FabSwingers.com forum: How long should a guy last?

By *omerset_naughty OP Man
over a year ago

marmaris,Icelemer Turkey

Hello everyone, ok fabbsters a question for you all.

How long should a single guy or any guy if he's a part of a couple, from start to finish last in bed on a meet?

Also

How long should the penetration part last for?

Love to find out everyone's different views and see just how naughty you lot are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think 1:30 seconds is the right amount if time to leave the bag in water for the perfect brew.

As for sex any time is good for me!

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By *hilliandspiceMan
over a year ago

Wimborne

The lady should always cum first

After that time doesn't matter

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

The great unanswerable question couple of minutes for a quickie and hour for a good long slow a sexual session secret is knowing what she's looking for at the time...

Hint it is fucking impossible

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"The lady should always cum first

After that time doesn't matter"

Pretty much this. If they haven’t cum, you definitely can’t! That’s my stance anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lady should always cum first

After that time doesn't matter"

What women cum !

Who knew x

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

Or if the guy does cum first, then don't stop! She can still cum you know, don't just pull out and wipe your cock on the curtains...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or if the guy does cum first, then don't stop! She can still cum you know, don't just pull out and wipe your cock on the curtains...

It’s just good manners...

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

This why some women fake it to get some sweaty guy of then...

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By *69BANMan
over a year ago

Reading

"I like to think 1:30 seconds is the right amount if time to leave the bag in water for the perfect brew.

As for sex any time is good for me!

Mr"

1:30 seconds?? Even if you mean 1 min 30 secs that's some nasty insipid dishwater!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to think 1:30 seconds is the right amount if time to leave the bag in water for the perfect brew.

As for sex any time is good for me!

1:30 seconds?? Even if you mean 1 min 30 secs that's some nasty insipid dishwater!

Nope it is the perfect time and yes i did mean 1 min 30 sec. Stir it 10 times left, 10 times right leave for the rest of the time then only a splash of milk. Try it and see

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

"This why some women fake it to get some sweaty guy of then...

Lol love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also never understood this the woman has to cum first thing. Its great if they do but i also know not every woman finds it easy to or even feels they have to cum to have a good time. The beauty of it all is finding out what feels good and is enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twelve parsecs.

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By *utiebum18Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Until both parties are satisfied I think is a diplomatic answer haha

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"This why some women fake it to get some sweaty guy of then...

Lol love it

It's funny watching guy's trying to be alpha males probably more heart attacks than orgasms between them .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Also never understood this the woman has to cum first thing. Its great if they do but i also know not every woman finds it easy to or even feels they have to cum to have a good time. The beauty of it all is finding out what feels good and is enjoyable.

Mr"

Darn right. I rarely cum with a new partner, it takes me a while to get 100% relaxed. If I think the focus is on that then there is absolutely no chance that I will.

The best and most pleasurable meets are where nobody is worrying about living up to the internationally recognised board of swingers meet standard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Darn right. I rarely cum with a new partner, it takes me a while to get 100% relaxed. If I think the focus is on that then there is absolutely no chance that I will.

The best and most pleasurable meets are where nobody is worrying about living up to the internationally recognised board of swingers meet standard

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"The lady should always cum first

After that time doesn't matter"

Some women don’t orgasm from fucking, so that’s only true for some people. She should always cum... but first? Depends on the couple. Fortunately S gets a LOT from fucking so she cums a lot before D.

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By *uvhandle20Man
over a year ago

SE London

Whatever it takes to make her happy, 2-3 orgasms at least

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"I like to think 1:30 seconds is the right amount if time to leave the bag in water for the perfect brew.

As for sex any time is good for me!

Mr"

i disagree 5 minutes for the tea bag

are you a milk first person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to think 1:30 seconds is the right amount if time to leave the bag in water for the perfect brew.

As for sex any time is good for me!

i disagree 5 minutes for the tea bag

are you a milk first person?

God no, that's just wrong.

But if it's a pot of tea then i agree on the time.

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London

Its all about the recovery time after

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"This why some women fake it to get some sweaty guy of then...

Is this based on the assumption that the guy will just plough away at it mindlessly?

Work smart, not hard.

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By *ishygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

When you’re caught in the moment, who times? As long as you’re all enjoying yourselves, does time matter? Xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

5 minutes or 5 hours, as long as you both leave smiling, that’s all that counts

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Totally depends on the individual, as long as everyone is happy by the end of it? Do people time sex? How odd.

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

"Or if the guy does cum first, then don't stop! She can still cum you know, don't just pull out and wipe your cock on the curtains...

Well, unless they have a beaker by the side of the bed..

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By *entleRMan
over a year ago

Telford

Now I'm having to figure out how not to spill the tea during the bedroom olympics

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

One option being make sure the woman cums then penetrate and fuck for as long as possible, sometimes not long on a first meet lol (gets longer the more meets we have). Absolutely amazing when the woman cums or squirts during fucking

. On average 20 minutes to an hour or so fucking ?, far too many variables lol. Tantric or frantic banging ?

. Sometimes I'll cum, rest without withdrawing then fuck again

. Yes some women can't orgasm during fucking so she needs plenty of attention before and/or after

. Max times I've cum during a single session, 5. How long should a guy last 'in bed' ?, I've shared a couples bed overnight a few times, didn't get much sleep lol

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Darn right. I rarely cum with a new partner, it takes me a while to get 100% relaxed. If I think the focus is on that then there is absolutely no chance that I will.

The best and most pleasurable meets are where nobody is worrying about living up to the internationally recognised board of swingers meet standard

Spot on. As long as there’s chemistry between the two people (or 3 or 4 etc!) then the sex is usually very good. So doesn’t matter who comes first,but just in case bagsy it’s me!

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By *tokeman4str8funMan
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"Hello everyone, ok fabbsters a question for you all.

How long should a single guy or any guy if he's a part of a couple, from start to finish last in bed on a meet?

Also

How long should the penetration part last for?

Love to find out everyone's different views and see just how naughty you lot are. "

I think its down to good turn on and foreplay.

I hate not satisfying a woman, so I'm down there for ages, plenty mouth and finger action, orgasm before the cock goes in.

More turned on she is, more I am, and it will last.

Combine it all, HR or 2, orgasm a plenty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lady should always cum first

After that time doesn't matter"

Thats exactly my theory of playtime

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Twelve parsecs."
that's long enough to make her kessel run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twelve parsecs. that's long enough to make her kessel run"

Only took seven hours. I'd nearly started looking for a New Hope...

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By *ip7Man
over a year ago

Caister

Surely any longer than 3 minutes is pure extravagance lol ??

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By *omerset_naughty OP Man
over a year ago

marmaris,Icelemer Turkey

Thank you for everyone that's posted very interesting varied answers.

Personally I like the social side of swinging all meet up have a meal drinks chat get relaxed with each other first team if everyone's OK start the sex with long teasing foreplay I always love to make the lady cum a good few times if she can before my cock gets anywhere near her pussy as I jave great difficulty in cum and can go all night and not cum so as much as im going to be very satisfied even not cumming I makes sure the female of a Cole or lmsingle lady are always happy and satisfied. I also think lots of passionate kissing is a turn on but I understand not all couples allow this.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Long enough for me to enjoy myself,if he waited for me to come he would be at it forever I've never cum through penetration so a minute or an hour makes no difference.

If I'm honest I find it flattering if I can get a guy so horny that he comes quickly.

As long as plenty of foreplay takes place I'm pretty happy .

Besides I have been with guys who take ages and frankly it gets boring and I get sore.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Twelve parsecs."

That’s a distance not a time. Haan Solo has a bad script writer on that point.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Sam virtually never climaxes from penitration of any length foreplay is the key

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

"The lady should always cum first

After that time doesn't matter"

agree that is the most important thing, unless she wants the guy to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feed & look after one properly you could easily expect it to last for 65 plus years. Still, wouldn’t be my first choice. More of a dog lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twelve parsecs.

That’s a distance not a time. Haan Solo has a bad script writer on that point. "

It all makes sense in the Extended Universe or Solo though

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By *eWillMakeYouSquirtCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lady should always cum first

After that time doesn't matter

Pretty much this. If they haven’t cum, you definitely can’t! That’s my stance anyway. "

Incorrect... you don't win anything for coming second, ever. Be a winner. plus, from an evolutionary standpoint your ancestors ensured your blood line by getting in quickly and getting the job done. Don't let them down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This why some women fake it to get some sweaty guy of then...

I like it when a guy gets sweaty during sex. (Providing he is clean beforehand and it is fresh sweat!) I kinda find it sexy as you can see how much effort he is putting in!

mmmmm

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Hello everyone, ok fabbsters a question for you all.

How long should a single guy or any guy if he's a part of a couple, from start to finish last in bed on a meet?

Also

How long should the penetration part last for?

Love to find out everyone's different views and see just how naughty you lot are. "

Ideally Until the lady is totally satisfied, unless she doesn't cum through penetration and then it's up to the guy to pleasure her in other ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one wants to be banging away for hours hoping for something to happen. Some women cum the second the tip goes in and some need a little longer. All depends on mood, situation and how into each other you are.

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Depends on the situation - if girls on her knees in glorlyhole or in a club with multiple guys being sucked and wanked then ASAP, if it’s a couples situation then it’s when “it’s right” generally when everyone has had a good amount of fun and adventure.

But generally unless the situation was specified then single guys being brought into the equation then probably most times don’t want them going on for hours - the point is it’s a swinging experience with a couple and selfishly likely to want you to fulfill their desires and that’s it, before they move onto the next adventure or other guys.

they got their own partner if they want another 10 hours!

Some situations like the gangbang situation guys shooting their load quickly is the turn on - someone still not coming can make you think you’ve not done it for them.

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By * Little Taste of CrimsonCouple
over a year ago

Here and there

We focus a lot more on foreplay and Crimson usually cums a few times during that. It's hot when a guy is that excited that he isn't there for ages pounding away.

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By *omerset_naughty OP Man
over a year ago

marmaris,Icelemer Turkey

"Long enough for me to enjoy myself,if he waited for me to come he would be at it forever I've never cum through penetration so a minute or an hour makes no difference.

If I'm honest I find it flattering if I can get a guy so horny that he comes quickly.

As long as plenty of foreplay takes place I'm pretty happy .

Besides I have been with guys who take ages and frankly it gets boring and I get sore."

Hi this is perfect for me i can spend ages doing foreplay on a woman and ive always wanted to cum orally but never had a woman who can do it yet still joping she's here.would love to meet you but knownim too far away as your stunning xx

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By *omerset_naughty OP Man
over a year ago

marmaris,Icelemer Turkey

"This why some women fake it to get some sweaty guy of then...

I like it when a guy gets sweaty during sex. (Providing he is clean beforehand and it is fresh sweat!) I kinda find it sexy as you can see how much effort he is putting in!

mmmmm"

Hi Bella wow love your profile I would love to meet you and get very sweaty with you that wouldnt be a problem for me lol. Would like to push my boundaries with you too. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes me bloody ages so as long as they've got there. I'm not fussed.

If I don't get there, it's no biggie for me. I can still enjoy the fun

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By *omerset_naughty OP Man
over a year ago

marmaris,Icelemer Turkey

"Takes me bloody ages so as long as they've got there. I'm not fussed.

If I don't get there, it's no biggie for me. I can still enjoy the fun

SMe here i get a great deal of pleasure knowing if satisfied a lady over my own completion I still am satisfied

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Yeah, under normal circumstances if she hasn't cum then you definately can't.

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London

"Long enough for me to enjoy myself,if he waited for me to come he would be at it forever I've never cum through penetration so a minute or an hour makes no difference.

If I'm honest I find it flattering if I can get a guy so horny that he comes quickly.

As long as plenty of foreplay takes place I'm pretty happy .

Besides I have been with guys who take ages and frankly it gets boring and I get sore."

Heard this a few times.. i got stuck previously on not letting myself cum before they do. But a lot of women find it a turn on if a guy does cum for them quickly especially if you can recover quick or not need a break at all. If I cum quickly and keep going I know the chemistry is there

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Honestly it depends. If they get me worked up enough I can cum in a matter of minutes. Extended sex with multiple orgasms can be really hot but still, 45mins to an hour over a few positions would be the absolute max before it just gets sore. I don't mind so much if they cum before I do as long as they still carry on in other ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how much I'm enjoying it (provided time isn't limited). If it's good then I'm greedy and want hours (some breaks in between are acceptable). If not good, well... Are you done yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly it depends. If they get me worked up enough I can cum in a matter of minutes. Extended sex with multiple orgasms can be really hot but still, 45mins to an hour over a few positions would be the absolute max before it just gets sore. I don't mind so much if they cum before I do as long as they still carry on in other ways

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If I don't get there, I have no problems carrying on until she's satisfied. If I'm allowed, I like to continue with my lips and tongue. Very very gently of course

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By *lipperywhenwet07Couple
over a year ago

llanelli

Played at house party

Mrs slide literally had kissed the chap and he came over her leg .., he then lost interest!

His wife says happens in clubs all the time hence she goes and plays on her own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u remove the foreplay before (for the ones who loves it) then I think 30-40 min max of proper sex (including Bj) otherwise it can get a bit sore after that. If we say, with foreplay and breaks and cumming multiple times, then I love a whole afternoon of sex

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Just long enough to make the perfect boiled egg

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