FabSwingers.com forum: Hotwifing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m curious as to how many couples start or end up at this point.

When we started playing with others I had zero interest in other Guys, I get what I need at home and so for my part it was more about me being with other women/watching him too that drew me to this.

Hubby on the other hand had a little interest in being with other women but really loved the idea of seeing/sharing me with other men.

Where we are right now is everything we wanted at the start but more and more we’re both drawn to more hotwifing. The anticipation whilst you’re getting ready for the date and the not knowing what’s happening for him while he waits at home and of course the reclaim when i get home.

Hot and bothered now, can’t remember what i wanted to ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The fog has now passed

How many other couples have fallen into hotwifing as a natural progression?

How many always did it? (we have but don’t advertise it on our profile)

If it’s not for you why not, insecurity or just not for you?

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By *aughtyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I think we are heading in this direction

Ted wants to drop me off and wait outside x

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By *unnyPairCouple
over a year ago

Seminole

We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

"The fog has now passed

How many other couples have fallen into hotwifing as a natural progression?

How many always did it? (we have but don’t advertise it on our profile)

If it’s not for you why not, insecurity or just not for you?

Not for us. We like to share the moment together, see each others enjoyment and the look of ecstasy in each others eyes.

Each to their own but just don't understand why people play separately.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Hello

That’s very much where we are just now. And loving it! Mr.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The fog has now passed

How many other couples have fallen into hotwifing as a natural progression?

How many always did it? (we have but don’t advertise it on our profile)

If it’s not for you why not, insecurity or just not for you?

Not for us. We like to share the moment together, see each others enjoyment and the look of ecstasy in each others eyes.

Each to their own but just don't understand why people play separately."

Don’t get me wrong that’s still my preference but I’m enjoying the different thrills of this too. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!"

I’ve always been curious about the anklets, has a complete stranger ever mentioned it? Or hinted etc? I honestly don’t know what I’d do if someone challenged me on it lol

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Hello

That’s very much where we are just now. And loving it! Mr. "

Ha, beat me to it, I was about to comment the same thing!

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me (Claire) I was exactly the same at the beginning, I had zero interest in meeting other men. Over time it kind of happened, and I must admit, I now like it as much as anything else we do. I don't play separately, never will, I feel safe when I'm with my husband, but I'm really enjoying the mfm aspect of swinging. Like you say, the whole getting ready, as the excitement builds is amazing, I love my husband taking me out to meet another guy, hubby been in full control so I can fully relax is amazing.

Give it a try, it's the only way to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!

I’ve always been curious about the anklets, has a complete stranger ever mentioned it? Or hinted etc? I honestly don’t know what I’d do if someone challenged me on it lol "

I need to get one

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By *unnyPairCouple
over a year ago

Seminole

Not yet, but when it is noticed and mentioned, I guess it’s pretty much on at that point! She likes them at the nude beach too.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

That's pretty much where we have ended up. Originally it was about meeting other couples with bi fems but naturally progressed to just seeking guys as we found that turned us both on more

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By *unnyPairCouple
over a year ago

Seminole

We brought home a single guy once and that was all it took. Our go to is still couples and always will be, but you only live once and the single guy is a lot of fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's pretty much where we have ended up. Originally it was about meeting other couples with bi fems but naturally progressed to just seeking guys as we found that turned us both on more"

Hot, isn’t it weird though how it can change so dramatically. You don’t know until you try as they say

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We brought home a single guy once and that was all it took. Our go to is still couples and always will be, but you only live once and the single guy is a lot of fun."

Understand that 100%.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Totally relate to this and well done op for a great post. We still enjoy all our different kinks etc but were exactly the same and now find ourselves drawn more and more to Hotwife etc

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

There's no sign of us heading towards this at present. We enjoy doing things together.

The nearest thing is if Hannah wants to see a woman, which she is welcome to do and I don't feel any need to be involved. It has happened a couple of times and I found it thrilling and it still turns me on a lot thinking about the experiences she has had.

However, neither of us would see a couple or a member of the opposite sex without the other.

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By *ed-devilsCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

We have been talking about it for ages but haven’t found the right man yet,maybe it will just stay as a fantasy

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By *aughtyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!"

What is the anklet thing? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started as me being a hotwife, both love it. Hubby doesn't play but we might do the club's together if and when they reopen. Me playing as really worked for both of us so far. Xx

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By *unnyPairCouple
over a year ago

Seminole

"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!

What is the anklet thing? X"

They say Hotwife on them, so if someone is in the know it could be a starter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have been talking about it for ages but haven’t found the right man yet,maybe it will just stay as a fantasy "

If the fantasy adds such a level of excitement then I guess if the right guy comes along it’s got to be worth a try right? We didn’t set out looking for this but it made us feel so hot for days afterwards. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We started as me being a hotwife, both love it. Hubby doesn't play but we might do the club's together if and when they reopen. Me playing as really worked for both of us so far. Xx"

Did hubby ever play? We haven’t really been interested in clubs but maybe one day we’ll check one out x

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I traveled for work a lot and missed hubby but he said I should find something to occupy my time and we both love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for us. It's the thrill of seeing the mutual enjoyment that does it for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet, but when it is noticed and mentioned, I guess it’s pretty much on at that point! She likes them at the nude beach too."

Yeah I imagine so! Must be a thrill in itself just wearing one

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By *epaWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

We love it. Exciting from picking lingerie together for him to reclaiming her when he's finished.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We love it. Exciting from picking lingerie together for him to reclaiming her when he's finished. "

Yes, always pick the outfit together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We started as me being a hotwife, both love it. Hubby doesn't play but we might do the club's together if and when they reopen. Me playing as really worked for both of us so far. Xx

Did hubby ever play? We haven’t really been interested in clubs but maybe one day we’ll check one out x"

No, we were going to do the couple swap thing but he's not as interested so I play solo now. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us!!! Really now into hotwifing and progressing more and more!!! Probably will get to the point soon where we will form some kind of poly relationship xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loved reading this post everyone. Take my hat off to you couples for the amount of trust it takes. Really really sexy xxxx

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

We have so far always been Cuckquean /Hot Husband, but are unfortunately finding it increasingly difficult to find ladies to actually meet. Therefore we came back with an open mind towards couples (cuckold ideally). Mrs DRST isn't desperate to find other guys, she much prefers seeing me with other girls (although it's been discussed, and I'm more than happy for her to have other guys too).

So, who knows where we will end up. We're not sure Fab is really the place for our preferred dynamic, but don't really know where else to go.

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By *ert n BerylCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

It’s a journey we’re just starting on. I’ve had a social with the guy I want. The tension is there and it’s so exciting!! Just waiting for our diaries to match so hubby and said man to meet. Hubby wants this so he knows who I’ll be with and that I’ll be safe. Then once it’s safe said man and I will be meeting at a hotel for fun whilst hubby is at home. We’ll send videos and pics as we’re playing. Once we’ve finished, hubby will come join me and reclaim me.

My pussy is throbbing now and soaking just talking about it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a journey we’re just starting on. I’ve had a social with the guy I want. The tension is there and it’s so exciting!! Just waiting for our diaries to match so hubby and said man to meet. Hubby wants this so he knows who I’ll be with and that I’ll be safe. Then once it’s safe said man and I will be meeting at a hotel for fun whilst hubby is at home. We’ll send videos and pics as we’re playing. Once we’ve finished, hubby will come join me and reclaim me.

My pussy is throbbing now and soaking just talking about it!!!"

Reclaiming a wife after probably the best part of the whole thing!!! Mila just going crazy knowing I will reclaim her after!!!

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yes swinging has definitely been a journey for us and we have floated towards Hot Wife/cuckold scenarios.

I absolutely LOVE hubby waiting in his cage while I'm playing. The reclaim sex is amazing

Mrs N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should try the hotwife club if clubs ever open again at libs. That's a great night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes swinging has definitely been a journey for us and we have floated towards Hot Wife/cuckold scenarios.

I absolutely LOVE hubby waiting in his cage while I'm playing. The reclaim sex is amazing

Mrs N"

EXACTLY!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should try the hotwife club if clubs ever open again at libs. That's a great night "

Any profile or website for hotwife club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should try the hotwife club if clubs ever open again at libs. That's a great night

Any profile or website for hotwife club?"

Um yeh hold on I'll find it

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

My pussy is throbbing now and soaking just talking about it!!!

Reclaiming a wife after probably the best part of the whole thing!!! Mila just going crazy knowing I will reclaim her after!!!"

It's not just reclaiming wives that's amazing. Reclaim of Hubby is the best bit!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should try the hotwife club if clubs ever open again at libs. That's a great night

Any profile or website for hotwife club?"

Check you PM

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"You should try the hotwife club if clubs ever open again at libs. That's a great night "

Any scope in that for couples like us? Cuckquean and Hot Husband...

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By *aughtyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!

What is the anklet thing? X

They say Hotwife on them, so if someone is in the know it could be a starter."

Do they always say that or are there other way? Doesn’t seem very subtle but hey it gets the message across

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the idea of a partner getting pleasured and coming back to wrap her feet in mine. Almost had this once. Still looking.

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

We started always trying to play as a couple, with couples, but it was hard to find a dynamic where there is mutual attraction... So we then started experimenting with MFM... But hard to find childcare etc, so I started venturing out on select meets alone... And the rest is history

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

"We started always trying to play as a couple, with couples, but it was hard to find a dynamic where there is mutual attraction... So we then started experimenting with MFM... But hard to find childcare etc, so I started venturing out on select meets alone... And the rest is history

We have childcare issues too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and husband started off as social exhibitionism and bi play for me on the scene but like yourself have totally moved into the stag n vixen lifestyle...he loves to present me to a guy for mutual pleasure for all ...loves to watch and the whole dynamic seems to be working great for us ...just find it difficult to source experienced bulls in this are where it's more stag vixen than cuckold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!

What is the anklet thing? X

They say Hotwife on them, so if someone is in the know it could be a starter.

Do they always say that or are there other way? Doesn’t seem very subtle but hey it gets the message across

I’m sure they don’t have to say that on them, some just have symbols on them. Again I’m so intrigued at who would make the first move, if there’s ever been a misunderstanding and someone just thought they were innocently wearing an anklet

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Cuck/hot wife we love...the preparation..the build up to a meet ..the reclaim....the buzz ...compersion ....lovely ..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cuck/hot wife we love...the preparation..the build up to a meet ..the reclaim....the buzz ...compersion ....lovely ..xx"

EXACTLY!!!

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

We have childcare issues too.

Bloody annoying isn't?

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

It was a starting point for us; Tog loves watching me being pleasured by other men - he was never that bothered about playing himself, but then we did the couples thing and it turns out I really enjoying watching him with other women as well; so we both now have our own profiles and are free to meet others separately.

Muse x

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By *aughtyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!

What is the anklet thing? X

They say Hotwife on them, so if someone is in the know it could be a starter.

Do they always say that or are there other way? Doesn’t seem very subtle but hey it gets the message across

I think we’ll try it, maybe just HW on it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This 100%, seriously the parallels are spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!

What is the anklet thing? X

They say Hotwife on them, so if someone is in the know it could be a starter.

Do they always say that or are there other way? Doesn’t seem very subtle but hey it gets the message across

I think we’ll try it, maybe just HW on it..."

Yeah that’s a good idea actually

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By *haggynMuffCouple
over a year ago

Kidlington oxtord

We have same problem with child care. We are verging on hotwifeing as met a couple of men alone but husband has always been involved with finding them. Will send pictures and messages back to him and when I get home he loves playing with my fucked pussy. Reclaim sex is great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have same problem with child care. We are verging on hotwifeing as met a couple of men alone but husband has always been involved with finding them. Will send pictures and messages back to him and when I get home he loves playing with my fucked pussy. Reclaim sex is great

Reclaim sex yes we think one of the best xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was swinging as part of a couple hotwifing was there from the start,we got into swinging as I got off on her playing with other men so hotwifing was always one of our primary likes,then couples and single lasses sort of naturally followed on from that

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

We have childcare issues too.

Bloody annoying isn't? "

Definitely! All our friends drop their children off at grandparents and go off to play. We would love to play together more. X

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By *aughtyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"We love the thrill of it. Even if SR just wears an anklet that might be seen in public is enough to turn me on!

What is the anklet thing? X

They say Hotwife on them, so if someone is in the know it could be a starter.

Do they always say that or are there other way? Doesn’t seem very subtle but hey it gets the message across

I think we’ll try it, maybe just HW on it...

Yeah that’s a good idea actually

It’s a thing then x

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Its how we play.

Mr M loves it knowing what I am up to whilst he waits at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have childcare issues too.

Bloody annoying isn't? "
yes had a great bull last night but there so rare xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pretty much always played like this, either a mfm or the wife plays on her own, we have played with couples but i the husband prefers to sit back and watch or get sent texts/pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have childcare issues too.

Bloody annoying isn't? yes had a great bull last night but there so rare xx"

Yes had the same last night xx

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By *intage74Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

We have had our first Hotwifing occasion and the build up during lockdown was incredibly sexy and wetted the anticipation.V loved every minute with her lovely guy and I did although it honestly played with my head slightly.The reclaim was amazing too and we are committed to continue and she wants to reciprocate for me but I presently have no great desire.I will be buying V an anklet and it will be our thing.Exciting times await

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

I have been interested in exploring this dynamic with the right hot wife couple, but have had zero luck, would hugely appreciate any advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading back I see alot mention hotwifing as more separate meets and meeting away from hubby ....we are stag vixen we never play alone so he is there with me ....we like to have a social first get to know a little bit about them he likes me dressing sexy for the guy to present me to him he likes me to look into his eyes as I'm getting fucked then yes reclaim is the best part ...we find the whole experience amazing but personally for us it wouldn't be the same without hubby there ....its all part of the experience for us ...but then each couple have different dynamics xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading back I see alot mention hotwifing as more separate meets and meeting away from hubby ....we are stag vixen we never play alone so he is there with me ....we like to have a social first get to know a little bit about them he likes me dressing sexy for the guy to present me to him he likes me to look into his eyes as I'm getting fucked then yes reclaim is the best part ...we find the whole experience amazing but personally for us it wouldn't be the same without hubby there ....its all part of the experience for us ...but then each couple have different dynamics xx"

As a single guy I've always preferred the husband of the couple to be present and/or involved,it adds to the thrill for me personally,especially with a hotwife or stag/vixen dynamic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That works too

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Its how we play.

Mr M loves it knowing what I am up to whilst he waits at home.

Mr M is happy to join the fun but only plays with me if he's there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play with a lovely “ hot wife” couple - she is very sexy and loves dressing up in sexy lingerie and having hot naughty sex. He loves to watch , photograph and join in after the event for some reclaim.

They are a lovely, sophisticated couple and I really love being part of their enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love it. Exciting from picking lingerie together for him to reclaiming her when he's finished. "

I love this idea love the build up too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We love it. Exciting from picking lingerie together for him to reclaiming her when he's finished.

I love this idea love the build up too "

The butterflies in the tummy whilst I’m getting ready in front of the mirror to Hubby being overly attentive. Can’t wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started out like most, looking for couples so the mrs could indulge her love of women, but once we met one and it proved harder at the time to find more like them (6 years ago) talk turned to men which turned to scenarios, which turned to making it happen, and here we are, not hardcore by any means, we prefer quality over quantity, but we love it

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

"We started out like most, looking for couples so the mrs could indulge her love of women, but once we met one and it proved harder at the time to find more like them (6 years ago) talk turned to men which turned to scenarios, which turned to making it happen, and here we are, not hardcore by any means, we prefer quality over quantity, but we love it"

She's gorgeous

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

I used to help my ex-wife to get ready for her dates, she used to ask me how sexy she looked before leaving and would kiss me and would always say "I'm going to get fucked, see you later". Then leave.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We've always been together but it's her who only plays. I just love watching her, her body and sounds and watching her get more and more sexual, inhibitions left well behind, it's a great spectical. So it's a very visual desire for me and an exhibitionist viewpoint for her to have me watching, we'd lose that element which is the key aspect of us being here. Definitely a stag and vixen setup here, hotwife doesn't quite fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's gorgeous

Thank you! She certainly is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started with playing with a guy over about a year and progressed from there, we still want to meet couples and ladies but meeting a hot guy is such a hot and erotic way to play

So more hotwife for us and I get to play with two guys, lucky lady

DD x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my partner have been swinging together for a few years now but we always played together.

It wasn't till I went on holiday and was out on a night out when some fella started flirting with me. Told my partner about him n that he was hot my partner told me to go for it.

Apparently hubby had an erection from that moment till when I got back in touch with him the next morning. Sharing the story of what I had been upto was so hot for the both of us we got into the whole hot wife thing from then on

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Does it count as hot wifing if the dates you go on are only with other women? Xx

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"We started with playing with a guy over about a year and progressed from there, we still want to meet couples and ladies but meeting a hot guy is such a hot and erotic way to play

So more hotwife for us and I get to play with two guys, lucky lady

DD x"

It's your guys who are the lucky ones! X

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

Yes we have moved into hotwifing and we live it. As seen in our single man verfication.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This was just shared in another thread:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/6432973/stag-men-love-watching-other-guys-have-sex-with-their-wives-but-its-not-cuckolding/amp/

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

So what's the difference between cuckolding and Hot Wifing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what's the difference between cuckolding and Hot Wifing? "

Cuckolding is humiliation and a slight form of dominating the husband

Hotwifing is the wife able to have lovers/boyfriends or go out and fuck whoever without the humiliation.

Both enjoy getting off on their wife people naughty but one likes to also be abused verbally and ordered about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what's the difference between cuckolding and Hot Wifing?

Cuckolding is humiliation and a slight form of dominating the husband

Hotwifing is the wife able to have lovers/boyfriends or go out and fuck whoever without the humiliation.

Both enjoy getting off on their wife people naughty but one likes to also be abused verbally and ordered about"

For example my wife could go and do as she pleases, I both know and am involved.

I watch her on her meets and take videos and pictures, and sometimes join in

But she would also be more than able to go out with someone and do her thing

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"So what's the difference between cuckolding and Hot Wifing?

Cuckolding is humiliation and a slight form of dominating the husband

Hotwifing is the wife able to have lovers/boyfriends or go out and fuck whoever without the humiliation.

Both enjoy getting off on their wife people naughty but one likes to also be abused verbally and ordered about"

This is where it gets confusing. The reverse of cuckolding, Cuckquean, from our experience doesn't involve humiliation. We've spoken to very few who consider themselves a cuckquean who even consider involving humiliation.

So what about Stag and Vixen?

We're cuckquean and Hot Husband, or at least that's what we've always thought were the labels we fell under, maybe that's where we are going wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what's the difference between cuckolding and Hot Wifing?

Cuckolding is humiliation and a slight form of dominating the husband

Hotwifing is the wife able to have lovers/boyfriends or go out and fuck whoever without the humiliation.

Both enjoy getting off on their wife people naughty but one likes to also be abused verbally and ordered about

So what about Stag and Vixen?

We're cuckquean and Hot Husband, or at least that's what we've always thought were the labels we fell under, maybe that's where we are going wrong.

It is super confusing, once you really get into the nuts and bolts of it, all I know is we class ourselves and Hotwife couple so god knows beyond that

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"So what's the difference between cuckolding and Hot Wifing?

Cuckolding is humiliation and a slight form of dominating the husband

Hotwifing is the wife able to have lovers/boyfriends or go out and fuck whoever without the humiliation.

Both enjoy getting off on their wife people naughty but one likes to also be abused verbally and ordered about

So what about Stag and Vixen?

We're cuckquean and Hot Husband, or at least that's what we've always thought were the labels we fell under, maybe that's where we are going wrong.

It is super confusing, once you really get into the nuts and bolts of it, all I know is we class ourselves and Hotwife couple so god knows beyond that

There are so many variations!

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon

Essexhotwife

Mmmmm wowwww wish I was younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Essexhotwife

Mmmmm wowwww wish I was younger "

Thank you

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

This is what my partner and I have looked for but finding a suitable partner is difficult x

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By *rs DreamweaverWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

This is where Mr Dreamweavers and I have ended up.

He loves me being a hotwife and I love it too. The thrill of meeting someone new, but also the way it turns Mr DW on excites me equally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m curious as to how many couples start or end up at this point.

When we started playing with others I had zero interest in other Guys, I get what I need at home and so for my part it was more about me being with other women/watching him too that drew me to this.

This is definitely something that sort of creeps up on you.

I have always enjoyed watching J with other guy/guys.

Now , quite happy to stay and home while she meets ( safely) and have a facetime while she is meeting a guy, try it, you will love it.

Hubby on the other hand had a little interest in being with other women but really loved the idea of seeing/sharing me with other men.

Hot and bothered now, can’t remember what i wanted to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot wifing and also stag and vixen is definitely something that we are looking to explore more of. Just need to find the right guy to enjoy this with.

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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago

Headington, Oxford

Kind of where we ended up, hubby was all enthusiastic about the swinging scene when we started but when he realised that there were far fewer couples and single women available he lost interest whereas I took full advantage of my free pass.

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

Hubby has been in the fetish scene all his adult life and a kinky f£$%&r generally. I was a tomboy wallflower that had dreams of being glam but never had the confidence. When we met a few years ago he basically gave me the free reign to spread my wings, and with his knowledge and support I ran through the Hotwife door like a shot! Hotwifing is just one of our loves, but for me I will never go back to being that shy unconfident wallflower, and feel lucky I got to live out my dream

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"Hot wifing and also stag and vixen is definitely something that we are looking to explore more of. Just need to find the right guy to enjoy this with.

What's the difference between hotwifing and stag & vixen?

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By *bbott24Couple
over a year ago

Devizes

Jane is definitely a hot wife

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Mainly the ones with the lucky hubby

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By *otwife and the HubbyCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

We started this journey just looking for another fem for fun. Fast forward a few years, after experiencing different types of swinging fun, we now would say that we are more interested in the hotwife side of things.

If lockdown has taught us anything, it’s not to take our free time for granted and to make the most of it and be free to have whatever fun we want. Hotwifing is definitely going to be number 1 on our list of fun for 2021.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Kind of where we ended up, hubby was all enthusiastic about the swinging scene when we started but when he realised that there were far fewer couples and single women available he lost interest whereas I took full advantage of my free pass."

Wow, _oubledong, beautiful sexy hot wife, looking gorgeous, x

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over a year ago

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By *ornwallkink2017Couple
over a year ago

Cornwall

I guess we started to explore the whole mmf scenario in our minds before taking the first steps. I found that I get a huge turn on seeing Lily with other guys or her coming back after playing with a guy and telling and showing it all, sharing the experience. Then amazing reclaim Sex and planning the next adventure! She is such an amazing hotwife! Xxxx

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By *na_Luv_4PlayCouple
over a year ago

Santa lucia de Tirajana

"I’m curious as to how many couples start or end up at this point.

When we started playing with others I had zero interest in other Guys, I get what I need at home and so for my part it was more about me being with other women/watching him too that drew me to this.

Hubby on the other hand had a little interest in being with other women but really loved the idea of seeing/sharing me with other men.

Hot and bothered now, can’t remember what i wanted to ask

We both love 4 way fun with another couple but so difficult getting that attraction and dynamic right, We have found hotwife so horny too and talking about what just happened during reclaim sex is just amazing.

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

We've always been a Cuckquean couple, although I'd love to see ST with another guy. ST is the same as how you felt originally OP. She has no interest in going off with other guys on her own, or even involving other guys at first. Things change as time goes on. Who knows where we will end up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s sort of how we started me flirting tesse other guys but hubby always there joins in too

I have started to enjoy embrace the attention he he

But like to try more couples too - even another wife to go out to party with !

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By *ndrew999Man
over a year ago

Cumbria area

Yes it’s all about the reclamation sex xx

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"Yes it’s all about the reclamation sex xx "

We love the reclaim!

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