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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning All,

Just a quick one on how I could improve my profile. Been fortunate to meet a couple of people from the site who have become great friends. Just keen to further that with other couples and females

Thanks

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Hi there

1) Write a profile. It’s two generic sentences at the moment.

2) you’re nice looking but your pics are bad. The B&W one - I can’t tell what it is and you’ve uploaded it twice. Take way better pics. I like the face one. Move the cock one to friends-only.

3) Your status update “What’s a man got to do to get his cock sucked” is really grim. It’s entitled and it suggests you don’t care who sucks your cock, as long as someone does.

Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi there

1) Write a profile. It’s two generic sentences at the moment.

2) you’re nice looking but your pics are bad. The B&W one - I can’t tell what it is and you’ve uploaded it twice. Take way better pics. I like the face one. Move the cock one to friends-only.

3) Your status update “What’s a man got to do to get his cock sucked” is really grim. It’s entitled and it suggests you don’t care who sucks your cock, as long as someone does.

Best of luck. "

The status was a half pissed one in work drinks lol that’s been taken down lol

Thanks for the advice! Fingers crossed

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Your profile text might as well not be there. Somebody reading it would have no idea what you are like as a person, what your interests are (and I don't mean sexual), and what you would talk about if you met. Most people want a conversation before anything happens. You don't give any reason for somebody to think that talking to you would be of interest to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Alright alright! Haha I’m a nice guy promise! Haha I’ll sort it now haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile text might as well not be there. Somebody reading it would have no idea what you are like as a person, what your interests are (and I don't mean sexual), and what you would talk about if you met. Most people want a conversation before anything happens. You don't give any reason for somebody to think that talking to you would be of interest to them. "

What we thinking now peeps?

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Your profile text might as well not be there. Somebody reading it would have no idea what you are like as a person, what your interests are (and I don't mean sexual), and what you would talk about if you met. Most people want a conversation before anything happens. You don't give any reason for somebody to think that talking to you would be of interest to them.

What we thinking now peeps?"

No one is going to write your profile for you, you have been given some good advice here to think abiut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very generic, boring profile tbh.

Add some personality, humour...

You're a good looking bloke but that's not enough to stand out here.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Username is a bit desperate tbh.

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Try get some more interesting pics, location, filter etc, make it stand out.

For us, we see if theres an attraction before we tend to read profiles,so imo there's no need for massive write ups necessarily, but if you want to by all means.

Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very generic, boring profile tbh.

Add some personality, humour...

You're a good looking bloke but that's not enough to stand out here.

Good luck "

Appreciate the compliment. Just new to all this fab malarkey haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try get some more interesting pics, location, filter etc, make it stand out.

For us, we see if theres an attraction before we tend to read profiles,so imo there's no need for massive write ups necessarily, but if you want to by all means.

Happy fabbing "

Any good with a camera

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Has the woman in your (frankly awful) monochrome picture given her permission for you to use it? If not then it’s an appalling lack of trust which most women would read as a reason not to meet you, if so, then why would you use it anyway? Is it to prove that you’ve had sex? You’ll find that many women find disembodied ‘action shots’ unappealing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has the woman in your (frankly awful) monochrome picture given her permission for you to use it? If not then it’s an appalling lack of trust which most women would read as a reason not to meet you, if so, then why would you use it anyway? Is it to prove that you’ve had sex? You’ll find that many women find disembodied ‘action shots’ unappealing. "

She’s given permission. I wouldn’t dream of putting any pics up otherwise and isn’t it a requirement when uploading the photo?

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"Has the woman in your (frankly awful) monochrome picture given her permission for you to use it? If not then it’s an appalling lack of trust which most women would read as a reason not to meet you, if so, then why would you use it anyway? Is it to prove that you’ve had sex? You’ll find that many women find disembodied ‘action shots’ unappealing.

She’s given permission. I wouldn’t dream of putting any pics up otherwise and isn’t it a requirement when uploading the photo?"

The problem is, that no one can possibly know that, unless she says so in a verification. I also don’t see the point. No one can tell that it’s you, it’s very dark, almost to the point that you can’t see what’s going on, and how does it add positively to your profile? At the best it’s just showing off, and at the worse it’s disrespectful.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Morning All,

Just a quick one on how I could improve my profile. Been fortunate to meet a couple of people from the site who have become great friends. Just keen to further that with other couples and females

Thanks "

Id love to see a few more playful pics (no not cock play)

Something that keeps the mind wondering a little.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Morning All,

Just a quick one on how I could improve my profile. Been fortunate to meet a couple of people from the site who have become great friends. Just keen to further that with other couples and females

Thanks

Id love to see a few more playful pics (no not cock play)

Something that keeps the mind wondering a little. "

Cant be sharing those just yet

I’ll put a few videos up maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has the woman in your (frankly awful) monochrome picture given her permission for you to use it? If not then it’s an appalling lack of trust which most women would read as a reason not to meet you, if so, then why would you use it anyway? Is it to prove that you’ve had sex? You’ll find that many women find disembodied ‘action shots’ unappealing.

She’s given permission. I wouldn’t dream of putting any pics up otherwise and isn’t it a requirement when uploading the photo?

The problem is, that no one can possibly know that, unless she says so in a verification. I also don’t see the point. No one can tell that it’s you, it’s very dark, almost to the point that you can’t see what’s going on, and how does it add positively to your profile? At the best it’s just showing off, and at the worse it’s disrespectful. "

^ listen to this guy

His advice is always excellent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the above... I'd take some more suggestive photos and I tend to automatically ignore single male profiles with photos of women. So my advice would be to get rid of the photo.

You also mention you want to meet 'beautiful people'. I'd read that and scroll past you.

Your profile just reads as generic and I don't learn anything about you?

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Morning All,

Just a quick one on how I could improve my profile. Been fortunate to meet a couple of people from the site who have become great friends. Just keen to further that with other couples and females

Thanks

Id love to see a few more playful pics (no not cock play)

Something that keeps the mind wondering a little.

Cant be sharing those just yet

I’ll put a few videos up maybe "

Huh??? Why can’t you share such pictures?

I’m not talking about you going full nude or whatever you might be thinking but just teasing pics, maybe a topless one.

For me personally, I’m attracted to profiles that have a little something about it. Add a little bit of cheek into it (no pun intended)

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Has the woman in your (frankly awful) monochrome picture given her permission for you to use it? If not then it’s an appalling lack of trust which most women would read as a reason not to meet you, if so, then why would you use it anyway? Is it to prove that you’ve had sex? You’ll find that many women find disembodied ‘action shots’ unappealing.

She’s given permission. I wouldn’t dream of putting any pics up otherwise and isn’t it a requirement when uploading the photo?

The problem is, that no one can possibly know that, unless she says so in a verification. I also don’t see the point. No one can tell that it’s you, it’s very dark, almost to the point that you can’t see what’s going on, and how does it add positively to your profile? At the best it’s just showing off, and at the worse it’s disrespectful.

^ listen to this guy

His advice is always excellent"

I also agree with this

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Your user name sounds like a demand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Starting to question why I asked! Lol

On a serious note. Taken on board the criticisms and constructive advice. Do note that the pic was posted in the company of who was in it. And the username was just a quickly thought up one when joining.

Let’s all be friends now yeah

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Obviously everyone has varying opinions on profiles, what some like others detest.

1) For me, reading a profile with ‘haha’ after their joke is made is unnecessary.

2) Most women do not appreciate pictures of previous conquests, what’s the point of them?

Otherwise some good advice above, good luck OP!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Starting to question why I asked! Lol

On a serious note. Taken on board the criticisms and constructive advice. Do note that the pic was posted in the company of who was in it. And the username was just a quickly thought up one when joining.

Let’s all be friends now yeah "

Fair enough but as a single female i have no desire to see a tongue on your balls and the username would be better without the ok in upper case.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Starting to question why I asked! Lol

On a serious note. Taken on board the criticisms and constructive advice. Do note that the pic was posted in the company of who was in it. And the username was just a quickly thought up one when joining.

Let’s all be friends now yeah

Fair enough but as a single female i have no desire to see a tongue on your balls and the username would be better without the ok in upper case."

Tongue on my balls I don’t think I had that...

Yeah I’m looking into name change now.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Starting to question why I asked! Lol

On a serious note. Taken on board the criticisms and constructive advice. Do note that the pic was posted in the company of who was in it. And the username was just a quickly thought up one when joining.

Let’s all be friends now yeah

Fair enough but as a single female i have no desire to see a tongue on your balls and the username would be better without the ok in upper case.

Tongue on my balls I don’t think I had that...

Yeah I’m looking into name change now.

"

Well it looked like tongue licking balls to me in black and white but gone now.

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