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who thinks its still to soon

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By *londie and him 1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

north west

To meet and how long do we wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To meet and how long do we wait"
social distancing is still in place so yes too soon

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's too soon.

Until social distancing ends.

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By *londie and him 1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

north west

agreed

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Good question to which nobody will know the answer. Nothing can get planned but we are all becoming restless.x

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By *londie and him 1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

north west

indeed very restless

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Could be a year or two before social distancing is relaxed, no one knows.

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By *ustme1820Woman
over a year ago

Southcoast Gosport

I personally think it’s too soon. However, going by the local updates people are meeting and not just social distancing meets. I saw a picture that had been uploaded of a single males verifications which clearly showed he had met many for sex meets throughout. Said profile also stated it (Covid) was load of rubbish.

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By *londie and him 1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

north west

so selfish that.. we love the clubs but dont think we wll go again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think it’s too soon. However, going by the local updates people are meeting and not just social distancing meets. I saw a picture that had been uploaded of a single males verifications which clearly showed he had met many for sex meets throughout. Said profile also stated it (Covid) was load of rubbish. "
least thier updates help show who to block

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Best to stay safe but i am honestly finding it soul destroying with no light at the end of the tunnel.

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

I won't be meeting anytime soon but that could change if a vaccine or treatment becomes available

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By *londie and him 1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

north west

good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not in a rush at all .

Infact the social distancing tease is working for us two lol

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By *londie and him 1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

north west

at least we're still here to tell the tail

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I won't be meeting anytime soon but that could change if a vaccine or treatment becomes available "

But to vacinate everyone will take 5 years so i read.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"We are not in a rush at all .

Infact the social distancing tease is working for us two lol "

But you have each other. Alot of folk have nobody and that is why it is more difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are not in a rush at all .

Infact the social distancing tease is working for us two lol

But you have each other. Alot of folk have nobody and that is why it is more difficult."
too right ,im happy being single but god dam just sometimes wish i was part of a couple

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By *londie and him 1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

north west

lets hope its not that long

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By *londie and him 1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

north west

so true we should be grateful

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"We are not in a rush at all .

Infact the social distancing tease is working for us two lol

But you have each other. Alot of folk have nobody and that is why it is more difficult.too right ,im happy being single but god dam just sometimes wish i was part of a couple"

Me too. Damn, wish we had had more warning this would was going to happen cos i would have got myself a hubby lol.

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By *londie and him 1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

north west

lol you could be filing for divorce by now

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston


"I won't be meeting anytime soon but that could change if a vaccine or treatment becomes available

But to vacinate everyone will take 5 years so i read."

They could have a breakthrough tomorrow with an existing drug that happens to cure it. Nobody knows what is going to happen. It will eventually pass but until it does I will maintain social distance as best I can

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Despite our frustrations . It’s too soon blondie,, stay strong. Let other fools out there make the mistake .. if it all goes south again you can at least hold your head up and say ..it wasn’t me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can meet with one person within the rules, then go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go for a social right now but nothing more. However, if I got to know the person more and trusted that they weren't messing about, meeting loads of random people, not sticking to social distancing while out and about and just generally playing it fast and loose I wouldn't rule out a physical meet. We are allowed to extend our social bubble to one person anyway.

I don't think it's realistic to expect single people to forgo intimacy for much longer. However in no way do I condone meeting people on a whim without getting an idea of how they have been behaving during lockdown.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Lots of people are meeting already seen lots looking locally men women and couples officially on here it will be a while but like throughout the lockdown people are getting frustrated and bored

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By *yphodMan
over a year ago

London

We may have to approach this in the same way we approach STDs. Get tested regularly and get to know somebody first to see if they are trustworthy.

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By *londie and him 1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

north west

I think regular testing is a way forward for all of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The government will tell you it’s too soon, the general public’s activity tells you they aren’t entirely listening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very frustrating, but how can you know if you have the virus... I couldn't forgive myself if i made my friends /family ill because i had sex.... As much as i crave that human touch, I'll be waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not out the woods yet but each to their own life is risky like bareback sex

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

No

and

Possibly about a year or so?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Offered party invites (gangbangs), numerous meets a day, local hookups, a mmf threesome just. Pointless reporting, loads at it but we won't be taking part. Crazy in our book.

Oh! Yes! Too soon.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I think regular testing is a way forward for all of us"

I get tested weekly at work but still think it too risky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone has to do their own risk assessment

with the ads on here a lot of people think its fine to meet

i dont and dont intend to any time soon

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

They say this is the new normal and will continue for years ,so what do we do ,just use common sense i say

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

I’ve been lucky in some ways as had to work through it so haven’t been completely socially isolated as many have but I miss the social side of swinger and meeting and the clubs. Despite it driving me crazy I think it’s still to soon and not sensible to take the risk for yourself or others then again all the guideline s contridict and make no sense I don’t think anyone knows what’s best to do or what will happen so I guess it’s up to you to make your discision just consider not just your own needs when you make it x

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By *londie and him 1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

north west

very well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is too soon and still potentially unsafe...

However a quick glance at local updates and it's full of people arranging to meet..

For us no way...

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Way too soon ...

Are people that desperate for sex ..

Pubs are only allowed open because the economy can’t support them anymore..

If you can’t go without meeting people for sex you should seek medical advice..

#selfcontrol

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By *exyguy76Man
over a year ago

lancashire

I've noticed people meeting on there profiles. But keeping it hidden. Just says 1 meet or x meets x hrs ago.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

If meet-ups with a regular friend then I would, award there is a risk, but isn’t there a risk every time we go the the supermarket or work?

That’ll get me on the avoid list

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

To soon. Social distancing is still in place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you can meet with one person within the rules, then go for it. "

Exactly - I'm happy in my bubble.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Too soon, but bloody frustrating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One option is to travel abroad where the rules are less strict, or wait until the tests become more easily available. Maybe even have a green light feature on everyone's profile which indicates who is clear and when they were tested clear. That certainly would give people peace of mind.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If meet-ups with a regular friend then I would, award there is a risk, but isn’t there a risk every time we go the the supermarket or work?

That’ll get me on the avoid list "

Yeah. There's a risk every time you interact with anyone. Including low risk necessary trustworthy behaviour.

This idea that meeting people you trust is more responsible is nonsense. If you can bubble, fine, otherwise, not fine.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Many people on here ignoring social distancing rules. I've had more offers during this period than normal!

I have to be careful so I won't be meeting soon. Definitely not as cases are rising again.

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