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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are having the EXACT same issue here

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By *MonsterMan
over a year ago

xxx

I’m Bi, and open about it!

It’s fucking brilliant to be honest; such a huge world of extra enjoyment and adventure, I’ll never regret relaxing enough to experiment and realise what totally unbounded sexual encounters can be like

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By *KentMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

I know what you mean, often get messages from straight men explaining they’re actually bi, but can’t say it on their profile!

You like cock mate, just go with it!

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Just prefer to be open about it and focus on those people who enjoy the company of bi guys.

Oh, and , if you’ll forgive the pun, by the way, just because we love sharing bi fun doesn’t mean we don’t enjoy playing with straight folk too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are having the EXACT same issue here "

had atleast 4 tonight , it gets very tiring, we always reply, because we are polite, but maybe from now it will just be block and not reply. it almost makes us want to block all men tbh, but we still want to meet bi men sometimes, maybe there should be a block on sexuality function. mods i hope you read this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine. obviously coming out is really easy and not confusing at all and this clearly isn't an open environment with non judgement people where people can experiment and explore their likes dislikes fantasies and secualilty.

We should be much more strict with the boxes we put people in and ridgid with the definition and label we want to apply to them. Let's shame them, call them dishonest and mock them on a forum post. Why why why

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"We are having the EXACT same issue here

had atleast 4 tonight , it gets very tiring, we always reply, because we are polite, but maybe from now it will just be block and not reply. it almost makes us want to block all men tbh, but we still want to meet bi men sometimes, maybe there should be a block on sexuality function. mods i hope you read this"

Blimey. That must be an absolute pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is a stigma on here as some people wont meet bi men, but i do agree, it's not about a shag its about fulfiling your fantasy and enjoying your sexuality so be honest and who cares if others wont meet bi people, they clearly missed out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't imagine. obviously coming out is really easy and not confusing at all and this clearly isn't an open environment with non judgement people where people can experiment and explore their likes dislikes fantasies and secualilty.

We should be much more strict with the boxes we put people in and ridgid with the definition and label we want to apply to them. Let's shame them, call them dishonest and mock them on a forum post. Why why why

"

well most arent really bi, they just want a chance with the fem, so please dont judge our post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly the same here all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issues at all with any preferences.

But our profile makes it very clear who we would like to engage with, yet people still ignore that and message. The excuses are laughable.

If you’re struggling to come out then maybe fab isn’t for you. It’s one of the most accepting places with little judgment. If you’re not straight and looking for experiences with same sex then put it on your profile.

Do we judge those who don’t read our profile.... ABSOLUTELY. We don’t message people who don’t want to meet bi men, women or couples, men with beards etc etc because we read profiles and respect what they asking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No issues at all with any preferences.

But our profile makes it very clear who we would like to engage with, yet people still ignore that and message. The excuses are laughable.

If you’re struggling to come out then maybe fab isn’t for you. It’s one of the most accepting places with little judgment. If you’re not straight and looking for experiences with same sex then put it on your profile.

Do we judge those who don’t read our profile.... ABSOLUTELY. We don’t message people who don’t want to meet bi men, women or couples, men with beards etc etc because we read profiles and respect what they asking for. "

this 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

I do get it.... the amount of anti Bi male sentiment on here does tend to get people to hide their leanings.

But once you accept that you can’t be for everyone and you’re happy with that it becomes so much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No issues at all with any preferences.

But our profile makes it very clear who we would like to engage with, yet people still ignore that and message. The excuses are laughable.

If you’re struggling to come out then maybe fab isn’t for you. It’s one of the most accepting places with little judgment. If you’re not straight and looking for experiences with same sex then put it on your profile.

Do we judge those who don’t read our profile.... ABSOLUTELY. We don’t message people who don’t want to meet bi men, women or couples, men with beards etc etc because we read profiles and respect what they asking for. "

I back this. You can tell the swingers from the chancers.

swingers know what they are looking for and only look for that.

chancers play a numbers game thinking they need to get laid.

by the way P has a lovely looking cock

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By *tonyxxxMan
over a year ago

mansfield

I wonder if anyone ever says “No Bi Ladies”

Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is funny as fk when the bi guys have not looking for single men.in my eyes that isnt very bi at all.You do not need a female present to be bi so the bi guys who do not meet men is that because you just want a shot at the pussy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m guessing straight women or couples do

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"I think it is funny as fk when the bi guys have not looking for single men.in my eyes that isnt very bi at all.You do not need a female present to be bi so the bi guys who do not meet men is that because you just want a shot at the pussy?"

Nope it’s because I get around 50/75 messages a day from guys wanting me to blow them.... if I want a guy I’ll find them - I don’t like to use filters as I’m active in the forums and like to take part in the games on there.

It’s quite clear from my veris that I meet guys, but mainly at Bi nights in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is funny as fk when the bi guys have not looking for single men.in my eyes that isnt very bi at all.You do not need a female present to be bi so the bi guys who do not meet men is that because you just want a shot at the pussy?

Nope it’s because I get around 50/75 messages a day from guys wanting me to blow them.... if I want a guy I’ll find them - I don’t like to use filters as I’m active in the forums and like to take part in the games on there.

It’s quite clear from my veris that I meet guys, but mainly at Bi nights in clubs. "

and that is fair enough in your case as your veris show it but some profiles that state they are bi and have met couples and fems only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's because some of us are bi but don't want to meet men 1 on 1. It's really not that difficult to work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This we absolutely understand. In our couple, he prefers bi play when I’m there. For us it’s about sharing a guy together.

But we don’t understand how people claim to be bi and not one mention of it in profile or pretences. It just sets alarm bells off about the validity of their sexuality.

One guy stated he was shown on fab as straight because of his kids Now unless his kids on are on fab then it makes no sense

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

When I went through my Curious phase to fully Bi I was apprehensive about changing my Profile incase it restricted the amount of Couples or Ladies I could contact or meet. On the contrary, being openly Bi on here caused no problems and I found out what a turn on in it is for some lady friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes most of the bi men we meet say straight on their profile. Doesn't really bother us if we get a good meet out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it shouldn't but it does put people off if you put bi on your profile. Some people put bi-curious and the stays like that year on year so not really that curious sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they see people with profiles saying "no bi men" so think it increases their options to say straight.

In reality I think people would prefer guys who are honest!

So in the interest of honesty:

I LIKE TO SUCK COCK!!!!

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By *ot4funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

It does out head in we get it all the time, it goes to show they haven't read your profile at ours clearly states if your profile says straight we'll just delete.

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By *eet The FlintstonesCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

As one of our friends said if you lie about your sexuality, what else do you lie about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. Loads of 'straight' guys messaging me.

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

We think it’s an each to their own scenario, maybe they are bi but can’t admit it to themselves. Maybe they don’t want to limit their options with women and couples who don’t want to meet bi guys. Maybe they are just saying they’re bi to have a ride on the female of a couple.

Maybe the choice of three boxes for sexuality is too limiting but where would you draw the line? A sliding scale?

Mr always refers to himself as a 50/50 bisexual, he has an equal attraction to both males and females and had been in same sex relationships before we got together. But then there are people who aren’t really attracted to guys but like to play with a cock in the right environment (situationally bi?)

If you state bi/bi curious then it makes it less likely for us to discount your wink or initial message.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met couples who wont verify me as im bi as it puts off other straight couples they are looking to meet and i know guys who are bi but profile is straight so they get to meet women and couples more easily.

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By *idnightwanderMan
over a year ago

here

As a man, once you put it on that you’re bi you get tortured by straight men looking sucked off.

Say you’re straight and you can pick and choose who you want

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

As a straight guy, I do get asked if I am a fab straight. I was recently asked by some non swinging friends if I was bi

I have played with couples where the male is bi but has played straight and that has worked for us

For me I am honest about who I like sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's because some of us are bi but don't want to meet men 1 on 1. It's really not that difficult to work out."

so you are only doing it for the pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive met couples who wont verify me as im bi as it puts off other straight couples they are looking to meet and i know guys who are bi but profile is straight so they get to meet women and couples more easily."

then the guys you know who do this are liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PREACH!!!!

It's either bi guys who won't admit it cos it puts people off. Or straight guys who "will let him suck" their dick if it'll get them into my knickers....NO! NO! NO!

If you're not listed as bi, we aren't interested.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Open bi man here looking for genuine bi couple's for a chat and see how it goes, pm me if interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it just screams chancers and liars to me

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By *omerset tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

Alot of ladies/couples wont meet bi men so they put "straight" on there profiles to improve there chances of a meet. Then they make an excuse to a bi couple/lady about why they cudnt put bi on there profile. Most guys on fab would let a guy/tv give them a bj rather than go without I once read on fab and it's TRUE lol 99% of fab guys are bi and other 1% are liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't imagine. obviously coming out is really easy and not confusing at all and this clearly isn't an open environment with non judgement people where people can experiment and explore their likes dislikes fantasies and secualilty.

We should be much more strict with the boxes we put people in and ridgid with the definition and label we want to apply to them. Let's shame them, call them dishonest and mock them on a forum post. Why why why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had the opposite when the husband was supposed to be bi but was not having any contact with me at all. Also had great times where the husband never said he was bi but went all the way when we were together with no obvious coercion by his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexuality is irrelevant. The Looking For section covers it.

Swingers are just as judgemental as non Swingers. Some are also very indiscreet.

Being bi could cause issues for many men in their life off this site. Just as being Swingers could cause issues for some people.

They don't want to be outed so they put Straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't imagine. obviously coming out is really easy and not confusing at all and this clearly isn't an open environment with non judgement people where people can experiment and explore their likes dislikes fantasies and secualilty.

We should be much more strict with the boxes we put people in and ridgid with the definition and label we want to apply to them. Let's shame them, call them dishonest and mock them on a forum post. Why why why

"

no one has shamed or mocked anyone

and they make the choice to be dishonest themselves by being liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexuality is irrelevant. The Looking For section covers it.

Swingers are just as judgemental as non Swingers. Some are also very indiscreet.

Being bi could cause issues for many men in their life off this site. Just as being Swingers could cause issues for some people.

They don't want to be outed so they put Straight.

"

but sexuality is relevant,if i am looking for a bi guy and a straight guy messages me,well thats not what I am after.

yes people judge but that is because said straight guy is a liar.open enough to swing but not open enough to admit on his profile he is bi?....

I still am going to call them liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are rarely honest on here be it age, sexuality, size marital status they just put on their profile what will give them the most chances I thought that was common knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

honesty and integrity...is there something wrong with this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexuality is irrelevant. The Looking For section covers it.

Swingers are just as judgemental as non Swingers. Some are also very indiscreet.

Being bi could cause issues for many men in their life off this site. Just as being Swingers could cause issues for some people.

They don't want to be outed so they put Straight.

but sexuality is relevant,if i am looking for a bi guy and a straight guy messages me,well thats not what I am after.

yes people judge but that is because said straight guy is a liar.open enough to swing but not open enough to admit on his profile he is bi?....

I still am going to call them liars"

Yup. We agree. They're not for us if they're not open about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't imagine. obviously coming out is really easy and not confusing at all and this clearly isn't an open environment with non judgement people where people can experiment and explore their likes dislikes fantasies and secualilty.

We should be much more strict with the boxes we put people in and ridgid with the definition and label we want to apply to them. Let's shame them, call them dishonest and mock them on a forum post. Why why why

no one has shamed or mocked anyone

and they make the choice to be dishonest themselves by being liars"

Bi men get shamed and mocked on here all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't imagine. obviously coming out is really easy and not confusing at all and this clearly isn't an open environment with non judgement people where people can experiment and explore their likes dislikes fantasies and secualilty.

We should be much more strict with the boxes we put people in and ridgid with the definition and label we want to apply to them. Let's shame them, call them dishonest and mock them on a forum post. Why why why

no one has shamed or mocked anyone

and they make the choice to be dishonest themselves by being liars

Bi men get shamed and mocked on here all the time!

"

who told you that?

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Blame the fab admins for not putting a very basic "bi/gay only" message filter in place. It drives us insane the amount of people we have to delete/block as a result. We put up a site feedback post about this same issue (as have plenty of others) and no one from the site responds while dozens of members including site supporters did in favour of it. Waste of time. We won't be renewing our supporter status again and advise others do the same until they pay attention.

I wonder if someone will respond to this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found it the other way sometimes.

Most women are not genuinely bi but mention it to get more meets and to please their husbands .

We been rejected by loads for Mrs being straight and won't put up a bifem show.

Some cpls who are fine with single guys meet ,but when we contact them, they suddenly go bi and ask for bifem play .

We like cpls who would adapt to situations rather being stern on this bifem fuckery

I think all this the male being bi or not is just blown out if proportion.

We all are here for a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We found it the other way sometimes.

Most women are not genuinely bi but mention it to get more meets and to please their husbands .

We been rejected by loads for Mrs being straight and won't put up a bifem show.

Some cpls who are fine with single guys meet ,but when we contact them, they suddenly go bi and ask for bifem play .

We like cpls who would adapt to situations rather being stern on this bifem fuckery

I think all this the male being bi or not is just blown out if proportion.

We all are here for a good time."

yes here for a good time and to make links but why should I with someone who isnt honest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't imagine. obviously coming out is really easy and not confusing at all and this clearly isn't an open environment with non judgement people where people can experiment and explore their likes dislikes fantasies and secualilty.

We should be much more strict with the boxes we put people in and ridgid with the definition and label we want to apply to them. Let's shame them, call them dishonest and mock them on a forum post. Why why why

no one has shamed or mocked anyone

and they make the choice to be dishonest themselves by being liars

Bi men get shamed and mocked on here all the time!

who told you that? "

Not sure if you are joking.

Read the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems the biggest issue here is honesty and that is such a shame for such a supposedly open community.I for one will not conform to someone elses bullshit..be yourself and if others dont like it well that is their problem not mine.if people dont like me for my views well diddums to them I will live my life happily in the knowledge that I can be me.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"I can't imagine. obviously coming out is really easy and not confusing at all and this clearly isn't an open environment with non judgement people where people can experiment and explore their likes dislikes fantasies and secualilty.

We should be much more strict with the boxes we put people in and ridgid with the definition and label we want to apply to them. Let's shame them, call them dishonest and mock them on a forum post. Why why why

no one has shamed or mocked anyone

and they make the choice to be dishonest themselves by being liars

Bi men get shamed and mocked on here all the time!

who told you that?

Not sure if you are joking.

Read the forums. "

I thought the same in all honesty lol. It's like RIGHT THERE on plenty of forum posts. One we're both active on right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its in the terms and conditions that you have to have a minimum of 2 lies on your profile preferably more.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Many couples are put off by bi and curious men even if they can play 100% straight. The guy must be afraid of being touched. It's difficult enough for guys in here to get meets so they have to try whatever they can. Many couples also claim the guy is straight then you meet and find it's not completely true !. Then you get singles who have almost nothing on their profiles through fear or wanting to tailor their responses to whoever contacts them. Nice to leave something to be discovered but good to have a basic baseline too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't imagine. obviously coming out is really easy and not confusing at all and this clearly isn't an open environment with non judgement people where people can experiment and explore their likes dislikes fantasies and secualilty.

We should be much more strict with the boxes we put people in and ridgid with the definition and label we want to apply to them. Let's shame them, call them dishonest and mock them on a forum post. Why why why

no one has shamed or mocked anyone

and they make the choice to be dishonest themselves by being liars

Bi men get shamed and mocked on here all the time!

who told you that?

Not sure if you are joking.

Read the forums.

I thought the same in all honesty lol. It's like RIGHT THERE on plenty of forum posts. One we're both active on right now."

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why"

If their profile says straight just tell them the 2 men will play first while the woman watches. That puts off the real straight men.

Watching 2 men before joining in is fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore women who are turned on by watching 2 guys

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland


"the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why"
We get this all day every day ,even when I put No straight guys they still message,chancers the lot of them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We found it the other way sometimes.

Most women are not genuinely bi but mention it to get more meets and to please their husbands .

We been rejected by loads for Mrs being straight and won't put up a bifem show.

Some cpls who are fine with single guys meet ,but when we contact them, they suddenly go bi and ask for bifem play .

We like cpls who would adapt to situations rather being stern on this bifem fuckery

I think all this the male being bi or not is just blown out if proportion.

We all are here for a good time.

yes here for a good time and to make links but why should I with someone who isnt honest?"

Why are we judging people ?

If we like a single guy and if he is ok for us to suck him then we won't judge him.

Many women lie if being bi, wr never talk about them ?

Most cpls we played where the ladies remained straight but they had bi mentioned on their profile.

We don't judge them

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

As I wrote to the OP privately, it all comes down to good, old-fashioned dishonesty. Men being dishonest to themselves and to other people about the fact that they are--carnally--attracted to the male form and they think that if they admit that they like men sexually or if there's no woman in sight during the MM act, it will make the act "too gay" or they might end up liking men more than women...Sadly, being a member of more than one swingers' websites gives you an insight that, that dishonesty is not exclusive to fabswingers.com...

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"We are having the EXACT same issue here

had atleast 4 tonight , it gets very tiring, we always reply, because we are polite, but maybe from now it will just be block and not reply. it almost makes us want to block all men tbh, but we still want to meet bi men sometimes, maybe there should be a block on sexuality function. mods i hope you read this"

You said in your forum thread last week you were going to block all single men, why don't you do that then? I think you have to accept there's all sorts on here and moaning about it isn't going to change anything.

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Im of the same opinion, honesty goes along way with me. I'm always open and honest about who i am, just makes it so much easier. I kind of get the same thing I get messages from guys who profile says straight and it's just off putting to me. If you can't be honest on here then you're really struggling, as this site is a very open minded community

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are having the EXACT same issue here

had atleast 4 tonight , it gets very tiring, we always reply, because we are polite, but maybe from now it will just be block and not reply. it almost makes us want to block all men tbh, but we still want to meet bi men sometimes, maybe there should be a block on sexuality function. mods i hope you read this

You said in your forum thread last week you were going to block all single men, why don't you do that then? I think you have to accept there's all sorts on here and moaning about it isn't going to change anything. "

we changed our mind, is that not alowd?, we do still like to meet some men, but only the honest ones

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Well they say they are straight on their profile as they think they are missing out on women who wont meet them otherwise, but in the long run they are shooting themselves in the foot as there are a fair few amazing couples who are looking for bi men only, more fool them for not being honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why"

I get them everyday and they when you question them always get back oooo I am bi and played with tv/ts before and always some bs exuse as to why it’s set to straight

Even had guys say ooo there it is changed like that’s going to make me want to meet them

But it’s two late they all ready show me they lieing peace off crap

Mean how can they expect me to trust them if I can’t even trust what’s on they profiles

Honestly if I was anyone I would run a mile from these guys the minute I seen them comeing

Totally feel sorry for the I don’t meet bi guys crowed as they have no idear that they have been meeting bi guys all along I mean each to there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are so mant straight guys on here who are over on fabguys with multiple verifications.

liars to the max.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

dont know if ive put this before on this thread, we had one guy message us, his profile said bi, we met with him, he obviously wasnt bi, we checked his profile a few days later, it now said straight, he had obviously changed it so we would meet him!!!!!

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By *eekfreek00Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Hmmm....I wouldn't say I'm bi, I do Not find men attractive at All!! I just love playing with dildos... sometimes I wish I had the real thing (in the moment) tho if it came down to it, I don't think I could go through with it!! I have bi-curious stated in my profile..never say never lol but what does that make me? Besides being a dope haha

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I think it is funny as fk when the bi guys have not looking for single men.in my eyes that isnt very bi at all.You do not need a female present to be bi so the bi guys who do not meet men is that because you just want a shot at the pussy?"

I am pansexual, so list as bi. But I rarely want to play with a man alone (who appears to be a man) but happy with a transvestite, delighted with a woman and ecstatic with a transgender lady.

Group situations are a different dynamic, again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont know if ive put this before on this thread, we had one guy message us, his profile said bi, we met with him, he obviously wasnt bi, we checked his profile a few days later, it now said straight, he had obviously changed it so we would meet him!!!!!"

Not shour if u had that one happen to me before

But I do tend not to re look at profile or in less they on line and setting up a nother meet with them xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmmm....I wouldn't say I'm bi, I do Not find men attractive at All!! I just love playing with dildos... sometimes I wish I had the real thing (in the moment) tho if it came down to it, I don't think I could go through with it!! I have bi-curious stated in my profile..never say never lol but what does that make me? Besides being a dope haha"

honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is funny as fk when the bi guys have not looking for single men.in my eyes that isnt very bi at all.You do not need a female present to be bi so the bi guys who do not meet men is that because you just want a shot at the pussy?

I am pansexual, so list as bi. But I rarely want to play with a man alone (who appears to be a man) but happy with a transvestite, delighted with a woman and ecstatic with a transgender lady.

Group situations are a different dynamic, again."

___________________

adjective

not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity.

yet you say "But I rarely want to play with a man alone"

how is that pansexual?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I won’t meet, unless they actually have verifications that confirm they’re bi now. I’m fed up of being the next best thing, if no woman or couple will play with them.

One bad experience with a straight guy has put me off for life, I’m no experiment with your sexuality.

I’m staying with genuine people who are comfortable with their own sexuality, they’re the business

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

For those not in the know

The prefix “pan-” means “all.” Similarly, pansexuality means that you're attracted to people of all genders. This includes people who don't identify with any gender (agender). Many pansexual people describe themselves as being attracted to people based on personality, not gender

I identify more as pansexual. persoanlity is a key for me, It's rare that i will meet anyone straight away until i get to know them a little bit need to have that chemistry for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What gets us is the guys that change there status to bi when chatting then change it back to straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I list myself as bi because I’d rather meet a couple and enjoy sucking a cock and occasionally if it feels right, kissing the guy as part of the threesome fun but I’ve no desire to be in a relationship with a guy and I’ve never “fancied” a guy either.

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By *arah_11TV/TS
over a year ago

Yeadon/Leeds


"As one of our friends said if you lie about your sexuality, what else do you lie about. "

Totally agree with this. Not a great start when you can't be honest about something really basic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am part of a bi couple we got so frustrated with people not understanding or reading the profile that we made single accounts instead,then we blocked everyone except the same sex in the hope we would actually find what we are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot are bi but if they put that then they cant convince straight couples they are straight. Either way its lying so not right.

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I am part of a bi couple we got so frustrated with people not understanding or reading the profile that we made single accounts instead,then we blocked everyone except the same sex in the hope we would actually find what we are looking for. "

Has it worked??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am part of a bi couple we got so frustrated with people not understanding or reading the profile that we made single accounts instead,then we blocked everyone except the same sex in the hope we would actually find what we are looking for.

Has it worked??"

It's been a lot better we just have a different issue of all the guys thinking they get me and the woman think they get him no one seems to get the idea we play gay only its frustrating but better than it was

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I am part of a bi couple we got so frustrated with people not understanding or reading the profile that we made single accounts instead,then we blocked everyone except the same sex in the hope we would actually find what we are looking for.

Has it worked??

It's been a lot better we just have a different issue of all the guys thinking they get me and the woman think they get him no one seems to get the idea we play gay only its frustrating but better than it was "

Don't see what's so hard to understand it's probably the usual case of ppl not reading the profile properly (if at all )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those not in the know

The prefix “pan-” means “all.” Similarly, pansexuality means that you're attracted to people of all genders. This includes people who don't identify with any gender (agender). Many pansexual people describe themselves as being attracted to people based on personality, not gender

I identify more as pansexual. persoanlity is a key for me, It's rare that i will meet anyone straight away until i get to know them a little bit need to have that chemistry for me."

And being pansexual does not mean you will fuck *all* people.. as in everyone who asks.

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"For those not in the know

The prefix “pan-” means “all.” Similarly, pansexuality means that you're attracted to people of all genders. This includes people who don't identify with any gender (agender). Many pansexual people describe themselves as being attracted to people based on personality, not gender

I identify more as pansexual. persoanlity is a key for me, It's rare that i will meet anyone straight away until i get to know them a little bit need to have that chemistry for me.

And being pansexual does not mean you will fuck *all* people.. as in everyone who asks.

"

Haha cheers for the little add on you're very right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those not in the know

The prefix “pan-” means “all.” Similarly, pansexuality means that you're attracted to people of all genders. This includes people who don't identify with any gender (agender). Many pansexual people describe themselves as being attracted to people based on personality, not gender

I identify more as pansexual. persoanlity is a key for me, It's rare that i will meet anyone straight away until i get to know them a little bit need to have that chemistry for me.

And being pansexual does not mean you will fuck *all* people.. as in everyone who asks.

Haha cheers for the little add on you're very right "

Yeah sorry I wasn't meaning to correct you. Just wanted to add it as some people think it also means that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well thank god it does not mean you will fuck all.I never said it did btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am part of a bi couple we got so frustrated with people not understanding or reading the profile that we made single accounts instead,then we blocked everyone except the same sex in the hope we would actually find what we are looking for. "

I am also part of a couple and on that we look for honest bi guys with mm experience and get too many idiots saying the same old thing or doing it just for the pussy so I made my own account and lo and behold some of the bi guys that we did chat to would not chat to me alone.so it seems I am only good enough if I bring the pussy with me.they can go feck right off....

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

People that are open and honest will always have way more fun.. we prefer bi guys

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"For those not in the know

The prefix “pan-” means “all.” Similarly, pansexuality means that you're attracted to people of all genders. This includes people who don't identify with any gender (agender). Many pansexual people describe themselves as being attracted to people based on personality, not gender

I identify more as pansexual. persoanlity is a key for me, It's rare that i will meet anyone straight away until i get to know them a little bit need to have that chemistry for me.

And being pansexual does not mean you will fuck *all* people.. as in everyone who asks.

Haha cheers for the little add on you're very right

Yeah sorry I wasn't meaning to correct you. Just wanted to add it as some people think it also means that. "

No need to apologise when i read it back, i realised how some would see it lol

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"People that are open and honest will always have way more fun.. we prefer bi guys "

Good to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why"
this is exactly what we get, we wont meet any guys with str8 on their profile, but they keep messaging till we block them, we reckon 90% of single guys are actually bi,

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I am part of a bi couple we got so frustrated with people not understanding or reading the profile that we made single accounts instead,then we blocked everyone except the same sex in the hope we would actually find what we are looking for.

I am also part of a couple and on that we look for honest bi guys with mm experience and get too many idiots saying the same old thing or doing it just for the pussy so I made my own account and lo and behold some of the bi guys that we did chat to would not chat to me alone.so it seems I am only good enough if I bring the pussy with me.they can go feck right off...."

Bloody spot on, fella. As I was saying to the male half of another bi couple who've commented in bi forums if you, the guy, or your lady, decide to make 'single' profiles you will soon see the actual truth of who wants you for the partner you provide and who wants you, for you. In my opinion, more bi couples should do this. Then again, it depends on what you want, as a bi couple. Admittedly, it is a LOT of hassle for a vetting process but it is a merciless filter as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab Pet Hate #74. I even have text on my profile that says any straight man who tells me they are Bi but can't put it on their profile I will block them instantly.

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Fab Pet Hate #74. I even have text on my profile that says any straight man who tells me they are Bi but can't put it on their profile I will block them instantly. "

Don't think there's too many on here who actually read the profile,i get it all the time. I always make it a point to read everyones profile before sending a message its just a decent thing to do

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By *appycouple300Couple
over a year ago

North Dorset

Happens ALL the time. Mainly blokes trying to get to the female. We always say a male to male meeting first. That always puts them off

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why this is exactly what we get, we wont meet any guys with str8 on their profile, but they keep messaging till we block them, we reckon 90% of single guys are actually bi,"

.

Wonder what percentage actually have bi/curious on their profile

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

I’m bi and love joining bi couples. Always more fun when all sharing each other xxx

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Well said ......

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why this is exactly what we get, we wont meet any guys with str8 on their profile, but they keep messaging till we block them, we reckon 90% of single guys are actually bi,

.

Wonder what percentage actually have bi/curious on their profile "

I'm open and honest on my profile and the profile name says it all really, dnt understand how guys can't even be honest on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because of homophobia and biphobia, and social stigma which is still very strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing that’s not already been said, always messages from straight guys asking to meet but some from straight couples too.

I’ve met a few couples before who had straight on their profile but definitely were not straight lol, no verification left in case anyone notices lol

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I think it is funny as fk when the bi guys have not looking for single men.in my eyes that isnt very bi at all.You do not need a female present to be bi so the bi guys who do not meet men is that because you just want a shot at the pussy?

I am pansexual, so list as bi. But I rarely want to play with a man alone (who appears to be a man) but happy with a transvestite, delighted with a woman and ecstatic with a transgender lady.

Group situations are a different dynamic, again.

___________________

adjective

not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity.

yet you say "But I rarely want to play with a man alone"

how is that pansexual? "

Key word being choice.

I'm attracted to femininity, no matter the actual contents of my partner's underwear.

Masculinity doesn't normally attract me, but sometimes I may be in the mood for something different.

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Not met a bi couple yet just never happened or had the opportunity. I'm a virgin in that respect lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is funny as fk when the bi guys have not looking for single men.in my eyes that isnt very bi at all.You do not need a female present to be bi so the bi guys who do not meet men is that because you just want a shot at the pussy?

I am pansexual, so list as bi. But I rarely want to play with a man alone (who appears to be a man) but happy with a transvestite, delighted with a woman and ecstatic with a transgender lady.

Group situations are a different dynamic, again.

___________________

adjective

not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity.

yet you say "But I rarely want to play with a man alone"

how is that pansexual?

Key word being choice.

I'm attracted to femininity, no matter the actual contents of my partner's underwear.

Masculinity doesn't normally attract me, but sometimes I may be in the mood for something different."

if it looks female then fuck it pmsl

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"if it looks female then fuck it pmsl"

Better than 'if my partner looks female, I'm still straight' as some "fab straight" men believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if it looks female then fuck it pmsl

Better than 'if my partner looks female, I'm still straight' as some "fab straight" men believe."

oh I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a mystery to us profile says straight but they are looking for mm couples men tv ts hubby wont meet bi its his choice but still they try many a day then say whoops sorry didn't relise i put that but have been on for ages and got veries from bi guys etc come on couple read profiles

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"I think it is funny as fk when the bi guys have not looking for single men.in my eyes that isnt very bi at all.You do not need a female present to be bi so the bi guys who do not meet men is that because you just want a shot at the pussy?"

You couldn't be more wrong. As a single I met a few bi guys but it wasn't for me, however when my partner joined in it was a fantastic experience. We do only meet bi guys and couples with a bi guy unless at a party, club or friends. We were well aware that straight guys would pretend to be bi just to have sex with jessy but they were easily ed out. F.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why"

To be fair I can understand why they do it as there’s still a lot of prejudice against bi guys on fab. I’ve spoken to many females and couples historically who maintain that ‘sex between men is sick and turns their stomach!’ - though it’s practically compulsory for ladies to be at least bi-curious.

I’ve also chatted to plenty of people who maintain that bi guys are a far greater std/hiv risk - and so won’t contemplate meeting them.

Whilst there’s still so much prejudice against bi guys on the site there’ll be many who play the straight card to get meets and hope bi couples/guys will be understanding.

Peachy

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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil


"the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why"

Totally, had at least 5 guys nessage today , same story yes im bi just not on my profile, but ive met guys etc ,

Blocked. Cant be bothered with them.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

...... ps - I do find it amusing though when I look at a ‘straight’ guys pictures and see that most of them are him on all fours showing his bum hole!

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why

To be fair I can understand why they do it as there’s still a lot of prejudice against bi guys on fab. I’ve spoken to many females and couples historically who maintain that ‘sex between men is sick and turns their stomach!’ - though it’s practically compulsory for ladies to be at least bi-curious.

I’ve also chatted to plenty of people who maintain that bi guys are a far greater std/hiv risk - and so won’t contemplate meeting them.

Whilst there’s still so much prejudice against bi guys on the site there’ll be many who play the straight card to get meets and hope bi couples/guys will be understanding.

Peachy "

Can kind of agree with this, as i get very little attention from women off this site. Now not all of it will be down to me being bi of course, but from this thread and a few others i've seen i can see there is still a big stigma attached to bi guys. Sadly thats the reality but being honest i'll eventually meet the people who like me for me and can be happy that i'm not lying to others or myself.

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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil

And another one blocked ,"ive read your profile and " clearly they havent

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"And another one blocked ,"ive read your profile and " clearly they havent "

"I'm bi but I'm not putting it on my profile because my ABC or XYZ are also on here and if they see I'm bi they won't be very happy". As if whoever is also on the site wouldn't be awkward if they realised that said person was here in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am part of a bi couple we got so frustrated with people not understanding or reading the profile that we made single accounts instead,then we blocked everyone except the same sex in the hope we would actually find what we are looking for.

Has it worked??

It's been a lot better we just have a different issue of all the guys thinking they get me and the woman think they get him no one seems to get the idea we play gay only its frustrating but better than it was

Don't see what's so hard to understand it's probably the usual case of ppl not reading the profile properly (if at all )"

probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree , if there’s anywhere for people to express themselves and be honest/open about sexuality it is here ! I understand things can be difficult at first as the thought of being open about it to family/friends is quite scary but at the end of the day you’ve got to do what’s best for you as life’s too short to worry about others judgments .

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By *lutonicMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Well Put

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By *lutonicMan
over a year ago

Leicester

True, I find some couples.. where the man is in the closest and seeing another man with his woman actually turns him on more than his woman. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get really annoyed when I get these kind of messages. They don't like it when I say to be upfront.

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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago

East Lancashire

Am bi but some couples are very put off by that, I'm more than happy to play with a couple and not touch the guy if that's not his thing.

So I can understand why some guys don't put it on their profile.

Also sure there are many guys taking the piss on here trying to say they are are aren't just to get a meet.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"its a mystery to us profile says straight but they are looking for mm couples men tv ts hubby wont meet bi its his choice but still they try many a day then say whoops sorry didn't relise i put that but have been on for ages and got veries from bi guys etc come on couple read profiles "

Used to be part of a MM couple (my oppo was straight) and we met lots of couples where the husband was straight, and I played straight, and the wife got three guys focusing on her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do get it.... the amount of anti Bi male sentiment on here does tend to get people to hide their leanings.

But once you accept that you can’t be for everyone and you’re happy with that it becomes so much easier. "

Agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

We may start offering a prize for original reasons for having straight on their profile

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"We may start offering a prize for original reasons for having straight on their profile "

My mum and dad have a profile on here and I don’t want them to know I like a cock in my bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same problem on my couple's profile. Like you say just be honest as I'm sure it will attract more couple's.

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I have the same problem on my couple's profile. Like you say just be honest as I'm sure it will attract more couple's. "

What would u suggest is best way to meet a couple as a threesome virgin lol. Are there couples who dnt mind a complete novice when it comes to that?

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering


"We may start offering a prize for original reasons for having straight on their profile

My mum and dad have a profile on here and I don’t want them to know I like a cock in my bum. "

Sorry, forgot the T&C's *all prizes must be claimed in person at a bi night at VA*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of 'straight' men who look at my profile is unbelievable

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"We may start offering a prize for original reasons for having straight on their profile

My mum and dad have a profile on here and I don’t want them to know I like a cock in my bum.

Sorry, forgot the T&C's *all prizes must be claimed in person at a bi night at VA*"

I’ll let him know, he doesn’t drive so his mum and dad would have to give him a lift

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering


"We may start offering a prize for original reasons for having straight on their profile

My mum and dad have a profile on here and I don’t want them to know I like a cock in my bum.

Sorry, forgot the T&C's *all prizes must be claimed in person at a bi night at VA*

I’ll let him know, he doesn’t drive so his mum and dad would have to give him a lift "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am part of a bi couple we got so frustrated with people not understanding or reading the profile that we made single accounts instead,then we blocked everyone except the same sex in the hope we would actually find what we are looking for.

I am also part of a couple and on that we look for honest bi guys with mm experience and get too many idiots saying the same old thing or doing it just for the pussy so I made my own account and lo and behold some of the bi guys that we did chat to would not chat to me alone.so it seems I am only good enough if I bring the pussy with me.they can go feck right off...."

My husband is on fab guys instead they ain't interested in the pussy in fact they get funny about me wanting to watch and jion in eith my husband only

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"We may start offering a prize for original reasons for having straight on their profile

My mum and dad have a profile on here and I don’t want them to know I like a cock in my bum.

Sorry, forgot the T&C's *all prizes must be claimed in person at a bi night at VA*"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why

To be fair I can understand why they do it as there’s still a lot of prejudice against bi guys on fab. I’ve spoken to many females and couples historically who maintain that ‘sex between men is sick and turns their stomach!’ - though it’s practically compulsory for ladies to be at least bi-curious.

I’ve also chatted to plenty of people who maintain that bi guys are a far greater std/hiv risk - and so won’t contemplate meeting them.

Whilst there’s still so much prejudice against bi guys on the site there’ll be many who play the straight card to get meets and hope bi couples/guys will be understanding.

Peachy "

i think maybe youve hit the nail on the head, they are afraid of what others think, our atitude is if you dont like us then move along, we arent going to be dishonest just to get a meet tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why

To be fair I can understand why they do it as there’s still a lot of prejudice against bi guys on fab. I’ve spoken to many females and couples historically who maintain that ‘sex between men is sick and turns their stomach!’ - though it’s practically compulsory for ladies to be at least bi-curious.

I’ve also chatted to plenty of people who maintain that bi guys are a far greater std/hiv risk - and so won’t contemplate meeting them.

Whilst there’s still so much prejudice against bi guys on the site there’ll be many who play the straight card to get meets and hope bi couples/guys will be understanding.

Peachy

i think maybe youve hit the nail on the head, they are afraid of what others think, our atitude is if you dont like us then move along, we arent going to be dishonest just to get a meet tho"

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why

To be fair I can understand why they do it as there’s still a lot of prejudice against bi guys on fab. I’ve spoken to many females and couples historically who maintain that ‘sex between men is sick and turns their stomach!’ - though it’s practically compulsory for ladies to be at least bi-curious.

I’ve also chatted to plenty of people who maintain that bi guys are a far greater std/hiv risk - and so won’t contemplate meeting them.

Whilst there’s still so much prejudice against bi guys on the site there’ll be many who play the straight card to get meets and hope bi couples/guys will be understanding.

Peachy

i think maybe youve hit the nail on the head, they are afraid of what others think, our atitude is if you dont like us then move along, we arent going to be dishonest just to get a meet tho"

Ditto; at the end, it comes down to what you want as a person. Lots of people would oppose my opinion but from my perspective, if I had the choice of either sex with lots and lots of couples/singles from whom I would have to hide my bisexuality or a session with one couple/single person with whom I could be open and upfront, I would choose the one couple/single person.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

We don’t get any messages from straight guys pretending to be bi.

We use the handy “block males” facility and search ourselves.

Not difficult really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are open some aren’t , question answered

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"The amount of 'straight' men who look at my profile is unbelievable "

Sometimes it's checking out 'the competition'

Sometimes it's following a verification chain to see if the lady you verified is genuine.

Sometimes it's a finger slip.

But occasionally it's a fab straight guy.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Bi men, pretending to be straight, so they don't scare off women and couples.

Straight men, pretending to be bi, so they can meet couples with bi husbands, when they are just interested in the wife.

It's a mess...

Just need more honesty

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

We have had both straight men saying bi, and most are , also some say are bi to get to the wife.

Also loads of straight guys saying bi

Funny thing is on every meet the first thing the wife says is suck his cock and if they dont then they are shown the front door lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is the usual reason for pretending to be bi undoubtedly just to get to woman then "leave a bit of bi fun for another time". All the best open 3somes get straight down to bi fun and that would show up the phone I guess

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

So bi guys get a bad rap as they're a higher risk of an std! Have you seen how many women do anal! So what's the difference?

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By *ivedancerMan
over a year ago

Horsham


"We are having the EXACT same issue here "

Well I just liked your photos and for reasons of my Bi'ness just the cock shots. Nice cock btw.

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By *ivedancerMan
over a year ago

Horsham


"We have had both straight men saying bi, and most are , also some say are bi to get to the wife.

Also loads of straight guys saying bi

Funny thing is on every meet the first thing the wife says is suck his cock and if they dont then they are shown the front door lol"

I volunteer as tribute !!! be nice to see a pic of said cock just in case I need to work on my lower jaw a little more

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why

To be fair I can understand why they do it as there’s still a lot of prejudice against bi guys on fab. I’ve spoken to many females and couples historically who maintain that ‘sex between men is sick and turns their stomach!’ - though it’s practically compulsory for ladies to be at least bi-curious.

I’ve also chatted to plenty of people who maintain that bi guys are a far greater std/hiv risk - and so won’t contemplate meeting them.

Whilst there’s still so much prejudice against bi guys on the site there’ll be many who play the straight card to get meets and hope bi couples/guys will be understanding.

Peachy

i think maybe youve hit the nail on the head, they are afraid of what others think, our atitude is if you dont like us then move along, we arent going to be dishonest just to get a meet tho"

Ah - but that attitude is fine if you’re a couple - you’ve always got each other to shag!

Pity the poor single guys who feel they have to tell porkies to get their end away!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"We are having the EXACT same issue here

Well I just liked your photos and for reasons of my Bi'ness just the cock shots. Nice cock btw. "

Hi.

Going completely off topic here - but your best pic by far is July 19. I’d strongly advise you to use that as your profile picture - and being totally honest - trim your hair and beard back to that length.

Feel free to tell me to buggroff though!

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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil


"We have had both straight men saying bi, and most are , also some say are bi to get to the wife.

Also loads of straight guys saying bi

Funny thing is on every meet the first thing the wife says is suck his cock and if they dont then they are shown the front door lol"

Brilliant lol

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"As one of our friends said if you lie about your sexuality, what else do you lie about. "

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By *orksbiguyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

im bi and my nickname backs that up lol

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I get far more "straight" men message me than bi, have come to the conclusion a lot consider themselves straight till they get a hard on, then its any hole is a goal, the reality is most men can seperate sex from love, so sexuality doesnt come into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they're pussies.

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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago

East Lancashire


"We have had both straight men saying bi, and most are , also some say are bi to get to the wife.

Also loads of straight guys saying bi

Funny thing is on every meet the first thing the wife says is suck his cock and if they dont then they are shown the front door lol"

Great idea

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Most of them probably have played with men i think some lie to get to play with women and couples who won't play with bi men easy to root them out make it clear the lady will only be watching the two men play at start of meet very easy to change preference to suit who your messaging

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

I get a fair few messages from straight guys.

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By *arex2Couple
over a year ago

Bradford


"the amount of messages we get from men whos profile says straight, btw our profile does say bi men only, then you be polite and say no thanks you are straight, reply, well im bi but cant put it on my profile because of whatever reason, why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why"

Ditto, ditto, ditto.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" why cant people just be honest, then they argue thier case until we get bored and block them, just why why why"

Unfortunately a lot of women seem to explicitly veto bisexual males for some reason.

Maybe it's because they view them as more likely to be HIV+ (despite having photos of 4 guys barebacking them in their profile), maybe it's because they don't like the idea of gay sex.

Either way, if you're a male who is bi, and wants to actually be judged on your character rather than your sexual preference, you will tend to see the little white lie as being justified.

I mean, I think you should at least change your actual preference to bi in your profile if you're going to approach people looking for that. At least don't be lazy I say.

But really. This is the game. To get laid. If you like dick and pussy, and women are actively finding any reason to not respond to guys then men will ultimately bend the truth to get an entry point to a meet.

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East


"As a man, once you put it on that you’re bi you get tortured by straight men looking sucked off.

Say you’re straight and you can pick and choose who you want "

You look like Maxxie from Skins.

Anyway, I agree, I changed my preference from straight to bi curious about two months ago and then amount of straight men that message me now that didn't before... I didn't expect it.

Wouldn't say its loads but theres a couple a day.

But the messages are usually 'suck me off' or something and get deleted.

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