FabSwingers.com forum: Wink or message

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?"

So if I get a wink from someone and I like what I see I wink back. I’ve sent a few out too. If I don’t get a message I assume they’re not interested. I am so shit at sending first messages though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?"

It’s pretty rare for either to come this way unsolicited. But I am happy with a wink as an expression of interest and a message can follow.

I don’t subscribe to “wink equals lazy”. Although I can see why people would.

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

I do winks, rather than being winked at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are a great way to know if people are interested, we usually follow up with a message if we like what we see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?"

If we get a wink we usually look at the profile and if we like we usually wink back or message xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?"

I always respond to a message because I find it good manners but I don't always return a wink, I only return it if I am interested. I suppose a wink is lazier than a message that someone has taken time over...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?

It’s pretty rare for either to come this way unsolicited. But I am happy with a wink as an expression of interest and a message can follow.

I don’t subscribe to “wink equals lazy”. Although I can see why people would. "

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By *inytitsbigcockCouple
over a year ago

glos

yes and yes 90% of the time

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By *ovelock4Man
over a year ago

Croydon

I always thank people for winks regardless of whether I’m interested or not. Although that probably takes me a lot less time than it would single women or couples as they probably get a lot more than I do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?

just go for it, we used winks loads when we first started but have connected with loads more great couples we get on with by sending a message first.

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By *somemoresomeCouple
over a year ago

south east

Do love a wink! Serial winners here

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Winks are a great way to know if people are interested, we usually follow up with a message if we like what we see."

Same me

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?"

Message. If you're serious, just say hi. We don't bite.

We don't pay to much attention to winks to be honest. Far to often in the past we received them, winked and messaged back then nothing but radio silence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do love a wink! Serial winners here

So I see. Thank you. Have fabbed a pic of yours that’s gorgeous. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to recieve both. If someone winks I'll check out their profile & message back. Tend not to send winks unless their profile says to wink if interested.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Refreshing to read these replies. I can never understand the snobbery from some on Fab regarding winking.

It’s an icebreaker and to be honest I don’t blame people who would rather do this than risk sending a message only to be ignored. It’s not laziness as some claim it just shows that you like what you see.

Miss V

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By *ngelandDemonCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Hard enough to get anyone to look at our profile these days, let alone send us a wink

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?

It’s pretty rare for either to come this way unsolicited. But I am happy with a wink as an expression of interest and a message can follow.

I don’t subscribe to “wink equals lazy”. Although I can see why people would. "

We’ve used them in the past then got a wink back so have sent a message then nothing

or vice versa.

This tends to never happen if we’ve sent or received a message so we’ve just ditched winks altogether now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always thought Winks to be cheeky winks not a lazy response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?

It’s pretty rare for either to come this way unsolicited. But I am happy with a wink as an expression of interest and a message can follow.

I don’t subscribe to “wink equals lazy”. Although I can see why people would.

We’ve used them in the past then got a wink back so have sent a message then nothing

or vice versa.

This tends to never happen if we’ve sent or received a message so we’ve just ditched winks altogether now."

I don't get the whole wink to show interest then nothing..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Refreshing to read these replies. I can never understand the snobbery from some on Fab regarding winking.

Miss V"

Funnily enough we winked a really hot couple and got a really snobby message back about it, this also put us off. They looked great but came across really arrogant, could have just deleted the wink and moved on.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Hard enough to get anyone to look at our profile these days, let alone send us a wink "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?

I've winked at you.... lets see how this plays out. Lol

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

Wink says there is an interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink or message, both get you to ha e a look at a profile I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?

It’s pretty rare for either to come this way unsolicited. But I am happy with a wink as an expression of interest and a message can follow.

I don’t subscribe to “wink equals lazy”. Although I can see why people would.

We’ve used them in the past then got a wink back so have sent a message then nothing

or vice versa.

This tends to never happen if we’ve sent or received a message so we’ve just ditched winks altogether now.

I don't get the whole wink to show interest then nothing.."

Yeah it’s bizarre, happened to us loads.

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By *imBanksMan
over a year ago

Letchworth

I don't get enough winks or messages to ignore them. Usually message back to say thanks for the wink.

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By *ip7Man
over a year ago

caister

If I like the looks of the winker I always say thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?

It’s pretty rare for either to come this way unsolicited. But I am happy with a wink as an expression of interest and a message can follow.

I don’t subscribe to “wink equals lazy”. Although I can see why people would.

We’ve used them in the past then got a wink back so have sent a message then nothing

or vice versa.

This tends to never happen if we’ve sent or received a message so we’ve just ditched winks altogether now.

I don't get the whole wink to show interest then nothing..

Yeah it’s bizarre, happened to us loads."

Me too, I just block when that happens...

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

I assumed winks would show up somehow, like messages. But whenever I opened the homepage it would say 'no new winks' so I actually missed a bunch of winks - from women, no less - which I also assumed women wouldn't send due to the bad rap winks seem to get.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I'm a serial wink and when I check the profile and photos, if I like them I fab them. If I'm serious about the possibility of meeting the lady, I message them. Some reply back who are or not interested and many don't respond.

But I do respect a message, even if there not interested. It's just good manners.

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By *winfrozrMan
over a year ago

Carnoustie

I’ll respond to both

Even if it’s just a thank you message

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?

It’s pretty rare for either to come this way unsolicited. But I am happy with a wink as an expression of interest and a message can follow.

I don’t subscribe to “wink equals lazy”. Although I can see why people would.

We’ve used them in the past then got a wink back so have sent a message then nothing

or vice versa.

This tends to never happen if we’ve sent or received a message so we’ve just ditched winks altogether now.

I don't get the whole wink to show interest then nothing..

Yeah it’s bizarre, happened to us loads.

Me too, I just block when that happens..."

We don’t block for it, takes a bit more to ruffle our feathers lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?

It’s pretty rare for either to come this way unsolicited. But I am happy with a wink as an expression of interest and a message can follow.

I don’t subscribe to “wink equals lazy”. Although I can see why people would.

We’ve used them in the past then got a wink back so have sent a message then nothing

or vice versa.

This tends to never happen if we’ve sent or received a message so we’ve just ditched winks altogether now.

I don't get the whole wink to show interest then nothing..

Yeah it’s bizarre, happened to us loads.

Me too, I just block when that happens...

We don’t block for it, takes a bit more to ruffle our feathers lol."

I just see it as there is obviously no interest so I don't want to waste time later

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?

It’s pretty rare for either to come this way unsolicited. But I am happy with a wink as an expression of interest and a message can follow.

I don’t subscribe to “wink equals lazy”. Although I can see why people would.

We’ve used them in the past then got a wink back so have sent a message then nothing

or vice versa.

This tends to never happen if we’ve sent or received a message so we’ve just ditched winks altogether now.

I don't get the whole wink to show interest then nothing..

Yeah it’s bizarre, happened to us loads.

Me too, I just block when that happens...

We don’t block for it, takes a bit more to ruffle our feathers lol.

I just see it as there is obviously no interest so I don't want to waste time later

Bet there’s loads that just miss the wink back due to the volume of winks they get though, we get no more than 5 messages a day but probably a 100 winks. Starting to think we come across as scary to approach

Mr C

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Refreshing to read these replies. I can never understand the snobbery from some on Fab regarding winking.

Miss V"
i agree totaly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm regularly called a Winker...... mostly by my ex....

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?"

Either really, it depends how shy people are I guess? A first step is always welcomed, however it’s made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Refreshing to read these replies. I can never understand the snobbery from some on Fab regarding winking.

Miss V

That’s such a shame but the upside is at least you saw their true colours.

You carry on winking! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Refreshing to read these replies. I can never understand the snobbery from some on Fab regarding winking.

Miss V

That’s such a shame but the upside is at least you saw their true colours.

You carry on winking! x"

Haha yeah they had been on our hotlist for a while as well but have now moved to the block list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?"

Anyone it doesn't really matter to me. I'll check out the profile and if I like what I see, I'll msg the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly I get winks from men very rarely from ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mostly I get winks from men very rarely from ladies"

Think everyone is in the same boat with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only message me please

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By *pl83mfCouple
over a year ago

Montreal

Messages only

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Rarely even look at winks. Messages get a reply if they deserve one.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?"

It's very rare we respond to a wink because we hardly ever initiate contact, but we do look at them to see who's interested and we're pleased to receive them. They are a damn site better than a crap message, which is the main type of message we get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a message as I tend to miss the wink notification. But it's a good surprise if I look at the winks and see I got one about 10 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink frome someone will let me know the person is interested

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

I wink and if they wink or look back , I thank them for doing so (also if its. Spontaneous look )and if they'd like to chat , if so, great ....if not , that's cool

That's a reasonable course of action no?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I usually use winks to show that I’m interested and to see if I get a response as sometimes it’s great to send a message but other times you can spend a good amount of time composing a message making sure you’ve digested the profile for it to be unread

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

I don’t mind either.

I SAID, I DON’T MIND EITHER.

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By *unCpl1003Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Don’t mind either tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't respond to winks.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Use the wink and follow up with a message. Only wink if I'm genuinely intrested.

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By *ut4fun6969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

I do both but mostly wink first.if someone winks me I will always send a message thanking them for the wink and go from there sometimes it a thanks but no thanks I feel that's better than being ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a winker, mainly due to being crap at the initial message.

If I receive a wink the I will respond with a message, even if it's to say no thanks.

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

We generally like to send a wink first, if we receive one back we then message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message, we get too many winks to stay on too of it all so only usually see the last few when we check.

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By *0NyorksMan
over a year ago

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I like a wink.. a bit of a precursor to sending a message or if a wink is recieved its like an invite to send across a message.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Lol either would be wonderful

, I'd probably fall off my chair though... As a single guy it's extremely exhausting sending out hundreds of messages for not even a 'no thanks' in return, hence when my fingers are on fire I just send a wink and hope for the best

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Prefer messages. Winks to me mean we think your hot but messages may actually lead somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never get messaged so enjoy the odd wink

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lol either would be wonderful

Depends what you are sending, we try to respond to anyone that’s made an effort and read our profile. If it’s just a how are you doing or hey then it gets deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages! I don’t check my winks as get quite a lot and tend to forget

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By *andG2018Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Message x"
ive sent you a wink

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Messages usually if I like what I see/read on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Refreshing to read these replies. I can never understand the snobbery from some on Fab regarding winking.

Miss V

That’s such a shame but the upside is at least you saw their true colours.

You carry on winking! x

Haha yeah they had been on our hotlist for a while as well but have now moved to the block list "

Yep have to say a few on ours have gone to the block list during Covid.

Going back to the topic, snobbery leaves us cold. Doesn’t matter how hot the profile. It’s a highly undesirable trait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy i wink profiles. Sometimes a profile has no public photos but the profile text is what i am looking for. So a simple wink back can spark a conversation to ask for pics to see if there is an attraction.plus there is alot of attractive profiles on here and i would not get anything done if i wrote a message to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a single guy i wink profiles. Sometimes a profile has no public photos but the profile text is what i am looking for. So a simple wink back can spark a conversation to ask for pics to see if there is an attraction.plus there is alot of attractive profiles on here and i would not get anything done if i wrote a message to everyone."

Haha fair enough, although we don’t at all message or wink a profile with no pics.

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?"

I dont mind both as the wink is a ice-breaker?

Ice-breaker (if you like the looks of the profile / matches what you are looking for) then you can proceed to send face pics or a paragraph ?

There are loads who ignore the wink feature maybe due to getting spammed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a wink, it makes me smile.

I send out winks with very little if any response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a wink I always reply with a thank you

Wink is surely a sign that they/she are interested

I had a wink from a couple not long ago messaged them to say thank you then they blocked me lol

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Refreshing to read these replies. I can never understand the snobbery from some on Fab regarding winking.

Miss V"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll respond to winks if I'm attracted to them too, either with a wink myself or a message

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I send winks and if they wink back then send an introductory message and take it from there. I use winks as I see how the feature was intended, a subtle way of showing interest.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Can’t beat a good wink,in fact I wink so much I have a sore hand! I have been called a first class winker in the past due to my constant winking

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I will always wink if I am interested and I will message if I think there may be a chance of an interest back.

I will always thank whoever winks me regardless of my interest, it's rude not too,

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Either, we wink or message back if interested. Not to “how r u?” messages though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always forget to check winkers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the winks I receive are from people who can’t message me because of my filters stopping them .......

I will never respond to a wink ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the winks I receive are from people who can’t message me because of my filters stopping them .......

I will never respond to a wink , "

Your message filters also apply to winks

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Most of the winks I receive are from people who can’t message me because of my filters stopping them .......

I will never respond to a wink , "
I didn't realise winks didn't follow the same criteria as message filters? I only wink people who have men listed as someone they are looking for. If they have omitted men I don't wink them as I take it as no men please despite them not having not having men blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink because most of the time my initial message gets ignored

Besides, if someone's interested in me they will send me a message.

I've had instances of people who left my initial message unread sending *me* an initial message later on. So I assume it's not worth sending out messages given the volume of messages women receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will often wink to signify I like the profile.. if I get a wink and I like the profile I message saying so and I’d like to chat and get to know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are fine, as you can either chose to respond or not.

Great to get a message if they have read what you are looking for and they match it otherwise very tedious to get messages from guys/cpls that are have no pics, not verified by the site or have any verifications displayed but do tell you they are genuine but their profile looks as fake as a £3 note.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *evilmaycareMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?

Totally agree, sometimes you don't know how much to put into a first email. Agree that how's you is pathetic, but your also never sure if go straight in with sexual content or polite conversation... At least a wink does allow you to know if the other person is at least open to contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?

Couldn't agree more with this. First messages are always difficult, winking isn't lazy, its cheeky

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?

Polite always for us to be honest,

Full on messages from the offset just turn us off,

A bit of charm and good craic go a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We much prefer a mail but understand a lot like the wink system to see if there is an attraction

If someone winks and we feel there is a possibility of getting on we return the wink then down to them to follow it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer a well written message, but the vast (VAST) majority of people on here have the conversational skills of a gnat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send a wink if I like the look of a profile, if I get one back I’ll send a message. It’s just a nice way to show people I’m interested in them

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By *umasutraCouple
over a year ago

Guildford

For some reason our wink button doesn’t work on my phone. Any ideas why this is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works on mine

Maybe reload the page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For some reason our wink button doesn’t work on my phone. Any ideas why this is?"

Just one of many bugs you'll find on this site when using a phone.

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By *umasutraCouple
over a year ago

Guildford

"Works on mine

Maybe reload the page"

It’s a permanent problem even if I reload the page. I’m using the Duck duck go browser???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not safari or chrome

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By *umasutraCouple
over a year ago

Guildford

"Not safari or chrome"

Duck duck go is much more private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not safari or chrome

Duck duck go is much more private "

The mobile site is full of bugs. It's been like it for years.

Have you also noticed when people put loads of ???? on their profiles & messages? That's not deliberate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Works on mine

Maybe reload the page

It’s a permanent problem even if I reload the page. I’m using the Duck duck go browser???????"

We use safari and have no issues,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Works on mine

Maybe reload the page

It’s a permanent problem even if I reload the page. I’m using the Duck duck go browser???????

We use safari and have no issues,"

I don't have any issues either but this has been talked about widely on here for years. If you have a problem, post it on the 'site forum page'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely look at winks. Message is best. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a wink or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I test the waters with a wink if someone catches my eye, if they wink back I’ll send a message

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We love receiving a cheeky wink, send them quite a bit too.

Lily

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Definitely a water tester and a wink saves a lot of hassle

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Call me old fashioned but I love a cheeky wink xx

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

What's with guys winking, I return the wink and then nothing? Do they think "shit what now?" Or change their minds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love winks , use them quiet regularly

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By *aytay987Man
over a year ago

I love a wink

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

I'm a winker, I'm a winker. And it does me good like it bloody well should.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?"

wink.. then message if i wink back

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By *ustKeepSwinging999Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Never even look at the winks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never even look at the winks

We don’t now either, forget all about them now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always. It's just polite. I understand why women may not. I'm pretty sure they've way more winks and messages than the chaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I respond to both winks and messages. Even if im not interested i always like to reply it's only manners

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

I like a good wink if you are a winker do feel free...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wink system could be great for people who struggle to send the first message (like me) but too many people just ignore it.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"The wink system could be great for people who struggle to send the first message (like me) but too many people just ignore it."

Yup x

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Do you respond to winks or do you prefer a message when you are approached on here?"

Message please x

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