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By *eachesAndCream99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

What are people’s opinions on what constitutes a BBW? The reason I ask, is that I am not toned or sleek like some stunningly beautiful women on here, I am a size 14ish and have some curves, lumps and bumps. However, I am not as beautifully curvaceous as others also. Therefore, I feel that I may have fallen into the ‘forgotten category’ and I’d just like to know what to annotate on our profile. This post isn’t looking for haters or body shamers but asking what people’s opinions are. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don’t doubt your appeal. I know I suffer from the same worries and usually try to wear lots of sexy underwear to cover up the worst bits.

I was a size 18/20 and have now lost 3 stone and am currently a size 16.

My worst part is my « apron » where my stomach has shrunk but not enough yet.

I find generally that men that are not so worried and find all women’s’ bodies lovely. There are some that don’t but I don’t meet men that don’t find me attractive.

I have been told that men prefer women that are comfortable and proud of their bodies as that confidence makes a difference.

Maybe ask your partner to pick a different part of your body to praise and worship each day to improve your confidence.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't say you could describe yourself as BBW. I use fabulous because I refuse to describe myself as average. I think others can decide if they're attracted to me from our photos.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you're slim and curvy

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By *eachesAndCream99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4


"Please don’t doubt your appeal. I know I suffer from the same worries and usually try to wear lots of sexy underwear to cover up the worst bits.

I was a size 18/20 and have now lost 3 stone and am currently a size 16.

My worst part is my « apron » where my stomach has shrunk but not enough yet.

I find generally that men that are not so worried and find all women’s’ bodies lovely. There are some that don’t but I don’t meet men that don’t find me attractive.

I have been told that men prefer women that are comfortable and proud of their bodies as that confidence makes a difference.

Maybe ask your partner to pick a different part of your body to praise and worship each day to improve your confidence. "

I get what you’re saying completely, the Mr is fantastic and would love to savour me to himself sometimes, he is always complimentary but we enjoy so much about the open minded socialising, fantasy, intrigue and anticipation along with the play. However, I am so unsure how to class myself as I don’t want others to feel I’ve hidden something... and well done for the weight loss etc xxx

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By *eachesAndCream99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4


"I wouldn't say you could describe yourself as BBW. I use fabulous because I refuse to describe myself as average. I think others can decide if they're attracted to me from our photos. "

Thank you for your response as I feel genuinely unsure and as you say, ‘average’ sounds like ‘satisfactory’ which is no way what I wish to state... xx

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"What are people’s opinions on what constitutes a BBW? The reason I ask, is that I am not toned or sleek like some stunningly beautiful women on here, I am a size 14ish and have some curves, lumps and bumps. However, I am not as beautifully curvaceous as others also. Therefore, I feel that I may have fallen into the ‘forgotten category’ and I’d just like to know what to annotate on our profile. This post isn’t looking for haters or body shamers but asking what people’s opinions are. x "

I don't class myself as BBW. I'm big and I'm a woman but not sure I'd class myself as beautiful lol... however, I have used the term fabulous on my profile to describe myself. For me it's a state of mind. You, my lovely are gorgeous

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Saw an article where the likes of Beyonce, Rhianna and Lady Ga Ga were described as fat and disgusting.

If you like your women to look like Keira Knightley and Victoria Beckham then yes they're big, it really is all subjective.

In the current climate, I know life goes on, but you'd think it'd give us perspective on what's important, but as in all things different strokes for different folks.

Bbw is a ready reckoner on sites like these: lets people know, if no pictures available you're not a size 8. Op, I wouldn't class you as bbw.

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

I think op is gorgeous we love and appreciate all curves!

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By *heMarvel-ousCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I think I would fit the same catagory. I've been up and down with my weight over the year, been a lovely slim 10-12 and bbw 18-20. Now I am middle not toned size 14 with mum tum and all the trimmings. Know how you feel op.

No idea what I am anymore!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I wouldn't say you could describe yourself as BBW. I use fabulous because I refuse to describe myself as average. I think others can decide if they're attracted to me from our photos.

Thank you for your response as I feel genuinely unsure and as you say, ‘average’ sounds like ‘satisfactory’ which is no way what I wish to state... xx"

What I'm hearing from you is concern that people are going to be disappointed when they meet you unless you describe yourself realistically and realistically *to you* means in faintly derogatory terms.

The people you're going to meet won't have perfect bodies, far from it and they won't expect you to either. You look great

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"What are people’s opinions on what constitutes a BBW? The reason I ask, is that I am not toned or sleek like some stunningly beautiful women on here, I am a size 14ish and have some curves, lumps and bumps. However, I am not as beautifully curvaceous as others also. Therefore, I feel that I may have fallen into the ‘forgotten category’ and I’d just like to know what to annotate on our profile. This post isn’t looking for haters or body shamers but asking what people’s opinions are. x "

You are beautiful and curvaceous. If you are worried about your body then there’s no hope for us!

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By *eachesAndCream99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4


"What are people’s opinions on what constitutes a BBW? The reason I ask, is that I am not toned or sleek like some stunningly beautiful women on here, I am a size 14ish and have some curves, lumps and bumps. However, I am not as beautifully curvaceous as others also. Therefore, I feel that I may have fallen into the ‘forgotten category’ and I’d just like to know what to annotate on our profile. This post isn’t looking for haters or body shamers but asking what people’s opinions are. x

I don't class myself as BBW. I'm big and I'm a woman but not sure I'd class myself as beautiful lol... however, I have used the term fabulous on my profile to describe myself. For me it's a state of mind. You, my lovely are gorgeous "

I think that sounds a fantastic term to use, thank you for the suggestion

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By *eachesAndCream99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4


"Saw an article where the likes of Beyonce, Rhianna and Lady Ga Ga were described as fat and disgusting.

If you like your women to look like Keira Knightley and Victoria Beckham then yes they're big, it really is all subjective.

In the current climate, I know life goes on, but you'd think it'd give us perspective on what's important, but as in all things different strokes for different folks.

Bbw is a ready reckoner on sites like these: lets people know, if no pictures available you're not a size 8. Op, I wouldn't class you as bbw. "

And that’s exactly it, what am I?

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By *eachesAndCream99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4


"I think op is gorgeous we love and appreciate all curves! "

Thank you - what do you recommend I state?

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By *eachesAndCream99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4


"I think I would fit the same catagory. I've been up and down with my weight over the year, been a lovely slim 10-12 and bbw 18-20. Now I am middle not toned size 14 with mum tum and all the trimmings. Know how you feel op.

No idea what I am anymore! "

You have nothing to worry about Lou, you look fantastic

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Maybe we need a mum-bod category, same way as dad bod? Sort of average sizes (not plus size) but with some extra curves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are people’s opinions on what constitutes a BBW? The reason I ask, is that I am not toned or sleek like some stunningly beautiful women on here, I am a size 14ish and have some curves, lumps and bumps. However, I am not as beautifully curvaceous as others also. Therefore, I feel that I may have fallen into the ‘forgotten category’ and I’d just like to know what to annotate on our profile. This post isn’t looking for haters or body shamers but asking what people’s opinions are. x "

Honey you are not lumpy or bumpy you are stunning and dont let anyone tell you otherwise. I was a size 22 now 16 people can call me what they like curvy bbw whatever no matter your body shape you are all beautiful women

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By *SD 2000Couple
over a year ago

andover

I am a squishy size 22 lots of curves and flesh to hold on to!

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By *eachesAndCream99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4


"Maybe we need a mum-bod category, same way as dad bod? Sort of average sizes (not plus size) but with some extra curves? "

Sounds good but so far, I’m quite liking the ‘fabulous’ label...

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By *eachesAndCream99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4


"What are people’s opinions on what constitutes a BBW? The reason I ask, is that I am not toned or sleek like some stunningly beautiful women on here, I am a size 14ish and have some curves, lumps and bumps. However, I am not as beautifully curvaceous as others also. Therefore, I feel that I may have fallen into the ‘forgotten category’ and I’d just like to know what to annotate on our profile. This post isn’t looking for haters or body shamers but asking what people’s opinions are. x

Honey you are not lumpy or bumpy you are stunning and dont let anyone tell you otherwise. I was a size 22 now 16 people can call me what they like curvy bbw whatever no matter your body shape you are all beautiful women "

Thanks Becks, ditto

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By *eachesAndCream99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4


"I am a squishy size 22 lots of curves and flesh to hold on to! "

What do you refer to yourself as?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I have slim bits and fat bits. I went for ‘Ample’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size 18 upwards are considered as bbw and they are overall large in body size and not fat or obese but curvy .

Size 14 is just curvy and you have an amazing body .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are people’s opinions on what constitutes a BBW? The reason I ask, is that I am not toned or sleek like some stunningly beautiful women on here, I am a size 14ish and have some curves, lumps and bumps. However, I am not as beautifully curvaceous as others also. Therefore, I feel that I may have fallen into the ‘forgotten category’ and I’d just like to know what to annotate on our profile. This post isn’t looking for haters or body shamers but asking what people’s opinions are. x "

We all have hang ups about our bodies. Wishing we had slimmer this or better that.

We are all different in every way.

You do learn to love what you have as you get older.

We always see different to what other people see.

Focus on your good points and embrace your body.

Just reading your thread you seem like a beautiful lady inside and out..

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"What are people’s opinions on what constitutes a BBW? The reason I ask, is that I am not toned or sleek like some stunningly beautiful women on here, I am a size 14ish and have some curves, lumps and bumps. However, I am not as beautifully curvaceous as others also. Therefore, I feel that I may have fallen into the ‘forgotten category’ and I’d just like to know what to annotate on our profile. This post isn’t looking for haters or body shamers but asking what people’s opinions are. x "

I am size 8/10 and have a few lumps and bumps like everyone else. Nobody is perfect so just be happy with who you are and what you have.

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