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By *llaboutthewife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

So what does it for you?

Multitude of things probably.

Currently our profile states we are not meeting for obvious reasons. Tonight we received a message to ask why not? Surely it's safe now?

Other instant turn offs for me are messages in local threads about dogging or outdoor fun or gangbangs, just not for me.

Just made me think, what do you see that makes you go ugghh and block?

Jo x

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It says in our profile "random friend requests result in a block". If people don't read it and send one, guess what happens?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Rudeness

' I will make you ' messages

Slaging me off when you've not met me, us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Incoherent messages or text speak.

Men wearing women's underwear.

Anyone starting a message with 'how are you?' or similar

Any message that suggests they haven't read my profile.

Profiles with drug references

Profiles that have been written by illiterates

Any mention of anal sex/mummy & son roleplay in the message.

Plenty more....let me think

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By *llaboutthewife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Incoherent messages or text speak.

Men wearing women's underwear.

Anyone starting a message with 'how are you?' or similar

Any message that suggests they haven't read my profile.

Profiles with drug references

Profiles that have been written by illiterates

Any mention of anal sex/mummy & son roleplay in the message.

Plenty more....let me think"

Ooh, this is a good list

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who have been rude or have bullied others in the forums.

Those who prefer or only do bareback.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Cock shot for a pfp ... just no.

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By *andystick72Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Great thread

So glad I use my manners

And don't wear women's underwear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who haven't read my arsey profile.

Even though if clever enough can read thru it.

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By *ouno2muchMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I rarely ever use block. I would be tempted to if someone’s attitude or specific message is rude or offensive. Mostly I simply delete it and pretend they don’t exist. I like being peaceful and being kind even if the situation is rude or unpleasant. I’m sure ladies and couples would get much more volume of messages, including rude/unpleasant or the persistent ones and would be better to block to avoid repeat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any message that starts

I know I'm not what your looking for, but........

Really ugly cock pics

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By *oreplayfunpairCouple
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

Totally agree with the dogging thing, really cant see the appeal and again any mention of being 420 friendly. And of course the three p's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rudeness/abuse.

People who ask to meet in their opening message.

People who send elaborate scenarios.

Dick pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Really ugly cock pics

"

^ and this

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By *llaboutthewife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Totally agree with the dogging thing, really cant see the appeal and again any mention of being 420 friendly. And of course the three p's"

Another good one

Jo x

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

By not reading the 1st line of my profile and asking to meet anyway.

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By *llaboutthewife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Great thread

So glad I use my manners

And don't wear women's underwear "

No you dont wear ladies briefs do you

Ooft

Jo x

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Anyone that’s rude

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By *andystick72Man
over a year ago

kinky Street


"Great thread

So glad I use my manners

And don't wear women's underwear

No you dont wear ladies briefs do you

Ooft

Jo x "

No

Could do with a sky remote

Or

A can of lynx just to fit in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racsim

Nationalism

Xenophobia

Any form of hatred towards a group of people really.

Oh and trump supporters

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By *llaboutthewife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Racsim

Nationalism

Xenophobia

Any form of hatred towards a group of people really.

Oh and trump supporters "

Yep, good one!!

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Racsim

Nationalism

Xenophobia

Any form of hatred towards a group of people really.

Oh and trump supporters "

All of this

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"It says in our profile "random friend requests result in a block". If people don't read it and send one, guess what happens? "

Yep that does it for us - anyone who sends a friend request we not met or spoken to in here gets instant block. Funnily enough that’s generally men.

Other one is “Hi babe you fit...“ it says at top of profile we are a couple, that means two people.

We tend to just ignore single men that send “hi how your evening?” And their profile has no pics or details, once we see we’ve had that message from them 3 times they get blocked.

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Racsim

Nationalism

Xenophobia

Any form of hatred towards a group of people really.

Oh and trump supporters

All of this "

Isn’t the last one the opposite of the last but one on your list? So you need to block yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Racsim

Nationalism

Xenophobia

Any form of hatred towards a group of people really.

Oh and trump supporters

All of this

Isn’t the last one the opposite of the last but one on your list? So you need to block yourself? "

Not sure what elaborate scenarios have to do with trump supporters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Racsim

Nationalism

Xenophobia

Any form of hatred towards a group of people really.

Oh and trump supporters

All of this

Isn’t the last one the opposite of the last but one on your list? So you need to block yourself? "

I don't hate them, I just don't want to interact with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever use the block button, but I did recently for someone who over reacted after I asked her a question and another time after I read a profile, I then basically asked what she liked about black guys and she bit my head off and called me a racist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Double negatives and people who think it's ok to pretend to be a couple when clearly they're just males.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Anyone that has a rant about old men being on here!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

omg where do i start? asking if I can be bought or slagging me off will be instant block and reported to admin

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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago

Mancetter?


"Incoherent messages or text speak.

Men wearing women's underwear.

Anyone starting a message with 'how are you?' or similar

Any message that suggests they haven't read my profile.

Profiles with drug references

Profiles that have been written by illiterates

Any mention of anal sex/mummy & son roleplay in the message.

Plenty more....let me think"

Men wearing underwear ???? Comes far too often from Bisexuaul women on here ......case in point .....a lot of guys wear it better than most women ?? Live and Let Live too many Judgmetalists on here.....

I Block prople who call me Babe .....too many presume

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"Racsim

Nationalism

Xenophobia

Any form of hatred towards a group of people really.

Oh and trump supporters "

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

if they read my message and delete without reply i just block them straightaway

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Bloody hell, after reading the threads I thought I was going wrong for being polite.

Thank God I was raised with good manners and respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cyclists

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"So what does it for you?

Multitude of things probably.

Currently our profile states we are not meeting for obvious reasons. Tonight we received a message to ask why not? Surely it's safe now?

Other instant turn offs for me are messages in local threads about dogging or outdoor fun or gangbangs, just not for me.

Just made me think, what do you see that makes you go ugghh and block?

Jo x "

We block anyone that clearly hasn't read the profile e that doesn't meet the criteria. Any messages like the type you mention we would also block as they are insulting and I think some folk forget some ladies wish to be treated as such. Not like a piece of meat. We've had lovely messages but unfortunately a lot that havr been instantly blocked owing to the above.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Anyone who is racist, ageist and generally twats !

At the moment stupid people asking for meets; most of who have no intention of meeting they are just trying to get a reaction and it works .... Blocked !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cyclists"

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By *andystick72Man
over a year ago

kinky Street


"So what does it for you?

Multitude of things probably.

Currently our profile states we are not meeting for obvious reasons. Tonight we received a message to ask why not? Surely it's safe now?

Other instant turn offs for me are messages in local threads about dogging or outdoor fun or gangbangs, just not for me.

Just made me think, what do you see that makes you go ugghh and block?

Jo x

We block anyone that clearly hasn't read the profile e that doesn't meet the criteria. Any messages like the type you mention we would also block as they are insulting and I think some folk forget some ladies wish to be treated as such. Not like a piece of meat. We've had lovely messages but unfortunately a lot that havr been instantly blocked owing to the above. "

And we are still chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the block option very rarely,but rudeness & men that want me to meet for cock fun despite my profile stating that I only want to meet women & couples & won't take no for an answer get blocked.

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"So what does it for you?

Multitude of things probably.

Currently our profile states we are not meeting for obvious reasons. Tonight we received a message to ask why not? Surely it's safe now?

Other instant turn offs for me are messages in local threads about dogging or outdoor fun or gangbangs, just not for me.

Just made me think, what do you see that makes you go ugghh and block?

Jo x

We block anyone that clearly hasn't read the profile e that doesn't meet the criteria. Any messages like the type you mention we would also block as they are insulting and I think some folk forget some ladies wish to be treated as such. Not like a piece of meat. We've had lovely messages but unfortunately a lot that havr been instantly blocked owing to the above.

And we are still chatting "

Indeed

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Don’t block very often, prefer to be blocked than block

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

When a guy asks "are you free now" without so much as a photo. Another instant block is when a guy says "Hows Use" instead of how are you. Or any slang is instantly blocked

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Too many dick pics

Meeting requests

420 is mentioned

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By *usclekernowMan
over a year ago

Liskeard

People who expect instant replies then get all passive aggressive. And if they then say 'not interested then?'=instant block!

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Very rarely block, only have three on my block list at present from men that wouldn't take a polite no thanks & got abusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single male blocking is a decision not to be take lightly..You need to save a few on parole in case you need a useful other sometime.

Instant 100% block occurs when asked by another male "can i suck, fuck or cum over you" quite a few of them in chat so my list is full of closet gay men and couples who are snobs, yes you know who you are and you, "fact" are no better than any person so snob off..

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By *dventurouscouple4343Couple
over a year ago

KENT / SOUTH EAST


"It says in our profile "random friend requests result in a block". If people don't read it and send one, guess what happens? "

Exactly THIS !!!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Anyone who accidentally outs themselves as an MRA, PUA, incel or other flavour of manospherian. I'm seeing more and more of this, and I have to wonder why people who hate women so much are even on a site like this.

Aggressive conspiracy theorists.

Right-wingers.

People who think that "It's just my opinion" is a magic get-out-of-jail-free card for their abhorrent views.

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