can just watch'.
It's so disrespectful when it's stated very clearly that I do not want to play with couples. Men get enough crap for it from couples. "I think that's the difference with having a couples profile as people are mostly respectful and take a polite no thank you, people don't tend to pester too much. Those kind of messages do sound as though they would be coming from the male though x | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. " People in general (on here) assume a lot most think you are on the bead with your legs spread wide waiting for servicing even at 4 am. So I would say many do think that you do want to meet a couple if that's what they want to believe. | |||
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"Fair point. There is a lot of assumptions in this scene. Also tends to be an automatic assumption in clubs by many couples that women in the club (single or part of a couple) are Bi or bi curious and can be persuaded. Which in our case would be correct but I'm sure its a constant frustration to many straight women on the scene." Definitely agree that many assume all women are bi/curious On our couple profile we used to get this alot, when we state I'm straight. Don't get me wrong we would meet bi couples, as long as they don't want the lady to play with me. | |||
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"I’m on here as a couple. I would look at your profile and pics if I feel I’m attracted I would message. If I says bi on a profile I may be messaging for my sake and not necessarily as a couple but if the woman was interested in both great. I message who I’m attracted to. So I’m guilty I probably would message you because I fancied you and chat to you bring bi I’d ask if you’d be interrelated in us as a couple or me lol xx " Even if it says straight and they don't want to play with couples? | |||
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"Personally, we don't assume anything. Not sure what the issue is tho? Say no thanks and move on..." Do you get fed up of men messaging or other couples that don't take into account your preferences? | |||
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"90% off people skip straight to ur pics and then message don’t even bother with the reading off the profile " Think that's because the majority of people use a phone to look at Fab and when you look at a profile on a phone, the first thing you get us the photos button. You have to scroll down to actually read the text and most guys are just too horny to bother. | |||
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"Personally, we don't assume anything. Not sure what the issue is tho? Say no thanks and move on... Do you get fed up of men messaging or other couples that don't take into account your preferences? " Oh of course, but I don't waste my time moaning about it, it's much quicker to block them and forget it | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. " Maybe that you have a verification form a couple...  | |||
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"Personally, we don't assume anything. Not sure what the issue is tho? Say no thanks and move on... Do you get fed up of men messaging or other couples that don't take into account your preferences? Oh of course, but I don't waste my time moaning about it, it's much quicker to block them and forget it "Is it though? I can post a few posts on the forum over a period of a few days explaining my point or message 'no thanks' and block those who don't have the decency to read my profile 20 times a day, I know which is less time consuming. | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. Maybe that you have a verification form a couple... "They could be friends of hers, or a couple she spoke to at a club or social. Next you'll be telling us to hide our veris just in case the 'straight' and 'not looking for couples' isn't clear enough. | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. Maybe that you have a verification form a couple...
They could be friends of hers, or a couple she spoke to at a club or social. Next you'll be telling us to hide our veris just in case the 'straight' and 'not looking for couples' isn't clear enough. "Chill just say may confusion some people.. | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. Maybe that you have a verification form a couple...
They could be friends of hers, or a couple she spoke to at a club or social. Next you'll be telling us to hide our veris just in case the 'straight' and 'not looking for couples' isn't clear enough.
Chill just say may confusion some people..
"I'm chilled and how can being straight and not wanting to play with couples be confusing? | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. Maybe that you have a verification form a couple...
They could be friends of hers, or a couple she spoke to at a club or social. Next you'll be telling us to hide our veris just in case the 'straight' and 'not looking for couples' isn't clear enough.
Chill just say may confusion some people..
I'm chilled and how can being straight and not wanting to play with couples be confusing? "Not here to judge how she want to play can still play straight with couples.. if the verification from the couple was friendly why not share on profile. | |||
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"Do couple's automatically presume that if a woman's profile says she Bi that she wants to meet couple's? Even if nothing in their profile says that's what they are looking for. Maybe that you have a verification form a couple...
They could be friends of hers, or a couple she spoke to at a club or social. Next you'll be telling us to hide our veris just in case the 'straight' and 'not looking for couples' isn't clear enough.
Chill just say may confusion some people..
I'm chilled and how can being straight and not wanting to play with couples be confusing?
Not here to judge how she want to play can still play straight with couples.. if the verification from the couple was friendly why not share on profile."She shouldn't have to, her profile shows she's only looking to play with single men and single women, why can't that just be accepted? | |||
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"What frustrates me is the fact it says this person isn’t looking for couples and they send it anyway " Yet most couples can't see why this is disrespectful. | |||
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