FabSwingers.com forum: Couples: Who’s driving the profile?

By *ittyandtheboy OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.

How do you guys operate?

The Boy.

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By *aughty_wirral_pairCouple
over a year ago

Bromborough

For us it depends who's horniest

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.

How do you guys operate?

The Boy. "

We're the opposite of you guys. I'm the one who uses the forums and does the messages mostly. I'm the biggest flirt

Mrs x

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By *aughty_wirral_pairCouple
over a year ago

Bromborough

"We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.

How do you guys operate?

The Boy.

We're the opposite of you guys. I'm the one who uses the forums and does the messages mostly. I'm the biggest flirt

Mrs x"

Gorgeous outfits hun xx

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Val dictates haha I just do the donkey work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.

How do you guys operate?

The Boy. "

Pretty much the same as you. She tried running it, but got fed up of the rude guys messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mrs does all our fabmin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly me Hubby do the shortlisting and Priya joins in later.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.

How do you guys operate?

The Boy. "

Exactly the same - Niki just doesn't have the patience!

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By *kiolo1Couple
over a year ago

Whitland

Started out Artie was handling it, then I took over. He still will help clear out the unwanted messages but I like the forum surfing and flirting.

Beth

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Mr does.

Mrs N has zero interest, she's only interested in turning up for meets

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We both reply here.

I tend to get excited and carried away, then Lily comes along and asks all the important things I’ve overlooked. She’s the Admin!

- John

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Rob does all the fabmin and looks around the forums. The good stuff then gets filtered and shown to Steph. If we send or reply to messages then it's a joint effort

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Mostly me the Mrs

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By *S_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Near Leeds

He does most of the messaging however on occasions she will respond too.

We both see all messages though and she does a lot of looking at photos and profiles. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 50/50 division of labour for us: Hubby carefully compiles a shortlist, Wife quickly reviews and then eliminates everyone on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us it depends who's horniest

Us too

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By *ountry PeaksCouple
over a year ago

In The Surrey Hills

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By *ountry PeaksCouple
over a year ago

In The Surrey Hills

Mainly Mr with our content, then both in forum and messages

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By *lut and sirCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Even split. Makes it more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly me Tat(Mr) Peaches will log in and just check what messages have been sent and who has inboxed us.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We both drive the profile I think

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Sky has no interest in it. I (blue) sift through all of the crap and only share with sky anything I feel we'll both be interested in. If I have whittled that down to 10%, I know sky will whittle that down further to about 2% after showing her.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"We both reply here.

I tend to get excited and carried away, then Lily comes along and asks all the important things I’ve overlooked. She’s the Admin!

- John"

Women are far more practical than men. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr PL takes on the abmin side, but we both read, reply to messages and have a good look at the other profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since this virus has been around it's been the husband, think the wife has been on about 2 times since it started but normally it would be both of us.

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

We both use our profile and respond to mail. If one of us has been chatting to someone we save those messages for them. X

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

"We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.

How do you guys operate?

The Boy. "

Pretty much the same. I (he) does the filtering for her to avoid personalising countless Want Fuck Noooow requests. We chat/laugh/WTF over forums.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

We both do. I (fem) am probably more active on the forums and fab more pics though because I have more time. Both read all messages, but because we aren't always together when they arrive in the inbox they sometimes sit there until we have both seen them before one of us will write a reply.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I reply to all the messages but Mr fully reads them all and we discuss them. Mr hates texting so is very happy leaving it to me.

I also post in the forum.

Mrs

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

we both handle our profile...often its down to who has the time to do it.

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

MrS doea most of the winks, reaching out, messages etc. I tend to stick to the forums. Will message when a couple or individual floats my boat. I stay quiet if I am not interested. Let MrD know offline that I am not keen and let him deal with it.

MsD

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's me Mrs N who answers messages and posts on the forum. Mr N manages photos, reads all the messages and deletes and blocks the ones addressed only to me

. The profile text is written by me with his input and approval. So you could say that either one of us can be behind the wheel but it's a dual control car.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's me Mrs N who answers messages and posts on the forum. Mr N manages photos, reads all the messages and deletes and blocks the ones addressed only to me

. The profile text is written by me with his input and approval. So you could say that either one of us can be behind the wheel but it's a dual control car."

Are you both forum mods or just one of you????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Bebe/her) do the fabbing as SjA cannot get beyond the terrible outdated design of the site. SjA looks after our swinging apps but I’m not a fan of them because there is no forum or virtual public place to out the dicks and I don’t want to waste my time chatting to someone one to one to find this out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is as per our profile but I’m the only one who uses the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's mostly me (D) who makes initial contact, forums, fabs or makes initial replies and vets blokes unless C is very horny, sees someone she fancies or actively looking or going to a club. C is the only one who accepts friend requests. C is basically too busy with life to spend ages on here and if she hits it off she will move conversation to whats app

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends really of course we both read and Chat, we both have access and make joint decisions on who we meet, mr mainly in the forums x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

It's mainly me (N) - S doesn't use the forums, so that's always me. He looks at the messages and we discuss things together etc. When meeting was a possibility, we obviously looked at profiles together, made plans etc. but I'm in the driver's seat. It's excellent fun when people (usually guys) message us and assume they are talking to S

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Me (wife) as i have more time and patience ,but hubby has an account to so i can send possible meets etc to him to suss out if genuine bi and if they appeal to him ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.

How do you guys operate?

The Boy. "
i was when I was part of the couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of us , we both have access to it . I probably search more for profiles and send first messages.

N x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Mr.

Mrs will read the odd message but generally Mr decides who we will and won’t meet

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By *nceinawhileCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We both have access, I tend to be the more chatty one although not been very active on here recently

C (fem half)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's me Mrs N who answers messages and posts on the forum. Mr N manages photos, reads all the messages and deletes and blocks the ones addressed only to me

. The profile text is written by me with his input and approval. So you could say that either one of us can be behind the wheel but it's a dual control car.

Are you both forum mods or just one of you????

The profile is a forum mods profile

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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil

Mr does the searching and forum stuff and mrs does the choosing and camming

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

"We both have access and see what’s going on, but we’ve naturally assumed roles where I tend to drive the profile and answer messages etc, and Kitty pops along when anything interesting pops up.

How do you guys operate?

The Boy. "

We are exactly the same, I tend to only get involved once things have got past the initial messages stage. But I do like a play around on the forums

Mrs xx

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

Mr. My wife is only really interested in actually visiting the clubs/playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of us. It depends who has the opportunity to be on here at any given time

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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago

wirral

It used to be mainly me, but Mr has been more active lately.

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Both of us. It depends who has the opportunity to be on here at any given time"

Exactly the same here now although Mr did most of the admin for the first few weeks though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's me Mrs N who answers messages and posts on the forum. Mr N manages photos, reads all the messages and deletes and blocks the ones addressed only to me

. The profile text is written by me with his input and approval. So you could say that either one of us can be behind the wheel but it's a dual control car.

Are you both forum mods or just one of you????

The profile is a forum mods profile

Nice

Thank you and good job.

Only asked because I wondered if Rugby’s profile was him or her wearing the stockings which look amazing if they read this.!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always the M doing the initial engagements with us.

The doesnt have the patience to deal with the flakes and the timewasters. She only gets involved once ive determined that the potential playmate is sufficiently serious that its worth her time. Usually that isnt on Fab however as we will generally move the conversation to a kik group chat at that time.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Its always the M doing the initial engagements with us.

This is very much how we work. By the time I’ve determined a potential couple or single guy for her, it’s moved over to WhatsApp where she joins in and starts flirting, seducing, exchanging pics and discussing dates and locations etc without having to worry and deal with all the pre qualifying. It means for her it’s close to 100% conversation to meet ratio

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By *ature couple 60Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I do all the donkey work but wife checks profiles and msgs and she decides who she has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost always Bloke in the forums but we both check winks, messages, etc.

So it could be either of us.

If we think there is an interesting message or someone/couple we may be interested in then we will highlight it to each other.

These situations are few and far between though as we get the same pointless 'Hi', 'How you doin? ', 'Wow, great pics', 'Free right now', uninvited cock pics, etc. type messages, as most do, so either delete, block or sarcastically reply.

Clubs and organised socials have been our main source of finding others.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We're much the same. I (Luke) post on the forum, have chats with people and delete shit messages. Hannah comes along periodically to catch up with what been going on.

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