FabSwingers.com forum: Disrespectful single men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why are single men so disrespectful, and then moan when they get told no.

Our profile clearly states that we only play as a couple unless its on a 1 to 1 basis for the ladies - no men present.

Yet single guys are constantly asking C if she come play on her own.

I've even been referred to as 'he' today.......

Respect is the one thing above all else we value, if there's no respect, it isn't going to happen.

Do other couples have this problem?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I wouldn't want to suggest all single guys are disrespectful but there are certainly a lot who are.

Do they say this to you in the first message? We haven't had anything exactly like that. Normally single guys just write vacuous, pointless messages that are of no interest to us. We don't bother replying so the conversation doesn't get as far as them saying they want to see Hannah without me.

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By *oozleMan
over a year ago

high wycombe

I’m a single guy, but not desperate or bombarding people with messages. It’s down to the person themselves and whether they respect the other people on the site. I would rather have a long conversation and get to know some lovely people, than send a short desperate message.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Why are single men so disrespectful, and then moan when they get told no.

Our profile clearly states that we only play as a couple unless its on a 1 to 1 basis for the ladies - no men present.

Yet single guys are constantly asking C if she come play on her own.

I've even been referred to as 'he' today.......

Respect is the one thing above all else we value, if there's no respect, it isn't going to happen.

Do other couples have this problem?

If you are not going to meet them, does it matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't think of it as a problem. Saves time chatting because we know immediately we won't be meeting them.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Our experience of single men on here has been pretty good. Most have been polite and respectful. The one liners I just delete and never had any bother really.

Mrs x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If you don't want to meet them, block them from messaging in the first place. This will eliminate any issues for you, unless you like the drama or attention for whatever reason. Fab has all the tools available to run your profile without any hassle. Filters are your best friends on here!

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By *ilbert4450Man
over a year ago

paisley

Same reason we have Brexit and Boris as PM. Entitled, inadequate and immature Peter Pans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples and women are disrespectful also, it isn’t just the preserve of men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are single men so disrespectful, and then moan when they get told no.

Our profile clearly states that we only play as a couple unless its on a 1 to 1 basis for the ladies - no men present.

Yet single guys are constantly asking C if she come play on her own.

I've even been referred to as 'he' today.......

Respect is the one thing above all else we value, if there's no respect, it isn't going to happen.

Do other couples have this problem?

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it's arseholes like this that make it so difficult for the rest of us I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met many knob head coupled and single females

The numbers are plenty

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By *oober698Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Its singletons like that, that make it harder for us genuine guys that actually have the respect to read profiles properly and act appropriately.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Why are single men so disrespectful, and then moan when they get told no.

Our profile clearly states that we only play as a couple unless its on a 1 to 1 basis for the ladies - no men present.

Yet single guys are constantly asking C if she come play on her own.

I've even been referred to as 'he' today.......

Respect is the one thing above all else we value, if there's no respect, it isn't going to happen.

Do other couples have this problem?

Bit of a sweeping generalisation, though I’m aware there are many idiots, there are some normal people out there too

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