FabSwingers.com forum: Soft swap or full swap?

By *urvykate087 OP Couple
over a year ago

North East

We were wondering... those in couples...

Do you soft swap or full swap?

We’ve spoke to a variety of couples and their approach varies a lot!

We always thought people just wanted a full swap but we’ve learnt lots of people actually don’t want full penetration- and soft swap only?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Full swap......

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We have always full swapped but if we met a couple who wanted soft swap then we would be happy with that too. Plenty of fun to be had anyway

Mrs x

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We are full swap but only if everyone is up for it.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We are full swap but would be happy with soft swap too. Just whatever people are comfortable with.

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

We are soft swing as we are new to this and want to take things slowly first to see how things feel. We never say never as things can evolve and situations can change. Each to their own... Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love both ,it all depends on the mood and the people we are playing with

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We’re generally full swap as we both love sex but have had a few naughty socials and hot tubs without full sex. It’s not something we go looking for but if we meet really nice people and full swap isn’t there thing it’s still fun to hang out and have a laugh and a play

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we started out full swap and we're now soft swing.

We just do what we like

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

There's some couple's where only one plays, technically no swap just hotwife/vixen or even the rare hothubby scenario. Just sayin'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are full swap but would be happy with soft swap too. Just whatever people are comfortable with."

This

Her x

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By *aucy SouthernersCouple
over a year ago

Honiton

Full swap after initially starting our journey as soft swap, however we are happy with play friends boundaries etc so always respect those x

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

Full.

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By *otwifeHusbandCouple
over a year ago

Dorset

I’d love you just find a couple to chat with and maybe have a soft swing to start and go from there

Hotwife x

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

We started off soft swap and moved onto full, now we enjoy both its all good fun at the end of the day or is that end of the night.

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By *exyfuncouple74Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Full. Separate rooms. The reclaim sex is awesome for weeks afterwards.

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By *hiterosesCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

Full where wanted, but also more than happy soft, or with 1 of us more passive. It all depends on the evening, event or dynamic....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a full swap couple, we have done soft swap in the past but it doesn't beat the thrill of fully swapping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft for us

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By *abybearandthebossCouple
over a year ago

COLCHESTER

Full swap for us. X

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By *kiolo1Couple
over a year ago

Whitland

Still waiting to meet with a couple. But would be happy with a full swap if it felt right in the moment.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We are a hot wife couple. So I Mrs N am happy to do full swap with hubby only watching. We find this hot. Equally we are happy to play as a soft swap couple x

Mrs N x

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Full swap ,soft is fine too.All depends from mood and other couple

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

we have done both prefer full swap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a full swop cpl started soft but found full so much more exciting love to see each other playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've only ever soft swapped once(before lockdown) we've been talking full swapping during our sexy times at home and it really does get us both of - we can't wait to see each other fucking different partners. I think we like to watch one another getting of and being filthy

Is there any couples that could ease us in and arent to far away?? Give us a message.

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Full swop or what’s the point

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By *arried West End CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Definitely full swap x

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By *urvesncurlsCouple
over a year ago

norwich

We both would full swap with the right couple, but happy with soft if that’s what the other couple want.

We both want to see our partners really enjoying themselves which is a lot of the reason we are here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are full swap but would be happy with soft swap too. Just whatever people are comfortable with.

This

Her x"

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By *xploressCouple
over a year ago

Mid Devon

Either for us. We started Soft swap only, but quickly got comfortable with that and gave full swap a try. I (Mr) was shocked at quite how hot it was watching another man slide into Mrs E.. It really is something else!

We've only done it a couple of times and so far Mrs E is less turned on by seeing me slide into another woman.

Lockdown has slowed our journey of discovery down, but we're both keen to give it another try.

We're maybe situatationally Full Swap.. With the right people. Or maybe we'll end up soft plus the occasional MFM threesome.. Who knows but it's going to be fun finding out! I'm happy as long as she's happy (and I get a double blowjob)

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We are happy with soft swap or full both are very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the people newcomers its soft experienced full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are full swap

but happy with soft swap as well

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By *moretwoCouple
over a year ago

Feltham

We are full and soft. Some times a full swap meet ends up soft and and soft ends up full. It's more about the moment. As long as everyone goes home happy with a smile that's what it's all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're predominantly a full swap couple but have had some great nights where soft swap is as far as it went. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are soft swap but happy to go full swap if all agree.

We find non-vaginal penetration, soft swap to be so intensely sensuous and hedonistic, providing multiple edged orgasms all round and taking several super stimulated hours to get there

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Neither really.

We don’t swap, what we are after is a bit more one sided.

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

"Neither really.

We don’t swap, what we are after is a bit more one sided."

Looking at your profile, I think C and I are along similar(ish) lines. We only go out of our way to look for people to meet in the context of kink, and that may or may not involve sexual stuff, be it soft swapping or full swapping.

That being said, we both love nothing more than meeting and having a laugh with new people, and should the evening go 'that way' then we're up for whatever feels right to all at the time. So long as everyone is happy, that's the main thing

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

We were soft swing only for a couple of years. There's a lot to be said for it.

These days we are full swing.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Have done both when I've met with my partner.

Do whatever you feel comfortable with.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Mainly full swap but all depends on who we’re meeting and what they feel happy with to be fair. As long as you very 1 happy

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Soft swap and girl on girl, no desire for anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go with the flow at the time. But enjoy either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are happy with either. Actually full swapped on our first night swinging

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Start with soft and if everyone is happy move along to the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're predominantly a full swap couple but have had some great nights where soft swap is as far as it went. X "

Snap but do always feel that if there were the opportunity for a return match with said couples it would be nice to get to full swap.

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By *uriouscayotesCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Both

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

"We have always full swapped but if we met a couple who wanted soft swap then we would be happy with that too. Plenty of fun to be had anyway

Mrs x"

This is for us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's some couple's where only one plays, technically no swap just hotwife/vixen or even the rare hothubby scenario. Just sayin'

That’s us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are still fairly new to the scene, enjoying soft swap at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are quite new to this but definatley soft swap with a bit of girl on girl.

That’s sexy and hot enough for us

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Soft swap for us

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I do full play with a Male. But when we play with couples we like soft swap or even just sharing a bed and sticking to own partners. Hubby prefers not to swap. Just how we play x

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By *J swingCouple
over a year ago

North

We started with soft swap until 1 day in a club then it just happened we went full 1st time with 4 guys + hubby at end but respect everyone's decision.

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

First visit in the club and first experience together was a soft swap... this quickly changed to full swap on our second club visit. Since that, this is the only preferred option for us. Full swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont swap at all as it's only O female half that plays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either, we just go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Either, we just go with the flow "

This

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By *onynickiCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Go with the flow but full swap is the favourite

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

our intention was always to start slow, soft swap etc but that went out the window after a few mins lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"our intention was always to start slow, soft swap etc but that went out the window after a few mins lol"

Our intentions were the same and we reacted pretty much the same way

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We've only ever played soft with girl on girl but we have talked about full and would be interested in going further with the right couple

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By *icky and MandyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Mmmmm.....

.......both

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

In general we'd say we're soft swap. Occasionally not. If we go further it's very much a thing of that moment. The people, mood and atmosphere need to be just right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always assumed full swap (same or separate room) was the norm... .. was surprised to learn recently my DD would only be interested in soft swap in the same room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start with soft and if everyone is happy move along to the other."

I think this is the best way

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