FabSwingers.com forum: Which is it? Hot Wife, cuck or stag & vixen?

By *RST OP Couple
over a year ago

S. Northants

Apologies for the longer post, we've discovered something we need to brush up on...

We are a married couple with a wife who enjoys watching Hubby with other ladies, or sending him off to play away from her. She will also sometimes be involved in the play and is Bi herself, but prefers to see other ladies enjoy Hubby. We have generally struggled to find people to fit our dynamic, and now. Wonder if that's partly down to our naivety when it comes to the terminology...

We have generally considered that we were a cuckquean couple, then relatively recently discovered the term Hot Husband which seemed to fit too, so adopted it as well.

Now it may seem that the more traditional Cuckold and Hot Wife names may actually be for different variations of sharing to what we thought. So where does that leave us as the reverse?

We have always had the below understanding:

Cuckquean = woman who enjoys her wife being with someone else, generally without humiliation

Cuckold = male version, but seems to have humiliation as a part of it.

Cuckcake = the other lady that a cuckquean has with her man. Not generally playing with the quean as well.

Unicorn = a single female to play with both.

Bull = male version of cuckcake

Hot Wife = a lady who plays with other men, including away from her partner

Hot Husband = the male version of the hot wife.

Stag & Vixen =?? We're not exactly sure the precise dynamic for these, but always assumed it was the same as the hot wife scenario, but where the Stag is more involved?

What titles do you use for your dynamic around this area, in particular for couples like ourselves where it is the fella that plays more?

Are there any titles we have missed out?

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

We have struggled in the same way. We added a post entitled Hot Husband and lots of people were in the same boat. The post reached capacity!

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By *RST OP Couple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"We have struggled in the same way. We added a post entitled Hot Husband and lots of people were in the same boat. The post reached capacity! "

We were there. Still none the wiser. X

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

I don't think terminology is really important the problem everyone with the dynamic faces is simply supply and demand limited number of women even fewer that are looking to be involved in that dynamic

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I guess I'm a hotwife I play with others then tell hubby all the naughty details when I get home

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By *RST OP Couple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"I don't think terminology is really important the problem everyone with the dynamic faces is simply supply and demand limited number of women even fewer that are looking to be involved in that dynamic "

There's definitely a limited audience for us.

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By *RST OP Couple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"I guess I'm a hotwife I play with others then tell hubby all the naughty details when I get home

So what does that make your Hubby? He's just enjoying the details, there's no humiliation I assume? So that wouldn't necessarily fit under the banner of cuck?

It's a minefield.

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