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By *aughty nerds OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Hi Ms nerdy here!

I'd like to explore my bi side a bit more any advice?

I also struggle with being sexy sometimes, I think its a confidence issue! Any tips you lovely ladies can give me?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't advise on the bi bit but what do you mean by "being sexy"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is find someone more experienced than you who can show you a thing or to, also start of slow and doing things you like done to you a woman will soon say if they like it different(well I do anyway), as for being sexy I am confused your hot honey but I get everyone struggles with confidence so again start of taking pics of the bits you do like, practice different angles with the camera and up load them on here trust me the amount of fabs you will get will soon help the convidence go up.

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Hi Ms nerdy here!

I'd like to explore my bi side a bit more any advice?

I also struggle with being sexy sometimes, I think its a confidence issue! Any tips you lovely ladies can give me?!"

You look incredibly sexy already! Wow xx

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I only started exploring my bi-side when we started doing this last year. I think it's normal to lack confidence if you're not used to being with the same sex, I certainly did to begin with and still do. Being with someone who is experienced but who also understands and will take their time is the key. I also find flirting with women difficult as I'm never sure how to be x

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Bi exploration is so much fun, confidence will come when you see how much your partner wants you, my advice is to relax, have fun and see where it leads, find a lady who likes to take control and go with the flow..

You're a beautiful lady OP you won't be short of offer xxx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Just be you. Share your genuine personality, both sexual and non sexual, and then you are more likely to attract people for the right reasons. Trying to be something you are not will surely not result in happiness? For example, I am not a girly girl. I hate pink, don't like make up or shiny things. Anyone who wants to get to know me will have to get to know non girly me. If I pretend to enh those things, I'll just be unhappy. Hope this makes sense?!

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By *rnaughtyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Wow you ladies are so hard on yourselves, i've just had a quick peep at your pictures and believe me you certainly don't have any problems with being sexy you looked very sexy.

As for exploring your bi side when the clubs are open again especially Chameleons here in the midlands i would recommend going along to one of their bi nights as it's a no pressure environment where your bound to enjoy yourselves.

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

A) you are utterly gorgeous, but I know from experience, other people telling you that doesn't necessarily help you feel sexy. For me, taking up pole dancing was the best thing I ever did for feeling fit and sexy.

B) being open about your level of experience, taking things slow, and perhaps finding someone who is slightly more experienced and willing to guide you would be the best tips I could give for exploring your hi side.

I suspect you will have many ladies willing to help you explore...

C (her)

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Hi Ms nerdy here!

I'd like to explore my bi side a bit more any advice?

I also struggle with being sexy sometimes, I think its a confidence issue! Any tips you lovely ladies can give me?!"

Just go for it! Make sure you know each other's boundaries before the fun starts.Never do anything you don't want to do.Each experience should get better and better!

Being sexy is a thing that us women don"t always feel,especially with life stresses.Who feels sexy moping the floor and cleaning the loo?! But i would say try winging it..put something sexy on, a bit of make up..make the first move and before you know it..your a sex kitten!

Good luck.Enjoy the fun..and join the BI CLUB. Naomi xx

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