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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have found we are more selective with age and wondered about others?

Have you set the bar higher or lower over the years ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

my bar has been high all my adult life. I do find that I am even less likely to suffer fools gladly though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been discerning in that department but experience has made me very selective. I know what traits I find sexy in a woman and if I don't sense them looks won't compensate if I'm not feelings the sex appeal.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Quite often.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We are fussy sods .....cant help it lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

What are these "standards"people love to virtual signal about?

I prefer tall, intelligent, alpha males who are sexually submissive. Doesn't mean I think my standards are higher to those with different preferences to mine.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"We have found we are more selective with age and wondered about others?

Have you set the bar higher or lower over the years ? "

When you say set the bar higher you are probably missing out on some people are way better than you think.

My age limits have gone up as I find a lady 40+ is way better than one at 20 in my mixed experience

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

I suspect this is a more nuanced conversation than it appears at first. Or it may not!

I read it as "there are specific things you look for in the person / people you meet with and nowadays you are more strict about making sure they are there". Not saying that it's necessarily about the "quality" or otherwise of the person.

In contract to an approach of "fuck it - a meet is a meet and I will take anything. As long as there's a pulse I'll 'ave it"

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Anyone who matches my preferences on my profile are perfect for me. Unfortunately very few that message me, read my profile.

I’m happy to wait for the perfect match, rather than just make do.

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Higher these days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple message me but their profile was clear they disliked fat folk.... they seemed to think I should be flattered that they would make an allowance for wee fat me

Now I totally agree that physical attraction is important and tastes can change but there is no need to be shallow

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley


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.... but there is no need to be shallow

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Not met many men then!

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Always have been selective but agree that we've probably grown to be even more so over the years.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Definitely getting more selective a d meeting fewer people as time passes. Although I'm much less interested in physical appearances these days. If experience had taught me anything it's that its the mental connection you make with your potential lover that dictates the quality of the meet..... If you share interests and passions, and really get inside each other's heads, then attraction goes through roof.

When you connect with someone on as many levels as possible the sexual intensity is amazing!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We’ve definitely got more selective. People we may have played with in a club 2 or 3 years ago, we wouldn’t now. There’s plenty on choice on Fab

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We're far too desperate to have standards!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I know what works for me and prefer to pursue that rather than waste time on the "maybes".

If that makes me selective so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have found we are more selective with age and wondered about others?

Have you set the bar higher or lower over the years ? "

I have found a preferential age group which I state on my bio but I keep my filters open to younger as sometimes a rare gem finds their way to me.

Her x

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By *r.HMan
over a year ago

A gentleman never tells

As I get older the bar rises with me

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've always been very selective and it has served me well.

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Very selective ,, not in a hurry to hump for Scotland anymore .

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Yes, we have a threshold, more type of person than looks tbh. Greatest body in the world and looks to match but if we ain't socially compatible it ain't gon a happen. Those pause moments with non repeaters can be excruciating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very picky. Even down to the username.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I don't have standards I just leave my self as an open door and just let the lady decide to walk through.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We don’t have ‘standards’ as such. We use the filters on Fab to guide us to people we generally find attractive - sometimes when we meet them we are attracted, sometimes not so much. Our main reason for going to Clubs is we have found that people tend to be a lot sexier than Profiles we find that humour, a sexy smile, a glint in an eye or just animal magnetism works better face to face. So longing for Club nights again

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Ahhh c’mon ..

Ladies and ladies in couples can be selective..

Most guys on here will seriously fuck anything..

They’re not offended to be turned down by a munter, they simply pester another one ..

Let’s not mistake this for everyday life ..

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