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By *spotpleasurer OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Ok, it usually happens with a face pic that family, friends and work colleagues immediately recognize.

But there's two other ways it can happen which are less obvious-

1. No face pic but unusual bodily features like a tattoo, distinctive hairstyle etc.

2. 'Background' information. It's not the person that's recognized but something in the background. Could be the furniture, a bookshelf, wall hangings etc.

Any stories of being recognized by the stuff in the background rather than facial features? Or do you deliberately keep the background neutral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im recognised quite a lot.

it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im recognised quite a lot.

it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "

Haha never seen you in the co op before

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By *spotpleasurer OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Since I don't shop in the co-op, it's not me either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im recognised quite a lot.

it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "

Soz, your just well fit innit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognised the night security guard from my old place of employment in a profile pic once. Was a bit odd seeing a guy wanking in a place I had to work in every day... and I bet he never cleaned down after himself . I didn't really know the guy too well but wasn't keen to make myself known either so I blocked him lol

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I’ve recognised a few people on here from photos but don’t think we have been recognised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have recognised a few and been recognised once wasn’t a great experience unfortunately

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Recognised a fair few, had a message and face pic from the martial arts instructor of family yesterday. Blocked him, hope he enjoys fab, none of our concern.

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've been recognised twice in gyms, was no biggy, just strangers who recognised me from profile.

Not sure how I would feel about someone I knew though lol

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

We have recognised a few from here, a few dads from school, 1 being my daughter’s best mates dad. I went to a work mates wedding, when I met her husband I instantly recognised her new hubby from here. Seen a few people from school, an woman in the local leisure centre and the local farm foods.

Once my cousin posted a pic on Facebook with this horrible t-shirt on, later that night he posted the same pic on here but with out his face.

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"Ok, it usually happens with a face pic that family, friends and work colleagues immediately recognize.

But there's two other ways it can happen which are less obvious-

1. No face pic but unusual bodily features like a tattoo, distinctive hairstyle etc.

2. 'Background' information. It's not the person that's recognized but something in the background. Could be the furniture, a bookshelf, wall hangings etc.

Any stories of being recognized by the stuff in the background rather than facial features? Or do you deliberately keep the background neutral?

"

Wow, fabs very own Morse!

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"Ok, it usually happens with a face pic that family, friends and work colleagues immediately recognize.

But there's two other ways it can happen which are less obvious-

1. No face pic but unusual bodily features like a tattoo, distinctive hairstyle etc.

2. 'Background' information. It's not the person that's recognized but something in the background. Could be the furniture, a bookshelf, wall hangings etc.

Any stories of being recognized by the stuff in the background rather than facial features? Or do you deliberately keep the background neutral?

"

I was chatting to this owd bird once and though she had blurred her face out in her photo her house in the background gave it away. She shit it when I asked her if she liked living in Buckingham palace?

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Had someone know who I was at a greedy girl event once because he recognised my arse from my pics. Had loads of messages asking if I enjoyed shopping in certain shops too by people who have obviously (Correctly) assumed it’s me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had someone know who I was at a greedy girl event once because he recognised my arse from my pics. Had loads of messages asking if I enjoyed shopping in certain shops too by people who have obviously (Correctly) assumed it’s me. "

I'll never understand why people (I'm assuming men) have to be so creepy about this kind of thing

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

Been recognized twice one was a bit odd but other actually turned out fun!

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I haven’t been but I assume that as they’re on fab, they’re here for the same reason..

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By *amesoflondonMan
over a year ago

London

I have recognised a Lady I used to work with, incredible Artist and very very very very sexy - here with her new love who apparently makes her smile like no other and enjoys her enjoying herself with other guys before him. What should I do - I fancy her rotten, always have, always have wanted to become dishevelled together.. And more than once or twice... in fact as many times as I may be able to muster in scenarios erotic... Forum - what say you?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Yep, I've been recognised (she hasn't).

Completely irrelevant to me. I'm not ashamed of my lifestyle.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yes we have had a couple of scenarios being recognised. One of them we ended up meeting for fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been recognised twice....one an ex work colleague...one the wife of a client......ended up playing with them both

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By *irate89Man
over a year ago

urmston

I had a guy message me for a meet. He was around my age from the area where I live so I explained that I can't risk it incase he knows me or my mrs. Anyway he sent me a pic asking if I recognised him. It was only my "streight" brother in law

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been recognised once and so far it hasn’t worked out too badly.

I think it’s different for guys but to be honest I find it a turning on learning people nearby are just as naughty as us

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By *aznlouCouple
over a year ago

co durham

I’ve recognised a person off a single bloke profile but it was the fem (wasn’t a couple profile) think posted pics with ex gfs.

Recognised a few others my best friends fella who was playing away. He never liked me being around as he knew I was on fab as my best mate told him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my friends has just been outed by an anonymous blank profile stating their name and everything, scummy twats.

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

I've recognised a few people on here.

And as they are not my type I have no intention of contacting them, nor telling anyone about their activities.

Live and let live.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"im recognised quite a lot.

it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "

I was rumbled in a Co Op by the female half of a couple from here once. She recognised my tattoo!! Lol xx

(Her)

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By *iscrete2meatMan
over a year ago

Stockton on Tees


"im recognised quite a lot.

it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "

I've never bumped into you at Mowden Coop worst luck (for me possibly not you).

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Recognised twice at AbFab in Heathrow. Was nice because we chatted with one couple because they recognised us. It’s a good ice breaker. Not been recognised out in public. Wouldn’t mind if we were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been recognised... but in all honesty doesn’t bother me. I am me and that’s it. I mind my own business and expect the same from others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been recognised ourselves but recently had some messages from a single guy, he attached facepics and when we read the message it turned out to be D's ex brother in law.

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By *ebauchedshenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"im recognised quite a lot.

it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "

This is why all our pics are in black and white as I (L) have very recognisable hair as you know well

Lx

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

I have been reckonised in my work by a few

I met up to keep the peace if were both on here .

Still chst to them now

Good mates with one aswell

Nobody else needs to know

Was spotted out in town someone came over to me in the street wen i was out with my mate

But just whispered in my ear thst it was on here

Chstted to a few who have seen me out in town

Aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognise a customer once. I’ll mention it to her after her husband left the room. That’s all wordsWas, Please do not say something he does not know. Poor fucker.

The blow job was Amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im recognised quite a lot.

it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "

Haha indeed

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By *spotpleasurer OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

A MILF I've met escorts on the side and needs to be super discreet.

Here's how she does it- on the escort site, her photos are slightly blurred and not of her. Instead, she searches the Internet for people who look similar and uses their images. Once she's decided to go ahead with a booking, she then sends real photos of herself to the customer.

As another precaution, she sets her location to about 5 miles away from where she really lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not recognised yet, but wen shopping luv to people watch

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick

Wife and I went to look at a new build house and the site manager is on here and recognised us

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By *oc30Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

A patient’ relative did .. I was scared to be honest

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By *arriedandlooking1928Man
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Was at a greedy girls gang bang at a club. Old neighbours daughter was there. We never acknowledged each other but she still sucked my cock and I fucked her from behind as she was deep throating another guy.

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By *ehind closed curtainsCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands

It's pretty difficult to cover up Emm's hair in photo's & it's pretty recognisable - more of a wonder she hasn't been recognised out more

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"im recognised quite a lot.

it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op

Haha never seen you in the co op before "

I just went co-op to buy custard donuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been recognised twice. Both times because of my red hair and lips.

Both guys remembered me as “that hot Game girl”. Hard not to be the hot Game girl when you’re the only woman that works in that store!!

I’ve not worked there for years though, so I must have made a hell of an impression.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

I beat people to recognosing and just tell everyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have seen a couple around town who we knew were on here as they had face pics.

We also recognised some other people we know outside fabs in the past few months (and they recognised us) but they kinda like us and we kinda like them so we're actually meeting for a social when we can.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

If people can recognise me theres a problem haha

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By *nee trembler123Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I had a guy message me for a meet. He was around my age from the area where I live so I explained that I can't risk it incase he knows me or my mrs. Anyway he sent me a pic asking if I recognised him. It was only my "streight" brother in law"
. That’s the best one yet

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick


"I had a guy message me for a meet. He was around my age from the area where I live so I explained that I can't risk it incase he knows me or my mrs. Anyway he sent me a pic asking if I recognised him. It was only my "streight" brother in law. That’s the best one yet "

Bada bing

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By *nee trembler123Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"im recognised quite a lot.

it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "

From now on, I’m shopping in every co-op in the north of England

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I got recognised, this lead to someone telling the mother of my child who I was not with no more.

I've recognised a few ladies who are on one or two dating apps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im recognised quite a lot.

it is what it is.. we're all on here for the same reason right.. so be a grown up about it.. rather than stalking me in the middle of the co-op "

That's terrible... which co-op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recognised two different ladies from on here. First at a wedding, second was working in a local restaurant.

Didn’t say anything at the time. Messaged both to say hi, met the lady from the restaurant had a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our female half has been recognised twice, the male half once.

Neither by the face

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick


"Our female half has been recognised twice, the male half once.

Neither by the face"

Quality

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Had someone know who I was at a greedy girl event once because he recognised my arse from my pics. Had loads of messages asking if I enjoyed shopping in certain shops too by people who have obviously (Correctly) assumed it’s me.

I'll never understand why people (I'm assuming men) have to be so creepy about this kind of thing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been recognised here by someone I knew in everyday life. I ended up just blocking them, it was super awkward.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I was recognised by the driver of a taxi I had hired. He contacted me later through Fab and arranged to bring his beautiful young wife to meet me.

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By *irate89Man
over a year ago

urmston


"I had a guy message me for a meet. He was around my age from the area where I live so I explained that I can't risk it incase he knows me or my mrs. Anyway he sent me a pic asking if I recognised him. It was only my "streight" brother in law. That’s the best one yet 8

Bada bing "

I didn't send one back. I've fantasized about Him a few times but I don't think it's a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen one of me kids teachers getting noshed by his Mrs here once. I recognised her as she was the nurse who did my vasectomy even though his face was out of shot it was clearly them. Love parents evenings nowadays haha.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

We’ve had the odd message from guys who’ve seen us out and about in everyday life, nothing sinister just compliments really.

We find it a turn on to be honest !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everyone we are slightly fearful of this. K was recognised recently by an old friend who is on here now. We are largely banking on the logic that if someone sees you its because they are on here also so there is a mutual discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it this way.. If you get recognise you got seen by someone else in The scene.. O is it really a biggy? Grow a set and say to yourself it's our life and we're getting pleasure causing no one harm.. Carry on living your best sex lives guys cause it you dont then that's when the shutters come down but going the swinging route saves hundreds of marriages a year I bet

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By *ranmrshCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Recognised a few ex work colleagues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognised one of my wife's exs. She was seeing him from school then a couple of years after that. I showed her he's pics. She was quite intrested lol

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By *evon30Man
over a year ago

torquay

been recognised by an old school friend, that turned out fun and sexy. Also, by a guy at work, slightly embarrassed but as both on shouldnt be really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive seen a few i recognised on fab from 2 females who i knew from where i lived, 2 guys who used to work at the same place and another guy who was friends of friends.

I only messaged one of the females and all cool, in fact ended up exchanging naughty pics and was going to meet but then she pregnant.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Like everyone we are slightly fearful of this. K was recognised recently by an old friend who is on here now. We are largely banking on the logic that if someone sees you its because they are on here also so there is a mutual discretion "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if anyone has recognised me,no one has told me. I've seen a hot wife couple just down the road & a man where I used to work,also I think a friend of a family member,I blocked them just in case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was recognised on here by a lad a few years ago.

He messaged on and guessed who I was(not sure how!) made me very nervous but at the same time slightly turned on. He said he lived just down the road from me. I had to block him

In the end, I had no idea who he was!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

been recognised. im cool with it if approached the correct way... on here and NOT in Morrisons!! haha but yer feel free to say hello ladies/Mf if you somehow know me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, it usually happens with a face pic that family, friends and work colleagues immediately recognize.

But there's two other ways it can happen which are less obvious-

1. No face pic but unusual bodily features like a tattoo, distinctive hairstyle etc.

2. 'Background' information. It's not the person that's recognized but something in the background. Could be the furniture, a bookshelf, wall hangings etc.

Any stories of being recognized by the stuff in the background rather than facial features? Or do you deliberately keep the background neutral?

"

Just by my red lips...

Which I don't think is that unusual...

I don't have a ton of ppl roaming about in my home.

So the pic backdrops would never be recognised.

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I recognised a guy by his shirt and posture, at a business conference in London

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I’ve been recognised twice by strangers, but also see people I know off here for years out and about locally ..

Once was in chester, a lady smiled at me as if you say hi ..

We chatted and she said where do I know you from .. I had no idea .. then she went bright red and walked away .. then later on in the evening after a few cocktails she came back and explained.. we had a good giggle

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

london

Honestly how are people getting recognised? A lot o the people commenting don’t even have face pics. If people are genuinely recognising you from a pic of your torso or bum that’s mental hahah

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I recognised a guy by his shirt and posture, at a business conference in London"

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth


"I recognised a guy by his shirt and posture, at a business conference in London

"

I have a keen eye for detail

That, and he had advertised for a meet in London that day at my hotel

.. and no, I didn't!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I recognised a guy by his shirt and posture, at a business conference in London

I have a keen eye for detail

That, and he had advertised for a meet in London that day at my hotel

.. and no, I didn't!"

hahaha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recognised a local woman, and been recognised myself before.

Was also recognised by one of the neighbours where I used to live a while back, that was an interesting conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My house cleaner is on here.... not sure she has ever looked at my profile - I’ve smiled and mentioned “what a fab job” to which she smiled...

also A couple ive met a few time’s walked straight past me at an Ed sheeran gig - 50k people and we cross paths and exchange big grins!!

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"Honestly how are people getting recognised? A lot o the people commenting don’t even have face pics. If people are genuinely recognising you from a pic of your torso or bum that’s mental hahah"

Because you’ve chatted to people and exchanged face pictures..

I know most of the people on here in my area .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a very statistically unlikely coincidence was messaged by a lady on here with a view to play; chat had been great; she was 10 years younger than me. I grew up in the North and moved down here a few years ago. She sent her face pics and she looked the spitting image to the girl who sat next to me all the way through Science at school 20 years ago in rural Yorkshire. I messaged back, saying you look like a girl I went to school with. Turns out it was her, she’d lied about her age. But what were the chances of us both living in same area and messaging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on cam one night years ago and was caught out by a couple who turned out to be friends they’re fine, we’re fine, no one died although it did give me a bit of a shitter when they first told me they knew me

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

A customer from work recognised me at a local cruising spot a year ago and I was fully dressed . I didn't recognise him. He told me he wouldn't say anything and as far as I know he didn't.

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By *issMidsWoman
over a year ago

North Notts

I went dogging once and was spotted by my married neighbour. A few days later he came knocking at my door. Thankfully him abd his wife have moved away now.

I have also done a really important business meeting once in front of MPs. Left the meeting and had a message on fab saying great presentation.

Quite a few other experiences as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reconised a couple of people, mainly due to tattoos but been reconised by a scar. Haven't quite had the courage to put a face pic up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have bumped into a few locals I have recognised, through work and passing in the street. Always giggle but have never do anything at all. I find it very amusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cock is usually a big giveaway!

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

I get recognised quite a lot, having a distinctive look doesn't help. But it doesn't bother me. Family and close friends know I am on here.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Most of my mates know im on here but none use it themselves. Ex school friend told me about the place and she isnt shy about it.

I did spot a close female friend on here with a veri from 3 weeks after her non swinging hubby kicked her out for having a year long affair. Good catholic girl whose friends have 0 idea she is on here or celebrated her 16 year relationship with her high school sweetheart with a swinging sesh at chams. It was a horrid time and im sure shed lose a lot of respect if people knew. I havent told her. I did wink at them and they viewed my profile but no sign they recognised me!

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

We have both been recognized at some point and have recognized others. Surprising how many meets we have where we have rubbed shoulders with the others at some point or another outside of fab.

Our take is, if you're on here, you're on here for the same reason we are. It's not an issue unless the other parties make it one. We leave people be.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"My cock is usually a big giveaway! "

How?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned up to a patient a couple of years ago... while treating him he called his wife to say he had to go to hospital. She rushed home... when she walked in the door and saw me sat there she went bright red as we had met a year before... apparently he had no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure Hotwife has been noticed before when out and about, her tattoo is a dead clearly giveaway if it’s her or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recognised a Lady I used to work with, incredible Artist and very very very very sexy - here with her new love who apparently makes her smile like no other and enjoys her enjoying herself with other guys before him. What should I do - I fancy her rotten, always have, always have wanted to become dishevelled together.. And more than once or twice... in fact as many times as I may be able to muster in scenarios erotic... Forum - what say you? "

I say go for it! Shes on here so you might as well try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (D) have been recognised a few times both on here and out and about. 1 from fab was a "friend of a friend" who became what I thought was a awsome friend. How wrong I was! Other than that it is what it is, if people are mature enough not to be a bellend by shouting heq/she is on fab swingers then happy days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put it this way.. If you get recognise you got seen by someone else in The scene.. O is it really a biggy? Grow a set and say to yourself it's our life and we're getting pleasure causing no one harm.. Carry on living your best sex lives guys cause it you dont then that's when the shutters come down but going the swinging route saves hundreds of marriages a year I bet"

I know you irl but wouldnt mention it.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Put it this way.. If you get recognise you got seen by someone else in The scene.. O is it really a biggy? Grow a set and say to yourself it's our life and we're getting pleasure causing no one harm.. Carry on living your best sex lives guys cause it you dont then that's when the shutters come down but going the swinging route saves hundreds of marriages a year I bet"

Yeah it’s not quite that simple, they may have nothing to lose by admitting to the lifestyle but we certainly couldn’t go public

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

So many people with secrets on here ..

I’m not ashamed by being on here ..

I live an open and honest life ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, it usually happens with a face pic that family, friends and work colleagues immediately recognize.

But there's two other ways it can happen which are less obvious-

1. No face pic but unusual bodily features like a tattoo, distinctive hairstyle etc.

2. 'Background' information. It's not the person that's recognized but something in the background. Could be the furniture, a bookshelf, wall hangings etc.

Any stories of being recognized by the stuff in the background rather than facial features? Or do you deliberately keep the background neutral?

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It wouldn't really bother me...at one time I had face pic up and all there must be a reason why they on here in a first place

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Sandbach

I messaged a couple on here once who were 5 miles or so away.

From the reply I got back - it appears it was a guy I used to go to school with...

....anyway the afternoon was wonderful but a little awkward... But his wife is seriously hot... especially naked... lol

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