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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm 18 but get on much better with women older than I am. what's the youngest you would go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we met a guy?

35.

We have found guys under the age of 25 has a lot of growing up to do.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

In all honesty I won't go younger than me as I find older men more mature, respectful and experienced but it's all about personal preference as a friend of mine will only meet men younger than her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we met a guy?

35.

We have found guys under the age of 25 has a lot of growing up to do."

Yeah this is my issue. I obviously can't speak for others but think a lot see the age and have bad experiences with people younger being rude pushy etc. ill bide my time, I find this place more sane than Facebook or anything like that anyway haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In all honesty I won't go younger than me as I find older men more mature, respectful and experienced but it's all about personal preference as a friend of mine will only meet men younger than her"

Ywah I see that a lot. I just have to do my best to show that I am not like most my age with lack of respect etc, however I'm very aware for a lot its not their preference and that's okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we met a guy?

35.

We have found guys under the age of 25 has a lot of growing up to do."

I find alot of grown men need to grow up on here and thats from 33 upwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we met a guy?

35.

We have found guys under the age of 25 has a lot of growing up to do.

Yeah this is my issue. I obviously can't speak for others but think a lot see the age and have bad experiences with people younger being rude pushy etc. ill bide my time, I find this place more sane than Facebook or anything like that anyway haha"

We don't see them as rude or pushy.

They are just immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you describe a mature man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20

It's just a safe age

She's less likely to be a 15 year old pretending

And "teen" sounds wrong publicly. Eg 18 or 19....a 20 year old is more acceptable.

But I've ALWAYS been more into women who are 8-10 years older.

I didn't like the pub type young women. I always liked a bit of maturity. I like Dominants. Being with older women was always sexy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we met a guy?

35.

We have found guys under the age of 25 has a lot of growing up to do.

Yeah this is my issue. I obviously can't speak for others but think a lot see the age and have bad experiences with people younger being rude pushy etc. ill bide my time, I find this place more sane than Facebook or anything like that anyway haha

We don't see them as rude or pushy.

They are just immature. "

I can easily understand that. I definitely haven't rhe life experiences a lot of people do I've not been round long enough, and sex is nothing really with no mental connection. I guess you have to relate to people to form that connection

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

about 40 for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we met a guy?

35.

We have found guys under the age of 25 has a lot of growing up to do.

Yeah this is my issue. I obviously can't speak for others but think a lot see the age and have bad experiences with people younger being rude pushy etc. ill bide my time, I find this place more sane than Facebook or anything like that anyway haha

We don't see them as rude or pushy.

They are just immature.

I can easily understand that. I definitely haven't rhe life experiences a lot of people do I've not been round long enough, and sex is nothing really with no mental connection. I guess you have to relate to people to form that connection "

Maybe younger girls of a similar age may have something in common but in general girls of that similar age are usually much more mature than the boys.

But being brutally honest. What can an 18 year old boy bring to the party?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"about 40 for me"

Ill call you in 2040

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of women/men over age 40 are actually immature

I know 16-20 year olds who struggle working and paying bills alone and get no help.

And then people aged 40-65 who have been entitled and lazy their entire lives and have been gifted everything/judge themselves to be better than others.

"Boomers"

I like older women but only in 30s mid 40s.

In that reguard I do respect younger people than millenials.

Because they have to go through all the shit I went through. And people who lived in the 1980s never needed to gothrough

E.g. fixed term contracts and high property prices...

That has made many young people today to be vastly more mature than older generations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 ish for us, maybe a couple of years younger if they're particularly mature. But it's a hard no if you're younger than our children or we have bottles of wine older than you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the person, but probably not anyone younger that 24, which would be four years younger than myself and 7 younger than my hubby. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Loads of women/men over age 40 are actually immature

I know 16-20 year olds who struggle working and paying bills alone and get no help.

And then people aged 40-65 who have been entitled and lazy their entire lives and have been gifted everything/judge themselves to be better than others.

"Boomers"

I like older women but only in 30s mid 40s.

In that reguard I do respect younger people than millenials.

Because they have to go through all the shit I went through. And people who lived in the 1980s never needed to gothrough

E.g. fixed term contracts and high property prices...

That has made many young people today to be vastly more mature than older generations.

"

during the 80s we were paying a mortgage at an interest rate of 16%, properties went into negative equity and many people found themselves living in homes worth thousands less than they had paid for them. We all went through shit, its just different shit

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"about 40 for me

Ill call you in 2040 "

I'll be 83, you will be way too busy calling younger women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loads of women/men over age 40 are actually immature

I know 16-20 year olds who struggle working and paying bills alone and get no help.

And then people aged 40-65 who have been entitled and lazy their entire lives and have been gifted everything/judge themselves to be better than others.

"Boomers"

I like older women but only in 30s mid 40s.

In that reguard I do respect younger people than millenials.

Because they have to go through all the shit I went through. And people who lived in the 1980s never needed to gothrough

E.g. fixed term contracts and high property prices...

That has made many young people today to be vastly more mature than older generations.

during the 80s we were paying a mortgage at an interest rate of 16%, properties went into negative equity and many people found themselves living in homes worth thousands less than they had paid for them. We all went through shit, its just different shit"

We all went through shit just different shit. I love that

Think a lot of people could do with realising haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"about 40 for me

Ill call you in 2040

I'll be 83, you will be way too busy calling younger women "

Not if you still look like that I won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we met a guy?

35.

We have found guys under the age of 25 has a lot of growing up to do.

Yeah this is my issue. I obviously can't speak for others but think a lot see the age and have bad experiences with people younger being rude pushy etc. ill bide my time, I find this place more sane than Facebook or anything like that anyway haha

We don't see them as rude or pushy.

They are just immature.

I can easily understand that. I definitely haven't rhe life experiences a lot of people do I've not been round long enough, and sex is nothing really with no mental connection. I guess you have to relate to people to form that connection

Maybe younger girls of a similar age may have something in common but in general girls of that similar age are usually much more mature than the boys.

But being brutally honest. What can an 18 year old boy bring to the party? "

They aren't more mature.

They are just having more sex.

They also latch onto a man who "takes care" of them after daddy has finished treating her like princess.

Meanwhile I pay 100% for everything so I feel like "the man" careing for "the girl"

Amy in my a level history said "girls more mature than boys"...the teacher called her out on it....

Maturity is paying your own bills and paying for your own kids/home

An unemployed bennefit mum or a housewife to a shugar daddy isn't maturity.

They would always look down on me for "not owning own home"...But my taxes or some shugar daddy husband was paying for them so they don't understand being an adult.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"about 40 for me

Ill call you in 2040

I'll be 83, you will be way too busy calling younger women

Not if you still look like that I won't "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"about 40 for me

Ill call you in 2040

I'll be 83, you will be way too busy calling younger women

Not if you still look like that I won't

"

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"If we met a guy?

35.

We have found guys under the age of 25 has a lot of growing up to do.

Yeah this is my issue. I obviously can't speak for others but think a lot see the age and have bad experiences with people younger being rude pushy etc. ill bide my time, I find this place more sane than Facebook or anything like that anyway haha

We don't see them as rude or pushy.

They are just immature.

I can easily understand that. I definitely haven't rhe life experiences a lot of people do I've not been round long enough, and sex is nothing really with no mental connection. I guess you have to relate to people to form that connection

Maybe younger girls of a similar age may have something in common but in general girls of that similar age are usually much more mature than the boys.

But being brutally honest. What can an 18 year old boy bring to the party?

They aren't more mature.

They are just having more sex.

They also latch onto a man who "takes care" of them after daddy has finished treating her like princess.

Meanwhile I pay 100% for everything so I feel like "the man" careing for "the girl"

Amy in my a level history said "girls more mature than boys"...the teacher called her out on it....

Maturity is paying your own bills and paying for your own kids/home

An unemployed bennefit mum or a housewife to a shugar daddy isn't maturity.

They would always look down on me for "not owning own home"...But my taxes or some shugar daddy husband was paying for them so they don't understand being an adult."

I hope you are not applying that sweeping generalisation to all women???

My dad certainly never treated me like a princess I had to work twice as hard at everything for him to even notice my existence.

I have worked hard all my life and pay my own bills, I have never relied on a man for financial or material support and my pride would not allow me to

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"In all honesty I won't go younger than me as I find older men more mature, respectful and experienced but it's all about personal preference as a friend of mine will only meet men younger than her

Ywah I see that a lot. I just have to do my best to show that I am not like most my age with lack of respect etc, however I'm very aware for a lot its not their preference and that's okay "

From your replies and comments on here you actually sound very sensible and mature are you sure you're only 18?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we met a guy?

35.

We have found guys under the age of 25 has a lot of growing up to do.

Yeah this is my issue. I obviously can't speak for others but think a lot see the age and have bad experiences with people younger being rude pushy etc. ill bide my time, I find this place more sane than Facebook or anything like that anyway haha

We don't see them as rude or pushy.

They are just immature.

I can easily understand that. I definitely haven't rhe life experiences a lot of people do I've not been round long enough, and sex is nothing really with no mental connection. I guess you have to relate to people to form that connection

Maybe younger girls of a similar age may have something in common but in general girls of that similar age are usually much more mature than the boys.

But being brutally honest. What can an 18 year old boy bring to the party?

They aren't more mature.

They are just having more sex.

They also latch onto a man who "takes care" of them after daddy has finished treating her like princess.

Meanwhile I pay 100% for everything so I feel like "the man" careing for "the girl"

Amy in my a level history said "girls more mature than boys"...the teacher called her out on it....

Maturity is paying your own bills and paying for your own kids/home

An unemployed bennefit mum or a housewife to a shugar daddy isn't maturity.

They would always look down on me for "not owning own home"...But my taxes or some shugar daddy husband was paying for them so they don't understand being an adult.

I hope you are not applying that sweeping generalisation to all women???

My dad certainly never treated me like a princess I had to work twice as hard at everything for him to even notice my existence.

I have worked hard all my life and pay my own bills, I have never relied on a man for financial or material support and my pride would not allow me to"

A lot of people generalise far too much especially on here I've found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we met a guy?

35.

We have found guys under the age of 25 has a lot of growing up to do.

Yeah this is my issue. I obviously can't speak for others but think a lot see the age and have bad experiences with people younger being rude pushy etc. ill bide my time, I find this place more sane than Facebook or anything like that anyway haha

We don't see them as rude or pushy.

They are just immature.

I can easily understand that. I definitely haven't rhe life experiences a lot of people do I've not been round long enough, and sex is nothing really with no mental connection. I guess you have to relate to people to form that connection

Maybe younger girls of a similar age may have something in common but in general girls of that similar age are usually much more mature than the boys.

But being brutally honest. What can an 18 year old boy bring to the party?

They aren't more mature.

They are just having more sex.

They also latch onto a man who "takes care" of them after daddy has finished treating her like princess.

Meanwhile I pay 100% for everything so I feel like "the man" careing for "the girl"

Amy in my a level history said "girls more mature than boys"...the teacher called her out on it....

Maturity is paying your own bills and paying for your own kids/home

An unemployed bennefit mum or a housewife to a shugar daddy isn't maturity.

They would always look down on me for "not owning own home"...But my taxes or some shugar daddy husband was paying for them so they don't understand being an adult."

maturity comes in many forms , what you are describing is actually financial independence

and your comments are unfortunately proving that in other areas you are lacking the maturity that only comes with growing up and getting some life experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

This is all just a really overblown way to say, it’s different for each and every individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its tough to put an age on it,.21 for.me probably is a good age tbh but depends on your own age I guess and yoyr comfort.

An older age canbe tough too as there are so many gorgeous women older thane that Id love to play with

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I've had some wonderful experiences with young men including 18 year old. Age is a number, everyone is individually different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age or older is my preference these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive only had one meet that was younger than me in the swinging aspect and that was at a swingers not from fab.

Same age or higher is the safest bet

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By *ani87rMan
over a year ago

Boston

Single 33 old guy looking some date with woman's or copules 1m1f or 2f if you would like I can take my mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single 33 old guy looking some date with woman's or copules 1m1f or 2f if you would like I can take my mate "

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the older you get the more you understand and enjoy sex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 but he must and I repeat must get on better with older women and he must be able to start multiple threads and keep them going.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a single guy? My age, so at the moment, 26. But I tend to go for 30-40.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 39, so for a single female I'd say early 20s.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Loads of women/men over age 40 are actually immature

I know 16-20 year olds who struggle working and paying bills alone and get no help.

And then people aged 40-65 who have been entitled and lazy their entire lives and have been gifted everything/judge themselves to be better than others.

"Boomers"

I like older women but only in 30s mid 40s.

In that reguard I do respect younger people than millenials.

Because they have to go through all the shit I went through. And people who lived in the 1980s never needed to gothrough

E.g. fixed term contracts and high property prices...

That has made many young people today to be vastly more mature than older generations.

during the 80s we were paying a mortgage at an interest rate of 16%, properties went into negative equity and many people found themselves living in homes worth thousands less than they had paid for them. We all went through shit, its just different shit"

During this period we were struggling & I had to laugh when my first wife’s mum came out with “We we’re struggling too when we bought our first house, Dads money was gone after the mortgage, bills, stuff to furnish the house”. I responded with “But you worked too, what did you use that money for?” “Oh that was for going out & holidays”.

At the time at near 15% our mortgage alone was all my income, over half the wife’s & for half of each month we lived on beans on toast & frankfurters!! Thank fuck it didn’t stay high for long!!

S

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Probably mid 20s at youngest but more likely 30 to 45 as z preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer the 18 to 25 age bracket. Most of them give no fucks and are more flexible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there old enough to be on fab then all good with me.

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

If they are old enough to go to clubs, be on fab and swing then I have no issues with any age range.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We like to socialise more than play, so we'd need to have enough in common to have a good chat. Anyone more than ten years younger than us probably wouldn't get our jokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 18 but get on much better with women older than I am. what's the youngest you would go?"

So OP.

You haven't mentioned yet.

What experience do you bring to the party?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have chatted to a 18 year old girl and she was great but.

Also chatted to a few lads in their 20s and they were so pushy so no young lads but younger females ok

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over a year ago


"If we met a guy?

35.

We have found guys under the age of 25 has a lot of growing up to do."

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Sue always says "never send a boy "to do a mans job ....so lads in the 20s age group are a non starter for us....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our preference is set to 25 + but for them to be that young they’d have to tick all of our wants plus some. If not then it’s around our own age or older

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I prefer guys around my age or a bit older, I find we have more in common and I like the way they are with women. Occasionally I'll come across (not literally ~ unfortunately ) a guy a lot younger than.me where it works but that is rare.

If I found someone younger who I hit it off with the youngest I'd go would be 35 I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"18 but he must and I repeat must get on better with older women and he must be able to start multiple threads and keep them going.

T"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have chatted to a 18 year old girl and she was great but.

Also chatted to a few lads in their 20s and they were so pushy so no young lads but younger females ok"

Girls are more mature .

In most cases, young guys want to get their cock wet, but have no idea how to behave in this grown up world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 21 and I do try to go for older women but alot of the time I'm out of their age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe like 50?

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By *ax GoofMan
over a year ago

Leeds, Bouverie Court

I've gone as young as 18 before. I like to help out younger lads who may never have had experience with a guy before. I'm pretty chilled out and not exactly the most intimidating of people and everyone has to start somewhere! I get a lot of interest from younger lads. I think they like to start with someone who knows what they are doing and will look after them hehe.

I'd go as young as 18 for girls too but rarely get any interest from girls of any age the

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all honesty I won't go younger than me as I find older men more mature, respectful and experienced but it's all about personal preference as a friend of mine will only meet men younger than her"

Can I have your friends details?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No younger than 30 for me but it would be a bloody miracle if I was so lucky.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

To be honest don't think I'd really consider anyone under 30, & generally I prefer men around my age or slightly older.

K

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

In a club, anyone who is clean respectful and respectable, and who I find attractive.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I only ever meet single guys at clubs with my husband.

Age isn't necessary an issue, but there would need to be a connection and it's unlikely that I would have anything in common with many men under 30. I have children in their mid 20s.

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By *man_4Man
over a year ago

London

Keeping an eye on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99! By that age, she'd know every trick in the book.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Haha we tend to be at the bottom of people's age ranges and normally some of the younger ones but I wouldnt ay with anyone younger than 19, I changed so much between 18-21 that I could fuck younger. I feel like after 25 pretty much everyone is on the same kind of level

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

I think there's also a bit of hypocrisy on the subject because younger women are super in demand but younger guys.. not so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 21 and I do try to go for older women but alot of the time I'm out of their age range"
change your age

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By *ani87rMan
over a year ago

Boston

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s about personality for us but women do mature a lot younger than men, we’ve met couples with women or single women as young as 26, but guys probably 35 would be the youngest. We generally find guys in their 40”s much safer, sorted, grown up and experienced

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

18

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We wont entertain people our childrens ages so only consider 30 plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally around 25, but I'm flexible down to around 18 if the maturity and personality is there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 if the guy is mature looking enough

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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago

West London

Since we mostly play at the clubs - we don’t think too much about what the age of that person, if we like them and if there is a spark we go for it ( anyway everyone is pre-verified by the clubs, so no danger of playing with under 20’s there)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on what both parties are looking for in a meet. For example some are into the age play so in those circumstances a big age gap is more than acceptable.

If it's purely sex as in meeting in a club I don't think your age on your birth certificate means much.

Maturity has nothing to do with age experience certainly does.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I generally prefer men quite a bit younger than me for arranged encounters.

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By *osineCouple
over a year ago

Weston-Super-Mare

My husband is 26, 12 years younger than me but he is just perfect and not at all immature, perfectly respectable.

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York


"Loads of women/men over age 40 are actually immature

I know 16-20 year olds who struggle working and paying bills alone and get no help.

And then people aged 40-65 who have been entitled and lazy their entire lives and have been gifted everything/judge themselves to be better than others.

"Boomers"

I like older women but only in 30s mid 40s.

In that reguard I do respect younger people than millenials.

Because they have to go through all the shit I went through. And people who lived in the 1980s never needed to gothrough

E.g. fixed term contracts and high property prices...

That has made many young people today to be vastly more mature than older generations.

during the 80s we were paying a mortgage at an interest rate of 16%, properties went into negative equity and many people found themselves living in homes worth thousands less than they had paid for them. We all went through shit, its just different shit"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple? Any age there is 100% trust and stability and both doing it for the same reasons. As a single, an age u feel emotionally ready and know your desires are to genuinely swing and know all the pros and cons and are wise enough to see the risks as a single female and also to identify other so called swingers who use the expression as a green light for a quick fuck

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Not 18, our son is 18 and it just feels

We're in the 25-45 age range because it's +/- us by 10yrs. Not close to our son's age or our parents. The upper age might be a bit flexible depending on the person, but not too much.

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By *lim Jim 68Man
over a year ago

Guernsey

Youngest for me would probably be late 30s, but very much dependent on the individual

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

With us it’s connection first, In clubs we’ve played with a 23yr old & those around 50.

Longer term G/F wise our last was 26.

S

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We go by the rule, half your age +7

Mrs Gs

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We'd love a hot guy early to mid 20's. But if he had the right look and attitude as low as 18

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