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By *man91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Is this happening to other men aswell? When you see your profile has been seen by a woman or a couple but when you go on their profile you are not exactly what they are looking for. E.g. I get views from people looking for locals in areas in Scotland, or I am outside their age range, gender, colour preferences/criteria. I am guessing people have some sort of fantasy looking at profiles outside their preferences

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I look at some who look at me. I look at profiles from comments in the forums.

How will I know if they do or dont fit my preferences if I dont look?? X

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By *ssexhamptonMan
over a year ago

Rayleigh

It's easy to press the wrong profile when reading comments. I do it myself but I do not read the profile.

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By *man91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I look at some who look at me. I look at profiles from comments in the forums.

How will I know if they do or dont fit my preferences if I dont look?? X"

That's a fair point. Honestly, it makes me feel better that people take an interest to have a look.

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By *man91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"It's easy to press the wrong profile when reading comments. I do it myself but I do not read the profile."

I may have done that myself a couple of times

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

People can look at profiles through curiosity. Not everything people do on this site is because people are looking for sex.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"I look at some who look at me. I look at profiles from comments in the forums.

How will I know if they do or dont fit my preferences if I dont look?? X"

This

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By *man91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"People can look at profiles through curiosity. Not everything people do on this site is because people are looking for sex. "

Yes, as I have already stated on a previous reply, it is great people are curious enough to have a look.

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By *man91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


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This "

Your lips on your profile pic are definitely flattering to have a look at a bigger scale, so couldn't avoid having a peek at your other pics haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may well just come to your profile after looking at a profile and following the verification you gave back to your profile.

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn


"People can look at profiles through curiosity. Not everything people do on this site is because people are looking for sex. "

Fair point!!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I just like perving at pics. This does not mean i want to get naked with you.x

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

I like to look at profiles of those people that potentially interest me. Which is to say women. But the majority of views my profile gets is from men lol. It’s open and I have nothing to hide so I just put a disclaimer on saying I am not into men.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is this happening to other men aswell? When you see your profile has been seen by a woman or a couple but when you go on their profile you are not exactly what they are looking for. E.g. I get views from people looking for locals in areas in Scotland, or I am outside their age range, gender, colour preferences/criteria. I am guessing people have some sort of fantasy looking at profiles outside their preferences

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Why do men get so worked up when a woman has ‘looked’ at then? Gosh I get 88 looks a day but I don’t get worked up....’ooooh a woman has looked at me’.....for goodness sake guys get a grip....

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I'm just plain nosey! X

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By *man91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"They may well just come to your profile after looking at a profile and following the verification you gave back to your profile. "

That's a valid point. I actually hadn't thought of that.

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By *man91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I just like perving at pics. This does not mean i want to get naked with you.x"

I am sure many of those men don't mind, specially as they are likely piercing you back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just hope when they look at mine they think it’s ok

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By *man91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


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Why do men get so worked up when a woman has ‘looked’ at then? Gosh I get 88 looks a day but I don’t get worked up....’ooooh a woman has looked at me’.....for goodness sake guys get a grip.... "

Many men are not used to the attention unlike women. ?? Many woman get lots of views/winks- but they probably haven't got the time or need to think about these things, specially when they have so many messages to look through aswell.

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By *man91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I like to look at profiles of those people that potentially interest me. Which is to say women. But the majority of views my profile gets is from men lol. It’s open and I have nothing to hide so I just put a disclaimer on saying I am not into men."

I am in a similar situation. I even get messages from single men every so often for meet which I politely decline. If only I had such luck with ladies haha.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"I look at some who look at me. I look at profiles from comments in the forums.

How will I know if they do or dont fit my preferences if I dont look?? X"

Exactly this

Often check out profiles or how would we know that the person isn't for us? X

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Also it’s worth bearing in mind that until you look at a profile you might not know if that persons for you or not....

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We often click on profiles by mistake when scrolling on touch screen

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex

When I go shopping I don't buy everything I look at.

Well, not everytime.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

to many single men think clicking on profile is practically an offer of a meet and can get annoyed when it isn't forthcoming have you never clicked on a profile before thinking theh not really for you

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Why do men get so worked up when a woman has ‘looked’ at then? Gosh I get 88 looks a day but I don’t get worked up....’ooooh a woman has looked at me’.....for goodness sake guys get a grip....

Many men are not used to the attention unlike women. ?? Many woman get lots of views/winks- but they probably haven't got the time or need to think about these things, specially when they have so many messages to look through aswell."

Completely wrong! I look at men in stealth mode! Women need to make time!

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By *man91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm just plain nosey! X"

You have got an impressive collection of pictures and videos on your profile I must say

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"to many single men think clicking on profile is practically an offer of a meet and can get annoyed when it isn't forthcoming have you never clicked on a profile before thinking theh not really for you"

Every day yes.

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By *man91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I look at some who look at me. I look at profiles from comments in the forums.

How will I know if they do or dont fit my preferences if I dont look?? X

Exactly this

Often check out profiles or how would we know that the person isn't for us? X"

Fair point. All profiles are open for others to see, unless it is hidden or blocked. That's one thing that makes this website great for us all to find the people we are looking for.

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By *man91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Also it’s worth bearing in mind that until you look at a profile you might not know if that persons for you or not....

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True. I agree with you.

But seems unusual to get a good proportion of views from people 100+ miles away from you. Particularly if you hadn't commented on forums for a while either. I mean ?? maybe they are coming to Manchester for visit/work/to live and just having a look around the nearby profiles

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

We like to have a look at the profiles of those who have messaged us or those with interesting or similar views to us on a forum thread.

We tend to have a look at the verifications also, it gives us an indication of that person/couples type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I go shopping I don't buy everything I look at.

Well, not everytime."

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By *entleman of GirthMan
over a year ago

Forest Row


"I just like perving at pics. This does not mean i want to get naked with you.x"

Perve away!!!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The only attention I pay to my "Looked At Me" is for amusement only - I don't use it as a means of gauging interest, if they looked and didn't wink or message they weren't interested plain and simple - the fact that most women and some men/couples look in stealth mode only anyway further detracts from the meaningfulness of it.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I'm just plain nosey! X

You have got an impressive collection of pictures and videos on your profile I must say "

Thank you x

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