FabSwingers.com forum: does anyone actually meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone actually meet on here or is it just one big pen pal site?

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

not at the moment...theres a bit of a pandemic going on

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

There's this tiny little glitch at the moment - the Coronavirus Act 2020.

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

1) this isn’t a brothel

2) 80% on here are single men

It’s a patience thing. The decent swingers in here like to chat too, it’s a lifestyle after all.

It’s like saying does no-one go dogging. Yes they do, but every car park isn’t full of couples every night who will do anything with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"not at the moment...theres a bit of a pandemic going on"

I mean in general as lots just like to chat and not meet. Pandemic easing not as many dead think they doing herd immunity by way its going. Wish the whole thing would end as its shit for people's mental health.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Some do, some don't. Getting to know people first is something we like to do though before we meet.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes.

During the pandemic, less or no.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

And yeah, not a brothel.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"And yeah, not a brothel."

I'll pay you a tenner

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"And yeah, not a brothel.

I'll pay you a tenner

cheers

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Have met and will hopefully meet again when it's clear.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"And yeah, not a brothel.

I'll pay you a tenner

cheers "

You are most welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience my friend patience!

Us guys are 2 a penny on these sites and we bring nothing to the party until asked to dance by someone interested in what we’ve got on display.

Meets happen and when they do other doors will slowly open.

Chat in the forums and enjoy the ride until clubs and events open full......but until then patience

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Currently unwise , generally hell yes.

But not with every randomer who waves their wang at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waves their wang

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Patience my friend patience!

Us guys are 2 a penny on these sites and we bring nothing to the party until asked to dance by someone interested in what we’ve got on display.

Meets happen and when they do other doors will slowly open.

Chat in the forums and enjoy the ride until clubs and events open full......but until then patience

I've been on and off over the years it seems to have got harder to meet over the years.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I meet people normall just weekends but covid has impacted that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some do, some don't. Getting to know people first is something we like to do though before we meet. "

Yea that is the best way. Hi by the way

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

It’s true that single male profiles struggle to get a connection that leads to fun. But a lot of that is because they are feckin chancers trying to get their leg over and nothing else.

Chat in the forums. Get to know people. Go to the socials.

Be patient and show that you’re a swingers as well as horny!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not at the moment...theres a bit of a pandemic going on"
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

Presumably you know the answer as your profile states

'Verify me if we’ve met before'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its best at the moment for people to be careful and keep to the social distancing guidelines.

like you, all of us need to wait and see. i know thats not the answer your looking for but remember your health is paramount.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

What is this "meet" you talk of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not at the moment...theres a bit of a pandemic going onthis "

Hello again....

Your pic 1st Dec 2018 got my vote on the best pic above thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s true that single male profiles struggle to get a connection that leads to fun. But a lot of that is because they are feckin chancers trying to get their leg over and nothing else.

Chat in the forums. Get to know people. Go to the socials.

Be patient and show that you’re a swingers as well as horny!!"

This is a strong point. Lots of guys that are not in to the swing / kink lifestyle but just want a shag. Swingers will have their guard up so work on your introductions, tell people about your interests in your opening salvo.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Lots of people meet under normal circumstances.

One on one's as well as a lot of social gatherings.

And of course people like to chat

It's an each to their own type of situation

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Does anyone actually meet on here or is it just one big pen pal site?"

Pandemics mean nothing to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone actually meet on here or is it just one big pen pal site?

Pandemics mean nothing to you?"

Didn't say that dont just ass, read properly

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Even before Covid this site was swamped with guys so girls and couples are buried in winks and messages. Messages you send are quickly lost down the bottom of their inbox. One girl I knew showed me her account, 500 messages a day. You just have to keep going and hope for the odd bite (or nibble)...

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes but not in the middle of a pandemic

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum-search/does%2banyone%2bmeet

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Does anyone actually meet on here or is it just one big pen pal site?"

Pen pals but in the modern way, texting and messaging.

Though I did have one guy that sent me a card in the post once

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

When the clubs are open properly, try a night that's single guy friendly. You'll find real people there and meeting definitely takes place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a a couple of meets from here, and one of them met more than once.

It does happen but its finding the right ones, that are interested in return and not a cattle market. Dont cast your net far and wide, just place the one hook amd gope its a winner...

That sounds really bad but its the truth. Many on here myself inc rather quality over quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet

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By *ola81Woman
over a year ago

pond

"1) this isn’t a brothel

2) 80% on here are single men

It’s a patience thing. The decent swingers in here like to chat too, it’s a lifestyle after all.

It’s like saying does no-one go dogging. Yes they do, but every car park isn’t full of couples every night who will do anything with anyone."

80% on here pretend to be single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say you’re bi , and the meets will start rolling in....

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Forum isn't the best place to find people a lot of people use the site more as an extra social media

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By *ennyWTV/TS
over a year ago

Teesside

"Does anyone actually meet on here or is it just one big pen pal site?"

It may have escaped your notice, but we are in the midst of a pandemic.

Nobody in their right mind is going to 'meet' in the current environment.

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Launceston

Plenty of meets pre covid & a few pencilled in for when its over x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are opening up for socials, so check the clubs out.

Plus they are the best way to meet people.

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By *idnight_Express69Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

"1) this isn’t a brothel

2) 80% on here are single men

It’s a patience thing. The decent swingers in here like to chat too, it’s a lifestyle after all.

It’s like saying does no-one go dogging. Yes they do, but every car park isn’t full of couples every night who will do anything with anyone."

Mansplained perfectly

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