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By *ecker30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwich

How hard is it to find a woman who likes to dominate a guy with a strapon?????

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By *ostringsfun84Man
over a year ago

Pirbright/Farnborough

Very.....I’m still eagerly waiting!

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

Very hard or not so hard... depends on how you approach it.

Try and find a lady just for the purposes of pegging you, then get your wallet out and find a pro. Okay i'm being extreme but most ladies don't want to be some throw away item just for your sexual fantasy.

Seriously, want to get pegged then form a bond with that person, get to know the person via a relationship or friends with benefits or a club meet.. and bring up your interest once you've got to know each other a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not hard at all, there’s plenty of us out there.

However......as with most women who are dominant and really enjoy what we do, trust has to be built up first. It’s certainly not a wham bam pastime for us and anal sex is all about trust believe me. You want someone to know what they’re doing.

Good luck in your search OP.

Miss V

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

We have ordered a strap on and it comes in a couple of days. Anything we should think about as it will be our first time?

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By *ecker30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwich

Thanks, maybe I should keep it secret for a while like I have for 20 years. Then i told the wife, now she thinks I'm gay!

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By *ostringsfun84Man
over a year ago

Pirbright/Farnborough


"We have ordered a strap on and it comes in a couple of days. Anything we should think about as it will be our first time?"

Lube, and pull out gently!

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter


"Thanks, maybe I should keep it secret for a while like I have for 20 years. Then i told the wife, now she thinks I'm gay!"

It’s not gay atall cause it’s a female with a strap on

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter


"We have ordered a strap on and it comes in a couple of days. Anything we should think about as it will be our first time?

Lube, and pull out gently!"

Is that all we need to know!

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By *ostringsfun84Man
over a year ago

Pirbright/Farnborough


"We have ordered a strap on and it comes in a couple of days. Anything we should think about as it will be our first time?

Lube, and pull out gently!

Is that all we need to know!"

Depends how dominant you are!! When it hits his/your g spot enjoy.

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By *ecker30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwich

Yes but I need to find a willing lady! Are there any ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very but worth the search

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

Never thought it would be something I would be into but tried it tonight. And I think it was great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How hard is it to find a woman who likes to dominate a guy with a strapon?????"

... very!!!but all you can do is...to try and find one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex used to peg me regularly. Only thing I miss about her lol

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By *ecker30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwich

I'm still looking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very hard or not so hard... depends on how you approach it.

Try and find a lady just for the purposes of pegging you, then get your wallet out and find a pro. Okay i'm being extreme but most ladies don't want to be some throw away item just for your sexual fantasy.

Seriously, want to get pegged then form a bond with that person, get to know the person via a relationship or friends with benefits or a club meet.. and bring up your interest once you've got to know each other a bit."

This!

I enjoy pegging but I'm not a fetish dispenser. Anyone who slides into my inbox with a list of their interests gets deleted. Got to get to know me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very hard or not so hard... depends on how you approach it.

Try and find a lady just for the purposes of pegging you, then get your wallet out and find a pro. Okay i'm being extreme but most ladies don't want to be some throw away item just for your sexual fantasy.

Seriously, want to get pegged then form a bond with that person, get to know the person via a relationship or friends with benefits or a club meet.. and bring up your interest once you've got to know each other a bit.

This!

I enjoy pegging but I'm not a fetish dispenser. Anyone who slides into my inbox with a list of their interests gets deleted. Got to get to know me first."

The catch22... slide in and say hello and risk all, or play the long game and get swamped...

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Thanks, maybe I should keep it secret for a while like I have for 20 years. Then i told the wife, now she thinks I'm gay!

It’s not gay atall cause it’s a female with a strap on"

what if it a real feminine attractive female born with a penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m an anal virgin but always been curious about being pegged it’s something I want to try...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried it for the first time on a woman the other week..

I'm now hooked and would love to fuck a guy

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By *neoclockgunMan
over a year ago

London


"Tried it for the first time on a woman the other week..

I'm now hooked and would love to fuck a guy "

I’m sure you won’t be short of volunteers!

(I volunteer. As long as it’s a nice big one...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How hard is it to find a woman who likes to dominate a guy with a strapon?????"

Very difficult.

So now I have found one I’m marrying her...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tried it for the first time on a woman the other week..

I'm now hooked and would love to fuck a guy "

Mmmmm yes please add me to your “To do” pegging list

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I've been pegged quite a few times.

I have my own strap on with the 5 inch dildo allows room for a real good deep hard n fast banging so she can come too. Love to feel the ladys body pounding against my butt while gripping my hips.

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

Love it!! Anybody who fancies it too, let me know!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it!! Anybody who fancies it too, let me know!!! "

I fancy it - got my mrs on the case tonight

Just letting you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have ordered a strap on and it comes in a couple of days. Anything we should think about as it will be our first time?"
be super relaxed and horny, make it about him doing what he likes the most whether that's playing with him ass or cock, going down on her or role play. Play with his ass and ease strap on in very slowly. First time you might not actually have the pegging you want his ass might not take it just take it slow. Once your in the groove you'll know exactly what to do and remember lube, lube and more lube x

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By *ecker30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwich

I like the sound of that! Where are all the volunteers? I cant find any willing females!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is there anyone from Northern Ireland interested in pegging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to find a dominant women to explore pegging with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How hard is it to find a woman who likes to dominate a guy with a strapon?????"

You could always try 'the real thing' as a suitable substitute... You may even like it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very hard or not so hard... depends on how you approach it.

Try and find a lady just for the purposes of pegging you, then get your wallet out and find a pro. Okay i'm being extreme but most ladies don't want to be some throw away item just for your sexual fantasy.

Seriously, want to get pegged then form a bond with that person, get to know the person via a relationship or friends with benefits or a club meet.. and bring up your interest once you've got to know each other a bit."

exactly this. I had a FWB for a few years and she loved pegging me and i loved her doing it BUT funnily enough it wasn't the first thing we did together. It only happened after months of intimacy/exploring each other and what we BOTH liked and enjoyed. Respect is a big thing both ways yes some women will peg you on a meet i expect but they are like the hens teeth and as mentioned elsewhere some women get nothing out of it but do it to please. its like asking a woman on a first meet to wank you off and giving nothing back in return...

we used a double ended strap on in the end as she said at least she had some pleasure too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get on any dating site, it's been situations I've faced. Not for me personally so have declined the offer three times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it kind of entered our marriage eventually after years of plugs and vibe and dildo play..a natural progression so to speak..various harnesses and strapless peggers are being purchased to suit all moods on a fun kinky night.Sometimes she wants to feel very close so the internal strapless one suits better and other times she just wants to strap on a cock and just go for it as a power thing.. Good luck OP...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all women should try it at least once claim some of the dominance back I have used a strap on on a man, and will again very soon I hope!! The thought of a man being totally Sub for me really floats my boat haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think all women should try it at least once claim some of the dominance back I have used a strap on on a man, and will again very soon I hope!! The thought of a man being totally Sub for me really floats my boat haha x"

Might be sooner than you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have ordered a strap on and it comes in a couple of days. Anything we should think about as it will be our first time?

Lube, and pull out gently!

Is that all we need to know!"

Don't go to big to start with. Maybe 5-6 inch to start. You can buy a harness so you can work up to bigger ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thought i had found the one to own me and my ass turns out i hadnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had done few times but my x has long gone xx from south Cumbria hint hi t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeking such pleasures in innocent Ireland

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By *llesmereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Some good silicone based lube. Relax take your time and find your pace x

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By *xotic indianCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Tried it during the lockdown now it's part of our daily sex life .

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By *arriet_JamesCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

We play quite a bit with the strap on including pegging. Very enjoyable for us both!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

easy if the guy is genuinely a submissive which is more difficult to find than a woman into pegging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crazy how when you attempt anal on a woman I have to be so delicate and gentle and go very very slow to start. Yet give her a strap on and she’s off like a Jackhammer

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By *egmelpoolMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I have found it very difficult to find a woman who likes to be in control and will peg me

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

I have one

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By *ick-meMan
over a year ago

high peak

I’d love to try this - any fems south manc/Cheshire into pegging too

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By *egmelpoolMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"I have one "
are you looking to use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it!! Anybody who fancies it too, let me know!!!

I fancy it - got my mrs on the case tonight

Just letting you know "

I'd love it

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket


"I have one "

I’ve one still boxed. Just need to find help using it

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket


"I have one are you looking to use it "

Same thoughts

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By *ecker30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwich

After being on here for a few months I'm coming to the conclusion that there aren't any women out there that would enjoy fucking me with a strapon! Lol.

Any guys found any willing ladies out there? Just give me a wink ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like pegging a guy, but not to dominate him... For me it's no different to riding him or him fucking me... It's about pleasure, not power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv genuinely given up looking....decided ill just go for the real thing instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanting any kind of kink needs attraction and connection... For me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you need to decide if you're just looking for someone to reenact some porn you've watched just to deliver your kink, or you're looking for something more than that.

If it's the former then good luck, you'll need it

We get these topics on a weekly basis and it's almost always a guy asking if someone's interested in pegging them. Do you really think someone's going to put their hand up and say "sure, I'll peg you"?

Obviously this approach isn't working.

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By *ecker30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwich

Thanks maybe I'm not being clear! I'd like to participate in all other sex activities as well but would love to find someone willing to do this also!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Go looking for a woman purely to peg you and nothing else then you might find it easier to open your wallet and find someone who specialises in that kind of service and im sure you'd have a damn good time doing so too.

I'd think that for any woman to want to peg you it would take a connection between you both for a start and also not be purely about you being pegged either, there would likely need to be more to your liason than just that.

If it helps you to have some perspective OP, ive been pegged by women who probably didn't have this as one of the things they were looking to do but it developed into something they wanted to try over time and also because they wanted to do something for me too.

Who knows, what I can tell you is is that its brilliant fun and the switcheroo of it all is a great mindfuck at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to add that as much as I love pegging every gender it gets bloody exhausting after the first half hour! I have a whole new respect for guys when us women are in the mood for a long session

Miss V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to add that as much as I love pegging every gender it gets bloody exhausting after the first half hour! I have a whole new respect for guys when us women are in the mood for a long session

Miss V"

Get them to sit on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to add that as much as I love pegging every gender it gets bloody exhausting after the first half hour! I have a whole new respect for guys when us women are in the mood for a long session

Miss V

Get them to sit on you "

I always do after I’ve exhausted every other position. I like to experiment first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to add that as much as I love pegging every gender it gets bloody exhausting after the first half hour! I have a whole new respect for guys when us women are in the mood for a long session

Miss V

Get them to sit on you

I always do after I’ve exhausted every other position. I like to experiment first! "

Lucky peeps

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By *erb51Man
over a year ago

Northants


"Wanting any kind of kink needs attraction and connection... For me"

I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of fantasies that I've yet to experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanting any kind of kink needs attraction and connection... For me

I like it "

Oh, you do?!!? Maybe you should tell me all about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder if there are anyone who would like to try it with me...

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By *erb51Man
over a year ago

Northants


"Wanting any kind of kink needs attraction and connection... For me

I like it

Oh, you do?!!? Maybe you should tell me all about it! "

Ha ha I've got to catch you out first you kinky fox lol xx

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By *onzoDog74Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

I remember seeing a girl in Bristol for a couple of months a few years back and she was getting pretty insistent about giving me a pegging. ‘What’s good for the Goose is good the Gander.’ she used to say..

..I wasn’t sure about it at all so I just put her off. Perhaps that was a little unsporting of me with hindsight. Then again perhaps it was a close escape. Still not sure which.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanting any kind of kink needs attraction and connection... For me

I like it

Oh, you do?!!? Maybe you should tell me all about it!

Ha ha I've got to catch you out first you kinky fox lol xx"

Haha yes you do!

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"I like pegging a guy, but not to dominate him... For me it's no different to riding him or him fucking me... It's about pleasure, not power"

Agree! obvs some people have their own kinks of being dom or sub but for me it's all about pleasuring each other and turning each other on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely

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By *ightAssSissyMan
over a year ago

Gosport

I'm in gosport and very hard to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone woman or tv/ts keen to exchange pics and have filthy chat?

Hopefully you won't be disappointed ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to add that as much as I love pegging every gender it gets bloody exhausting after the first half hour! I have a whole new respect for guys when us women are in the mood for a long session

Miss V"

Message me and we can sort something out

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By *ecker30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwich

I'm still looking to be pegged, any takers?

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By *ostringsfun84Man
over a year ago

Pirbright/Farnborough

Same here....

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Not that hard

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford


"We have ordered a strap on and it comes in a couple of days. Anything we should think about as it will be our first time?"

Cleanliness (obviously) relax and get in the mood for it take it slowly use plenty of lube and keep comunicating with eachother.

Mr H.

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By *ostringsfun84Man
over a year ago

Pirbright/Farnborough

Are you volunteering!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something very empowering about wearing and using a strapon

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By *arried bi2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I strap hubby most nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does she have to be dominating? I love pegging men I am connected with, not randoms though

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By *arried bi2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I love how much he loves it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have ordered a strap on and it comes in a couple of days. Anything we should think about as it will be our first time?

Lube, and pull out gently!

Is that all we need to know!"

Anal douche so I've heard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to be pegged but more sensual than domination

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford


"Why does she have to be dominating? I love pegging men I am connected with, not randoms though"

This. Luna and myself have enjoyed some very passionate loving sessions with her strapon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that hard "

You can't get it in though if it isn't hard

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By *ecker30 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwich

All sounds good, all I need is a willing female! Are there any out there that would like to demonstrate?

It's got to be better than DIY dildo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently started getting pegged by this absolute buity of a woman. I'd fantasised about it a lot prior and now she comes and pegs me regularly. It's one of my favourite kind of encounters. I also own my own strapon if theirs any lady's who fancy it

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