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By *exford OP   Man
over a year ago

discombobulated land

Keep it civil and polite...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the amount of fakes, and people who dont turn up when they said they would, in our experiance men are worse for this, we organised a gb for Arri, invited 15 expecting 19 to show, all verified, all keen, lots of messeging both ways, how many showed? none

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By *r.HMan
over a year ago

A gentleman never tells


"the amount of fakes, and people who dont turn up when they said they would, in our experiance men are worse for this, we organised a gb for Arri, invited 15 expecting 19 to show, all verified, all keen, lots of messeging both ways, how many showed? none"

Honestly never understood why people are bang up for it (excuse the pun) but then never show? Always baffles me, call me old fashioned but if I agree to something or say I'll be somewhere then I'll do it or be there.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Fake people people that don't turn up or have you travel then not meet there are lots of great people on here it's just a few that spoil it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the amount of fakes, and people who dont turn up when they said they would, in our experiance men are worse for this, we organised a gb for Arri, invited 15 expecting 19 to show, all verified, all keen, lots of messeging both ways, how many showed? none"

That is indeed very bad!!!

I’d expect one or two drop outs but a total no show is just a wow factor!!!

T

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

Time wasters

Rude people(Not too many thankfully)

Apart from that,I quite like it

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

i cant believe people dont show up..i presume you checked they were verified? I may be old fashioned but if i say i will then i will. gentlemans word is his bond

Fabs is generally good. I think there software is very clunky and trying to search for folks can be tricky.. but i have tried other sites and they promise much but dont deliver..at least fabs delivers.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Fakes and fantasists

Really grind my gears

Oh and accounts that are the opposite to what I’m looking for but still message hoping for a sympathy shag

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Fab itself is fantastic, some of the people that use it display truly shocking behaviour however.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fakes

Pic collectors

People with Fab ego

Drama cpls

Profiles with loads of NOs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the amount of fakes, and people who dont turn up when they said they would, in our experiance men are worse for this, we organised a gb for Arri, invited 15 expecting 19 to show, all verified, all keen, lots of messeging both ways, how many showed? none"

I was told, always invite at least twice as many men than you want to attend, whatever the event... People not reading my profile but their first words are "love your profile" always want to reply but usually just delete unread

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Things like sucks like a dyson and you know who you are don’t mess him/her about but the one that really annoys me is when they have professional in their profile when in fact they probably on benefits but they think inserting the word professional makes them sound remotely interesting

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Geography

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people don’t read profiles

And the amount of fakes in here now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake profile.

People who are "just chatting/not meeting" under normal circumstances of course.

People with really old pictures.

"New here will fill in later"

Couples looking who are looking for a single ladies, just for the ladies to play.

People who won't meet married men, buf more then happy to meet married women.

My list is endless

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Women pretending to be swingers who post threads which are clearly research.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women pretending to be swingers who post threads which are clearly research. "

Hahah true

And some women argue about lots of things on forum other than swinging

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Mainly the layout and interface of the site it has not progressed with the internet come it's like 2020..

So much it could be more streamlined focused and user-friendly but I do understand it is not necessarily a money-making venture it's more service.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very interesting what people are complaining about.

Maybe fakes should be named so we can at least block them.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Women pretending to be swingers who post threads which are clearly research. "
Does this happen?

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Nothing

It's fun and serves the purpose I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single women profiles that mention they never meet without their partner.

Lazy profiles that have 18-99 age range but make it clear in the profile description there is an upper age limit.

Those that believe they are God’s gift to those they are seeking.

Fabs itself is great.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Very interesting what people are complaining about.

Maybe fakes should be named so we can at least block them. "

Or removed quicker..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake profiles and time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the assumptions made about profiles - not all tvs/sissies are the same and here for the same thing

the profiles that say they are seeking tvs but have them blocked

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Cock picks, it's the only thing we ask not to send, yet we get on avarage 5 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it civil and polite..."

Where do i start.

1: the number of fakes & men pretending to be women.

2: the stupidly high standards women on fab have for men.

3: the number of ignorant fuck wits that are on here.

Im saying no more or ill end up saying something that may get me banned lol

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By *cac9186Couple
over a year ago

london

Fake profile and timeswasters we hate that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing anymore

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By *yes146Man
over a year ago

London

Rude and mannerless people!!!!!

Be polite and Humble

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Keep it civil and polite...

Where do i start.

1: the number of fakes & men pretending to be women.

2: the stupidly high standards women on fab have for men.

3: the number of ignorant fuck wits that are on here.

Im saying no more or ill end up saying something that may get me banned lol"

You forgot to mention men who expect reply from messages and sex from every meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Things like sucks like a dyson and you know who you are don’t mess him/her about but the one that really annoys me is when they have professional in their profile when in fact they probably on benefits but they think inserting the word professional makes them sound remotely interesting "

Ohhh yess

The amount of time we heard can’t send a face picture cause there a professional so is half the site apparently ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people think they are better than others, feel it’s ok to pass judgement without getting to know some

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Mainly the layout and interface of the site it has not progressed with the internet come it's like 2020..

So much it could be more streamlined focused and user-friendly but I do understand it is not necessarily a money-making venture it's more service. "

Yes, always this. The issues with people on Fab can mostly be avoided with a bit of common sense, but the site!

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By *ick270Man
over a year ago

Here

Humour or lack of it

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Fake people people that don't turn up or have you travel then not meet there are lots of great people on here it's just a few that spoil it"

Agreed but we believe the balance is changing, it’ll be the good that are in the minority.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who are quick to jump on people on the forum and be unkind. Leave a thread and all is good, come back and all hell has broken loose

I think the best way to deal with something is privately, or it turns into some mass forum brawl

Apart from that its when people get arsy with you for not messaging back when you have said in your profile that you are looking for what they blatantly are not.

Then that whole ranting about time wasters on peoples statuses. No she said she didn't want to meet you. You just wouldn't give up.

Ah I feel better now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it civil and polite...

Where do i start.

1: the number of fakes & men pretending to be women.

2: the stupidly high standards women on fab have for men.

3: the number of ignorant fuck wits that are on here.

Im saying no more or ill end up saying something that may get me banned lol

You forgot to mention men who expect reply from messages and sex from every meet. "
yea i forgot about that one i dont expect a reply or meet from every message if i get no reply i hit block & move on no point in hanging around, theres more to life than waiting for women who clearly wont reply due to the high standards they have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it civil and polite..."

The amount of fucking arsehole who can't read and respect profiles.

Mainly single guys, but couples do it as well.

If there is no match, why bother??

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Maybe fakes should be named so we can at least block them. "

The reason they aren’t is because naming & shaming is open to abuse. If people suspect profiles as fake, they can report to admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much to be honest. I use this site for what I want to get out of it. I use the block button if needed and delete button.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Keep it civil and polite...

The amount of fucking arsehole who can't read and respect profiles.

Mainly single guys, but couples do it as well.

If there is no match, why bother??"
Same, they just look at the pics and wink or message anyway

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Not reading our profile. Offering us stuff we're clearly not looking for, bulls, Doms ect. Sending messages (cold calling) just to the me the fem, being over freindly.

Not turning up for meets, takes a lot of time and effort arranging. And with very little playtime can be a real let down. Plus looks like we have lots of meets, as we put up playtimes. But half or less come to anything. But makes us look like perverts being on here morning, noon and night.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

The word panties

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

Guys who get rude when you say no thank you.

Not reading a profile.

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Keep it civil and polite...

Where do i start.

1: the number of fakes & men pretending to be women.

2: the stupidly high standards women on fab have for men.

3: the number of ignorant fuck wits that are on here.

Im saying no more or ill end up saying something that may get me banned lol

You forgot to mention men who expect reply from messages and sex from every meet. yea i forgot about that one i dont expect a reply or meet from every message if i get no reply i hit block & move on no point in hanging around, theres more to life than waiting for women who clearly wont reply due to the high standards they have "

High standards are not a bad thing. So I should just shag people I don't fancy or don't tick what I want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What annoys me is people seem to think Fab is the be all and end all, and that anyone who isn't on here is boring or vanilla.

Kinky open minded people do exist outside fab

Apart from that I'm fed up of seeing women ask for free drugs on their statuses. Heck, I've seen people create profiles just for this under the guise of being a "domme"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that everything is a catch 22

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

forum trolls (immature behaviour)

liars

fakes

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I would love it if those who are looking for a TV would have it on their profile so I would know it was ok to message.

Many won't have it on their profile as they get inundated by hairy panty wearers and I honestly don't blame them for choosing not to show it.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

pesters

pic collectors

ghosters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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High standards are not a bad thing. So I should just shag people I don't fancy or don't tick what I want? "

There should be a trade off i have standards but i dont expect every woman to be blonde,slim & big boobed yet women expect every man to be tall (over 6ft) handsome & ripped to fuck & hung like a horse even if they dont tick any boxes but hey we can all dream but does it matter if you fancy someone its sex not a long term relationship i get the ticking of certain boxes though we all have needs & wants ive said enough now ill start getting hate messages again

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"What annoys me is people seem to think Fab is the be all and end all, and that anyone who isn't on here is boring or vanilla.

Kinky open minded people do exist outside fab

Apart from that I'm fed up of seeing women ask for free drugs on their statuses. Heck, I've seen people create profiles just for this under the guise of being a "domme" "

Haha yes, good point, the fact that using a blindfold on someone or can send rude emails makes them a domme.

For me it's the sense of entitlement and judgement that permeates some folks. It's just a site for people to have a bit of fun after all, it's not the magna carta.

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By *attM73Man
over a year ago

Oldham

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

The lack of women that are ‘gagging’ to meet and fuck an ageing but still able guy like me.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Site expectations, constantly seeing statuses stating the site is a waste of time etc.. often you check their profiles and it’s practically empty with a couple of cock pictures and one big rant of a status about the site.

It’s only a site and not the whole scene, most of the fun I’ve had is at clubs or people I’ve met from the clubs, they know I’m genuine and I also know they are.

Either use it for what it is, the very basic part of the lifestyle not the actual lifestyle, that takes effort

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

The lack of conversation skills, ping pong text and small talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is what it is, we have pretty much stopped using the site for meets as it really has become very time consuming over the last couple of years.

It could definitely do with more filters for searching to narrow down what we're looking for.

We do like the forums and especially the club section for when it's open.

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By *ayo galwayMan
over a year ago

Centre

People that don’t reply to a message

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


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High standards are not a bad thing. So I should just shag people I don't fancy or don't tick what I want?

There should be a trade off i have standards but i dont expect every woman to be blonde,slim & big boobed yet women expect every man to be tall (over 6ft) handsome & ripped to fuck & hung like a horse even if they dont tick any boxes but hey we can all dream but does it matter if you fancy someone its sex not a long term relationship i get the ticking of certain boxes though we all have needs & wants ive said enough now ill start getting hate messages again "

For me yes it does matter and I'm not going to fuck someone I don't fancy regardless of it just being sex or a relationship. You shouldn't be getting hate messages. Report them if you do

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"The lack of conversation skills, ping pong text and small talk "
yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the amount of fakes, and people who dont turn up when they said they would, in our experiance men are worse for this, we organised a gb for Arri, invited 15 expecting 19 to show, all verified, all keen, lots of messeging both ways, how many showed? none

I was told, always invite at least twice as many men than you want to attend, whatever the event... People not reading my profile but their first words are "love your profile" always want to reply but usually just delete unread "

we invited 15 expecting 10, like i said they all seemed so keen, so never gave it a thought that nobody would show up, maybe next time we will invite 4 times the amount we want to meet, but knowing our luck they would all turn up then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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For me yes it does matter and I'm not going to fuck someone I don't fancy regardless of it just being sex or a relationship. You shouldn't be getting hate messages. Report them if you do "

fair enough each to thier own & what not & im just a narrow minded biggot who apprently hates women lol not my words some other morons on here i just have an opinion if people dont like it tough tits dont read or coent simples

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

I/We get 100s of messages a day.

Really??? Every day???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accusations and being branded even tho a most genuine polite attentive message is sent, the reply is “cut and pasted lazy time waster” Which is uncalled for.

Talk to us, learn about us, enjoy the attention and if it flat lines then part with grace and decency.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I/We get 100s of messages a day.

Really??? Every day???

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Take your filters off and put a new pic up, it’s relentless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that don’t reply to a message "

Thats another thing

People sit on messaged for hours and days despite being online .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same thing that makes it quite so fab

Everyday People

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i cant believe people dont show up..i presume you checked they were verified? I may be old fashioned but if i say i will then i will. gentlemans word is his bond

Fabs is generally good. I think there software is very clunky and trying to search for folks can be tricky.. but i have tried other sites and they promise much but dont deliver..at least fabs delivers."

yes all had verifications, and all sounded keen, maybe stage fright got to them

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"People that don’t reply to a message

Thats another thing

People sit on messaged for hours and days despite being online .

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but what if you’ve got hundreds of them can you actually be bothered to look at them ?

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Lack of folders in the mail/messages area makes it hard to keep things tidy.

Broken filters.

Email notifications of new messages are pointless - they just say we have a new message. Be better if it included the actual message.

No ability to comment on people's updates. Think that they would be used more if they were a bit more "Facebooky".

People without any public pics - don't make us ask for them, just put them up.

Guys who message "how's your day" or "how are you". We can't answer that thirty times each day.

People that just want endless dirty chat - we don't want to tell you what we did last night or what we're doing with a guy tomorrow. We want to know a bit about you then arrange a meet.

Guys who are "in (our) area" and horny so would we like to meet.

Guys who look at pics and message without reading profiles.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"People sit on messaged for hours and days despite being online"

Two of us use the account. We don't always reply till the other has seen it and we've talked about it. If neither of us are feeling very "Fabby" then it could take a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the comments about the user interface - but actually it works pretty well on the phone, so not complaining.

Ability to search profiles by keyword, maybe have an ability to put tags on your profile to aid searching, additional criteria etc. Some will moan, but making the effort to fill it all in properly shows something in itself.

What does wind me up - endless “what’s wrong with my profile” threads - pretty much always the same outcome - too many close up pics, not enough information, too broad on age range etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that don’t reply to a message

Thats another thing

People sit on messaged for hours and days despite being online .

"

Tbh I've done this a few times to people who have messaged me but are outside my prefs, such as women outside my age range or couples even though I'm not seeking couples.

I usually do send out "no thanks" messages, but I don't bother with these

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford


"Fakes

Pic collectors

People with Fab ego

Drama cpls

Profiles with loads of NOs

"

Completely agree with you on this, some sad people out there

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

**that's not proper swinging**...

People who judge that someone isn't a proper swinger and therefore is not entitled to join in this fun site.

Like the semantics and nuances of swinging have somehow been enshrined in some sort of 28th amendment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fakes

Pic collectors

People with Fab ego

Drama cpls

Profiles with loads of NOs

Completely agree with you on this, some sad people out there "

You give option of any scenario, they just don't seem to like them ,wonder why are they on Fab wasting their time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who message me that don’t reside in Birmingham. My profile clearly states this, so it means they haven’t read it (surprise surprise) or they are chancers or arrogant. Both are an automatic turn off. “Oh I’ll travel for you any day” or “...you’re only xxx mikes away” ffs!

People who don’t like ‘no’ and persistently message me. I have no problem ignoring messages and blocking people, and I know being ‘told off’ can be apart of someone’s kink, but it still annoys me x

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

People who say No face pic no reply, when they don't have any themselves

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By *iverpool MaleMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

People with massive egos

People who say they will not respond to messages unless they are sent a face picture, yet only have a picture of boobs on their own profile.

Those who are compelled to put 420 in their username or ask for lemo in their profile text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who say No face pic no reply, when they don't have any themselves"

That is a personal pet hate & then get snotty with you or block you when you ask for one!

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

People who "Assume" and people who think they are "Entitled " but worse of all are the liars and when you get to meet them it's plainly obvious you aren't on the same page regarding likes/did likes or they look nothing like their pictures ! so what's the point ??

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"People who "Assume" and people who think they are "Entitled " but worse of all are the liars and when you get to meet them it's plainly obvious you aren't on the same page regarding likes/did likes or they look nothing like their pictures ! so what's the point ?? "
Good one Like advertising a Ferrari and getting a Ford Escort

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

Single guys who message us and don't bother to read our profile first and then take no notice of what's been said. Also why is it that 95% of messages we receive that are from single men are all aimed at the female and not taking into account that we are a couple plus 99% of the time men always assume they are chatting to the female or if they find out it's the male half online then they don't wish to carry on with their messages. This kind of behaviour is not going to get you any wear.

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By *k8kttMan
over a year ago

Wickford

People who will not reply to messages. Even if it was a ...NO THANKS..

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People sending friend invites when we haven't even spoken

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Guys who assume they're talking to me (Char). Guys who message us like I'm a piece of meat, just sat at home dripping wet waiting for anyone to stick their cock in me!! They seem surprised that I have a job and other things to do!!

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

That I only seem to be visible to Men. And yes I know It's probably 95% men on this site.

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

They are more like shitbags

Give you all the talk to meet up

Then u arrange it

Then they shit out cos scared of gettin caught out with their partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab it's hard to get a message back, even tho you have read their profile and made alot of effort in the message.

Women and couples get so many messages they mass delete. Single guys have to message maybe 100 people to get anything out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it civil and polite..."

Fake profiles?!messers,dreamers...

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

Full of fakes - no face piccy, nothing on their profile wat they lookin for

Liars- say wud luv to meet up n spend all time with u

But go shaggin others

Picture copiers- piccys of fellas who dont even look like them copied from porn sites

Thsnk god for reverse image

Cheats - shaggin behind partners backs

Liars - start chattin with them sayin wud luv to meet up, but go n shag someone else

2timon shits - shaggin behind their own partners backs(especially wen they state they dont know they are on here), sayin they are single but have partner,

All talkers - give you all the chatm n chat sayin wat they would luv to do to you wen they meet u

But wen u say u will meet them they just shit out n block you

Timewasters- yes like everyone

You say you will meet up

Get to place they dont turn up, u go to msg them

They gave either blocked u or deleted their profile

Alot of fantasists and gloaters goin on sayin they have big dicks,

U wont be disappounted wen u meet me

I could go one

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

100% agree with them assuming it's fem who reads or replies and to be honest when she did the slavering beast came out !! pissed her off no end, as if 90% of them said what they typed to her in a pub or bar etc etc ..she'd be drop kicking them in the family jewels !!! plus her idea is that they pose next to their remotes to show what "TV" package they have as they'll be so boring in real life or crap in the sack...

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By *arkbaneMan
over a year ago

East leeds


"the amount of fakes, and people who dont turn up when they said they would, in our experiance men are worse for this, we organised a gb for Arri, invited 15 expecting 19 to show, all verified, all keen, lots of messeging both ways, how many showed? none"

Oh my god that is extremely rude

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By *arkbaneMan
over a year ago

East leeds


"Full of fakes - no face piccy, nothing on their profile wat they lookin for

Liars- say wud luv to meet up n spend all time with u

But go shaggin others

Picture copiers- piccys of fellas who dont even look like them copied from porn sites

Thsnk god for reverse image

Cheats - shaggin behind partners backs

Liars - start chattin with them sayin wud luv to meet up, but go n shag someone else

2timon shits - shaggin behind their own partners backs(especially wen they state they dont know they are on here), sayin they are single but have partner,

All talkers - give you all the chatm n chat sayin wat they would luv to do to you wen they meet u

But wen u say u will meet them they just shit out n block you

Timewasters- yes like everyone

You say you will meet up

Get to place they dont turn up, u go to msg them

They gave either blocked u or deleted their profile

Alot of fantasists and gloaters goin on sayin they have big dicks,

U wont be disappounted wen u meet me

I could go one

"

A very long list !!! Had to read that without breathing lol

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

People who are overly choosy, having such a high option of themselves, thinking they are Far better than others on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who are overly choosy, having such a high option of themselves, thinking they are Far better than others on here. "

Are people not allowed to be choosy as they want to??

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

london

For me it’s got to be the amount of fake profiles! That and dreamers which are just as bad. Basically anything that’s a waste of time

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

subs who think being a sub is getting pegged all the time... oh men!

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By *rikki1967ukMan
over a year ago

peterborough

Lack of politeness And the high expectations of some.also while I'm at it those expecting you sit quiet and sober so they can have an impromptu late night meet miles from anywhere.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"People who are overly choosy, having such a high option of themselves, thinking they are Far better than others on here.

Are people not allowed to be choosy as they want to??"

I retract the choosy statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The shear level of desperation I me that creates a huge level of arrogance within females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who take great delight in using the block button then even more delight publicising it endlessly....

Bore off..!!!

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By *eaford2Couple
over a year ago

Seaford

Fake profiles and time wasters ... you either want to meet or you don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I've spotted a new one - "Dommes" constantly seeking "subs" for free house work.

Nah, you're just a tight arse who doesn't want to pay a tradesman

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

People who can't take 2 mins to read a profile and moan when you'd delete them

Pests who won't take no for an answer

Those who slag others off in their status updates or constantly moan about fab /ask for bjs etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of effort.

Men that go tit blind and send no content messages with their cocks.

Disrespect by some men.

Apart from that it’s all good.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a site about a liberal lifestyle, the judgment from done is palpable

Calling it a sex site

Misunderstanding of kink/bdsm

Given the dictionary def of swinging, the number of profiles that state, 'won't meet attached'

The entitled

No mandatory facial picture verification means the site could be populated by underage folk

Lack of emojis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewasters, you agree time and place and they cancel hours before, it takes a fair bit of organising our end and no amount of verifications on their profile stop them from being timewasters, it’s only ever single guys as well

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By *oxycpl4uCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Ditto.

People who won't send a face pic with their message.

Don't read our profile which says we will DELETE if one liner.

People who have no intention of meeting and constant excuses

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

People whining, take the good, dismiss what’s not working.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

People you talk to for while and then get ghosted. For no apparent reason at all and cannot even be adult about it and give a explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad tempered fems with attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fakes, no single dating functionality, clunky UI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People you talk to for while and then get ghosted. For no apparent reason at all and cannot even be adult about it and give a explanation"

Agree - Fab is the Ministry of Ghosting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The moaning - constant moaning by all and sundry .

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Bad tempered fems with attitude. "

Noooo, they are the best bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad tempered fems with attitude.

Noooo, they are the best bit."

You wouldn't say that if they were male.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

High standards are not a bad thing. So I should just shag people I don't fancy or don't tick what I want?

There should be a trade off i have standards but i dont expect every woman to be blonde,slim & big boobed yet women expect every man to be tall (over 6ft) handsome & ripped to fuck & hung like a horse even if they dont tick any boxes but hey we can all dream but does it matter if you fancy someone its sex not a long term relationship i get the ticking of certain boxes though we all have needs & wants ive said enough now ill start getting hate messages again "

Why shouldn’t women on here have high standards? I’m as choosy as the next one! Sounds like you have a chip on your shoulder maybe from how women on Fab have treated you but men get what they deserve on here. If they have a me me me attitude and arrogance it gets them nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles that say " were professional people". What bunch of shysters!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Bad tempered fems with attitude.

Noooo, they are the best bit.

You wouldn't say that if they were male. "

Damn right I would, they are the nearest thing to competitive sport I get to nowadays.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Those who take great delight in using the block button then even more delight publicising it endlessly....

Bore off..!!!"

That’s me then lol. Block button is best feature on Fab.

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By *ubbermaidbabyCouple
over a year ago

clwyd

It’s become so hard work on

fab, few years back it was fun, it’s like it’s lost it’s fun bohemian factor, no one seems actually interested in meeting anyone, we actually find going to club easier.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Those who take great delight in using the block button then even more delight publicising it endlessly....

Bore off..!!!

That’s me then lol. Block button is best feature on Fab. "

Saves so much being nice time.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

None of it annoys me, I just find most of the things mentioned all a bit funny or cringey.

Then again I've never had my time wasted or been caught out by a fake, I might feel differently if I had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That swinging, swingers, their welfare and their enjoyment of the scene is furthest from its business model and MO

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By *ams12345Man
over a year ago

london

Not being good enough for 99% of people on here well it’s 100% but I like to keep the 1% to keep my hopes up lol

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

no show meets hate hem wasting time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people repeatedly looking bit not saying anything like. Nice pics hi or hi noce pics sorry not what we are looking for

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Rude arrogant guys who think women are here to just drop their knickers for them.

Guys who try to be devious to get sex.

Entitled people who think they are gods gift.

People who call it a sex site.

Blocked people following one around the forums.

Ghosting - what’s that about?

Swearing.

Guys who expect a reply to messages.

Silly statuses like ‘suck my cock’, ‘I’m horny’

People who think it’s ok to be nasty to others.

Cock pics.

Vagina pics.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"The moaning - constant moaning by all and sundry ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those who take great delight in using the block button then even more delight publicising it endlessly....

Bore off..!!!

That’s me then lol. Block button is best feature on Fab. "

I rest my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those who take great delight in using the block button then even more delight publicising it endlessly....

Bore off..!!!

That’s me then lol. Block button is best feature on Fab.

Saves so much being nice time. "

I rest my case agIn

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

RANTY PROFILES.

So off putting not matter how nice the pics are. I know us chaps can be daft and sometimes put our cocks in charge of our brains....but even so.

I usually read profiles (for all the good it does me) and I tend to like those which are articulate and engaging.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Oh god, if I were to start sounding off....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think a lot of people just get off on being messaged but the reality of them meeting is very low.

Personally, I like to chat online a bit first, and always found it easier at parties and clubs to relax.

It can be tough turning up into the unknown, and some people just get too nervous I think.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

The 4/5 new (fake) profiles in our area everyday. All with the same couple of words for a bio "looking for men women and couples" and that's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fakes and being blanked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 4/5 new (fake) profiles in our area everyday. All with the same couple of words for a bio "looking for men women and couples" and that's it. "

I’m in the same area and everyday 4/5 women all aged 31 looking for men.....

Great fun stringing the losers along.....

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Too many men on Fab.....

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

The amount of men that take up space in a lady's inbox. I'd like a friend inbox and a random inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

verifies of woman to men they have met stating. 'hands off ladies he is mine'or 'am not going to share this man'as if to lay claim to that person.and why do men show them anyway? I also dont like guys claiming to be 'straight' when they aint.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The ‘Virus’ forum.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much talk about sex

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By *los_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Couples who are not at least photo verified after a year.

Why can’t they remove profiles if they don’t at least get photo verified after a month? I mean it takes about 2 mins and if you are both on here then why wouldn’t you do it?

Weed out a few fakes at least!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another vote for the fakes

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Couples who only show the pics of the wife / female. Very unfair on a woman from another couple viewing them.

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Conspiracy nutters.

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By *los_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Didn’t you know the world is flat? That’s why Bigfoot has never fell of the edge!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"The ‘Virus’ forum....."

Absolutely

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

guys that start threads with a poorly disguised attempt at looking for wanking material

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

Fakes and time wasters.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No 1 for me is guys who don't read profiles.

Also blokes who have more than one profile.

Blokes who moan on their updates that no one on here meets.

The Fab people who don't listen to members ideas on how to improve the site.

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"People that don’t reply to a message

Thats another thing

People sit on messaged for hours and days despite being online .

Tbh I've done this a few times to people who have messaged me but are outside my prefs, such as women outside my age range or couples even though I'm not seeking couples.

I usually do send out "no thanks" messages, but I don't bother with these "

That explains it then

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

My biggest turn off on the site is that silly status about Sydney uni and all the other ones like it

Especially when that bit is 3 or 4 times bigger than the rest of the text if not 99% of the whole profile

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Women pretending to be swingers who post threads which are clearly research. "

Bingo. This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest turn off on the site is that silly status about Sydney uni and all the other ones like it

Especially when that bit is 3 or 4 times bigger than the rest of the text if not 99% of the whole profile "

This! It’s ridiculous! And I’ve no idea how those people ever get any attention or conversation

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"My biggest turn off on the site is that silly status about Sydney uni and all the other ones like it

Especially when that bit is 3 or 4 times bigger than the rest of the text if not 99% of the whole profile

This! It’s ridiculous! And I’ve no idea how those people ever get any attention or conversation "

I actually use it as an extra filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment those looking for meets or trying to shame those who wont meet

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"The ‘Virus’ forum.....

Absolutely "

Totally agree, go there at your peril.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Profiles almost as long as Tolstoy's" War & Peace.

People who leave their age parameters at the default setting of 18 - 99 then get stroppy when someone of my age contacts them.

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By *annahHeartsWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I want to be!!!!


"The lack of conversation skills, ping pong text and small talk yes "

And the “hi” intro mail .... I mean errrrr no effort to at least give me something to go on... ‘delete!’

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

People not reading profiles

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

lying about the size of their cock

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

cheaters

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"cheaters"

This

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

People posting really inappropriate off topic comments on other people's threads just to "ruin the mood of the thread".. Wish there was something done about it as it seems the same kind of people time and time again

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By *exford OP   Man
over a year ago

discombobulated land

So to conclude everyone...

Pretty much everything is perfect, no-one has any real gripes and so it's probably safe to say 99.9% satisfaction rate???

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Biggest pet hate, and there are a few, but when you’ve read someone’s profile, after confirming that you are really what the person in the profile is looking for, composing a considerate and well thought out message only for it to be left unread, well when I say unread, it of course means they have read it, then marked it as unread and choose to ignore it.

Of course their prerogative to decide I’m not for them, but do the polite thing and send a two word reply now ta’

I find it pig ignorant if I’m honest....blah blah it’s in the rules...

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield


"People who leave their age parameters at the default setting of 18 - 99 then get stroppy when someone of my age contacts them."

This!! ^^^^

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Biggest pet hate, and there are a few, but when you’ve read someone’s profile, after confirming that you are really what the person in the profile is looking for, composing a considerate and well thought out message only for it to be left unread, well when I say unread, it of course means they have read it, then marked it as unread and choose to ignore it.

Of course their prerogative to decide I’m not for them, but do the polite thing and send a two word reply now ta’

I find it pig ignorant if I’m honest....blah blah it’s in the rules...

"

Ha ha my pet hate which is linked to this is women moaning they get 300 messages a day! I get 2 if I’m lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who leave their age parameters at the default setting of 18 - 99 then get stroppy when someone of my age contacts them.

This!! ^^^^"

Say no more, iratating

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Biggest pet hate, and there are a few, but when you’ve read someone’s profile, after confirming that you are really what the person in the profile is looking for, composing a considerate and well thought out message only for it to be left unread, well when I say unread, it of course means they have read it, then marked it as unread and choose to ignore it.

Of course their prerogative to decide I’m not for them, but do the polite thing and send a two word reply now ta’

I find it pig ignorant if I’m honest....blah blah it’s in the rules...

"

But if it was in the rules, they had to reply to every message sent, wouldn’t you then be complaining they’re not following the rules ?

Then if that rule existed and their reply was rude and derogatory, with a curt reply of how much they find you unattractive, happy to get an inbox full of those messages?

Women get those messages currently when they say no thanks, after awhile they just delete as it’s not worth the hassle. It’s not ignorance it’s why bother.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Wind up merchants

People who have to have the last say

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