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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was just wondering what people are actually looking for on fab

Is it one off meets with as many as possible or regular meets with the same people

For me it’s about meeting someone that I really click with and exploring the lifestyle with that person. Getting to know that person and what makes them tick sexually.

What do people think here?

One offs or something a bit more meaningful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A combination of both for me. I would like some longer term partners that I have a deeper connection with, friendship, and experience of what each other like sexually. But I do enjoy plenty of hook-ups I won't deny xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep connection

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A combination of both for me. I would like some longer term partners that I have a deeper connection with, friendship, and experience of what each other like sexually. But I do enjoy plenty of hook-ups I won't deny xx"

Ok I suppose we are all Different and it’s what floats our boats ??

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Both.

We have some amazing friends that we've met through fab that we play with and see often (pre-covid).

And we're always looking to make more good connections and new friends.

But we also don't mind a one off meet.

Variety is the spice of life.

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By *orkcouple101Couple
over a year ago

york

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like genuine "no strings"... repeat meetings are fine, but I just don't want to emotionally invest in a relationship, I make a fantastic friend and it's not fair to let people think I'd want more.

Some meets have wanted to do "coupley" type stuff, like snuggle up to a movie or go on a day trip etc. These are all good and well but I use this site to satisfy my carnal urges, I have a FILTHY mind and I don't want tame adventures.... I want sheet grabbing, passionate snogging, hot, incredible sex!!!

The crossover to a dating site is where this site stumbles at times.

Each to their own of course.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not into hook ups, they do nothing for me, I am hoping for more regular meets to develop a good friendship makes each meet better and better. In saying that I feel guys don't like regular it seems to scare them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would like genuine "no strings"... repeat meetings are fine, but I just don't want to emotionally invest in a relationship, I make a fantastic friend and it's not fair to let people think I'd want more.

Some meets have wanted to do "coupley" type stuff, like snuggle up to a movie or go on a day trip etc. These are all good and well but I use this site to satisfy my carnal urges, I have a FILTHY mind and I don't want tame adventures.... I want sheet grabbing, passionate snogging, hot, incredible sex!!!

The crossover to a dating site is where this site stumbles at times.

Each to their own of course.x

"

Of course

Not looking for a relationship either but you can have a regular sexual hook up with the same person right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a regular connection with a couple. In the meantime I'll slum it with random strangers.

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By *orkcouple101Couple
over a year ago

york

Regular 1 or 2 couples or possibly 1 single we're into soft swap but open for exploring further once we get to know the person/people. But open for one off meets as it adds to the fun....x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We'd like a small circle of "friends" but we can't offer deep and meaningful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was just wondering what people are actually looking for on fab

Is it one off meets with as many as possible or regular meets with the same people

For me it’s about meeting someone that I really click with and exploring the lifestyle with that person. Getting to know that person and what makes them tick sexually.

What do people think here?

One offs or something a bit more meaningful"

Like others have said a combination of both we have regular friends we meet from here but are always looking for new adventures too

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I’d prefer the same person/couple for regular(ish) meets so we can relax and explore together. However, if you meet the same person/people regularly your risk someone becoming emotionally invested and that could cause problems. It’s a tricky one.

Lou x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Mostly I just use fab to keep in touch with like minded friends I have met in the real world and to have a laugh in the forums.

Pre covid I would very occasionally meet someone new from here, if they caught my eye & there was a connection, always a social meet first though and quite often it went no further than that.

As far as the future goes, I expect eventually I will begin to meet up with existing fab friends I know & trust for socials and possibly more. Be a long time before I will consider returning to clubs or meeting anyone new though.

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

When we play singly it's more one offs being Honeys preference unless she finds a 'special' one or two and then that might change.

For me its more a long term connection and the same for us as a couple.

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for us

The excitement, nerves and exploring of new people at a hook up is great.

But then connecting with a person/persons where the level of intimacy is increased and you know each other well enough Or are comfortable enough to push boundaries, explore and do things with them you wouldn’t consider with hook ups because you’ve developed a level of trust and understanding

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Tbh I use fabs to keep in contact with people from the club scene as that has been zero for the last 5 months I kinda have found that I am a bit rubbish talking to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

initially was for one for meets as i understand more of what i want and what can offer

ideally would like returns as you get to know each other and feel more comfortable and hence more can happen in a session

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