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By *xXAnon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Feel like a lot of people are put off by age saying we are too young and for older people they think of there children but shouldn't it work both ways thought we would get more attention on here it's not like we are underage x

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By *andering mindsCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

It’s a swingers site no matter your age , we have had a party with couples and a few were 23-25 my kids are older than that , don’t see what people’s problems are it’s fun to be had , don’t get disheartened guys you will soon fall in your feet x J & S x

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By *himp_KittenCouple
over a year ago

Preston

It's not your age for us, it's the fact we would question if you're real or not. And this certainly isn't meant to offend but hopefully offer you advice on how others may also view your profile.

You are a new couple, however you have been on over a year, have no verification's from meetings and you ask for pictures and contact via kik..

A lot of single men setup couples profiles, get photo verified and do similar via kik asking for photo's etc.

Consider going to a social and getting some verification's, some web cam verification's etc.

And don't sweat it, you appear to be a good looking couple who will be on plenty of hotlists xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're pretty close to help with that veri if you need it guys. If you're ever in York drop us a msg... Both of us love younger playmates

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By *xXAnon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

When you put it like that I can see where you are coming from we did stuff with other people on holiday in a club just out of curiosity and a couple told us about the website but warned us it's not the same back home but haven't had any luck over here we did try Pandora's but didn't find what we was looking for some real good advise it's a shame we can't do any meets at the moment thanks for your help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

better to be 2 young than 2 old

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By *xXAnon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"We're pretty close to help with that veri if you need it guys. If you're ever in York drop us a msg... Both of us love younger playmates "

We do like having a nice day out in york if we ever come through again we could always have a drink thankyou x

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"When you put it like that I can see where you are coming from we did stuff with other people on holiday in a club just out of curiosity and a couple told us about the website but warned us it's not the same back home but haven't had any luck over here we did try Pandora's but didn't find what we was looking for some real good advise it's a shame we can't do any meets at the moment thanks for your help x"
Just a tip, you could have got Pandoras to verify you. Our very first veri was from a club. Someone with a club veri will get much more success on here.

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

What they all said.

Wouldn’t be to young for us. It’s the lack of verifications that would make us question if you were truly a couple. We us kik so that wouldn’t put us off.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We had a 26 year old join us once in the dungeon at a Leeds club.

Think in the moment there is just one focus, it’s not usually cognitive barriers.

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By *xXAnon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'll take that in mind when we next visit we will probably go local we had a member card for Pandora's but want to give quest a try heard good things x

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

On here, your age will be a barrier for many.

Once clubs are able to open again, try that again. If you are friendly, mature and don't get d*unk, your age will be much less of an issue.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I'll take that in mind when we next visit we will probably go local we had a member card for Pandora's but want to give quest a try heard good things x"

I would avoid a night that allows single guys if you go to Quest. Hubby and I have been to almost 30 clubs, Quest has the most disrespectful single guys of anywhere. Wouldn't want you to be put off before you have really started.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I'll take that in mind when we next visit we will probably go local we had a member card for Pandora's but want to give quest a try heard good things x"

If this is a response to us, it was at Pandora’s.

We dismissed Quest after a wrong time and place visit, lots of our regular friends love it and I trust them over a bad visit.

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I'll take that in mind when we next visit we will probably go local we had a member card for Pandora's but want to give quest a try heard good things x"

We've been to both Pandoras and Quest - he liked Quest the best, I liked Pandoras! Maybe we'll see you there in the future...

Everyone is different, age is just a number... What I might like on paper might not be what I suddenly have a hankering for at a club when I'm in the mood! Hope you find what you're looking for

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

You would definitely not put us off if we were ever lucky enough to catch your eye. Lol.

There are good people here and you will get there eventually. Yes the lack of verification is an issue for some but sometimes you just have to take the gamble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel like a lot of people are put off by age saying we are too young and for older people they think of there children but shouldn't it work both ways thought we would get more attention on here it's not like we are underage x "

You both look great

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By *cottishsparkMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Feel like a lot of people are put off by age saying we are too young and for older people they think of there children but shouldn't it work both ways thought we would get more attention on here it's not like we are underage x "

Personally don’t know why anyone would pass up a couple like you guys honestly both are perfect x

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Better to be too young than too old - you've still got time, but we're already out of your age range (& lots of others)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean ‘you think it would work both ways’ ?

And why did you think you’d get more attention? There’s plenty of 20something year olds on fab. I’m one of them, my husband is one of them!

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By *xXAnon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'll take that in mind when we next visit we will probably go local we had a member card for Pandora's but want to give quest a try heard good things x

I would avoid a night that allows single guys if you go to Quest. Hubby and I have been to almost 30 clubs, Quest has the most disrespectful single guys of anywhere. Wouldn't want you to be put off before you have really started. "
we'll take that in mind when trying it I think they do couple nights there so hopefully not get anyone disrespectful I can imagine them being pushy with stuff x

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By *xXAnon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"What do you mean ‘you think it would work both ways’ ?

And why did you think you’d get more attention? There’s plenty of 20something year olds on fab. I’m one of them, my husband is one of them!"
didn't mean it in a rude way just some people say they can't do younger people because they have children that age but it would be same kind of thing if we said we don't want to talk to anyone who's the same age of our parents and it's just what we got told by a couple on holiday they said we should get a lot of attention because it's more rare to have younger people who choose to do it not trying to sound big headed or anything sorry if it seemed that way to anyone just looking for advise and want to say thanks to all the responses you've all been very helpful really changed our view on things x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What do you mean ‘you think it would work both ways’ ?

And why did you think you’d get more attention? There’s plenty of 20something year olds on fab. I’m one of them, my husband is one of them! didn't mean it in a rude way just some people say they can't do younger people because they have children that age but it would be same kind of thing if we said we don't want to talk to anyone who's the same age of our parents and it's just what we got told by a couple on holiday they said we should get a lot of attention because it's more rare to have younger people who choose to do it not trying to sound big headed or anything sorry if it seemed that way to anyone just looking for advise and want to say thanks to all the responses you've all been very helpful really changed our view on things x"

But your upper age limit is 50. That means you don't want to meet people of our age. It does work both ways. You have your preference we have ours. It's how things work

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By *xXAnon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Only reason why we limited it to 50 is because we was getting the wrong attention at first by older single men we wouldn't mind talking and stuff with older people had a lot of older couples help with guidance in this scene and it's being very helpful a lot easier and less intimidating to talk to at clubs as well I think we need to sit down and change a few things on our profile seem to come across the wrong way to people on here x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Only reason why we limited it to 50 is because we was getting the wrong attention at first by older single men we wouldn't mind talking and stuff with older people had a lot of older couples help with guidance in this scene and it's being very helpful a lot easier and less intimidating to talk to at clubs as well I think we need to sit down and change a few things on our profile seem to come across the wrong way to people on here x"

Well I think your original post gave a different impression than you meant it to. Your replies since have shown that you're mature in your outlook which will go in your favour.

The fact of the matter is that it's not easy for anyone at the moment but very young people will be treated with a bit more caution for various reasons.

You've got a good attitude, you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel like a lot of people are put off by age saying we are too young and for older people they think of there children but shouldn't it work both ways thought we would get more attention on here it's not like we are underage x "

Ah I know this feeling all too well x

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

It's all about preferences. Some people prefer younger, some prefer older and some will take whatever they can get! I prefer men in their 50s and thankfully find plenty who prefer younger partners.

Clubs are very good places to network and socialise with people

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