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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think ive worked it out at last

women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time

men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
over a year ago

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Regular = eating fruit, veg and Bran Flakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think ive worked it out at last

women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time

men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet

"

Yes that is often true. However I use Fab to find a guy for regular meets rather than swinging, as I do that rarely.

However if you read their profiles and messages it’s easy to out the ones that will say anything for a f**k and go or as a last resort - they often resort to begging when you say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time for me so much so that we have become a couple

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By *overWantedMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I am seeking just 1 lady or couple for meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think ive worked it out at last

women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time

men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet

Yes that is often true. However I use Fab to find a guy for regular meets rather than swinging, as I do that rarely.

However if you read their profiles and messages it’s easy to out the ones that will say anything for a f**k and go or as a last resort - they often resort to begging when you say no "

well having been on fab from the start and other sites before fab i can honestly say i know what to look out for (most of the time lol) and this is guys who have excellent veris and have been on the scene for years and think they know how to play you ....anyone can work out the ''hey fancy a fuck crowd '' lol i guess even being very picky can not guarantee anything..

and once i say no i block everytime without fail

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time for me so much so that we have become a couple "

thats fine when your looking for a single woman who wants that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Methinks that perhaps one is expecting exclusivity without having to deal with the risk of hurt feelings that go along with asking for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do u figure those ones out?

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"i think ive worked it out at last

women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time

men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet

"

I would prefer a regular lady

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

Pretty judgemental that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Methinks that perhaps one is expecting exclusivity without having to deal with the risk of hurt feelings that go along with asking for it."

im exclusive to no one and i dont want it either lol just what they say they are looking for at the begining nothing more nothing less nothing creeps me out more than exclusive deffo not for me and i would not meet a guy who wants that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty judgemental that."

Welcome to the forums love...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a lonley hearts site if u want exclusive try match or elitesingles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not a lonley hearts site if u want exclusive try match or elitesingles"

and thats aimed at who ??

lol im a married swinger the clus is in ''married'' and ''swinger'' who said anything about exclusive not me just talking about regular nothing else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

**clue lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Methinks that perhaps one is expecting exclusivity without having to deal with the risk of hurt feelings that go along with asking for it.

im exclusive to no one and i dont want it either lol just what they say they are looking for at the begining nothing more nothing less nothing creeps me out more than exclusive deffo not for me and i would not meet a guy who wants that"

If you say so, the OP does sound more than a little bit butthurt that the regular guy is meeting others. If thats not the case, well fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular - fries you should order at McD’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would disagree, like others have said it depends upon if exclusivity is wanted. The site is used for many different things, yes there are dishonest people using it too but that’s why It’s best to ask the question up front and make sure both want the same.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Is the problem that they don’t want to meet as often as you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to find a regular, maybe one day.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Methinks that perhaps one is expecting exclusivity without having to deal with the risk of hurt feelings that go along with asking for it.

im exclusive to no one and i dont want it either lol just what they say they are looking for at the begining nothing more nothing less nothing creeps me out more than exclusive deffo not for me and i would not meet a guy who wants that

If you say so, the OP does sound more than a little bit butthurt that the regular guy is meeting others. If thats not the case, well fair enough."

and yet again way of the mark ive no concern as to who meets who lol oh boy this is getting twisted at every level since when did the word regular mean exclusive or your mine and nobody else's ?? as said above im exclusive to no one and would never meet anyone who wants that ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is the problem that they don’t want to meet as often as you? "

that could be simply the case maybe over promising things in the first place ..i guess that can happen

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

The reason we've wanted regular play mates is so we can build a level of comfort to try more awkward/difficult things.

Things like DVP. It's something we really want to try but it requires a level of comfort and trust that's a lot higher than we get on a standard meet.

There's more things we want to try with women and couples to that would need a higher level of comfort.

There's also the added bonus everyone knows and it's that sex gets better the more you know someone.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Obviously meeting the wrong guys OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The reason we've wanted regular play mates is so we can build a level of comfort to try more awkward/difficult things.

Things like DVP. It's something we really want to try but it requires a level of comfort and trust that's a lot higher than we get on a standard meet.

There's more things we want to try with women and couples to that would need a higher level of comfort.

There's also the added bonus everyone knows and it's that sex gets better the more you know someone. "

snap ... this profile and my couples profile

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We would be happy to find regular meets. Get to know each other and what makes each other tick then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think ive worked it out at last

women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time

men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet

"

OMG.....apparently I'm a woman!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not aimed at anyone it's a general comment think your taking it as a personal insult it's not meant to be so my apologies if it came across that way x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Obviously meeting the wrong guys OP "

think you maybe right its about a couple of guys only im not moaning about all as ive had lots of fantastic meets over the years with hubs and on my own in fact these 2 are on another site more fetish minded the post was just a little grumble lol maybe had i had a slice of cake first id not of written it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think ive worked it out at last

women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time

men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet

"

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By *andering mindsCouple
over a year ago

anywhere


"The reason we've wanted regular play mates is so we can build a level of comfort to try more awkward/difficult things.

Things like DVP. It's something we really want to try but it requires a level of comfort and trust that's a lot higher than we get on a standard meet.

There's more things we want to try with women and couples to that would need a higher level of comfort.

There's also the added bonus everyone knows and it's that sex gets better the more you know someone. "

Totally agree with this,this sounds like us

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"i think ive worked it out at last

women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time

men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet

"

To add.. Regular=when he fancies sex, no friends, just benefits. This is why I'm no longer willing to do fwb.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

We had regular guy few years ago the sex got better and if I was not around they had sex with out me but it was not all about sex we go out meals pubs ect he pop round if we was having a bbq our friends none siwingers thought he was a guy I work with and he live on his own and I took him under my wing me and him wood go out have beers game pool was really good we wood love to fined some one like that again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think ive worked it out at last

women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time

men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet

To add.. Regular=when he fancies sex, no friends, just benefits. This is why I'm no longer willing to do fwb. "

yes i beginning to think the same

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

If I had the lucky regular would be lovely. To have a laugh with. to have a good decent conversation. to give cheeky reminders and good spooning sessions

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If I had the lucky regular would be lovely. To have a laugh with. to have a good decent conversation. to give cheeky reminders and good spooning sessions "

I make a great little spoon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We had regular guy few years ago the sex got better and if I was not around they had sex with out me but it was not all about sex we go out meals pubs ect he pop round if we was having a bbq our friends none siwingers thought he was a guy I work with and he live on his own and I took him under my wing me and him wood go out have beers game pool was really good we wood love to fined some one like that again "

that sounds so good for you but not for me it would be just sexual friendship ..with my job and family i would not be able to do the extras not that i want them anyway i dont do clingy/or to involved infact the more i answer these message the more im realizing that maybe its me and that regular actually does not suit me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A regular couple would be my ideal. I would leave fab if found, I wouldn't expect exclusivity from their side either, sort of a "slightly owned, by them" feel. J

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It's not a lonley hearts site if u want exclusive try match or elitesingles"

They are rubbish, I've met nicer people on here. Dating sites are more like hook up sites now.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"i think ive worked it out at last

women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time

men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet

To add.. Regular=when he fancies sex, no friends, just benefits. This is why I'm no longer willing to do fwb.

yes i beginning to think the same "

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Not all men like one offs just like not all women like regular.

I prefer regular as you connect better that way and things can improve with regular meets and yes that includes friendships as well as sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to find a regular women / couple to play with.

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

Id love to find a regular person, but most seem to want physical attraction, which doesnt work in my favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to find someone regular

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By *eacon12Man
over a year ago

stanstead

I'd love to find someone for regular meets

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I've had a few men who has been advertising all day long for a meet then when time is running out before wife gets home etc I get the message ,hey babe fancy a fuck ? Not on your fucking Nelly mate lol

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By *av-RickMan
over a year ago

Nearby

I've not met many couples over the years through various sites, but the majority have been more than the once, making everyone more relaxed.

Met one couple maybe 1 to 2 times a month at worst, for 3 years, definitely gets better as get to know the others likes and comfortable chatting whilst recharging!! Unfortunately commitments on both sides meant it became difficult to meet as often.

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By *eet The FlintstonesCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I have a full time regular and mmm the sex gets better and better. What with this virus going around, I think I'm a lucky girl, sex on a plate and I've got my bubble and I'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a regular fb not had one for a while.......

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"i think ive worked it out at last

women ...regular = regular meet for sexy fun that gets better every time

men ...regular = ive a backup meet now for when i cant find another meet

To add.. Regular=when he fancies sex, no friends, just benefits. This is why I'm no longer willing to do fwb. "

Agreed had 2 phone conversations yesterday from here when I ask what does fwb mean both really want just the benefits bit ! And I know this is swinging site basically but its same on pof hard to find what u exactly looking for x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"We had regular guy few years ago the sex got better and if I was not around they had sex with out me but it was not all about sex we go out meals pubs ect he pop round if we was having a bbq our friends none siwingers thought he was a guy I work with and he live on his own and I took him under my wing me and him wood go out have beers game pool was really good we wood love to fined some one like that again "

Sounds ideal x

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