FabSwingers.com forum: Cougars.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't think there are that many on this site. I love a good cougar and I think some women like to think they are but I get let down by many of them! Anyone think that cougars aren't on this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some women like to think they are..can you define cougar please.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"can you define cougar please."

Was just going to ask that myself!

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

Ladies................

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

Likely similar to the number of young single guys who think they are gods gift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Likely similar to the number of young single guys who think they are gods gift."

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By *aughty sensual pleasureMan
over a year ago

London/Bristol/Birmingham

I would like to meet all cougars and cougar cubs if they are interested in a guy who is not gods gift but genuine and always polite and respectful. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was not saying I was gods gift far from it, I was just wondering if anyone else was thinking the same as me.

A cougar to me is an older woman who not only considered desireable by younger men but also enjoys the pleasures of a younger male.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"A cougar to me is an older woman who not only considered desireable by younger men but also enjoys the pleasures of a younger male."

Dunno if I am considered desirable to the younger gent, but I enjoy lots of young male pleasures.

However, I don't like being called a cougar. I'm a woman thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can understand labeling can be seen as disrespectful. You must be one of the select few, I cannot ifnd a women who is willing to follow up with her words when it comes to meeting older women sometimes. It's a shame for me anyway... haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not a cougar and i have no desire to be one

I want to be seen as a person not some sad only woman on the prowel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im not a cougar and i have no desire to be one

I want to be seen as a person not some sad only woman on the prowel

From my experience and I only use the term 'cougar' as a nice little joke.

"OH HAI LADY COUGAR!, come for some young man flesh eh?" It gets a laugh and thats all there is to it.

A cougar is merely a woman who exceeds the guys age by 15 or more years and wants lots of good sex with hot young guys.

She knows how to look for it and likes to take it upon herself to get her claws into the guy before he even knows it.

She isn't a MILF however as MILFs dont hunt anywhere except when a hunky guy pops along and his pants get ripped off.

If a woman is within 10 years of the guys age then she is a Puma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just think it sounds a bit sad

i have nothing against younger men i just hate being referred to as a cougar or milf, i dont know why but both expressions just make me feel like a pathetic old women running around after young men to prove to myself i still have it, and i always see men seeking such women as guys who will think im a easy lay because i'll be so grateful for their attention after all how could a woman like me possabaly pass by some nice young meat

I guess we all have our own views and opinions but if i get a message with either in, and i get many, i just pass them straight by, i just want to be seen as me, nothing more nothing less

or maybe i just think to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i just think it sounds a bit sad

I guess we all have our own views and opinions but if i get a message with either in, and i get many, i just pass them straight by, i just want to be seen as me, nothing more nothing less

or maybe i just think to much

You over think this stuff way too much. Men are simple creatures and they want YOU to get your claws into THEM.

Granted porn and the media have had a big say in this way of thinking, I have had really good sex with women older than me because not only do they know a few things, they aren't afraid of stuff.

Believe it or not, sometimes men want to be led around in sex for a change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind the word cougar that much, MILF though bothers me.

To the OP, tastes are different, so you may find one 'older' woman attractive and an other young man doesn't. Personally, I like younger men but if I get the feeling that they only try to meet me because they think I'm an old desperate women, I'm moving on (quicker than you think of an old cougar like me haha)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"Believe it or not, sometimes men want to be led around in sex for a change.

I DO believe it. Unfortunately, thats not the sort of man I am looking for.

I wonder if there is a set age difference to be a MILF or cougar. Am I a cougar if I do a nice 30 year old, or do they have to be in their 20s. What happens when I am 50? Or 60?

Sheesh, nothings easy anymore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are cougers. I met a few. Older women that seek younger men. Just a title.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Oh you boys!

Sometimes I think you like to make things difficult for yourselves. you already have a hard time getting meets due to the sheer numbers of single men looking for meets against the smaller number of women looking.

Then you have to start applying labels and alienating your target audience!

If you really want the world to be simplified into milfs, cougars and pumps then stick with pof and the many sites which have those words in the sitename. If however you are looking for truly liberated, no strings fun with women of many ages who have accepted their sexual nature then stop trying to tell us to chill and take labelling as a compliment!

I am not a number I am a person, labelling me is a short cut to my block list no matter how hot you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you really want to upset mrs swinger then call her a couger, or say "i love older ladies"

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

"Oh you boys!

Then you have to start applying labels and alienating your target audience!

I am not a number I am a person, labelling me is a short cut to my block list no matter how hot you are"

Well I've heard of MILF & Cougar but PUMP, thats a new one on me.

Mind you I was wondering what if any nicknames exist for ladies who like older men and men that like younger women. There's the age old term sugar daddy, and while many of us might match the Daddy part of that expression, not many of us are that flush with cash to be labelled a sugar daddy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the terms such as cougars or milfs are a fun thing. people need to chill out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Believe it or not, sometimes men want to be led around in sex for a change.

I DO believe it. Unfortunately, thats not the sort of man I am looking for.

I wonder if there is a set age difference to be a MILF or cougar. Am I a cougar if I do a nice 30 year old, or do they have to be in their 20s. What happens when I am 50? Or 60?

Sheesh, nothings easy anymore!

If you seek out young men only and exceed his age by 15 or more years, thats where you get labelled by people as a cougar.

I dont think women should take it as an insult unless they become insulting to you as a person saying things like "oh she can only hunt out younger guys" and so on.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Believe it or not, sometimes men want to be led around in sex for a change.

I DO believe it. Unfortunately, thats not the sort of man I am looking for.

I wonder if there is a set age difference to be a MILF or cougar. Am I a cougar if I do a nice 30 year old, or do they have to be in their 20s. What happens when I am 50? Or 60?

Sheesh, nothings easy anymore!

If you seek out young men only and exceed his age by 15 or more years, thats where you get labelled by people as a cougar.

I dont think women should take it as an insult unless they become insulting to you as a person saying things like "oh she can only hunt out younger guys" and so on.

Well as long as they don't call me by anything but my name to my face, we should get on fine!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Most derogatory terms are often accompanied by comments like it's only a bit of fun, chill out.

There are lots of terms that were used until very recently which are now, rightly, regarded as offensive.

I find it very interesting that the men who are in search of certain types of women are being told by their target audience that those terms are offensive. Telling us to chill out is not going to win us over.

I once had to listen to a man tell me that all black women smelt of coconut (based on his limited sexual experiences) he then wanted me to give him intimate details about my boyfriend who happened to be black so he could further his hypothesis. I was told to chill out and dish - didn't I have a sense of fun and experimentation??

Like many women ( and I suspect many ethnic minorities) I get sick and tired of having offensive comments paraded at me and being told to chill and have a sense of humour when I take offense.

The ladies on this thread have, for the most part, stated that we don't like those terms. This is an open forum where there are fewer taboos than in most areas of life. As a result the topic has been discussed light heartedly, but as when this has been discussed before the majority of women have said DON'T USE THESE TERMS TO ME THEY ARE OFFENSIVE LABELS.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh you boys!

Then you have to start applying labels and alienating your target audience!

I am not a number I am a person, labelling me is a short cut to my block list no matter how hot you are

Well I've heard of MILF & Cougar but PUMP, thats a new one on me.

I think she means PUMA

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"I find it very interesting that the men who are in search of certain types of women are being told by their target audience that those terms are offensive. Telling us to chill out is not going to win us over.

They'll be calling us menopausal next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'll be calling us menopausal next!"

Well some are the rest seem to be suffering from a bad dose of PMT

joking by the way

.....dodges flying pans and other heavy objects.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'll be calling us menopausal next!"

Lucky you ..... I'm even past that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There probably are but you will need to search for them

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