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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

to meet men here?????

whats the ratio, maybe 1000 men to a woman lol

just too easy, dont really have to work hard for meets?

Anyone else agree?

I want to know your _iews

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

There have been times when I have struggled to sort something out but I know that it is easy for most women on here and its the cause of a lot of egotitis lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My other half says it's nice for women to be in control for once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i enjoy meeting ao i'll keep quiet to avoid annoying anyone and lessening my chances

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Youve got to be joking right?? Women might get far more messages from guys, but finding a suitable guy isnt easy i can tell you

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

dont think it is necessarily .. can be a right ordeal trying to find guys at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to meet men here?????

whats the ratio, maybe 1000 men to a woman lol

just too easy, dont really have to work hard for meets?

Anyone else agree?

I want to know your _iews "

It would be easy for women that have no preferences.... most of us are a right fussy bunch I'll tell you

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"to meet men here?????

whats the ratio, maybe 1000 men to a woman lol

just too easy, dont really have to work hard for meets?

Anyone else agree?

I want to know your _iews "

I agree that that are more men to ladies and couples.

Agree that it is easy to get meets for ladies and probably couples......

BUT it's not always easy finding the right ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to meet men here?????

whats the ratio, maybe 1000 men to a woman lol

just too easy, dont really have to work hard for meets?

Anyone else agree?

I want to know your _iews "

Bollocks!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Was too slow (not unusual for me...lol)

Others beat to me to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to meet men here?????

whats the ratio, maybe 1000 men to a woman lol

just too easy, dont really have to work hard for meets?

Anyone else agree?

I want to know your _iews

It would be easy for women that have no preferences.... most of us are a right fussy bunch I'll tell you "

but is that because you can afford to be ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to meet men here?????

whats the ratio, maybe 1000 men to a woman lol

just too easy, dont really have to work hard for meets?

Anyone else agree?

I want to know your _iews

It would be easy for women that have no preferences.... most of us are a right fussy bunch I'll tell you

but is that because you can afford to be ? "

Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wanted to be treated like a free prostitute it be easy to meet but as I actually want respect and be treated as a equal its not. Yes theres more to choose from for us but all that means is the ratio of twats who think I should shag who ever messages me is higher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id say its not easy for woman.

they have risks just like anyone else in meeting people as everyone is a stranger at first.

and if they are inviting someone round to there place then the risk is greater and they need to be sure about the person/s.

so dont think women have it easy.bombarded with mail,constantly uninvited whispers in chat and sometimes get nasty treatment.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Youve got to be joking right?? Women might get far more messages from guys, but finding a suitable guy isnt easy i can tell you"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youve got to be joking right?? Women might get far more messages from guys, but finding a suitable guy isnt easy i can tell you"

+1, I think it's equal to be honest. I find it very very hard to find partners that play the way I want. even down to not finding someone that kisses the way I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youve got to be joking right?? Women might get far more messages from guys, but finding a suitable guy isnt easy i can tell you"

agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to meet men here?????

whats the ratio, maybe 1000 men to a woman lol

just too easy, dont really have to work hard for meets?

Anyone else agree?

I want to know your _iews "

nope i disagree...i find it difficult finding genuine meets...but thats probably coz im fussy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youve got to be joking right?? Women might get far more messages from guys, but finding a suitable guy isnt easy i can tell you

+1 "
+2 atleast 8 out of 10 are just fantasists who claim to be "genuine" because they talk the talk but in reality have never had a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let the numbers fool you!

Just cos there's a 100 times more guys on here than ladies - doesn't mean that there's not 100 times more incompatible people!!

If the numbers were even - i'm pretty sure no-one would change their tastes, preferences or likes - and would still just meet those they want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to meet men here?????

whats the ratio, maybe 1000 men to a woman lol

just too easy, dont really have to work hard for meets?

Anyone else agree?

I want to know your _iews

nope i disagree...i find it difficult finding genuine meets...but thats probably coz im fussy lol "

nothing wrong with being fussy.your giving up a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youve got to be joking right?? Women might get far more messages from guys, but finding a suitable guy isnt easy i can tell you

+1 +2 atleast 8 out of 10 are just fantasists who claim to be "genuine" because they talk the talk but in reality have never had a meet! "

+ 3 Definately agree

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I do struggle on here as well, some guys just expect you to meet at the drop of a hat, but funnily enough, I need for there to be an attraction (bizarre I know!!) Then they have to meet my criteria (even more bizarre!!) Sometimes it's a hard life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do hope the OP is trying to be funny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youve got to be joking right?? Women might get far more messages from guys, but finding a suitable guy isnt easy i can tell you

+1, I think it's equal to be honest. I find it very very hard to find partners that play the way I want. even down to not finding someone that kisses the way I do. "

I'm now curious as to how you kiss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to meet men here?????

whats the ratio, maybe 1000 men to a woman lol

just too easy, dont really have to work hard for meets?

Anyone else agree?

I want to know your _iews

nope i disagree...i find it difficult finding genuine meets...but thats probably coz im fussy lol

nothing wrong with being fussy.your giving up a lot"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do struggle on here as well, some guys just expect you to meet at the drop of a hat, but funnily enough, I need for there to be an attraction (bizarre I know!!) Then they have to meet my criteria (even more bizarre!!) Sometimes it's a hard life "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do struggle on here as well, some guys just expect you to meet at the drop of a hat, but funnily enough, I need for there to be an attraction (bizarre I know!!) Then they have to meet my criteria (even more bizarre!!) Sometimes it's a hard life "

Plus I guess living the right side of the border helps!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to meet men here?????

whats the ratio, maybe 1000 men to a woman lol

just too easy, dont really have to work hard for meets?

Anyone else agree?

I want to know your _iews "

Well my _iew is a mathematical one, all you have to do from a man's point of _iew is to make yourself stand out from the other 999 and it's even Stevens. It's not rocket science pal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why dont you try having a female profile for a few weeks and you will see that yes, the quantity of opportunity is large however, this is not matched by the quality sadly....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I do struggle on here as well, some guys just expect you to meet at the drop of a hat, but funnily enough, I need for there to be an attraction (bizarre I know!!) Then they have to meet my criteria (even more bizarre!!) Sometimes it's a hard life

Plus I guess living the right side of the border helps!! "

That does help lol though plenty down south I would be interested in.....lifes a bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also check your filters, I've found that I get far more success now that I've stopped filtering out the ones without a pulse. It does help to get in quick with these types though as they tend to let their hygiene standards slip after a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you find it hard to get a suitable man, why dont you hunt for them yourselves?

Its 2012 afterall so dont expect a suitable guy to roll up, this isn't Sex & The City.

I have messaged 4 women on here, 3 responded but they say they already have a Fbuddy...why dont you say you're not looking then?

Ive posted more on the forums than I've messaged and I dont think that'll change, not many float my boat on here and even if they did I realise my message gets blocked out by loads of idiotic spammers.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it is easier but carries different challenges

like being hotlisted and the second you log on, the messages start with 'hi babe, you up for fun' and don't stop...

altho, some get carried away with the attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youve got to be joking right?? Women might get far more messages from guys, but finding a suitable guy isnt easy i can tell you

+1, I think it's equal to be honest. I find it very very hard to find partners that play the way I want. even down to not finding someone that kisses the way I do.

I'm now curious as to how you kiss?"

Not like most of the people I meet!! I like french kissing. And slowly, sensuously. I swear, most people kiss really badly, or, I am just very odd.

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

You are kidding right?

Just more numpties to choose from. And a good percentage of those have no intention of meeting.

I've had a single profile for several months now and have my eye on 3 guys who have said they'd like to meet. One is always busy, one i've yet to firm anything up with (soon hopefully) and the other has met several times and will again.

3 guys, from maybe 300-500 messages (in 3-4 months)

Maybe i'm too picky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if a woman wants to know more about you she will message you or fab one of your pics.

recently a lady fab'd a pic of mine and after we chatted,met.

so just relax and dont go mental if things arent moving as fast as youd like them to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not find it easy being single and female on here, as it takes a lot of time, patience and effort to trawl through tones of mud in order to find a gem that is worthy for me!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"You say you find it hard to get a suitable man, why dont you hunt for them yourselves?

"

Some of us do...

Still doesnt mean we will be what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to meet men here?????

whats the ratio, maybe 1000 men to a woman lol

just too easy, dont really have to work hard for meets?

Anyone else agree?

I want to know your _iews "

Iagree with your ratio but its still diff for women to get meets....remember 990 off those 1000 men are timerwasters and wannabees xxx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"You say you find it hard to get a suitable man, why dont you hunt for them yourselves?

Its 2012 afterall so dont expect a suitable guy to roll up, this isn't Sex & The City.

"

That's exactly what we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do not find it easy being single and female on here, as it takes a lot of time, patience and effort to trawl through tones of mud in order to find a gem that is worthy for me!

"

Oh so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Not like most of the people I meet!! I like french kissing. And slowly, sensuously. I swear, most people kiss really badly, or, I am just very odd."

awww, Ive been told I am a random kisser but I am only going with how my tongue feels on her mouth and how her tongue itneracts with mine.

I like playing with a tongue and sometimes I ask to suck it. They give a expression but they soon give in and enjoy it.

Odd kissers are the best. They tend to not lick your face....urgh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my girlfriend have this profile and we also have single profiles. I will be sat there when she looks at her profiles and can see she has loads of messages.

When she opens them up quite a lot of them are pointless messages asking if she fancies a shag.

She will also have messages from single blokes who are hours from us asking for a meet. When women get messages they have to sort through them and it can be very time consuming.

So yes women do get loads of messages but getting a message from the right person is very few and far between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don't have it easier than men, they face different problems, that's all.

Like having to trawl through up to a thousand messages every sodding day, who the hell has time for that? Whereas a dozen or so I find just right.

Plus its lots more sorting the wheat from the chaff, too. I get plenty of sex from this site, with less time consuming reading and deleting of shite, which for a woman is unavoidable.

Its easier for women to get sex than men, but sex of good quality? I doubt it. In the same way a bloke can get a relationship at the drop of a hat (though no guarantee of quality), whereas women have to really stand out and fight for one, especially ones with quality as less men are looking for that. Swings and roundabouts really.

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By *coobysMan
over a year ago

north west lancs

Timewasters seem to play a big part in making selection difficult i guess. I for one wish all timewasters would disappear from the site, the aim on here is to enjoy swinging in a nice relaxed manner, timewasting infuriates everyone. As for the men total respect needs to be shown to the lovely ladies on here, they are not just there for a quick shag and to pleasure us, i prefer to meet have a meal or a drink make an evening of it and build up to fun as long as the woman is comfortable to do so..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to meet men here?????

whats the ratio, maybe 1000 men to a woman lol

just too easy, dont really have to work hard for meets?

Anyone else agree?

I want to know your _iews "

i dont put any effort into finding people to meet, i just go thro the mail i get from guys who have contacted me, if i have no interest i go to the next message, if i get a message that interests me i will reply and if we chat and get along meet

Its great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I have not been actively looking to meet for a while.

Perhaps I should make myself searchable again and have a bit of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youve got to be joking right?? Women might get far more messages from guys, but finding a suitable guy isnt easy i can tell you

+1, I think it's equal to be honest. I find it very very hard to find partners that play the way I want. even down to not finding someone that kisses the way I do.

I'm now curious as to how you kiss?

Not like most of the people I meet!! I like french kissing. And slowly, sensuously. I swear, most people kiss really badly, or, I am just very odd."

No you're not odd then, I thought maybe you had a forked tongue or something! I know what you mean though, nothing like a really passionate kiss to get the heat turned up. Perhaps we should just kiss each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Piffle!!

50% are dreamers

25% are not really available

15% only want to meet men

8% are shy

2% is what we're left to fight over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Piffle!!

50% are dreamers

25% are not really available

15% only want to meet men

8% are shy

2% is what we're left to fight over

"

lol v true....and all the rest give the few good ones a bad name xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the same way a bloke can get a relationship at the drop of a hat (though no guarantee of quality), whereas women have to really stand out and fight for one, especially ones with quality as less men are looking for that. Swings and roundabouts really."

You know I thought this was a bit silly but then I think about my own needs/wants in a relationship and the women I have met at university dont fit the criteria except for a small number.

Good for sex but a relationship, not really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Piffle!!

50% are dreamers

25% are not really available

15% only want to meet men

8% are shy

2% is what we're left to fight over

lol v true....and all the rest give the few good ones a bad name xxx"

I don't believe this at all (the bad name bit that is)

Next to a drooling fuckwit with his hand jammed in his undercrackers muttering, "Want fuck. Want fucky woman!", I look like Brad Pitt, riding into a burning hospital on a white steed with the purpose of rescuing a creche full of babies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men only want to meet on certain days in the daytime.

And its not so easy to get 2 or more to cum at same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they have it way easier than guys onhere i imagine

this place aint the be all n end all though isit

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

Ahem! Too easy for women??

Would you prefer it were more difficult and that the minority that we are meet even less men?

Up to you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youve got to be joking right?? Women might get far more messages from guys, but finding a suitable guy isnt easy i can tell you

+1, I think it's equal to be honest. I find it very very hard to find partners that play the way I want. even down to not finding someone that kisses the way I do.

I'm now curious as to how you kiss?

Not like most of the people I meet!! I like french kissing. And slowly, sensuously. I swear, most people kiss really badly, or, I am just very odd.

No you're not odd then, I thought maybe you had a forked tongue or something! I know what you mean though, nothing like a really passionate kiss to get the heat turned up. Perhaps we should just kiss each other "

get your butt over here then!!

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By *its The Spot AlotMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Me and my girlfriend have this profile and we also have single profiles. I will be sat there when she looks at her profiles and can see she has loads of messages.

When she opens them up quite a lot of them are pointless messages asking if she fancies a shag.

She will also have messages from single blokes who are hours from us asking for a meet. When women get messages they have to sort through them and it can be very time consuming.

So yes women do get loads of messages but getting a message from the right person is very few and far between"

I totally agree !!

My partner is the same its a strange situation she gets the quantity I get very few but its me who chooses who to message so im more likely ratio wise to find a good one.

I spose it evens out ish but it would be nice to just get more interest

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham


"

I don't believe this at all (the bad name bit that is)

Next to a drooling fuckwit with his hand jammed in his undercrackers muttering, "Want fuck. Want fucky woman!", I look like Brad Pitt, riding into a burning hospital on a white steed with the purpose of rescuing a creche full of babies."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is how I see it.

Men have it easier on here... they voluntarily look at profiles... they WANT to find a woman/couple/tv/fella... they then send 'messages of interest' to profiles that interest them (happy days!).

Women/couples get pissed off with being sent 'messages of interest' (hundreds of the buggers) and being FORCED to read blooming hundreds of profiles. (most of them are uninteresting).

****this post was typed with a firm tongue embedded in cheek (mouth cheek btw)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am picky so its never easy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Timewasters seem to play a big part in making selection difficult i guess. I for one wish all timewasters would disappear from the site, the aim on here is to enjoy swinging in a nice relaxed manner, timewasting infuriates everyone. As for the men total respect needs to be shown to the lovely ladies on here, they are not just there for a quick shag and to pleasure us, i prefer to meet have a meal or a drink make an evening of it and build up to fun as long as the woman is comfortable to do so.."

Crawler lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Timewasters seem to play a big part in making selection difficult i guess. I for one wish all timewasters would disappear from the site, the aim on here is to enjoy swinging in a nice relaxed manner, timewasting infuriates everyone. As for the men total respect needs to be shown to the lovely ladies on here, they are not just there for a quick shag and to pleasure us, i prefer to meet have a meal or a drink make an evening of it and build up to fun as long as the woman is comfortable to do so..

Crawler lol"

Meanie! (I thought that too! Can't blame him for trying!)

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By *icesweetgirlWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I have never had a problem meeting men on here. I never have to look they come to me. Maybe I don't have high expectations lol. I'm only here for the sex not a relationship. I also don't expect them to do everything I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that easy for girls who wanta only meet girls! Xx

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By *he one you wantMan
over a year ago

kidsgrove

My wife thought she had met a great guy, so he came round our house, I made myself scarce, she told him to leave after 15 minutes.... He wanted her to divorce me move in with him and he would bring up my 3 kids and not let me have access.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife thought she had met a great guy, so he came round our house, I made myself scarce, she told him to leave after 15 minutes.... He wanted her to divorce me move in with him and he would bring up my 3 kids and not let me have access........."
ooo i am glad your wife told you all about it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do struggle on here as well, some guys just expect you to meet at the drop of a hat, but funnily enough, I need for there to be an attraction (bizarre I know!!) Then they have to meet my criteria (even more bizarre!!) Sometimes it's a hard life "

And i can say , judged by you profile, you do have criteria....

Still it is easy for women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife thought she had met a great guy, so he came round our house, I made myself scarce, she told him to leave after 15 minutes.... He wanted her to divorce me move in with him and he would bring up my 3 kids and not let me have access........."

That was an offer you were not supposed to refuse hahahahahahahahaha

damnnnnn...have you kicked his arse???

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

As a woman its true that the amount of offers will outweight those that the guys get purely because of the imbalance of male to female users

In my experience thats no indicator that to actually meet up is going to be any easier though

It can be just as much of a pain in the arse as the men say it is

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I do struggle on here as well, some guys just expect you to meet at the drop of a hat, but funnily enough, I need for there to be an attraction (bizarre I know!!) Then they have to meet my criteria (even more bizarre!!) Sometimes it's a hard life

And i can say , judged by you profile, you do have criteria....

Still it is easy for women

"

There's nothing wrong with my criteria, they are called preferences

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

.

As the saying goes

You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do struggle on here as well, some guys just expect you to meet at the drop of a hat, but funnily enough, I need for there to be an attraction (bizarre I know!!) Then they have to meet my criteria (even more bizarre!!) Sometimes it's a hard life

And i can say , judged by you profile, you do have criteria....

Still it is easy for women

There's nothing wrong with my criteria, they are called preferences "

And you defo right there.

I just find one new preference for myself right now: Only looking for a petite lady with a long profile....

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By *ove2-shareCouple
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

1000 to 1 LMFAO,

sure the ratio is definately in womens favour,Women rule the swinging role no complaints there but im sure you must have said that stat tongue in cheek,i suppose the reality of this site is that its a paralel to the real world, on the whole men pursue women more than the other way around, inevitably that means that its easier for women to get approached ergo to get/chose what they want hence there are more men out there looking simple really, not that its all that simple, some men have the charisma/characteristics or other assets that set them apart, likewise some women are not succesful at attracting men,but like i say on the whole women rule

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield


"to meet men here?????

whats the ratio, maybe 1000 men to a woman lol

just too easy, dont really have to work hard for meets?

Anyone else agree?

I want to know your _iews

Bollocks!"

lolol

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By *ove2-shareCouple
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire


"My wife thought she had met a great guy, so he came round our house, I made myself scarce, she told him to leave after 15 minutes.... He wanted her to divorce me move in with him and he would bring up my 3 kids and not let me have access.........

That was an offer you were not supposed to refuse hahahahahahahahaha

damnnnnn...have you kicked his arse??? "

only word for that guy cookoo

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I do struggle on here as well, some guys just expect you to meet at the drop of a hat, but funnily enough, I need for there to be an attraction (bizarre I know!!) Then they have to meet my criteria (even more bizarre!!) Sometimes it's a hard life

And i can say , judged by you profile, you do have criteria....

Still it is easy for women

There's nothing wrong with my criteria, they are called preferences

And you defo right there.

I just find one new preference for myself right now: Only looking for a petite lady with a long profile.... "

Well sometimes you have to be clear on what you are looking for

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

As soon as you posted this you must have realised there would be a single female revolt disagree with you..of course its such a hard life being a single female in the swinging world,having the pick of whoever you want even if you do look like a moose..and there are a few out there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am loving this forum

We should renema it : Shortcut...someone very sexy and intelligent knows what i am talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1000 to 1 LMFAO,

sure the ratio is definately in womens favour,Women rule the swinging role no complaints there but im sure you must have said that stat tongue in cheek,i suppose the reality of this site is that its a paralel to the real world, on the whole men pursue women more than the other way around, inevitably that means that its easier for women to get approached ergo to get/chose what they want hence there are more men out there looking simple really, not that its all that simple, some men have the charisma/characteristics or other assets that set them apart, likewise some women are not succesful at attracting men,but like i say on the whole women rule "

Its more like an exaggeration of the real world tbh. Men actively pursue women with regards to sex, the numbers on here merely increase that stat around a hundredfold, so women on average have much more choice.

Women on average, though their methods are subtler, pursue men for relationships a hell of a lot more. This is why conversely its a doddle for a bloke to find a relationship compared to a woman of the same calibre. Relationship sites will no doubt exaggerate that too, meaning any bloke who joins will be hit with offers left right and centre whereas the women will struggle a lot more and have to really stand out to attract the men on there into any form of commitment.

Such is life and its not really tricky for either sex to succeed in either scenario, they just have to market themselves in the right manner...

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Mr Lick speaketh the truth.

I have spent all day here, minus the time I showered and nipped out for petrol for the car, to read the forums, catch up with the few men I've chosen to meet and who I am looking forward to meeting again, and arranging those meets. I've lost count of the messages I've had/replied/deleted/saved, as I delete one, three pop up in their place. I have only recently 'unhidden' my profile but I'm sorely tempted to hide again.

I have found out that the men I've met are every shape and size imaginable, but their personalities are very similar

You want me? Then fight for me.

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By *ove2-shareCouple
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire


"1000 to 1 LMFAO,

sure the ratio is definately in womens favour,Women rule the swinging role no complaints there but im sure you must have said that stat tongue in cheek,i suppose the reality of this site is that its a paralel to the real world, on the whole men pursue women more than the other way around, inevitably that means that its easier for women to get approached ergo to get/chose what they want hence there are more men out there looking simple really, not that its all that simple, some men have the charisma/characteristics or other assets that set them apart, likewise some women are not succesful at attracting men,but like i say on the whole women rule

Its more like an exaggeration of the real world tbh. Men actively pursue women with regards to sex, the numbers on here merely increase that stat around a hundredfold, so women on average have much more choice.

Women on average, though their methods are subtler, pursue men for relationships a hell of a lot more. This is why conversely its a doddle for a bloke to find a relationship compared to a woman of the same calibre. Relationship sites will no doubt exaggerate that too, meaning any bloke who joins will be hit with offers left right and centre whereas the women will struggle a lot more and have to really stand out to attract the men on there into any form of commitment.

Such is life and its not really tricky for either sex to succeed in either scenario, they just have to market themselves in the right manner...

"

a hundred fold ?????? naaah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Lick speaketh the truth.

I have spent all day here, minus the time I showered and nipped out for petrol for the car, to read the forums, catch up with the few men I've chosen to meet and who I am looking forward to meeting again, and arranging those meets. I've lost count of the messages I've had/replied/deleted/saved, as I delete one, three pop up in their place. I have only recently 'unhidden' my profile but I'm sorely tempted to hide again.

I have found out that the men I've met are every shape and size imaginable, but their personalities are very similar

You want me? Then fight for me. "

This site (and others like it) has put me off blokes for life!

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

It is easier for women to attract attention not just because of ratios but also because we men are more confident in meeting on a 1-2-1 basis. I enjoy playing with straight couples as much as I do with single females, and have noticed how much more relaxed women are when playing in the safe knowledge that a partner of fb is close by.

It must be hard deciding on who would be safe to meet just from a few lines on a profile.

Just my thoughts!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

The factors which sexually attract a man to a woman are more often than not quite different to what sexually attracts a woman to a man.

A lot of men have a fantasic ability (and I do genuinely mean this) to fuck just about anything and still have a great time because it's sex. It is way way way way WAY less common to find women with the same sexually liberated disposition.

So I don't buy this "us guys are outnumbered" bollox as a lot of guys would fuck 99 out of every 100 women on here... and probably take a blow job from the 100th one. So for these guys, they have way more options to choose from than I do..... and it's not fair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The factors which sexually attract a man to a woman are more often than not quite different to what sexually attracts a woman to a man.

A lot of men have a fantasic ability (and I do genuinely mean this) to fuck just about anything and still have a great time because it's sex. It is way way way way WAY less common to find women with the same sexually liberated disposition.

So I don't buy this "us guys are outnumbered" bollox as a lot of guys would fuck 99 out of every 100 women on here... and probably take a blow job from the 100th one. So for these guys, they have way more options to choose from than I do..... and it's not fair!"

Then it is a win win situation.

You said it all.

Bit even a blow job is hard for me to get here hahahaha

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"The factors which sexually attract a man to a woman are more often than not quite different to what sexually attracts a woman to a man.

A lot of men have a fantasic ability (and I do genuinely mean this) to fuck just about anything and still have a great time because it's sex. It is way way way way WAY less common to find women with the same sexually liberated disposition.

So I don't buy this "us guys are outnumbered" bollox as a lot of guys would fuck 99 out of every 100 women on here... and probably take a blow job from the 100th one. So for these guys, they have way more options to choose from than I do..... and it's not fair!"

Its not as uncommon as you think to find women that will fuck just about anything also..

Try going to a few gang bang clubs or clubs when singles are allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The factors which sexually attract a man to a woman are more often than not quite different to what sexually attracts a woman to a man.

A lot of men have a fantasic ability (and I do genuinely mean this) to fuck just about anything and still have a great time because it's sex. It is way way way way WAY less common to find women with the same sexually liberated disposition.

So I don't buy this "us guys are outnumbered" bollox as a lot of guys would fuck 99 out of every 100 women on here... and probably take a blow job from the 100th one. So for these guys, they have way more options to choose from than I do..... and it's not fair!"
your so so right in what you say xx good post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to meet men here?????

whats the ratio, maybe 1000 men to a woman lol

just too easy, dont really have to work hard for meets?

Anyone else agree?

I want to know your _iews "

well it depends how desperate the woman is, if she goes with anyone then yeah easy

if not then can be a bit of hard work finding what they want, sure more offers and easier with people coming to them but they also alot of shit and people who just contact everyone and never work out as what they say.

i bet the percentage of bad meets from a female side of things compared to a percentage of a guys bad meets is alot higher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youve got to be joking right?? Women might get far more messages from guys, but finding a suitable guy isnt easy i can tell you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given the contradictory nature of women, I bet they do struggle here, at times; just like single guys. Personally I find some of the agressive female profiles - a byproduct of females being overwelmed my males - off-putting - so there + and - for both sides. The key, I think however, is not to take this site, yourself, or anybody else in here, too seriously... Just try and have fun

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