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Why do some women stereotype all younger single males?

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By *lackC0ckLondon OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Its ridiculous. Before even texting or meeting some, they already label you negatively and expect respect.

Respect is mutual, the fact that you think you can just base me on some "age stereotype" is rude to me cause I'm a unique individual, and some ladies are fond of it.

Had to get it off my chest. I have met some wonderful mature ladies and i wish there were more of them.

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By *lackC0ckLondon OP   Man
over a year ago

london

By the way, having a preference of older men isn't exactly what I'm talking about.

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

What are you talking about then?

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By *lackC0ckLondon OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"What are you talking about then?"

Apparently someone had raised up something similar. Not exactly but quite. Check this forum

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/scotland/949918

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham


"What are you talking about then?

Apparently someone had raised up something similar. Not exactly but quite. Check this forum

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/scotland/949918"

People have preferences and maybe you aren't what they prefer. We all have different tastes and are looking for different things. Perhaps you aren't targeting the right audience.

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By *lackC0ckLondon OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"What are you talking about then?

Apparently someone had raised up something similar. Not exactly but quite. Check this forum

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/scotland/949918

People have preferences and maybe you aren't what they prefer. We all have different tastes and are looking for different things. Perhaps you aren't targeting the right audience."

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By *trangeleftyMan
over a year ago

London

Buddy. You're a great lad you know that! If someone gives you negativity you shove it back up their assess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry we are in our right to think someone the same age as our children just doesn't feel right. I'm sure you are a lovely individual but you can't dictate other people's feelings Yes there are women I'm sure enjoy that, and good for them. For me, it feels wrong we are entitled to decide what we like and don't like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry we are in our right to think someone the same age as our children just doesn't feel right. I'm sure you are a lovely individual but you can't dictate other people's feelings Yes there are women I'm sure enjoy that, and good for them. For me, it feels wrong we are entitled to decide what we like and don't like "

People shouldn't be rude tho we just say no thank you happy fabbing

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By *lackC0ckLondon OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Buddy. You're a great lad you know that! If someone gives you negativity you shove it back up their assess. "

Thanks mate. Absolutely haha

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By *lackC0ckLondon OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Sorry we are in our right to think someone the same age as our children just doesn't feel right. I'm sure you are a lovely individual but you can't dictate other people's feelings Yes there are women I'm sure enjoy that, and good for them. For me, it feels wrong we are entitled to decide what we like and don't like

People shouldn't be rude tho we just say no thank you happy fabbing"

This is much much more better than what some women say to younger male. Thanks for the courtesy. Happy fabbing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Because we all stereotype other people to an extent.

We do for sure. In our experience men under about 40 have a certain attitude towards people of our generation that means we won't get along. Now we know that not all men of that age group are like that and we will happily socialise with anyone and everyone. For the purposes of fab however we have to apply some method of setting our preference where she is concerned so we resort to stereotypes.

Some people even use a stereotype as their usp

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It’s just a way to filter mate. Unfortunately many people have had bad experiences conversing with younger single males, so they just apply a blanket filter. There’s thousands upon thousands of people here, so there has to be some sort of method to reduce the work of going through unwanted messages etc.

It’s unfortunate, but it’s just how it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on here on and off since I was in my twenties. People wouldn’t meet me cos I’m too young then. Now I’m upto my eyeballs in fanny I’ve had to get a PA. Don’t worry you’ll soon be 30!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m joking by the way... honestly it’s hard to do but if you want to have success talk to women in the real world. That’s what I learned as I got older. On sites like fab it’s 10,000 guys for every one girl. Speak to girls in your social circle, ask a girl on a date, get chatting to people when you’re out and about you’ll have a much higher success rate. Just don’t be a creep. I went for a socially distanced drink with a girl I randomly got talking to in a local shop a few weeks ago. Nothing happened but we had a laugh and I made a new connection.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"I’m joking by the way... honestly it’s hard to do but if you want to have success talk to women in the real world. That’s what I learned as I got older. On sites like fab it’s 10,000 guys for every one girl. Speak to girls in your social circle, ask a girl on a date, get chatting to people when you’re out and about you’ll have a much higher success rate. Just don’t be a creep. I went for a socially distanced drink with a girl I randomly got talking to in a local shop a few weeks ago. Nothing happened but we had a laugh and I made a new connection. "

That notorious dating app that begins with a T has been far, far more fruitful for me than fab has for meeting other singles. But it’s not really a surprise. Fab is a swinging site after all!

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