FabSwingers.com forum: How honest are fab users about their age?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Controversial question, but I have my suspicion that many fabbers stretch the truth a bit, actually some quite alot when it comes to disclosing their ages..

Anyone else agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours are correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines correct but I know other users aren’t for various reasons!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine is a couple years off just for discretion

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

Mines spot on

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Many, many, many people are not honest about their age. We know you know

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Mine is correct but i have met a few who have told lies. It really makes me want to lower my age range to ensure i get the age i want.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

100% truthful about my age on here... honest is the best policy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mines correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% truthful with my age on my profile, and no reason not to be.

It's a mixed bag from others though, seems mostly men that knock about 8 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is correct but I know of many that aren't. Taking a couple of years off is understandable but I know of at least one person who has taken 10 years off.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

No reason or need to lie about mine - it even changes on my actual birthday

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Mine is accurate.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Mine is 100% correct

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

Mine is accurate bar a few days. I just look that old...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is accurate. I once had a meet with a guy who claimed he was 50, posted pics of himself that looked relative to his age and then we met... he was actually 72. WHY???? WHY do that??? He wasn't anything close to resembling his pix

I walked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours are spot on but on a thread a few months ago a chap who stated on his profile that he was 59 admitted to being 85 and he looked it bless him.

Age is just a number!!!!!

I’m 56 (I think) but I act and move like a 90 year old.

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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham, Gloucestershire

My age on my profile is my actual age.

I get so many messages from men who claim to be younger than they generally are, its obvious fron their photos that they're lying. Its an instant red flag for me - if they can't be honest about a simple thing like their age, then how can I trust them to be honest about anything else. No trust = no meet.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Controversial question, but I have my suspicion that many fabbers stretch the truth a bit, actually some quite alot when it comes to disclosing their ages..

Anyone else agree? "

Some do some don't.

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By *usclekernowMan
over a year ago

Liskeard

Mind's honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is a year off as I didn’t want finding. But prior to that I’ve always been honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is correct.

I can understand why some blokes might shave a year or 2 off to get around filters, but come on, you aren't gonna get away with many more than that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is correct, no point in lying. If someone can't remember their date of birth when they sign up, what else they might not be truthful about? Also, I don't see a point of people trying to change their date of birth to fit with others' age range.

I do understand the discretion reason but that should not be a huge discrepancy from the actual age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alot on here are not correct most days i get them had one who said hes 46 i ask him to tell the truth he said 52 but little did he know ive spoke to him in a club environment where hes boosted hes 68 and how good he looked he looks like a very fit 60s ++ but its also happening at the lower scale young guys 18/19 claiming to be mid 20s ... its desperation and its not sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am 60, born 21-6-1960

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By *inman73Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Our ages are correct, no point trying to be younger or in some cases older than you are, but have to admit after 4 months of lockdown, feel a lot older than I am.

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By *r GLTMan
over a year ago

Richmond Upon Thames

Correct age here 59 but in the past i have met a few people giving a false age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see the point in lying

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Mine is correct but I do have my suspicions about some others I've come across. I don't see the point in lying about it, if you meet up and the difference in real/Fab age is large then it's going to be obvious. If it's small and not really noticable then why lie about it in the first place?

I've always said that age is just a number, why are we so hung up on it? If there's an attraction between two (or more) people then it shouldn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m accurate with mine.

I have seen some women that have put their age 20 years younger than they actually are!

All down to personal reasons I suppose-if you can pass for 20 years younger-fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is correct, but I do know some people are less than honest about their age here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Loads of people lie about their age on here and elsewhere. We go by pictures and socials. If they look about the age they claim to be we accept that they are.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

100% my age

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't use our exact date of birth but the year's right. After a certain age arms, neck and hands give it away so lying just makes you look silly

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Mine is correct within a few days... many do take liberties with age.

It's a way to get around age filters.

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By *heerFlirtMan
over a year ago

Quite near Bath usually

"We don't use our exact date of birth but the year's right. After a certain age arms, neck and hands give it away so lying just makes you look silly"

Same here, DoB isn't exact but only by a few weeks.

Thanks to all for the birthday wishes I got though all the same! It was a big one!

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Ours are true but we have met people before who had knocked at least 10 years off their age

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By *man_4Man
over a year ago

London

Didn't really realise that people might be faking their age. Makes me wonder whether some may think I'm lying about my age too

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By *indobona_1TV/TS
over a year ago

Tring

Mine is accurate to the day and I wish it wasn't!

I know that the mantra is 'age is just a number' but it seems that, if high, it puts a lot of folk off - unless they want a 'daddy' or 'auntie'. People are, generally, naturally ageist despite protestations they are not.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Mine is truthful. Don't see what people get to gain by lying.

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

Mine is true. No lies here. Now closer to 50 than 40 & feeling it in every part of my body lol. Wish I'd known 20 years ago what I do about myself now but hey ho.

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Mines exactly right and since my birthday, I've notice a significant drop in views. It doesn't bother me, in fact it cuts down the admin, but I can see why some people would be tempted to bend the truth, to get around filters.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Ours are correct, it's too difficult trying to keep a lie going once you've started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Ours are correct. Can't see the point in not telling it as it is.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

If I want you to know then I'll tell you its that simple.

Nothing on my profile is actually 100% because that's how I chose to do this.

Anyone Im interested in or speaking to with a view to meeting would take the time to get to know me. Within that time I'd tell you. I've no intention of being deceitful or misleading to anyone.

I only ever meet for a coffee these days. With people who are not travelling far. So there's plenty of bale out time for all involved.

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By *aughtychopsCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

100% honest about age - who gives a fuck?! My Mr is younger than me but I wouldn’t hide it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Load of guys message us and the opening sentence proceed to say they are older than profile says lol

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

There is nothing in our profile that isn't the truth apart from our usernames.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines correct although I pass for younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is accurate. A LOT of people lie about their age on here. Some can get away with it and some most definitely can't.

There are a couple of people I've met in the past who were a few years older 5 years ago than they are now

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By *oddamnCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire

We are 20 years younger than our published ages, in our heads at least

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Load of guys message us and the opening sentence proceed to say they are older than profile says lol "

Or "I accidentally put the wrong date in and can't work out how to change it ...."

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"Controversial question, but I have my suspicion that many fabbers stretch the truth a bit, actually some quite alot when it comes to disclosing their ages..

Anyone else agree? "

Outscare correct but it seems some people who've messaged us are not so honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

39 and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes I do wonder if I was born a decade earlier but completely verified and at the ripe age of 43.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that there's quite a lot of people on here who lie about their age but in the end if they look good and you make a connection it shouldn't matter

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Mine is right.

I understand why most do it, to get around filters, just not for me

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

We are on point with our ages and if that means we go out of range of some, well that’s their loss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really 86 years old

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

My internet birthday is about 2 weeks out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'd feel awkward meeting somone if I didn't tell them the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s the point in not telling your real age if you do meet it would be a bit obvious

But is it any different to size now that is a minefield

Perhaps with membership you should get a a cut out of each size like that game bring on the wall !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why lie?! Have seen lots of guys saying they are younger than they are though... Had one bloke make another, younger, profile so he could message me, when my age preference was set too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our ages are correct on our profile

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I get accused of not being honest with my age but I am age i say i am x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm some most definitely aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very honest and would hope others are too. If you’re aim is to meet one day, why begin with this lie?

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

I’m 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct at the moment but considering telling a few porkies as another birthday looms!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines spot on

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Mine has and always will be correct

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

1 guy I was meeting sent his great, great, great grandfather along to our meet. There was no point as he wasn't compatible.

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By *pl83mfCouple
over a year ago

Montreal

100% true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am somewhat spot on years the right year but day and mouth are not just safety reasons off not give away to much personal info xxx

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Im genuinely 43. Id love to lie and say I was 38 or something but whats the point? Dont want people thinking "jesus, she looks rough for her age"

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

100% my age, although I could get away of knocking 5 years off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im genuinely 43. Id love to lie and say I was 38 or something but whats the point? Dont want people thinking "jesus, she looks rough for her age" "

Got to say you definitely get away with that wow super beautiful xxx

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

"Im genuinely 43. Id love to lie and say I was 38 or something but whats the point? Dont want people thinking "jesus, she looks rough for her age"

Got to say you definitely get away with that wow super beautiful xxx"
Thank you so much xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im genuinely 43. Id love to lie and say I was 38 or something but whats the point? Dont want people thinking "jesus, she looks rough for her age"

Got to say you definitely get away with that wow super beautiful xxx Thank you so much xx"

Ur welcome anytime xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is my actual age, no point in fibbing!

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I'm sure a lot do, but we don't.

Ours are honest xx

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall

-4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minus 5 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only they lied just about their age on here..

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Mine is my correct age - love it hate it that’s what I am

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By *MattyMan
over a year ago

Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon

100% honest, Mine it the correct number and happy about it as well, not happy it gets higher yearly though lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 50 and proud of it , but I know others who lie about there’s , don’t see the point , why take ten years of your age , you will get found out one way or the other

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By *urpeesandwineCouple
over a year ago

Hove

Ours are correct. What’s the point otherwise. We think we look good and are fun to be with. No point not being honest. If we interest you then that’s great. If we are ‘too old’ for you then that’s fine too.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Some lie, some don't.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

57 on Monday

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

57 on Monday never lied about my age

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"Ours are spot on but on a thread a few months ago a chap who stated on his profile that he was 59 admitted to being 85 and he looked it bless him.

Age is just a number!!!!!

I’m 56 (I think) but I act and move like a 90 year old.

I remember that thread and if I recall correctly, he couldn’t see anything wrong with it!

Our ages are correct on our profile. What’s the point of lying? We met a couple once who was in their early 40s. Invited to their house to play and there were 50th birthday cards on the mantle piece. Knocking off about 5 years is reasonably ok, but 26 years, as above, is pushing it!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Ours are correct"

Ours too

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Mines correct, i dont see the point in lying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm completely honest OP. I get very annoyed by those who lie about age; what other untruths are they spinning me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is correct. Don't see the point otherwise. But I know men are a bit more economical with their true aged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is correct had a man message me yesterday who said he was late 50’s but he was actually 72 I’m like why just why

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

manchester

I'm really 71

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By *omfoolerykentMan
over a year ago

dartford

Mine is spot on but can see why some lie. Seems once you are over 50 you fall out of a lot of peoples age range. Older can be fit, sexy, fun and just think of all that experience

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By *ymguy1966Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

100% honest

Why lie

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By *ymguy1966Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

IMO...us guy's normally look our age unless you have great genetics.

It's some of the ladies that can get away with pretending to be younger than they are

I met a lady back in Kent and would have sworn she was late 20s, she was actually 41

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"57 on Monday "

Happy Birthday for Monday....you share a birthday with me

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By *ubble-squeak69Couple
over a year ago

england

"Controversial question, but I have my suspicion that many fabbers stretch the truth a bit, actually some quite alot when it comes to disclosing their ages..

Anyone else agree? "

100% truthful for me and bubble actually everything on our profile is the truth, honestly is the best policy

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Don't see the point in not being truthful lol

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I see no point lying.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Ours are spot on.

About 15 years ago we went to meet a couple that were called somethingcpl40s thinking they were in their 40s (like their pics showed)

I actually think they were born in the 40s and hadn't worn well.

We swore then that we would always tell the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our ages are correct on our profiles

Her x

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Mine is totally honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m really 103

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By *amish SMan
over a year ago

Eastleigh

Yes, mine is correct. As one of my suppliers asked why I left the armed forces, I replied, after 31 years I had enough and left. He was truly gobsmacked saying I did not look old enough.

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

More to the point, how many men are honest about their cock size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just guessed

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

One guy messaged me way back, insisted he was 55. His attached picture was of a very old man in his nursing home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines correct, although I know of people (mainly men) who have lowered their age to fit within certain age brackets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines almost spot on I am 52 just changes the months a little

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Mine is spot on - I was asked if it was to old though pmsl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is spot on - I was asked if it was to old though pmsl! "

39 too old????

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By *scarsexMan
over a year ago

Stevenage

I have the same issue sometimes. I don’t lie about my age, nor anything related to my profile, and don’t know why they do it.

I have reported teenagers under age along the years.

Some individuals have pictures quite explicit about their age, but you see a huge gap between the picture’s age and the profile’s age.

I normally ask several times about the age if it’s really an issue for me. If not sure I say goodbye and move on.

I don’t have a clue what’s in their mind to do so.

I remember a woman who had a difference of 10 years with her profile. She told me she didn’t “update” the age

But yeah, you can stop thinking about it...

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By *scarsexMan
over a year ago

Stevenage

Lol

That’s true. I winder why they lie

Have you checked online the guys with the smallest penises. Those don’t lie about it

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