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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What age did folks start swinging or have there first adulterous experience.

I was 25 met a couple off a website and met in the woods

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Deb had quite a few MMF and FFM from 25 onwards ,but together 5 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember exactly,but I think I was around 53.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

I’d say about 29

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think I was about 52

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I've not really started yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you measure it.

For M - Started out being introduced to kink clubs at around 19. Friends of his GF had formed a throuple around the BDSM scene and his first experience of any sort of sex club was Spank'd near Runcorn. Long since closed down sadly. Then a fairly long gap with vanilla partners. First non-kink swinging club would have been around age 28.

For F - Introduced by M to the scene at around 33.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my ex wife married for 20 years started in are early 30s after she had sex with a old school friend it nearly split us up but after lots of talking we knew we loved each other so much but the animal instinct to have sex with others was strong in both of us so then we started swinging not only did i get to experience other women but my favourite part was reclaiming her aswell ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my ex wife married for 20 years started in are early 30s after she had sex with a old school friend it nearly split us up but after lots of talking we knew we loved each other so much but the animal instinct to have sex with others was strong in both of us so then we started swinging not only did i get to experience other women but my favourite part was reclaiming her aswell ??"
Haha this is brilliant..... wife cheats then manages to get out of it by starting swinging #topblagger

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I was about 25 and was introduced to while serving in the army in Germany

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By *ueen of sleezeWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

about 3 years ago got to admit its been very educational lol

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Only a year ago, though I'd had latent fantasies for a long time

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I was 25 first time, then a long break whilst children were young and returned a couple of years ago.

FWIW, I don't think swinging and adulterous encounters are the same thing

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early 20s but just dipped my toe in, then again around 30.. I missed it lol

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Around my mid 20s but that was in 1964 when there was no mobile phones, no internet, no social media of any kind, was not called swinging in those days just referred to as partner swapping and centered around peoples private houses.

When people mention the swinging 60s they are referring to the musical style at the time,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ten years ago so 46 and 42

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"What age did folks start swinging or have there first adulterous experience.

I was 25 met a couple off a website and met in the woods"

I was 45. Before swinging I’d spent 20 years in two bloody awful relationships and was a Sunday school teacher! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

29 for us x

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Playing for past 16 years.

Actual swinging, maybe 5 or 6.

Enjoyed it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 xx

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I was about 35 when I first joined fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends how you measure it.

For M - Started out being introduced to kink clubs at around 19. Friends of his GF had formed a throuple around the BDSM scene and his first experience of any sort of sex club was Spank'd near Runcorn. Long since closed down sadly. Then a fairly long gap with vanilla partners. First non-kink swinging club would have been around age 28.

For F - Introduced by M to the scene at around 33. "

Don’t think you ever go back totally to being vanilla do you

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By *hadow_MoonMan
over a year ago

St Columb Major, Cornwall

I was 27 when I first joined a swinger website

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner

Had desires for a looooong time but only acted upon them a year ago. Opened up so much more, I love it

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By *kiolo1Couple
over a year ago

Whitland

I was 29 when we first started. Then stopped when first got pregnant. Just picked up again this year, 20 years later.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Early thirties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

39

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Had first ffm at 24

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First proper swinging experience together, she was 32, he was 34..... dirty thirty

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

51. I was a late starter.x

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

I was 35. My wife was 34.

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By *man91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

At 22 went to the old quest swingers club and got myself into an orgy. Still remember the experience very well many years later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 25.. My ex had split up with me so i jump in to something new and exciting, great decision by younger me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got made an offer i couldn't refuse in a bar in Spain when i was 21...and that's what opened Pandora's box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early 20s and my late hubby and I met as swingers and enjoyed lifestyle throughout our married life, we only ever met others together so I wouldn't class it as adulterous, we always knew what we were doing. Now I swing in my own never with married men without wife's being present

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

26 and 25

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Early 50's When I met my partner who was already into the swinging lifestyle as a single woman (no we didn't meet on FAB)..

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"I got made an offer i couldn't refuse in a bar in Spain when i was 21...and that's what opened Pandora's box "

Pray tell much more !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was minding my own business having a dance with my mate, when i guy tapped me on the shoulder and said" this may sound strange mate but my wife really likes you we wondered if you fancied coming back to our apartment for a 3 some...i was a bit freaked out at first but the lady was hot so thought fuck it....went back and the rest is history...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was minding my own business having a dance with my mate, when i guy tapped me on the shoulder and said" this may sound strange mate but my wife really likes you we wondered if you fancied coming back to our apartment for a 3 some...i was a bit freaked out at first but the lady was hot so thought fuck it....went back and the rest is history... "

I was 19 when I had a similar experience in a club back in uni. Fucked the guy's wife all night and that's what opened the floodgates for me!

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Was about 25 when wife and I joined a swingers group in our street lol. A break for a few years as the kids grew up than back at it again fir a few years ..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A couple of posts deleted. Please don't mention sexual activity under 18

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

around 23 with the then GF

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Mid forties ....(wish we had done it earlier )lol

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

i was 26 when i met sam and she was 18, had her first threesome a few months after that and we went on from there, never looked back.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"At some point in my early thirties would be nice! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First visited a club at 17, was more for a safe place to dress than any sexual exploration but have been around the scene ever since x

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

54 Wife ,64 hubby ,not sure we were ready any earlier than that ,but do wish we were younger

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

My ex an I when I was 48. Love couple playnot as keen on single not bi.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

23 years ago for both of us (together) so 22 me, 24 wife.

Wife had a thing about me bedding another woman and being with another woman herself. Sent me off to see her friend then a few months later had her first bi experience / couples meet.

Dabbled a few more times over the next couple of years but took a huge break from the scene due to work hours and not always having access to a sitter.

Returned to the scene about 7 years ago as it's something we always wanted to get back to doing.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"54 Wife ,64 hubby ,not sure we were ready any earlier than that ,but do wish we were younger "

We feel the same. We were both in our 40's when we started. I'm not sure we would have been ready any earlier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean I had my first meet at 19 and have been on here since, not many more meets since so not sure if that counts as an 'active' lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs was 20 and I was 23 when we started on here

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By *ookies creamMan
over a year ago

sunderland

Early twenties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 and it’s been a very fun time and meny more fun times to come probably swing till I am to old to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18... A threesome with an older couple and then a gangbang a few weeks later.... Not looked back since.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

60 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

34 ish

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

22, I've had a couple of breaks in the last 20 years, and been here as part of a couple and now a single

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I was 33. Had a couple of breaks over the years but seem to get called back...

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We dabbled in our 20s way before Fab, when people used contact magazines and sent off photos to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talked about for years took the plunge last year at xtasia never looked back since

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant


"We dabbled in our 20s way before Fab, when people used contact magazines and sent off photos to each other "

Snap! Those were the days. Waiting endlessly for a reply in the post. I found an sae always helped!

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

When I was 20. Client approached me and explained that his wife like to take on young lovers, and that she liked me etc.. Offer came with free board and lodging and started with just me and her.... before long, it was full 3sums with a bit of bi play thrown in...

Lived with them for about a year.

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By *r. JoystickMan
over a year ago

London


"When I was 20. Client approached me and explained that his wife like to take on young lovers, and that she liked me etc.. Offer came with free board and lodging and started with just me and her.... before long, it was full 3sums with a bit of bi play thrown in...

Lived with them for about a year. "

Sounds like a contract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tried 4 years ago...changed a lot since joined back again I want it all...and more...

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By *ockforplay66Man
over a year ago

Southampton/isle of wight/ everywhere

My first wife and I started swinging when I was only 19, she was 21. We didn’t actually set out to go swinging as such. She hooked up with an ex of hers one night whilst out with friends. She told me all about it the following day out of guilt. It lead to the best sex we had had up to then. We both got turned on by her being a slut so she started doing it more and more. It was only fair that I was allowed to start doing the same. And before we knew it, we were swingers!! I was 22 when we went to our first actual arranged swingers party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we were 35 when we started swinging thou we an open marrage befor that where we both fucked other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tried 4 years ago...changed a lot since joined back again I want it all...and more... "

Brilliant comment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tried 4 years ago...changed a lot since joined back again I want it all...and more...

Brilliant comment x "
it must be age... well,thats what I'm blaming

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Late starter me in my mid thirties when I ventured out yo adult clubs, ab fabs and kesterals, Havnt stopped since, been in the magic roundabout to haha. Love a good club and meet with like minded people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

32, was an angel up to this point

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Late starter me in my mid thirties when I ventured out yo adult clubs, ab fabs and kesterals, Havnt stopped since, been in the magic roundabout to haha. Love a good club and meet with like minded people x

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By *SD 2000Couple
over a year ago

andover

I think that it’s hard to go back, you’ve opened a door in your mind which refuses to close. Always looking for that exciting first time.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

first mmf 3 some i was a 20 Y/O soldier in Colchester, done other combinations with guys before that though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 first time I went in a swingers club in Manchester I think it was called xandra on blackfriars St

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was 40 although that was meeting up through married dating sites so probably doesn't count.. first mmf was just over 2 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

late 30s

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

30 female 35 male

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

When I was 23

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Just after my 26th birthday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 26/27..ex wife had gone off sex to the extent she had joined a religious sect to "find herself"...think she is still looking lol.

But back to me about 6months later saw advert for Xanadu club in Manchester, sadly now closed, became an infrequent visitor but did have some good experiences. Found out about here from a couple there and the rest is history...had a few meets from here and looking for more if we can ever meet again closer the 2m apart LOL

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By *oodvibrations68Couple
over a year ago

Lake Constance

Her: 24

Him: 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not really started yet "

You've got some mean salad recipes tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends 27 but before then i was meeting and having casual sex with people off datings sites and strangers from regular clubs

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By *msurreyCouple
over a year ago

Twickenham

Must have been in our late thirties ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

55 after my divorce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 17, my then boyfriend's boss who was just about to celebrate his 23rd birthday had asked for me (via his wife) as his birthday present and that experience gave me my first experience of swinging.

Her x

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby


"I was 17, my then boyfriend's boss who was just about to celebrate his 23rd birthday had asked for me (via his wife) as his birthday present and that experience gave me my first experience of swinging.

Her x

"

Now this is a story we need to hear more about!

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

About 30

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By *arriedfun51Man
over a year ago

Northern Ireland

aged 39-40

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Late 40s for us although we'd done some 3somes in early 20s.

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By *amyam5627Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote

I started at the age of 18 with a couple I met in the old yahoo adult chat rooms, then signed up to a swingers site and as they say the rest is history...........I like to think as the years go on that I push my boundaries a little each time I meet, at first i wouldn’t have even contemplated bi play, now it’s normal to me when with a couple. (I have to remember not to play that way when I’m meeting a non bi Male couple).

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

Bi 3sum at 16 and never looked back,

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By *rianB69Man
over a year ago

nottingham

32.... I was clearly a late starter, but then the web was only recently around

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

40 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About my mid 30's with some breaks in between for different reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

43 I was corrupted

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

First time was when I was 25 and went to utopia in Staffordshire

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By *ishygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

I was first introduced to swinging when I was 18/19 and it’s developed from there. Xx

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Me and my ex wife started when we were about 20 years old and only played with one our couple friends and that went on for about 3 years and we both had some very dirty fun stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

28 then went to a swingers club in Bradford (no longer there ) but I've since met loads of folks all over the North.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 19 and my hubby was 23 when we started swinging some of my freinds from back then still meet with me few times a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was 17, my then boyfriend's boss who was just about to celebrate his 23rd birthday had asked for me (via his wife) as his birthday present and that experience gave me my first experience of swinging.

Her x

Now this is a story we need to hear more about! "

You naughty pair

Her x

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"I was 17, my then boyfriend's boss who was just about to celebrate his 23rd birthday had asked for me (via his wife) as his birthday present and that experience gave me my first experience of swinging.

Her x

"

Fucking he’ll you’re fit ..

Apologise a bit off topic

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex


"I was 17, my then boyfriend's boss who was just about to celebrate his 23rd birthday had asked for me (via his wife) as his birthday present and that experience gave me my first experience of swinging.

Her x

"

I'm definately moving to Swansea, like it there any way, have lots of family there and a cottage in Ystrad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a newbie only been to one but planning to go this weekend

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Age 42 x

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