FabSwingers.com forum: Cane or flogger?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi. I have both, I love using both the cane and the flogger. What do people prefer?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Flogger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Riding crop or hand - sorry to be difficult

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Riding crop or hand - sorry to be difficult

I love to spank.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

And here was me sticking to the rules! If we can give out own option I say belt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And here was me sticking to the rules! If we can give out own option I say belt! "

Actually....I need to add belt to my list as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to use than hand, its much more personal and intimate.

I like the crop too but find that different things work better on different parts of the body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hand"
or crop

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Flogger, hand, paddle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

paddle please

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Paddle

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By *wickermanMan
over a year ago

Staines

Cane

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

Flogger please oofftt

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

If it has sensation I use it. From drumsticks to spatulas, from my nunchuk poi floggers via my whip to dragon tails and a lot more in between.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Hand or paddle .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. I have both, I love using both the cane and the flogger. What do people prefer?"

Cane...much more intense

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Flogger to warm up the skin then cane.

Giving or receiving, as i switch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flogger xx

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Floggers have a bit more versatility, while canes need to be used with due care and attention to avoid serious harm.

My favourites though are two brutal wooden clubs closely followed by a pair of mallets. Thuddy impact all the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But paddles are preferred xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucille

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By *inkyEloraCouple
over a year ago

Leigh

We have a flogger and a little tassle whip. Victoria prefers the whip hut the flogger does leave a good red patch! We'll definitely be using them tonight on cams

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Gonna be awkward and say hand.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Neither of us like hitting or being hit, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I LOVE impact play, flogger and riding crop, flogger tails dragged over body, use of one or the other though

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Hand and flogger for me please.x

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By *014shadowCouple
over a year ago

Fresno

Flogger for sure !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cane

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Hi. I have both, I love using both the cane and the flogger. What do people prefer?"

Flogger, definitely.

I don't like using or receiving a cane. If flogger wasn't an option,

I'd go for the leather strap.

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Lanson

Cane please x

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

A Butter Paddle is great too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use a flogger on people, and would opt for a flogger rather than cane for myself.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love a flogger on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Floggers have a bit more versatility, while canes need to be used with due care and attention to avoid serious harm.

My favourites though are two brutal wooden clubs closely followed by a pair of mallets. Thuddy impact all the way."

Haha!!!!

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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I love hand and the feeling of a strong hand when they are good at spanking. Aside from that I've only been flogged and never had anything else used on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"paddle please"

This way I can always escape from shit Creek

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By *palWoman
over a year ago

The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk

Hand as I love a good spanking, flogger because they are sensual in the right hands but definitely no canes as I was caned as a child by my dad and had to go and pick one from the garden as a punishment.

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By *palWoman
over a year ago

The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cane, belt, hand... I’m not so keen on floggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hand or paddle!

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I always compare using toys to being a good musician. A skilful player can play hard and heavy or sweet and slow. It is about the song, the audience and the connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hand or paddle for me

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

A flogger is so versatile both sensual and as impact play toy.

A cane is, how can I say this, is not as playful and more an intense instrument.

Not many fully understand the cane I suspect.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

i prefer taking the flogger first, then cane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flogger on my nipples please

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Flogger on my nipples please

Some gorgeous highlighted focus.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Hi. I have both, I love using both the cane and the flogger. What do people prefer?"
flogger. If someone tried to came me I'd probably hit them with it

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Cane or flogger? IMO

Caning is for discipline

Flogging is for pleasure

But there's also fire flogging and single tail whip to be considered as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cane for arse and flogger for pussy

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Flogger preference.

When used properly can be used for pleasure and discipline.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use Flogfer, paddle and hand. Not a great fan of the cane but it has been known when needed

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Flogger

Cane would sting a fair bit I would imagine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The flogger is too gentle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Riding crop and cane. Floggers are a great warm up method. As is a short, sharp face slap

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I prefer to use my hands and floggers, although I have a set of spankstick canes that are really lovely to use on willing people.

It's been so long since I've spanked or flogged somebody

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Flogger

Cane would sting a fair bit I would imagine lol

Yes that’s why I love it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Flogger

Cane would sting a fair bit I would imagine lol

Yes that’s why I love it.

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By *avinaNWTV/TS
over a year ago

Thornton-Cleveleys

Has to be the cane I think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flogger for me!

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I like them all

depends on our mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them all to be used in a session, all different sensations, as long as the person using them is experienced, Libby xxx

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By *xotic indianCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Leather belt or floger for her

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By *lan MCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Definate leather flogger.

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By *witch Roy-MrsKarenCouple
over a year ago

york

love the sound of leather on skin so would say flogger

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Preferably bare handed....the warmth of a hand is delicious.

But then on the flip side I do enjoy the crisp sharp sting and bite of a crop. Floggers are enjoyable , I've only had one encounter with a cane...it was enjoyable but I don't think I could deal with it ''full on" so to speak...I'd probably end up tapping out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cane for me, every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to find out how it feels to be flogged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flogger xx"

Now there is a shock

And I love a flogger as well, because just the sound of it swishing makes me horny..

Just waiting for the floggee to make soft contact on my body first...

Oooo I just need to..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hand

flogger

not fan of canes as once had one used so hard to make me safeword - was supposed to be a lesson in that it was ok to safeword

but in the right hands they can be ok

like with everything depends on who is weilding them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love hand and the feeling of a strong hand when they are good at spanking. Aside from that I've only been flogged and never had anything else used on me

Yet...

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By *atietvsheffTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

Leather belt at least 1.5” wide, use a thinner on for around the neck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flogger, please

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By *kdazMan
over a year ago

nottingham \ linc

Flogger and paddle or double flogger hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

Depends on my mood, I like marksto show so whip or cane but I do love a good hand spanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some nice quality heavy knuckle chuck floggers please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on my mood, I like marksto show so whip or cane but I do love a good hand spanking

If you like marks - try a riding crop

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By *el_123Woman
over a year ago

portsmouth

I break canes in minutes...

A good riding crop, or dressage whip and then we’re taking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I break canes in minutes...

A good riding crop, or dressage whip and then we’re taking "

Riding crop all the way for me - so versatile.....but then a belt is so much more primal

Decisions...decisions....

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

"Depends on my mood, I like marksto show so whip or cane but I do love a good hand spanking

If you like marks - try a riding crop

Haven't tried a riding crop so thank you

, I've got a bullwhip though.

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Flogger before cane if I’m dishing it out

But I’d rather give a spanking over my knee

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Rolled up news paper or my hand and the odd spatula or wooden spoon.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Recieving -Flogger in the right hands.

Giving-gotta love my red riding crop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recieving -Flogger in the right hands.

Giving-gotta love my red riding crop

We could have a riding crop party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. I have both, I love using both the cane and the flogger. What do people prefer?"

Cat o'nine tails, hand, paddle. But cat o' nine tails is the best imo, very sensual too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

flogger to take, can take it harder without damage to skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gentle sensual flogger play. Mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what mood I’m in, though I would say the flogger gets used more

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By *rCandPrincessCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Riding crop or hand - sorry to be difficult

I love to spank."

I love being spanked

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By *rCandPrincessCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Flogger on my nipples please

And mine please...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flogger and paddle for us.. hand to start of course..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember that Pleasures once had table tennis bats that could be used as whackers

L whacked me so hard one night that the handle broke off bat went flying across the room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they make a great noise too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hand, belt or flogger

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Watton

Flogger then cane

However as we can also make other suggestions then we have a number of custom items which we find can give amazing experiences and marks.

For a real sting, then a mark you can watch appear, an iPhone cable folded in half is an amazing toy!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Floggers. Anyone tried a Cat o' nine tails? thinking of making one.

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Watton

"Floggers. Anyone tried a Cat o' nine tails? thinking of making one."

We feel that any dominant worth their salt should know what every toy they use, feels like. That way they are better able to use it to full effect for the benefit of their submissive.

Cat of nine, is a great hybrid between flogger and bullwhip, although we would recommend you practice on something other than a submissive. The sweet spot is not very forgiving, so it is easy for you to hurt your partner (not in the intended way)

Also found a dragons tail to be great, and is works as a great middle ground before moving to longer/harder toys like the whips

Hope that helps

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

A long session broken into sections. First sex then flogging calf to neck front and back then more sex then singletail or thin horse whip used all over. Mmm.

Had a BT wire hand made whip used on Holls once. God it was severe but used properly she loved.

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By *aidtobespankedCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Id enjoy watching either/both used on Lucy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id enjoy watching either/both used on Lucy!"

So would I

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By *aidtobespankedCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Id enjoy watching either/both used on Lucy!

So would I

Let's arrange a public flogging for her then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id enjoy watching either/both used on Lucy!

So would I

Let's arrange a public flogging for her then!!"

Fabulous - I'll bring my riding crop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cane and riding crop

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By *affa CakesCouple
over a year ago

Tidworth Wiltshire

cane.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough one this but I'd go with cane

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

"Rolled up news paper or my hand and the odd spatula or wooden spoon."

Wooden spoons are wonderful....they leave pretty marks

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Love vampire gloves for hand spanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sub likes a hand warm up, followed by a flogger and loves the cane. She will take 20 to 30 strikes

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

A friend of mrs Icebreaker gave her what she called the bastard cane - a lenght of bamboo wrapped in heat wrap so that it shrank to the shape of the bamboo. It leaves fine, fine marks.

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By *ikiLoverMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I prefer to use a cane, but receive a flogger!

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
over a year ago

london

Riding crop on my arse and nipples. C.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Flogger. Prefer padal though.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Whatever my Dom feels, deems, or sees fit to use on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a sjambok and matching single tail whip made from kangaroo hide - they are used for harsh punishments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a sjambok and matching single tail whip made from kangaroo hide - they are used for harsh punishments."
oh nice

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

I tend to enjoy using the flogger more. It makes a lovely noise and can be used for nice sensation and stepped up a few levels if needed.

Never been a fan of the cane and the harsh marks it leaves, but not to say I won't use it if they've been really naughty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Riding crop, count and thank them for each stroke.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Vampire flogger

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

Flogger or paddle, never found much amusement from a cane, but have one, because well you have to have at least one don’t you.

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Hand is my preference but paddle or flogger are a close second

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Totally depends on my mood.

For catharsis, thin whippy stingy cane every time...

Flogger, thick cane or belt for fun...

Paddles are evil...

For intimacy, a hand spanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally depends on my mood.

For catharsis, thin whippy stingy cane every time...

Flogger, thick cane or belt for fun...

Paddles are evil...

For intimacy, a hand spanking. "
hand spanking is always my real favourite, either way

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS
over a year ago

horsham

I quite like it when she whacks me with a soft bag of cotton wool . As for all those other bloody things , No thank you I have no preference at all !!

And to those so called friends who decided it would be a good idea to teach her “ single tail “ ... Thanks a lot !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been known to use anything that is in the nearby area that can give a satisfyingly impact from tapping nipples with the back of a spoon to using a fish slice or similar

If it produces the right effect and a little colour and heat it’s all good

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By *evoncream2017Couple
over a year ago

exeter

Neither I have a sensitive bum !

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By *arkVanilla85Couple
over a year ago

Crawley West Sussex

Cane, or daddies firm hand!

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

By hand first. Always the most tactile and sensual way to find out just how and how hard to strike to get the right response. Love a good old ruler for thighs and pussy. And a leather belt just makes the most glorious sound on bare cheeks

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"Neither I have a sensitive bum ! "

Soft sensual strikes and kisses for you then

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By *arkVanilla85Couple
over a year ago

Crawley West Sussex

"Cane, or daddies firm hand! "

O my if forgot about the sound of daddies belt coming off him and striking me !

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By *oner HornCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Flogger, definitely flogger.

The cane hurts sooo much

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Riding crop

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Cane,, prison strap or birch

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"Flogger, definitely flogger.

The cane hurts sooo much"

A flogger can be used with different levels of intensity. More difficult to do that with a cane

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By *ubiaWoman
over a year ago

Manchester/ Portugal

Both please

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Flogger, definitely flogger.

The cane hurts sooo much

A flogger can be used with different levels of intensity. More difficult to do that with a cane

You can give a massage with a cane, they don't have to hurt... It takes practice but it's not difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cane, flogger and paddle.... all provide for very different discpline pleasure pain fun

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"A friend of mrs Icebreaker gave her what she called the bastard cane - a lenght of bamboo wrapped in heat wrap so that it shrank to the shape of the bamboo. It leaves fine, fine marks."

Very fine marks

Ms icebreaker

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Canes do leave some fantastic looking marks!

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"Flogger, definitely flogger.

The cane hurts sooo much

A flogger can be used with different levels of intensity. More difficult to do that with a cane

You can give a massage with a cane, they don't have to hurt... It takes practice but it's not difficult "

I definitely need to practice more! What a shame!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Both ?? love seeing marks left on my body.

I really love having my breasts whipped. Had some fabulous times at chams in the dungeon

Fuck I need some pain in my life right now!

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

I can't choose between the two as they are completely different and both have their place in my heart.

Ultimately though, it's the person's skill in wielding the instrument that makes all the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Electric flogger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vampire crop...it’s amazing

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By *omin8rMan
over a year ago

In A Playspace

Any one crop, cane, paddle, flogger or whip. May depend on the reason for the punishment

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

"I always compare using toys to being a good musician. A skilful player can play hard and heavy or sweet and slow. It is about the song, the audience and the connection

Absolutely 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flogger so long as the user can weild it properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

crop for me but im never good enough to get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hands is always the best, sorry only saying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flogger.

Take a run up if needed.

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By *angerineMan
over a year ago

somewhere inbetween the right and wrong

I prefer to take a flogger but I'd rather give by hand or rope

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By *henanigans100Couple
over a year ago

Buckie

Riding crop is one we use most often, very versatile, for punishment or heightened arousal. The cane is for punishment only, reserved for the most slutty behaviour.

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

The cane. A severe fibreglass one.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Riding crop is one we use most often, very versatile, for punishment or heightened arousal. The cane is for punishment only, reserved for the most slutty behaviour.

xx"

Oh. I'm not sure I like the thought of that. I think slutty behaviour should be praised and celebrated. Not punished.

I want a 'good girl' for being a filthy slut and punishment when I'm not

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Table tennis, anyone?

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

Flogger for me (Mrs) X

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