FabSwingers.com forum: UNICORN PET PEEVE

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Couples thinking I am there just for their pleasure, or the woman of the couple wanting me to join in to please the man.

Im here for my pleasure, thanks

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Quite right too. We are committed to the pleasure of all involved when we get intimate with others. Everybody should have a wonderful time and it's our job to make sure we give others the pleasure they seek if they are equally invested in our pleasure too.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I dont mind one little bit if the man wants me to join them to please the woman

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By *inky and the brain 1Couple
over a year ago

near Halesowen

"Quite right too. We are committed to the pleasure of all involved when we get intimate with others. Everybody should have a wonderful time and it's our job to make sure we give others the pleasure they seek if they are equally invested in our pleasure too. "
couldn't agree more !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All involved should enjoy it or what's the bloody point!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Couples thinking I am there just for their pleasure, or the woman of the couple wanting me to join in to please the man.

Im here for my pleasure, thanks

Even though the idea of being pleasured by two women is many men's (including mine) fantasy, I agree with you completely. Any meet that we have we expect everyone involved to have a great time.

Cal

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Couples thinking I am there just for their pleasure, or the woman of the couple wanting me to join in to please the man.

Im here for my pleasure, thanks

Isn't the point everyone's pleasure?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had a few where the couple were selfish and it is very offputting, no wonder there arnt many of us

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By *heMarvel-ousCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Not all couple are like that, I'm not a single woman but I regularly play separately and have the same problems. They just want me to be thier toy for the night.

Unicorns have the right to only play with who they want, part of the bonus of being a unicorn.

I'm sure you tell them 'what's for' and rightfully so.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Had a few where the couple were selfish and it is very offputting, no wonder there arnt many of us"
We’ve heard about selfish couples with other couples, so it’s not just single Ladies. Sums up a lot of society unfortunately

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Had a few where the couple were selfish and it is very offputting, no wonder there arnt many of us"

This is why i aren’t interested anymore. Rather have mmf

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

"Couples thinking I am there just for their pleasure, or the woman of the couple wanting me to join in to please the man.

Im here for my pleasure, thanks

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. Go girl, take what pleasure you want and leave the rest behind!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" ooh I want us to do this to him, then that"

"Sorry we are soft swing" (so you just want be to suck his dick then you two fuck? )

"Its his/her birthday......."

No. Just no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's pretty much the nature of fab though, people live in their own bubble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples thinking I am there just for their pleasure, or the woman of the couple wanting me to join in to please the man.

Im here for my pleasure, thanks

When I made the fatal error of mentioning looking for a couple for me and a FB, all I got were couples wanting to watch me with the woman so she could explore her bi side.

Piss off man, I'm not a performing pony/unicorn.

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By *latterscottonCouple
over a year ago

Manchester/london

We have had the same problems or couples that only want the women and push out the guy swinging is ment to be everyone enjoying them self and getting what they want what's the point otherwise if you going to play play fair and equal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a few where the couple were selfish and it is very offputting, no wonder there arnt many of us"

Same happened to me, only met two couples and both were selfish, after lots of chat the meets were quite the opposite of what we agreed would happen. Hence why I only meet single guys now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and the birthday line, yes!!

Many couples around here post statuses of looking for a single lady to share her man with on his birthday. Why would any lady jump at that, makes it such a disposable act

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

What ever...

This is bit like a guy saying never get replies from my messages read the profile properly would probably get caught out and less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not fun unless EVERYONE is having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does seem to be the default for many new couples who come here looking for a woman to fulfil their MFF fantasy how they want it.

Not all couples are like that.

A single woman woman would have the choice of playing with us both equally or they could just meet K for FF without me the male half present.

Maybe it's worth looking at couples with some swinging experience under their belts who fully under the scene? As opposed to new comers to swinging who think it's a way to achieve their envisioned MFF fantasy according to their needs / rules.

KJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples thinking I am there just for their pleasure, or the woman of the couple wanting me to join in to please the man.

Im here for my pleasure, thanks

Thats the point though you are here for your pleasure and they are here for their pleasure also.

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By *adgets.and.GizmosCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"Couples thinking I am there just for their pleasure, or the woman of the couple wanting me to join in to please the man.

Im here for my pleasure, thanks

Thats the point though you are here for your pleasure and they are here for their pleasure also. "

We like to make sure our third is fully satisfied

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By *el_123Woman
over a year ago

portsmouth

This is so true! So many couples talk to you as if you’re just an accessory.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

100% agree and on here so mrs4 can explore her bi sexuality a lot more than she has been able to !!! and as long as she's having fun ?? but way to many couples state that their MALE is happy to watch but sadly as we've found out he isn't ?? and trying to convince other couples that Mr4 is and will be happy to watch is nigh on impossible now !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're a bit shocked actually. Probably us being naive but when we think about a woman joining us, it's for a shared experience. I'd hope we'd spoil our guest rather than take advantage of her!

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"" ooh I want us to do this to him, then that"

"Sorry we are soft swing" (so you just want be to suck his dick then you two fuck? )

"Its his/her birthday......."

No. Just no."

Them, straight to block list!!! I used to have written on my profile but didn’t work so I removed it but I feel you Ivy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have thought there may also be females who would enjoy being part of a tease on the guy just as much as there's those who don't. Spose it's about finding suitability. We all get approached by people who don't read a profile or don't take account of our needs, such is life I guess.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I couldn't agree more also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always say that it's not us (the couple) and the single lady....it's 3 people having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Agree!

I’ve put it in my bio.

Threesome is exactly that, fun and enjoyment for all three. I’m not a play thing

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Surely the whole point is all about everybody enjoying themselves equally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree!

I’ve put it in my bio.

Threesome is exactly that, fun and enjoyment for all three. I’m not a play thing "

Awesome pics by the way x

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"We always say that it's not us (the couple) and the single lady....it's 3 people having fun "

I think this is it. It’s when so many poly people get so annoyed when people say ‘looking for a third’

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"Agree!

I’ve put it in my bio.

Threesome is exactly that, fun and enjoyment for all three. I’m not a play thing

Awesome pics by the way x"

Thank you, right back atcha

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"This is so true! So many couples talk to you as if you’re just an accessory. "

Welcome to the single guy world!!!!

Though must say most I have met are not like that

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

100% agreed

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We’ve encountered it the other way round. We’d been chatting to a lady for a while, we’d discussed likes/dislikes, boundaries, everyone’s expectations etc. And she knew I wanted to take it slow as it was my first mff but on the day everything went out the window and she was definitely only in it for her own pleasure (plus hotel stay, drinks, food, transport and whatever else she could get out of us newbies!).

Some unicorns are just ponies with a cone on their head!

Lou x

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