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By *iner69er OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness

Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had meets with people i wouldnt fancy or date in normal life, but for me with fab its about the mutual enjoyment of sex and having a nice time and giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even slightly I only meet after seeing pics and nearly everyone I meet has been verified way to many fakes to be meeting with out seeing pics and why would you want to sleep with some one you don't fancy

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

popcorn time..

Your going to get slated for this one..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go? "
why would anyone meet without seeing pics first?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Rude calling some one ugly.

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

Says the guy with no pictures

If your worried you won’t fancy someone then have a social. If it’s a social then you can walk away after and that’s fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although they have seen my pictures I can imagine a few may class me as the ugly girl they had sex with.

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

Many years ago when single I had a date with a young lady, we'd met online and sent pictures, but I hadn't noticed that all the pictures were the exact same pose.

When we met there was an obvious reason why all her photos were square on to the lense... Let's just say it was as obvious as the nose on her face.

It made for a very awkward date, as I'd felt I'd been tricked a bit. As it happens, the date wasn't great anyway, but I saw it out and chalked it up as a lesson learnt.

Hubby x

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

fucked a few ugly birds in my time but there again i am no oil painting but as longas i get my cock wet i will fuck them

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"fucked a few ugly birds in my time but there again i am no oil painting but as longas i get my cock wet i will fuck them"

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Although they have seen my pictures I can imagine a few may class me as the ugly girl they had sex with. "

Lots of sex appeal in your profile think you would find lot more lover than haters if any..

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By *borofucktoyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Depends what you'd call ugly.its all subjective and pointless anyway ..i really don't care about looks myself its more who she is etc, could have the hottest woman on the planet but shes a terrible person, while someone you consider ugly has inner beauty you'll never see because your obsessed with what her face looks like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to tell you op but there is no ugly girls thay all beautiful in thay own special way and more fool you if you think so and it’s ur loose not there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fucked a few ugly birds in my time but there again i am no oil painting but as longas i get my cock wet i will fuck them

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Charmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what you'd call ugly.its all subjective and pointless anyway ..i really don't care about looks myself its more who she is etc, could have the hottest woman on the planet but shes a terrible person, while someone you consider ugly has inner beauty you'll never see because your obsessed with what her face looks like "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I ever meet on a blind date so to speak and they weren't what I was expecting I would still try to make them feel at ease and special but that's just me being old fashioned.

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs


"fucked a few ugly birds in my time but there again i am no oil painting but as longas i get my cock wet i will fuck them"

Thats ironic as they probably said that the same thing about you and your small penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, because for me at least there is more to a person than looks alone.

I like to get to know the person first, through chatting or whatever, and learn more about them and their personality. Who is to say one person is or is not beautiful? If I connect with them, if I like them, game on.

So no, I've never had an ugly woman, but some arrogant self obsessed narcissist may argue otherwise. They'd be wrong.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Although they have seen my pictures I can imagine a few may class me as the ugly girl they had sex with. "

Don't be ridiculous - if your face us even half as good as the rest of you then any guy would be lucky to get with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go? why would anyone meet without seeing pics first?"

Im about to meet a guy who i havnt seen. We've chatted for many hours on the phone so I am going to meet him on his personality. There's no commitment on us or need to do anything we don't want so its quite exciting

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By *ngelandDemonCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We've met some amazing looking people with all the personality of a wet sponge and we've met some average people with amazing personalities, it's not about how people look, so long as they are clean, fun and we hit it off with them

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

They could look amazing but if their personality and attitude is all wrong then I slap them on the head with my soft penis and walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go? why would anyone meet without seeing pics first?"

True but even if you see a pic can’t be sure it’s up to date.or a fake

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I wouldn't meet without seeing a picture first although I have played with people who aren't my type in an orgy/GB situation.

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

years ago before the internet when I was at college I chatted to a girl from the local town on the CB radio she said she was no oil painting, just being modest I thought, but when we met OMG she was enormous & very ugly I did stop & chat but was tempted to make a run for it

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I wouldn't use the term 'ugly', but yes, on a few occasions I've been with women I really wasn't attracted to - and a few times I've 'passed'!

Pre- and early internet when I used to meet 'blind' there were a few occasions when I didn't fancy the women I'd gone to meet, but played with them anyway...

....and there were a couple of instances back then when it simply wasn't going to happen, and I made excuses and left...

....but for years now I won't meet without having seen photos first - despite not exactly being overwhelmed with offers, I have turned down a few 'dead certs' because I didn't find them attractive...

....likewise, I'm sure over the years there have been women I've played with who didn't find me attractive - I'm no oil painting!

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Pinnochio here,

Yes like all the others, what someone looks like has no bearing at all on whether people find each other attractive or not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fucked a few ugly birds in my time but there again i am no oil painting but as longas i get my cock wet i will fuck them"

Classy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go? "

Aye, yer maw

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

It depends on your classification of ugly.

Whwn I was in my 20s I met a Girl called Karen. She was a Miss United Kingdom contestant..she went.to the same.water sliing club as myself and yes I fancied her and yes I dated her.

Over time I found that she was while gorgeous on the outside, had the nastiest personality of any woman I ever met. It got.tk a point I shuddered an still do at the thought of her.

I go dancing and I am pretty good at it too.

And I find the best dancers are not always the conventionally pretty ones.

So my idea of ugly has less to do with looks, and.more to do with personality

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"fucked a few ugly birds in my time but there again i am no oil painting but as longas i get my cock wet i will fuck them"

Ahh you’re cute!

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By *immy1986Man
over a year ago

Spalding

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder... And a picture and social is always a good start and good conversation. I've met lady's that were honest enough to say they wasn't attracted to me for a start but after talking and getting to know me they were

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By *ishygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Depends what you'd call ugly.its all subjective and pointless anyway ..i really don't care about looks myself its more who she is etc, could have the hottest woman on the planet but shes a terrible person, while someone you consider ugly has inner beauty you'll never see because your obsessed with what her face looks like "

Well said! I agree attraction has to be there but why would you meet up with someone who you have no idea what they look like or who they are?!? They could be anyone!

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"Rude calling some one ugly."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well most people but then again maybe people have become desperate these days before I meet anyone I always make sure that I see a picture and even if I get to see them on webcam before I actually meet them

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *rednwilma1Couple
over a year ago

york

I have never gone to bed with an ugly bird !! ....... but then again, iv'e woken up with a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what you'd call ugly.its all subjective and pointless anyway ..i really don't care about looks myself its more who she is etc, could have the hottest woman on the planet but shes a terrible person, while someone you consider ugly has inner beauty you'll never see because your obsessed with what her face looks like "

I couldn't have put it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had meets with people i wouldnt fancy or date in normal life, but for me with fab its about the mutual enjoyment of sex and having a nice time and giggle."

Any hole's a goal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure that "ugly" is the best term!

I'd feel weird meeting someone that I'd never seen for anything other than a social - and then if I'm not attracted to them then so be it.

I've met some great looking people who haven't anything else about them, and some that folk might think aren't so that have been awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt say ugly i would say not my normal type

But it has been some of the best sex ive had and would suggest everyone trying it lol

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Ive had meets with people i wouldnt fancy or date in normal life, but for me with fab its about the mutual enjoyment of sex and having a nice time and giggle."

Why would anyone meet anybody they don’t fancy. I don’t understand

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By *alldarksurreyMan
over a year ago

surrey

You don't look at the mantlepiece when you poke the fire do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He had seen my photo but met me anyway. He made a rubbish excuse and left.

Mailed later to say he wouldn't fuck me as I am fat and ugly and he wouldn't be able to get hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He had seen my photo but met me anyway. He made a rubbish excuse and left.

Mailed later to say he wouldn't fuck me as I am fat and ugly and he wouldn't be able to get hard. "

Bullet dodged.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"He had seen my photo but met me anyway. He made a rubbish excuse and left.

Mailed later to say he wouldn't fuck me as I am fat and ugly and he wouldn't be able to get hard. "

I hope you didn’t take that to heart and just realise he’s a total twat! What grown man would actually behave like that?!

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He had seen my photo but met me anyway. He made a rubbish excuse and left.

Mailed later to say he wouldn't fuck me as I am fat and ugly and he wouldn't be able to get hard. "

Wow what a gent,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you sleep with someone you didn't fancy?

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Seriously some of the comments on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously some of the comments on this thread

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Exactly what i was thinking....

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"fucked a few ugly birds in my time but there again i am no oil painting but as longas i get my cock wet i will fuck them"

Wow Penelope, just wondering how often your cock does in fact get wet?

You may stand a better chance in creating a profile as a single male, stop bullshitting yourself and others.

You can thank me later.

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously some of the comments on this thread

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Yup

Some very unpleasant people on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He had seen my photo but met me anyway. He made a rubbish excuse and left.

Mailed later to say he wouldn't fuck me as I am fat and ugly and he wouldn't be able to get hard. "

FFS people can be so hurtful xx

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

If some of the inboxes I get on a daily basis are anything to go by then there’s a hell of a lot of people on this site that’s ‘shagged the ugly bird’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"popcorn time..

Your going to get slated for this one.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mailed later to say he wouldn't fuck me as I am fat and ugly and he wouldn't be able to get hard. "

Why didn't he declare his ED before hand? Sounds like a total bell end. His loss.

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By *ab sex sandwichCouple
over a year ago

Gatwick

We’re waiting for OPs to comment again in 24 hours

Beauty comes in many shapes and sizes. More fool anyone for discarding the opportunity to find out. James and I have had meets with all sorts of people who have open minds and interesting personalities. The unexpected sometimes makes for the best fun!!

Some very supportive comments and others from people to be avoided

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would not say she was "ugly"...my very first and only meet on here sent me a few pictures of her from various angles........no issues until I saw her in person....did not find her attractive as she was not the "same" in life when compared to her pictures.

Nothing happened bar a quick cup of coffee and off I skipped...down the yellow brick road....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is comedy gold.....

Some of the men commenting on here are being disingenuous....

When is the last time a man has been at a pub and said “ Wow , that woman looks like she has a nice personality... I’ll buy her a drink “

Men it’s okay to state you don’t find someone unattractive... Stop with all this I don’t care what someone looks like nonsense....

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

On Fab and at clubs I'm looking for sexy people, a pretty face (or more to the point, what we've been conditioned by the media to consider is pretty) doesn't make someone sexy. I go for a person that is fun, friendly and flirty and who knows how to be sexy.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"popcorn time..

Your going to get slated for this one.. "
oh why is that plz ?

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"This thread is comedy gold.....

Some of the men commenting on here are being disingenuous....

When is the last time a man has been at a pub and said “ Wow , that woman looks like she has a nice personality... I’ll buy her a drink “

Men it’s okay to state you don’t find someone unattractive... Stop with all this I don’t care what someone looks like nonsense...."

What’s wrong with someone seeking personality too?? Of course there has to be some sort of attraction but on a site like this I’m hoping most are here to also find people they have some sort of connection with.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"This thread is comedy gold.....

Some of the men commenting on here are being disingenuous....

When is the last time a man has been at a pub and said “ Wow , that woman looks like she has a nice personality... I’ll buy her a drink “

Men it’s okay to state you don’t find someone unattractive... Stop with all this I don’t care what someone looks like nonsense....

What’s wrong with someone seeking personality too?? Of course there has to be some sort of attraction but on a site like this I’m hoping most are here to also find people they have some sort of connection with.

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Definitely

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By *borofucktoyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"This thread is comedy gold.....

Some of the men commenting on here are being disingenuous....

When is the last time a man has been at a pub and said “ Wow , that woman looks like she has a nice personality... I’ll buy her a drink “

Men it’s okay to state you don’t find someone unattractive... Stop with all this I don’t care what someone looks like nonsense...."
not everyone is superficial shockingly enough..how is it nonsense to consider personality (who someone chooses to be) more important than facial features nobody has a choice with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ultimately I'm here to meet people I find attractive - both physical and personality attraction - but I wouldn't sleep with someone if I didn't like the way they looked.

However, that doesn't make them ugly. Just not what I personally get drawn to. We all have our types, what a boring world it would be if we were all the same!

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go? "

I think the OP just used the wrong word “Ugly” here when writing this post.

The only advise I can give you is to firstly verify who you are chatting to...as there are far too many fakes on here.

Secondly would be to have a social and if they’re not for you then politely just say so. We’re all adults on here at the end of the day, just don’t be rude about it and your reasoning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have being with ugly and good looking and I can report it don’t matter it’s all chemistry that matters xx

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By *efinetly_darcyMan
over a year ago

Northwest

Let's turn this on it's head Stevie Wonder (blind singer/writer) has been married, how does he know what stunning or ugly is, you can argue the women chased his money.

Hugh Jackman (actor) met his older, not stunning wife, yet are happily still married. Met when he broke struggling actor in Australia.

So basically a cover of a book may look great, the story in the pages maybe ugly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go? "

Why don’t you ask for a pic OP? Worried about sending one in return maybe?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would never fuck an ugly man.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I would never fuck an ugly man."

But what about if he had a sparkling personality, the wit of Oscar wilde, the wisdom of Albert Einstein, the knowledge of Stephen hawking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He had seen my photo but met me anyway. He made a rubbish excuse and left.

Mailed later to say he wouldn't fuck me as I am fat and ugly and he wouldn't be able to get hard. "

What an awful thing to say. Surely "not for me" is good enough.

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By *heauldadventurerMan
over a year ago

City Centre

I had a meet organised by my ex. I didnt fancy her at all

But a promise is a promise

Best sex of my life. Still yearn for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is comedy gold.....

Some of the men commenting on here are being disingenuous....

When is the last time a man has been at a pub and said “ Wow , that woman looks like she has a nice personality... I’ll buy her a drink “

Men it’s okay to state you don’t find someone unattractive... Stop with all this I don’t care what someone looks like nonsense...."

There are guys who don't care - they are just ecstatic their wrist is getting a break.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"But what about if he had a sparkling personality, the wit of Oscar wilde, the wisdom of Albert Einstein, the knowledge of Stephen hawking? "

And the money of Bernie Ecclestone? That man's had a couple of stunning wives - don't think they married him for his looks!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Blindfolds, gags, twars and drool are great equalisers.

It is for that reason a persons attitude is far more important than their physical appearance to me.

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By *ack-offMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

This is a bit harsh, one mans trash is another mans treasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the money of Bernie Ecclestone? That man's had a couple of stunning wives - don't think they married him for his looks! "

Or his height! They all towered over him, and it looked ridiculous. Now when I'm looking at profiles I check out their height... if taller I think of Bernie, and as I'm not a multi-billionaire, gracefully slip away.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

All the women I've met have fucked an ugly guy ')

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the money of Bernie Ecclestone? That man's had a couple of stunning wives - don't think they married him for his looks!

Or his height! They all towered over him, and it looked ridiculous. Now when I'm looking at profiles I check out their height... if taller I think of Bernie, and as I'm not a multi-billionaire, gracefully slip away."

Us short girls like tall too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never meet without seeing a photo and prefer a phone call too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early days of the internet, enjoyed chatting with a woman nearby on one of the first dating websites. Got on well, enjoyed the back and forth. After a few weeks, decided to meet.

Arrived at her place, no lights, just candles burning and wine on the table. She is 6’6 and extremely heavy Samoan. I was not Initially attracted to her but decided to stay around. We sat on the couch, talked and laughed for hours, several bottles of wine turned into sex I will never forget to this day. 69’d for what felt like hours and everything and anything. Next thing I knew it was 11am. Continued hooking up with her for about six months before moving. One of the best experiences ever and learned to never judge a book by its cover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go? "

Spinning this around a bit...

So, consider this scenario OP. Your partner, or wife, or both through medical misfortune, tragic accident, or act of violence, loose their looks...

...have you also lost your sex life?

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"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go? "

Not sure if by guys you mean anyone, but I had sex with a women in as club once and when I saw her again in daylight I couldn't believe I had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is comedy gold.....

Some of the men commenting on here are being disingenuous....

When is the last time a man has been at a pub and said “ Wow , that woman looks like she has a nice personality... I’ll buy her a drink “

Men it’s okay to state you don’t find someone unattractive... Stop with all this I don’t care what someone looks like nonsense....

What’s wrong with someone seeking personality too?? Of course there has to be some sort of attraction but on a site like this I’m hoping most are here to also find people they have some sort of connection with.

"

Yes I agree , but just think about what I’m saying... You have to have some physical attraction to actually have sex with someone.

Do you know what a person with a great personality , But you do not find them Physically attractive are Called?

A best friend..............

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"fucked a few ugly birds in my time but there again i am no oil painting but as longas i get my cock wet i will fuck them"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is comedy gold.....

Some of the men commenting on here are being disingenuous....

When is the last time a man has been at a pub and said “ Wow , that woman looks like she has a nice personality... I’ll buy her a drink “

Men it’s okay to state you don’t find someone unattractive... Stop with all this I don’t care what someone looks like nonsense....not everyone is superficial shockingly enough..how is it nonsense to consider personality (who someone chooses to be) more important than facial features nobody has a choice with."

Ok.... step back from fab for one second....

Pretend you were having a beer with a old friend in a pub.... He wants to know about the new woman you’re dating....,

Please explain to him about your new animal lover girlfriend that lives in a house with 100 cats , smells of cat urine , hasn’t bathed in months , and doesn’t work.....

But she has a heart of gold , great personality, smart as a whip , great cook , and the best sex you have had in your life.....

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"This thread is comedy gold.....

Some of the men commenting on here are being disingenuous....

When is the last time a man has been at a pub and said “ Wow , that woman looks like she has a nice personality... I’ll buy her a drink “

Men it’s okay to state you don’t find someone unattractive... Stop with all this I don’t care what someone looks like nonsense....

What’s wrong with someone seeking personality too?? Of course there has to be some sort of attraction but on a site like this I’m hoping most are here to also find people they have some sort of connection with.

Yes I agree , but just think about what I’m saying... You have to have some physical attraction to actually have sex with someone.

Do you know what a person with a great personality , But you do not find them Physically attractive are Called?

A best friend..............

"

Like I’ve said above that some sort of attraction does have to be there but I’m guessing that OP must have found something appealing about the lady to want to meet her. Did he like her personality which lead him to arrange at meet?

I can’t speak for him since his way seems very different from the way that I use the site, but I seek both.

Comparing the way you do things in a bar and on here is very different.

Getting the spot of a best friend takes more than just a good personality btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go? why would anyone meet without seeing pics first?"
this....that's proper weird meeting without seeing her or his face..

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Although they have seen my pictures I can imagine a few may class me as the ugly girl they had sex with. "

Same here but I look for qualities like wit, humour and kindness in a partner. Hopefully they saw the same in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now now we cannot use the term ugly!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go? "

All the time - except I’m the ugly girl! Sooooo tired of watching men run for the door when they see me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never fuck an ugly man."

Aw, bugger!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go?

All the time - except I’m the ugly girl! Sooooo tired of watching men run for the door when they see me! "

This is lies. She’s a hottie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is ugly tho!?!

I’d consider myself ugly - brutish ugly but women I’ve met have found me to their liking.

I’ve met women ranging from blonde brunette athletic to red hair slightly college square type and I tell you this, it’s been an absolute delight being with them both mentally and sexually.

Which whilst on the subject I disagree with the face pic decides all agenda. I know you’ve got to find them attractive but a picture doesn’t tell you everything as I’ve found out.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Ugly chick got to pay.

In all seriousness, I think being deceived is the problem. Met a couple of women in the past and they knew how to take the perfect pics and angle. So now I look for certain things and know what to look for in a picture. I'd rather meet you as you are than be deceived. I have not met without a picture but I have without a face pic. Doesn't help with so much filter around either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the time - except I’m the ugly girl! Sooooo tired of watching men run for the door when they see me! "

Me thinks, fair maiden, doth protest too much!

What is beautiful and what is ugly? Every person will give you a different answer. When I send a picture, a very elite few have said "Hello sexy", with the majority saying "Not for me" or going silent. It is what it is.

Personally, for me there is more to attraction than the physical looks. Of course, I'm not going to say looks are incidental, but I will say they don't carry the day. Someone will be attractive to you, or they won't be, and the reasoning behind that for me at least is often well beyond physical. A friend once said to me you cannot shag a personality, to which I would respectfully disagree.

The red flags for me would be things like poor hygiene, found breath, etc, but equally being a horrible person is the biggest red flag of all.

I think, perhaps twice in my life, I've had that moment where you see somebody for the first time and your heart skips a beat and dances to a different rhythm thereafter. Once, in person, many many years ago I was introduced to a lady by her best friend. She turned around, came across the room to me and gave me a hug and a small kiss... The second time, was online... it may or may not have been fab... and the moment was when I opened her picture for the first time. It was one of the most hauntingly beautiful pictures I've ever seen (for me at least) and when I did actually meet the lady, well, she more than lived up to my expectations... and both experiences led nowhere and sort of kicked me about a bit. But they were two different people, and one had the looks that almost every guy would climb over dead bodies to get to, and the other was quite a normal girl, but for whatever reason, really did it for me.

Anyway, because I have a very open view towards beauty, I've never slept with an ugly woman. My partners have slept with an ugly guy, but are too generous liars to admit to such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had meets with people i wouldnt fancy or date in normal life, but for me with fab its about the mutual enjoyment of sex and having a nice time and giggle.

Any hole's a goal? "

Haha not quite, got to get along and mutually want the same thing, had really good sex with these types of meets.

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By *amantha1967Woman
over a year ago

Redditch

On behalf of all ugly girls- this is plain rude. I get lots of messages from the hiders- men that are really brave about telling me what they want to do to me but no pictures at all. I am no oil painting but am honest and frank and send a face pic if asked and I think it may lead somewhere- and I expect that if I meet a man and there is no attraction at all- it’s ok- we are all adults!!! My face pic was taken last week too not ten years ago- no like? No problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a women that looked nice on here but when she smiled had a few teeth missing. So pictures sometimes do lye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had meets with people i wouldnt fancy or date in normal life, but for me with fab its about the mutual enjoyment of sex and having a nice time and giggle.

Why would anyone meet anybody they don’t fancy. I don’t understand "

I think for me fancying them is more of a pre requisite for dating and longer term, for fab meets i think meeting people of the same mindset, looking for the same nsa fun is ideal.

Ideally you fancy them too, however that would make it extremely difficult getting meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not what they look like it’s that two people have the same yearning on a site like this met a couple of women looked nothing like there picture in the flesh but it didn’t stop me having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is comedy gold.....

Some of the men commenting on here are being disingenuous....

When is the last time a man has been at a pub and said “ Wow , that woman looks like she has a nice personality... I’ll buy her a drink “

Men it’s okay to state you don’t find someone unattractive... Stop with all this I don’t care what someone looks like nonsense....

What’s wrong with someone seeking personality too?? Of course there has to be some sort of attraction but on a site like this I’m hoping most are here to also find people they have some sort of connection with.

Yes I agree , but just think about what I’m saying... You have to have some physical attraction to actually have sex with someone.

Do you know what a person with a great personality , But you do not find them Physically attractive are Called?

A best friend..............

Like I’ve said above that some sort of attraction does have to be there but I’m guessing that OP must have found something appealing about the lady to want to meet her. Did he like her personality which lead him to arrange at meet?

I can’t speak for him since his way seems very different from the way that I use the site, but I seek both.

Comparing the way you do things in a bar and on here is very different.

Getting the spot of a best friend takes more than just a good personality btw "

But that’s my point...... Why are some guys posting in the forums acting like a chivalrous gentleman?

When they know , they wouldn’t talk to their male friends like that about a woman.....

I’m sure there are guys that have no physical standards , and will sleep with anyone....

I just don’t know any....

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By *absFrenchGentMan
over a year ago

stafford

So there is still hope for me to one day maybe have sex with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my best meets have been with fems much bigger or older than i fancy and would look to date.

However we met purely to have naughty fun and both just enjoyed the letting go and pleasing each other, love it and will look to keep doing it.

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By *hugwelMan
over a year ago

Jersey


"On behalf of all ugly girls- this is plain rude. I get lots of messages from the hiders- men that are really brave about telling me what they want to do to me but no pictures at all. I am no oil painting but am honest and frank and send a face pic if asked and I think it may lead somewhere- and I expect that if I meet a man and there is no attraction at all- it’s ok- we are all adults!!! My face pic was taken last week too not ten years ago- no like? No problem!"

You look rather tidy to me nice tanned body rather milfy.

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By *iner69er OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness


"Rude calling some one ugly."
maybe, but some of them are. Probably a lot actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One persons ugly is another's Adonis or queen. We are all different.

So yes, calling someone ugly is rude. We are attracted to the person as a whole.

J

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Rude calling some one ugly.maybe, but some of them are. Probably a lot actually. "
the men keep begging to fuck them tho , mind boggles

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I'm a pretty ugly guy but my wife is stunning. I was lucky she saw past the surface and fell in love with who I actually am. We have an amazing physical connection and the people we have played with enjoy the fact that I'm more than looks. I've been with girls who may not be to everyone's taste but who have huge hearts and are the most sensual people I've ever met. I've been with models and found them empty and truly ugly inside. There is a reason the saying " don't judge a book by it's cover " exists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every person has a different opinion on looks, personally attractive or ugly doesn't always depend upon looks for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's nice seeing threads like this because it tells you who to block

And yes I've probably been the ugly fuck a few times, we can't be everyone's cuppa tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha indeed, not sure anyone would class you as an ugly fuck though. You look stunning to me!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Haha indeed, not sure anyone would class you as an ugly fuck though. You look stunning to me! "

She is

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

OP must be so handsome he has no pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awww I wasn't looking for compliments, but that made me smile thank you xxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"awww I wasn't looking for compliments, but that made me smile thank you xxx"

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only saying what's true! If you was referring to my comment that is..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only saying what's true! If you was referring to my comment that is..?? "

Both of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on your classification of ugly.

Whwn I was in my 20s I met a Girl called Karen. She was a Miss United Kingdom contestant..she went.to the same.water sliing club as myself and yes I fancied her and yes I dated her.

Over time I found that she was while gorgeous on the outside, had the nastiest personality of any woman I ever met. It got.tk a point I shuddered an still do at the thought of her.

I go dancing and I am pretty good at it too.

And I find the best dancers are not always the conventionally pretty ones.

So my idea of ugly has less to do with looks, and.more to do with personality "

Totally agree with this to an extent. I think lifestyle and mutual interests play a big part if initial attraction doesn’t. I too have met many absolutely gorgeous looking men only to find them dull as dishwater or shallow as hell, yet I’ve met men who I’ve not looked twice at initially and within time I’ve grew attracted to from their personality and humour.

It’s hard to find that right mix initially especially if your on dating sites, as ultimately they are judged by looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude calling some one ugly."

Very strong word which is very casually used too often, as is 'hate'.

No one is ugly.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Rude calling some one ugly.

Very strong word which is very casually used too often, as is 'hate'.

No one is ugly."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude calling some one ugly.

Very strong word which is very casually used too often, as is 'hate'.

No one is ugly.

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Great comment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude calling some one ugly.

Very strong word which is very casually used too often, as is 'hate'.

No one is ugly."

I agree. I don’t like such words used to describe anything let alone a human person. Same as the word “ hate “ I don’t hate anyone or anything in my life I dislike things but hate is a word that’s very strong. I’d use it to describe non

Living things maybe such as ‘wallpaper’ or similar but never about a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don’t fuck on a first meet. Meet me. Social. If we still want to meet then arrange to fuck (when I’m meeting not now)

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By *ealArtfulDodgerMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go? "

This isn't a schoolboy error it is plain stupidity..! Desperate MUCH..? FFS... Funny nonetheless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go?

This isn't a schoolboy error it is plain stupidity..! Desperate MUCH..? FFS... Funny nonetheless "

Judging by the amount of messages I receive on here asking to meet without a pic , a lot of men just want to get their bit wet!!

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Your mom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your mom "

Mom you sound like my niece she talks American, unless of course you are

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Gosh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gosh."

Golly gosh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"popcorn time..

Your going to get slated for this one.. "

Budge up......... I’m just here to watch the fireworks too.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Gosh.

Golly gosh "

You're well posh with your golly gosh

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By *icole123Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go? "

Wow,you're a charmer!!...Why on earth would you meet someone without seeing what they looked like first???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gosh.

Golly gosh

You're well posh with your golly gosh "

Proper posh (as you can get from Liverpool)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has any guys on here been to meet a girl without seeing her photo, and when you met her, she wasn't exactly what you were hoping for? Did you do the deed or make an excuse and go?

Wow,you're a charmer!!...Why on earth would you meet someone without seeing what they looked like first???"

Because he just wanted sex basically, end of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing as an ugly girl, just ugly attitudes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No such thing as an ugly girl, just ugly attitudes "

Nobody’s ugly I believe just incompatible,

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Why we even adding to this thread let it go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why we even adding to this thread let it go "

Singing the song in my head “ let it go, let it go”

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Why we even adding to this thread let it go

Singing the song in my head “ let it go, let it go” "

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never met a woman i didn't like or a pussy! Wouldn't eat!lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never met a woman i didn't like or a pussy! Wouldn't eat!lol "

You’ve never had a bad date? OMG I could write a book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of bad dates but liked them all when I met them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of bad dates but liked them all when I met them "

So how were they bad dates ,, hmmmm

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No OP. But then I've never been with a faceless silhouette either.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We always make sure people know what we look like and we know what they look like before agreeing to meet and then we generally meet for quick social first we do play first meet but always after a drink or coffee first

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"No OP. But then I've never been with a faceless silhouette either. "

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I'm not sure anyone can be ugly, everyone has good things about them, people are just attracted to different people, on here we only have photos to judge and how a few one liners on forums and maybe some engaging chat, but until you can meet someone face to face you can't tell how you will get on with someone else. If it's just for sex as a one off then I don't think there is much to gain or loose, if both parties are happy then have fun and get what you both want from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure there are guys that have no physical standards , and will sleep with anyone....

I just don’t know any...."

Okay, that probably reflects more on you And the company you keep. In a nutshell, it’s rather shallow.

An attraction can be formed on more than a persons looks, and even rise above how they look. How attractive, beautiful or “ugly” someone may be is entirely subjective. I’m quite happy to say I would count myself amongst those guys who can look deeper into the person.

But no where near as happy that there are women who can also take a deeper view, otherwise I’d most likely be a virgin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very strong word which is very casually used too often, as is 'hate'.

No one is ugly."

I disagree, on both counts.

I’ve known people with very ugly behavioural patterns and even more ugly personalities. In a nutshell, this makes them ugly.

As for hate, it is a very strong word. My ex, for example qualifies on both counts. Her actions made her very ugly, and while I don’t hate her, I absolutely hate the things she did, and does. Which is mainly why she’s my ex.

I wish her new husband well on his journey of discovery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we’re in a time warp...is it 2020 or 1970??? Everyone has feelings...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I said earlier, no such thing as an ugly woman, just ugly attitudes

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By *irebird567Woman
over a year ago

near by

Id not be into meeting anyone without seeing face pics first, knowing my luck id rock up to a stranger an embarrass myself

Attraction is defo needed for me, i cant do the deed with someone i wpuldnt wantvto be with normally

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By *leafordian75Man
over a year ago

Newark

On this site I have come across far more people with ugly personalities than I have people with 'ugly' looks.

I could have a good time with pretty much anyone, regardless of looks, as long as they are good fun, interesting company and open-minded.

I'd struggle to enjoy my time with someone, however stunning, if they are arrogant, full of themselves and think they are God's gift to the world.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"As I said earlier, no such thing as an ugly woman, just ugly attitudes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said earlier, no such thing as an ugly woman, just ugly attitudes

"

Exactly, saying some is ugly physically is not right.

I know a women that is really attractive to look at, but her personality/attitude is awful.

I wouldn't consider dating her, but I wouldn't he able to even if I wanted to, as she would consider me inferior and unworthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I exclusively only go with ugly girls

and the odd 10/10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay reverse this, what about us “ugly” guys.

You know those of us who are not the best looking. Would women go for us?

Or make the excuses and leave?

In my experience everyone is some kind of level of judgemental.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

There's a porn site that has the logo even ugly girls need fucking right ?

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By *intageVixxsinWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

ugly is so subjective and such a harsh/strong word. It's like when people say things about leagues and chances with someone, no, noone should be put on such a pedestal based on their physical appearance

And I'm pretty sure most people have a considerably worse opinion of their appearance than they are

I've probably been a few people's "ugly" fuck (and I'm not saying that fishing for compliments) but attraction is so subjective. people are like art. I don't get modern art and all of the traditionally pretty art is quite boring to me, same with people - there's no harm in an opinion but if it's not constructive or helpful in some way, or kind, it's not necessary to be shared. I'm not saying lie to someone but there's tactful ways to go about something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes been there but the sex was amazing

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By *iner69er OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness


"OP must be so handsome he has no pics "
i do have pics, I just don't have one on my profile. I send one with every message.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"OP must be so handsome he has no pics i do have pics, I just don't have one on my profile. I send one with every message. "

Let's see then

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"He had seen my photo but met me anyway. He made a rubbish excuse and left.

Mailed later to say he wouldn't fuck me as I am fat and ugly and he wouldn't be able to get hard. "

I had a charmer like that too! It was only my second ever meet and really dented my confidence

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I met a girl off here once,she sent me a photo which was in hindsight taken from a very flattering angle.Arranged to meet her for a coffee,my initial reaction was that I didn't fancy her but we'd had some good conversation on here so I was happy to have a social and a chat.Anyway,she was such a lovely kind person inside,I felt myself more attracted to her and we stayed in touch.Met her again the week after at her house,and found myself getting very excited about it.To cut a long story short,we ended up in bed and met several times afterwards, always had great sex

Only stopped seeing her because she met a guy and eventually married him

Conversely I met a girl on OKC who was beautiful outwardly but turned out to be very ugly on the inside.Took me a long time to get over what she did to me

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"They could look amazing but if their personality and attitude is all wrong then I slap them on the head with my soft penis and walk away."

Haha please can you take a photo when you do this and post it on here

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I will say that people on here need to be honest I arranged a social and his photo must have been about 20yrs old and he had clearly lied about his age by a large amount. He was not ugly or horrible but he was too old for me he was closer to my grandfather's age but I wasn't nasty or unpleasant about it

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"He had seen my photo but met me anyway. He made a rubbish excuse and left.

Mailed later to say he wouldn't fuck me as I am fat and ugly and he wouldn't be able to get hard.

I had a charmer like that too! It was only my second ever meet and really dented my confidence "

That's so awful, as a bbw that puts me off meeting!!

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport

I always ask for face pics and a social, I have to want to snog you if I'm going to have any sort of fun. But most guys (not all) are put off by me asking for a social

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I'm often told bbws don't do so well on a night out on the town for being pulled , is this true ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always ask for face pics and a social, I have to want to snog you if I'm going to have any sort of fun. But most guys (not all) are put off by me asking for a social "

Nothing wrong with a good social

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"I'm often told bbws don't do so well on a night out on the town for being pulled , is this true ? "

Not true, I've always managed to get chatted up

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