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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

Hi all I suppose this as been asked a few times, what are

Peoples opinions if you have a MMF

threesome and you all play with each other but the guys don't meet guys, don't do anal with the guys

and have no intention of doing it

Would you still class them as bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say the line is crossed at mutual oral between the guys

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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

My opinion is not bi as they have

No interest in guys but go with it for the female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My opinion is not bi as they have

No interest in guys but go with it for the female"

I don't think anyone should ever do something like that to appease the female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My opinion is not bi as they have

No interest in guys but go with it for the female"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My opinion is not bi as they have

No interest in guys but go with it for the female"

Fab straight is fab straight!!!!

T

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

if 2 or more guys play with a woman but not each other they are straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if 2 or more guys play with a woman but not each other they are straight "

100% agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I suppose this as been asked a few times, what are

Peoples opinions if you have a MMF

threesome and you all play with each other but the guys don't meet guys, don't do anal with the guys

and have no intention of doing it

Would you still class them as bi"

Mmf donates male bi play even if only oral

Mfm donates straight play by males, no oral male to male

Have to be careful where you put your m's lol

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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

So if a guy plays with a guy, he is bi

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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if a guy plays with a guy, he is bi"

If a woman plays with a woman do you consider her bi??

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

At least bi curious if you play with someone of the same sex I'd say op

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Does it need a label?

I’ve played with women but very rarely I wouldn’t say I was bi. I’m just whatever takes my face at the time

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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

My wife would play with a women if in a threesome or moresum and would play with a woman but she would not fancy a woman so I would not class her as bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife would play with a women if in a threesome or moresum and would play with a woman but she would not fancy a woman so I would not class her as bi"

Then what was the point of your post OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go with Hetro-flexible

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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

To see what others option were

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

If you are a man who A) prefers women and B) plays sexually with men and enjoys it, you're bisexual.

Is that such a big deal????

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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen


"Does it need a label?

I’ve played with women but very rarely I wouldn’t say I was bi. I’m just whatever takes my face at the time "

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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen


"At least bi curious if you play with someone of the same sex I'd say op "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are a man who A) prefers women and B) plays sexually with men and enjoys it, you're bisexual.

Is that such a big deal????"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I suppose this as been asked a few times, what are

Peoples opinions if you have a MMF

threesome and you all play with each other but the guys don't meet guys, don't do anal with the guys

and have no intention of doing it

Would you still class them as bi

Mmf donates male bi play even if only oral

Mfm donates straight play by males, no oral male to male

Have to be careful where you put your m's lol

"

Denotes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I suppose this as been asked a few times, what are

Peoples opinions if you have a MMF

threesome and you all play with each other but the guys don't meet guys, don't do anal with the guys

and have no intention of doing it

Would you still class them as bi

Mmf donates male bi play even if only oral

Mfm donates straight play by males, no oral male to male

Have to be careful where you put your m's lol

Denotes"

Correct fat finger on phone syndrome

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss


"My wife would play with a women if in a threesome or moresum and would play with a woman but she would not fancy a woman so I would not class her as bi"

If she is aroused by playing with a female thats bi

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By *ass and kinkWoman
over a year ago

kinxville

It all depends what you feel like doing in the moment, if i played with a woman I wouldn't wake up the next day and declare im bi, its a momentary thing and that's all it would be, I definitely wouldn't label myself.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex


"My opinion is not bi as they have

No interest in guys but go with it for the female"

I don’t think any guy would do anything with another guy just to get to the woman

I understand that during play she might suggest something and they guys think sod it, it’s just a bit of fun

But I don’t believe any guy is that desperate to shag a woman he’d go ‘fine, tonight I’m gonna meet a couple with a bi Male and I’ll suck his cock just so I can f*ck his wife’

MrsB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a distinction between being bi and having a sexual fetish. Men can have a fetish for wearing lingerie for instance without being bi, they can also have a fetish about plaything with cock but without fancying men as such. I ave often read about guys claiming they they always think of women in terms of sex and emotional relationship, and never think of men in those terms but nevertheless have played 'cock games' wit men.

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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

I agree

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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen


"It all depends what you feel like doing in the moment, if i played with a woman I wouldn't wake up the next day and declare im bi, its a momentary thing and that's all it would be, I definitely wouldn't label myself. "

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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen


"My opinion is not bi as they have

No interest in guys but go with it for the female

I don’t think any guy would do anything with another guy just to get to the woman

I understand that during play she might suggest something and they guys think sod it, it’s just a bit of fun

But I don’t believe any guy is that desperate to shag a woman he’d go ‘fine, tonight I’m gonna meet a couple with a bi Male and I’ll suck his cock just so I can f*ck his wife’

MrsB"
that is what I meant a thing of the moment

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I think there is a distinction between being bi and having a sexual fetish. Men can have a fetish for wearing lingerie for instance without being bi, they can also have a fetish about plaything with cock but without fancying men as such. I ave often read about guys claiming they they always think of women in terms of sex and emotional relationship, and never think of men in those terms but nevertheless have played 'cock games' wit men. "

Why not just compromise and settle for a sexy woman who is wearing a strap-on dick?

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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

Lol

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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"My opinion is not bi as they have

No interest in guys but go with it for the female

I don’t think any guy would do anything with another guy just to get to the woman

I understand that during play she might suggest something and they guys think sod it, it’s just a bit of fun

But I don’t believe any guy is that desperate to shag a woman he’d go ‘fine, tonight I’m gonna meet a couple with a bi Male and I’ll suck his cock just so I can f*ck his wife’

MrsB"

On sites like this it wouldn't surprise me in the slightest if there were guys that would - and there are certainly guys that say they would in order to get a foot in the door

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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

I would not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a good question. I think about this a lot.

Personally I have zero interest in kissing a man, fucking a man or being fucked by a man.

However, I have participated in MMFs where our dicks have rubbed together while she was sucking, which I enjoyed and eventually led to DVP multiple times which was mind blowing.

I’d like to meet a gay/bi/curious guy and share a toy, like a cock sleeve, watch some good porn and see if I get turned on or can cum and if so, what turns me on about it.

However.. what if I regret it? I’d feel guilty using someone to explore or what if it went the other way and I ended up wanting cock.. who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gay but I'd be happy to join a MF couple for a threesome - in fact I did one a few ears ago. I'm happy for oral all round, we'll take it in turn to fuck and spit-roast her. I want to fuck him too, so it would help if he was at least bi-curious.

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By *ungfunfellaMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Tough subject and is all about opinion I consider myself bi as am attracted to both sexes but have had mmf n group with lads and wanks etc with mates n I consider that just fun eg a pal of mine has wanked n traded bjs with me but he’s totally straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there is a distinction between being bi and having a sexual fetish. Men can have a fetish for wearing lingerie for instance without being bi, they can also have a fetish about plaything with cock but without fancying men as such. I ave often read about guys claiming they they always think of women in terms of sex and emotional relationship, and never think of men in those terms but nevertheless have played 'cock games' wit men."

Yes just what I was thinking. As people have said, you shouldn't do something you're not comfortable with only to please a woman, but if pleasing the woman when she tells you to suck cock is what turns you on, then I'd call that a fetish too.

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