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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was shaking like a shitting dog before hand but once we met I was relaxed straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah .... it’s like venturing into the unknown

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Never nervous! Excited love them first meets! My eldest daughter says when I tell her I have a new coffee meet will this one turn into a second meet calls me a serial first dater lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was shaking like a shitting dog before hand but once we met I was relaxed straight away "

That'w what we're hoping for as well haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hell yeah .... it’s like venturing into the unknown "

It is isn't it! But nothing ventured, nothing gained haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never nervous! Excited love them first meets! My eldest daughter says when I tell her I have a new coffee meet will this one turn into a second meet calls me a serial first dater lol x"

What's your secret! haha I guess since its just coffee and no ones getting down, there's less pressure?

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

southside

I always have a nervous/excited feeling...tbh it's that exact thrill that gets me hooked every time....love the first meet scenarios!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always have a nervous/excited feeling...tbh it's that exact thrill that gets me hooked every time....love the first meet scenarios!"

Hopefully it's the same for us - think it's just cause it's our first haha

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Never nervous! Excited love them first meets! My eldest daughter says when I tell her I have a new coffee meet will this one turn into a second meet calls me a serial first dater lol x

What's your secret! haha I guess since its just coffee and no ones getting down, there's less pressure? "

Yes allways have a social first meet just find it exciting sitting there talking intimate things and everything else besides they often go on to actual sexy time meets a few times how ever long it may last ! But I am a people person will chat with people anywhere lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never nervous! Excited love them first meets! My eldest daughter says when I tell her I have a new coffee meet will this one turn into a second meet calls me a serial first dater lol x

What's your secret! haha I guess since its just coffee and no ones getting down, there's less pressure?

Yes allways have a social first meet just find it exciting sitting there talking intimate things and everything else besides they often go on to actual sexy time meets a few times how ever long it may last ! But I am a people person will chat with people anywhere lol x"

Well that helps hopefully we haven't lost our social skills in lockdown haha!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Never nervous! Excited love them first meets! My eldest daughter says when I tell her I have a new coffee meet will this one turn into a second meet calls me a serial first dater lol x

What's your secret! haha I guess since its just coffee and no ones getting down, there's less pressure?

Yes allways have a social first meet just find it exciting sitting there talking intimate things and everything else besides they often go on to actual sexy time meets a few times how ever long it may last ! But I am a people person will chat with people anywhere lol x

Well that helps hopefully we haven't lost our social skills in lockdown haha! "

U b fine have fun enjoy the moment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always get nervous meeting new people, whether social or for more

just try and not let the nerves take over and stop me enjoying the meet

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By *aulp4alsMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Exactly this as that is part of the thrill of swinging

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

I was so nervous about meeting I put them off for ages in case I was a let down. When I finally agreed to one,when she turned up I wasn’t nervous one bit and was left quite a positive veri.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never nervous! Excited love them first meets! My eldest daughter says when I tell her I have a new coffee meet will this one turn into a second meet calls me a serial first dater lol x

What's your secret! haha I guess since its just coffee and no ones getting down, there's less pressure?

Yes allways have a social first meet just find it exciting sitting there talking intimate things and everything else besides they often go on to actual sexy time meets a few times how ever long it may last ! But I am a people person will chat with people anywhere lol x

Well that helps hopefully we haven't lost our social skills in lockdown haha!

U b fine have fun enjoy the moment x"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"always get nervous meeting new people, whether social or for more

just try and not let the nerves take over and stop me enjoying the meet"

Gonna have to try some deep breathing techniques haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Exactly this as that is part of the thrill of swinging "

It's put a smile on both our faces tbh haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was so nervous about meeting I put them off for ages in case I was a let down. When I finally agreed to one,when she turned up I wasn’t nervous one bit and was left quite a positive veri."

That's a massive fear of ours as well - not being good enough sort of thing but we will just be ourselves and hope for the best

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I was so nervous about meeting I put them off for ages in case I was a let down. When I finally agreed to one,when she turned up I wasn’t nervous one bit and was left quite a positive veri.

That's a massive fear of ours as well - not being good enough sort of thing but we will just be ourselves and hope for the best "

Looking at your pics I'm sure u will b loved ! X

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"I was so nervous about meeting I put them off for ages in case I was a let down. When I finally agreed to one,when she turned up I wasn’t nervous one bit and was left quite a positive veri.

That's a massive fear of ours as well - not being good enough sort of thing but we will just be ourselves and hope for the best "

Just looked at your pics and visually you both have nothing to worry about. Totally get the nerves and doubts tho. Just find someone you really click with,who understands the nerves you have,and you feel relaxed with.hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be more nervous getting covid then the meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was so nervous about meeting I put them off for ages in case I was a let down. When I finally agreed to one,when she turned up I wasn’t nervous one bit and was left quite a positive veri.

That's a massive fear of ours as well - not being good enough sort of thing but we will just be ourselves and hope for the best

Just looked at your pics and visually you both have nothing to worry about. Totally get the nerves and doubts tho. Just find someone you really click with,who understands the nerves you have,and you feel relaxed with.hope that helps "

Thank you and it has ! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was so nervous about meeting I put them off for ages in case I was a let down. When I finally agreed to one,when she turned up I wasn’t nervous one bit and was left quite a positive veri.

That's a massive fear of ours as well - not being good enough sort of thing but we will just be ourselves and hope for the best

Looking at your pics I'm sure u will b loved ! X"

Aww thank you and looking at yours we can see why you wouldn’t be nervous x

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"I was so nervous about meeting I put them off for ages in case I was a let down. When I finally agreed to one,when she turned up I wasn’t nervous one bit and was left quite a positive veri.

That's a massive fear of ours as well - not being good enough sort of thing but we will just be ourselves and hope for the best

Just looked at your pics and visually you both have nothing to worry about. Totally get the nerves and doubts tho. Just find someone you really click with,who understands the nerves you have,and you feel relaxed with.hope that helps

Thank you and it has ! X"

Chat to fellow couples see how they dealt with it too. Some lovely couples on here who post great advice

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I was so nervous about meeting I put them off for ages in case I was a let down. When I finally agreed to one,when she turned up I wasn’t nervous one bit and was left quite a positive veri.

That's a massive fear of ours as well - not being good enough sort of thing but we will just be ourselves and hope for the best

Looking at your pics I'm sure u will b loved ! X

Aww thank you and looking at yours we can see why you wouldn’t be nervous x"

Aww ty x

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

Love that feeling of nervous excitement!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my first meet recently, I was more nervous walking into their hotel, just incase reception stopped me, than I was for the actual meet.

Walked into the room and the couple were both naked.

So I took my kit off and it was all fun from there!

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

When I was part of a couple, my ex was nervous every time until the action started and then she was fine. I was ok, probably easier as a couple.

My first meet on my own I was far more nervous

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