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By *piritualSFC OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Any advice from fabbers on what questions to ask a lady to see if she is interested without blurring it out?

This situation requires a bit of tact and discretion.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Interested in what exactly?

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Are you asking what to say on here or when your out or see a lady you fancy?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What situation ?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Any advice from fabbers on what questions to ask a lady to see if she is interested without blurring it out?

This situation requires a bit of tact and discretion."

This confused me, context?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God knows what you've asked. But ask her if her clunge is smelling a bit musky today, never fails

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Take it you mean face to face ?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Any advice from fabbers on what questions to ask a lady to see if she is interested without blurring it out?

This situation requires a bit of tact and discretion."

Just blur it out. If she says "no thank" then move on.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"without blurring it out?

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Do you mean pixillating your face ?

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

You don’t need to ask her anything.. go fir a social meet, coffee, drink , meal.. chat about stuff. Compliment her on her looks more importantly her perfume , shoes, bag.. Clothing. Her nails.. she has made an effort. If she wants to go further .. you will know.. have we lost the art of chat up lol

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"You don’t need to ask her anything.. go fir a social meet, coffee, drink , meal.. chat about stuff. Compliment her on her looks more importantly her perfume , shoes, bag.. Clothing. Her nails.. she has made an effort. If she wants to go further .. you will know.. have we lost the art of chat up lol "
.......................I think you make a very valid point possibly without even realising it! In the age of ever advancing technonagy we are slowly losing the art of social everyday meet and greet conversation, The biggest part of alot of people conversation is done with a keyboard and as such lack the everyday social skills of yesteryear when tech could not keep us in touch with everyone at the push of a button. I am not saying this is most people! But it is alot and growing everyday.

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By *piritualSFC OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Any advice from fabbers on what questions to ask a lady to see if she is interested without blurring it out?

This situation requires a bit of tact and discretion.

This confused me, context? "

Il try not to do any more typos. Sounds like I want to send a photo and blur my bits out. Lol

This is face to face and the word was meant to say 'blurting'. Obviously the easiest way to find out if someone is interested is to ask her. However in this situation I can not do that.. any suggestions on things I can ask her without being so obvious?

Hopefully that makes more sense.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP we still don't know what you are wanting to ask her

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Any advice from fabbers on what questions to ask a lady to see if she is interested without blurring it out?

This situation requires a bit of tact and discretion.

This confused me, context?

Il try not to do any more typos. Sounds like I want to send a photo and blur my bits out. Lol

This is face to face and the word was meant to say 'blurting'. Obviously the easiest way to find out if someone is interested is to ask her. However in this situation I can not do that.. any suggestions on things I can ask her without being so obvious?

Hopefully that makes more sense."

Do you mean interested in getting intimate with you? Or swinging with other people? Or something more niche like pre-Keynesian economic theory?

Is this a partner you already have or somebody you know and would like to go further with?

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By *piritualSFC OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Any advice from fabbers on what questions to ask a lady to see if she is interested without blurring it out?

This situation requires a bit of tact and discretion.

This confused me, context?

Il try not to do any more typos. Sounds like I want to send a photo and blur my bits out. Lol

This is face to face and the word was meant to say 'blurting'. Obviously the easiest way to find out if someone is interested is to ask her. However in this situation I can not do that.. any suggestions on things I can ask her without being so obvious?

Hopefully that makes more sense.

Do you mean interested in getting intimate with you? Or swinging with other people? Or something more niche like pre-Keynesian economic theory?

Is this a partner you already have or somebody you know and would like to go further with? "

Intimate and then swinging..

Think I'm over thinking it will just ask. Lol

Lot easier than 2nd guessing.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Any advice from fabbers on what questions to ask a lady to see if she is interested without blurring it out?

This situation requires a bit of tact and discretion.

This confused me, context?

Il try not to do any more typos. Sounds like I want to send a photo and blur my bits out. Lol

This is face to face and the word was meant to say 'blurting'. Obviously the easiest way to find out if someone is interested is to ask her. However in this situation I can not do that.. any suggestions on things I can ask her without being so obvious?

Hopefully that makes more sense."

Just say something like 'so, if I fell over right now and I landed in your fanny, would that be a problem?'

I think it sets the right tone, shows her your interested but not too much, plus, if she says no, you can just brush it off as a joke

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By *piritualSFC OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Any advice from fabbers on what questions to ask a lady to see if she is interested without blurring it out?

This situation requires a bit of tact and discretion.

This confused me, context?

Il try not to do any more typos. Sounds like I want to send a photo and blur my bits out. Lol

This is face to face and the word was meant to say 'blurting'. Obviously the easiest way to find out if someone is interested is to ask her. However in this situation I can not do that.. any suggestions on things I can ask her without being so obvious?

Hopefully that makes more sense.

Just say something like 'so, if I fell over right now and I landed in your fanny, would that be a problem?'

I think it sets the right tone, shows her your interested but not too much, plus, if she says no, you can just brush it off as a joke "

Ha ha

Yea a joke and possibly a slap and law suit.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You don’t need to ask her anything.. go fir a social meet, coffee, drink , meal.. chat about stuff. Compliment her on her looks more importantly her perfume , shoes, bag.. Clothing. Her nails.. she has made an effort. If she wants to go further .. you will know.. have we lost the art of chat up lol "

I make an effort for every social we go to. It means nothing except I like to always look my best for people. It really doesn't mean I want to have sex with someone, that depends on them

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By *piritualSFC OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"You don’t need to ask her anything.. go fir a social meet, coffee, drink , meal.. chat about stuff. Compliment her on her looks more importantly her perfume , shoes, bag.. Clothing. Her nails.. she has made an effort. If she wants to go further .. you will know.. have we lost the art of chat up lol

I make an effort for every social we go to. It means nothing except I like to always look my best for people. It really doesn't mean I want to have sex with someone, that depends on them "

This is very true.. not every lady that speaks to you or asks you personal questions is interested. Also for them to be thankful for receiving a compliment does not mean she wants a shag. Lol

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Any advice from fabbers on what questions to ask a lady to see if she is interested without blurring it out?

This situation requires a bit of tact and discretion.

This confused me, context?

Il try not to do any more typos. Sounds like I want to send a photo and blur my bits out. Lol

This is face to face and the word was meant to say 'blurting'. Obviously the easiest way to find out if someone is interested is to ask her. However in this situation I can not do that.. any suggestions on things I can ask her without being so obvious?

Hopefully that makes more sense.

Just say something like 'so, if I fell over right now and I landed in your fanny, would that be a problem?'

I think it sets the right tone, shows her your interested but not too much, plus, if she says no, you can just brush it off as a joke

Ha ha

Yea a joke and possibly a slap and law suit. "

Why a lawsuit?

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