FabSwingers.com forum: Tinder and other sites

By *thleticgirth OP Man
over a year ago

wirral

Ok, own up, who else is on tinder, might look for you, so bored of dating vanilla now .

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I’m on and off Tinder and Bumble ..

Had more sex off tinder than on here ..

Plus you see who you’re messaging..

On here you’ve no idea until you swap face pics, and that’s not always a pleasant suprise

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By *thleticgirth OP Man
over a year ago

wirral

Same mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use other dating sites, more success on these sites also. I was recommended to FAB thought these and have recommended FAB to others on these sites. Cast your net wide young man.

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By *thleticgirth OP Man
over a year ago

wirral

Iv done well on tinder etc but they all seem to be vanilla unfortunately for me. Plus i dont want to advertise non vanilla as my sister is on tinder and will find out. Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they are all shite

never pulled on them badoo or pof

must be uglier than i think i am

either that or my patter must be shite

or maybe i smell of shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m on and off Tinder and Bumble ..

Had more sex off tinder than on here ..

Plus you see who you’re messaging..

...but you don't get to see their butthole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder xx

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By *thleticgirth OP Man
over a year ago

wirral

"Tinder xx"

Ooh whats the start of your postcode lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was. It sucked.

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By *ngelfireWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Ok Cupid and Bumble but losing the will to live with it all

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By *thleticgirth OP Man
over a year ago

wirral

"I’m on and off Tinder and Bumble ..

Had more sex off tinder than on here ..

Plus you see who you’re messaging..

...but you don't get to see their butthole

I get to see more on tinder usually lol x

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

I wish more women knew about sites like these and actually asked for what they wanted...

In my experience Tinder and other dating sites are full of guys just wanting to shag under the false pretense of dating or something more meaningful.

At least here you know what you're getting, for the most part.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"I wish more women knew about sites like these and actually asked for what they wanted...

In my experience Tinder and other dating sites are full of guys just wanting to shag under the false pretense of dating or something more meaningful.

At least here you know what you're getting, for the most part."

I’ve actually found that being brutally honest about only wanting casual yields surprising results.

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By *aytay987Man
over a year ago

I had more success on Craig’s list lol

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By *thleticgirth OP Man
over a year ago

wirral

That is true. I want to date and swing with the same partner so its hard as both sites tend to be the opposite of what i want them for.

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

"I wish more women knew about sites like these and actually asked for what they wanted...

In my experience Tinder and other dating sites are full of guys just wanting to shag under the false pretense of dating or something more meaningful.

At least here you know what you're getting, for the most part.

I’ve actually found that being brutally honest about only wanting casual yields surprising results. "

Well that's good then

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

"That is true. I want to date and swing with the same partner so its hard as both sites tend to be the opposite of what i want them for. "

Yup, I don't tend to use them as I never find the happy median.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv done well on tinder etc but they all seem to be vanilla unfortunately for me. Plus i dont want to advertise non vanilla as my sister is on tinder and will find out. Ffs"

I got a lifetime ban from tinder for advertising non vanilla so tread carefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get more luck out and about in the real world

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I like pof met a few of there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab and Tinder have different purposes

That being said, I've met more women from Tinder than I have from Fab (0 Meets )

There isn't this veil of fantasy on Tinder, and people are generally more down to earth.

People who complain about Tinder most likely have terrible photos or profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I installed ScrewFix, but quickly realised it wasn't a dating App..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have far more luck on here than I've ever had on vanilla sites...

Maybe I just appeal to a kinkier crowd.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Fab and Tinder have different purposes

That being said, I've met more women from Tinder than I have from Fab (0 Meets )

There isn't this veil of fantasy on Tinder, and people are generally more down to earth.

People who complain about Tinder most likely have terrible photos or profiles.

They have much the same purpose in the end I find same as pof x

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

"Fab and Tinder have different purposes

That being said, I've met more women from Tinder than I have from Fab (0 Meets )

There isn't this veil of fantasy on Tinder, and people are generally more down to earth.

People who complain about Tinder most likely have terrible photos or profiles.

Yes, I look like the girl from the grudge in person and my personality has been missing since 2001

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miles more on tinder but they all want to have kids and settle down after the first date.

I prefer it on hear .

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"I’m on and off Tinder and Bumble ..

Had more sex off tinder than on here ..

Plus you see who you’re messaging..

...but you don't get to see their butthole

Thank god

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"I wish more women knew about sites like these and actually asked for what they wanted...

In my experience Tinder and other dating sites are full of guys just wanting to shag under the false pretense of dating or something more meaningful.

At least here you know what you're getting, for the most part."

The women on Tinder are as promiscuous as the men ..

Trust me ..

Especially the over 40’s whose sex drive has got out of control..

But on tinder you have to be pretty..

On here guys will fuck people they haven’t seen and would never admit to fucking publicly..

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By *ondonman1969Man
over a year ago

Romford

I seem to have more luck on pof

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

"I wish more women knew about sites like these and actually asked for what they wanted...

In my experience Tinder and other dating sites are full of guys just wanting to shag under the false pretense of dating or something more meaningful.

At least here you know what you're getting, for the most part.

The women on Tinder are as promiscuous as the men ..

Trust me ..

Especially the over 40’s whose sex drive has got out of control..

But on tinder you have to be pretty..

On here guys will fuck people they haven’t seen and would never admit to fucking publicly.."

So because I don't like the way Tinder is and I've not had "success" (I use tinder to date, not fuck), I'm ugly?

Men on Tinder use it as they use fab, to get a leg over.

Women use tinder for sex and to date.

I personally use fab to fuck and possibly find a like minded swinger who likes the kinks I'm into.

The guys that will fuck anything stick out on fab hence I suppose them striking out on here.

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By *yronutMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Been on Tinder, Bumble and POF for 6 years.

in that time I’ve had two one night dates and one two night, none came to any fruition! I’m nice, that’s my problem! (I am also picky! I know what I want) I won’t lower my Standards just for a quick shag....

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Tinder & pof... Both are rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah on tinder and do a whole lot better !

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By *urious1973Man
over a year ago

angus

I presume fab is the only one you can b discreet on if that's what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, own up, who else is on tinder, might look for you, so bored of dating vanilla now ."

I'm the sado and on all of them. Pof, tinder, bumble and badoo.

Men seem to be more respectful on fabs compared to dating sites tho. But its good for wasting time away, especially during lockdown lol

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I had more success at the grab a granny night at the local pub than any of those sites.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I have been on tinder twice before no dates at all on POF a couple of dates.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"Iv done well on tinder etc but they all seem to be vanilla unfortunately for me. Plus i dont want to advertise non vanilla as my sister is on tinder and will find out. Ffs"

Do you reckon your sister would see your Tinder profile and click on and read about what you want? Plus... that would make her more red faced surely? Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to be told the wife was on dating sites! Can live in hope

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

More meets on tinder but better meets on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not on either but in my single days there was definitely a hierarchy of likelihood of sex Vs effort expended:

1: POF

2: Skout

3: Tinder

And Fab at a very distant 4th.

Makes me wish that swinging was less damaging to be public with, a captive market is never good for competition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have dabbled briefly with Tinder. POF & Bumble. Not met a single person from all my wasted hours swiping right !

Deleted all my accounts and only use Fab and the other Fetish site that Fab doesn't like us mentioning!

Fab is best though due to the verification system. And getting to see sexy pics at the start of interactions to see if there is any physical attraction.

No one can be verified on the other more conventional dating apps, and dick pics are frowned upon!

It's Fab for me all the way.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I'm on tinder and keep matching with people who are on fab

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I have dabbled briefly with Tinder. POF & Bumble. Not met a single person from all my wasted hours swiping right !

Deleted all my accounts and only use Fab and the other Fetish site that Fab doesn't like us mentioning!

Fab is best though due to the verification system. And getting to see sexy pics at the start of interactions to see if there is any physical attraction.

No one can be verified on the other more conventional dating apps, and dick pics are frowned upon!

It's Fab for me all the way."

tinder i like... pof full of mix bags but generally get accused of being fake on there... bumble is too labourous and quiet but met afew people from there... the other kink site is really impossible to navigate so my preference is tinder for dates and fab for forums.

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

I met a Latin American lady on Tinder.

Fuck me did I have to hang on when she went for it.

Very sexy lady that was willing to try most things.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"I wish more women knew about sites like these and actually asked for what they wanted...

In my experience Tinder and other dating sites are full of guys just wanting to shag under the false pretense of dating or something more meaningful.

At least here you know what you're getting, for the most part."

That’s why I am on here not Tinder, When looking for poly with a hint of kink this feels more honest. Not necessarily with much success, but everyone is being (more) honest.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve used a particular marital affair site with great success, still see two of the ladies I met through it, one for four years now!

I’ve also had meets from Xhamster. Apart from those, I’ve only used Fab, and have no plans to try anywhere else

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By *exysingh72Man
over a year ago

Isleworth

Tinder

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

at least with tinder, you're less likely to get jealous trolls messaging you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about weird vikings that you try to pass on to people who think your shit

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By *thleticgirth OP Man
over a year ago

wirral

"I'm on tinder and keep matching with people who are on fab

I need your postcode to search by location, try to match and to take you out! x

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By *ickey40Man
over a year ago

Leicester

All the sites are shit. They're all a woman's domain. I've been on Tinder, Pof, Badoo here and had no luck whatsoever. One meet off here five years ago.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"I’m on and off Tinder and Bumble ..

Had more sex off tinder than on here ..

Plus you see who you’re messaging..

On here you’ve no idea until you swap face pics, and that’s not always a pleasant suprise

Oh thanks did my face upset you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on and off tinder, bumble, etc. but never seem to get very far with them. Fab is better for the kind of meets and dynamics I'm looking for.

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By *inkyRebelMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Had a bunch of dates with very naughty women from pof.

Then married one i met on Tinder.

Funny world.

We both swing. So happy day's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is true. I want to date and swing with the same partner so its hard as both sites tend to be the opposite of what i want them for. "

Exactly, maybe we should make a “find your swinging partner site” lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the sites are shit. They're all a woman's domain. I've been on Tinder, Pof, Badoo here and had no luck whatsoever. One meet off here five years ago. "

They are all a woman's domain, but the negative effects of that reduce as the size of the population in the app increases.

Hence why Fab is so much more challenging than somewhere like POF or Tinder.

Basically if the number of women (x) increases, in line with the number of men (y), and women's standards remain the same (n) then in effect competition between men (c) decreases proportionally

C = x/y over n

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of those on dating sites are on here......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of those on dating sites are on here......"

I'm curious how you came to that conclusion. Fab's total online user base right now is approximately 27k. And it's a global site.

Do you really think that most of the people who are on dating sites are also on Fab? Because I doubt the numbers add up, not even close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of those on dating sites are on here......

I'm curious how you came to that conclusion. Fab's total online user base right now is approximately 27k. And it's a global site.

Do you really think that most of the people who are on dating sites are also on Fab? Because I doubt the numbers add up, not even close. "
previously being on dating sites comparing notes with other users of being on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of those on dating sites are on here......

I'm curious how you came to that conclusion. Fab's total online user base right now is approximately 27k. And it's a global site.

Do you really think that most of the people who are on dating sites are also on Fab? Because I doubt the numbers add up, not even close. previously being on dating sites comparing notes with other users of being on fab

Do you mean most people on Fab are on tinder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of those on dating sites are on here......

I'm curious how you came to that conclusion. Fab's total online user base right now is approximately 27k. And it's a global site.

Do you mean most people on Fab are on tinder?"

That would make far more sense. No doubt there is substantial overlap, if I were single I'd be on both

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