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Convincing the other half...

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By *ouandi1993 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Tyneside

Couples, tell me how you got into swinging. Especially if one of you wanted to get the other involved. Keen to find out how couples approach the idea. Asking for a friend

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By *exnPaul17Couple
over a year ago

Poole

We were having a discussion about fantasties and it kind of went from there. We tried it. Liked it and here we are.

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Me and Mrs used to watch porn together, and talked about fantasys etc.

And effectively turned a spark into a fire, then inferno lol

That's how it happened for us anyways but I'm sure everyones different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were having a discussion about fantasties and it kind of went from there. We tried it. Liked it and here we are. "

This. Always talked about it as both had precious flirtations with it so it was just a matter of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fwb really wanna please me I guess she’s been getting real filth lately and really wants to some pussy to taste

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough


"We were having a discussion about fantasties and it kind of went from there. We tried it. Liked it and here we are. "

Did you both being bi make it more of an easy sell if you don't mind my asking? If the people I've swung with in the past, there's often been a question along the lines of "am I not enough" initially, until I explain what it's all about. Being bi it's less of a thing since you can only really explore that side of yourself through swinging?

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

We met on Tinder.

A week later, Ess sent a Text saying I could ask her anything about sex. So I asked If she had ever been with another woman. She said yes.

As a result of the ongoing conversation, we found out we had both Swung with previous partners.

Boom! Result.

And here we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were having a discussion about fantasties and it kind of went from there. We tried it. Liked it and here we are. "

same with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were sat watching tv with our feet up, I was having a mug of tea and just asked him "shall we invite a third person to our bedroom". He replied "ok" without a second thought. The rest is history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

discussing past histories a little and i mentioned ide been to clubs with the ex and enjoyed them..O was curious as never heard of swingers clubs let alone been to one...as they say the rest is history now..

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Went on a Naturist /swinger cruise ....Florida to Mexico ....WOW...6 yrs later still enjoying having fun ...

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"The fwb really wanna please me I guess she’s been getting real filth lately and really wants to some pussy to taste"

Swinging isn’t about a woman doing it just to please her man but there sure are lots doing it for that reason! Me, well I do nothing to please my fwb re meeting couples, it’s not about that, it’s about 2 or more enjoying themselves with consent.

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By *auti Lass and MoleCouple
over a year ago

Bicester

On our very first date, Moley gave me a relationship CV. Cut through all of the small chats, and the date was so much faster and fluid because of it.

Of course Moleys wit and risky attitude came through and he mentioned that part of hist past was adulty parties and risky.

Funnily enough I knew exactly what he was talking about as I had a similar past too!

Fast forward a couple of years, and many broaching of the subject later, we joined Fab and never looked back.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"The fwb really wanna please me I guess she’s been getting real filth lately and really wants to some pussy to taste

Swinging isn’t about a woman doing it just to please her man but there sure are lots doing it for that reason! Me, well I do nothing to please my fwb re meeting couples, it’s not about that, it’s about 2 or more enjoying themselves with consent. "
Swinging should make you both more liberated ...x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Tell your friend that they need to talk to their partner openly and honestly.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"The fwb really wanna please me I guess she’s been getting real filth lately and really wants to some pussy to taste"

You should get a couples profile.

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By *exnPaul17Couple
over a year ago

Poole


"We were having a discussion about fantasties and it kind of went from there. We tried it. Liked it and here we are.

Did you both being bi make it more of an easy sell if you don't mind my asking? If the people I've swung with in the past, there's often been a question along the lines of "am I not enough" initially, until I explain what it's all about. Being bi it's less of a thing since you can only really explore that side of yourself through swinging?"

Neither of us were bi back then. We've discovered we like lots of things over the years

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

During sex we used to fantasies about another guy joining us so I set it up with a guy I had been chatting to, it was to be his first time. We met him in a bar on the pretence he had some pc stuff for me. After a few drinks he invited us back to his. After a few drinks he put a blue movie on and she never said anything. She was sat next to me and as planned he got behind her and asked if she wanted a nice sensual and relaxed massage on her neck and shoulders she looked at me and I said why not, as he was massaging her neck I run my hand up her dress and started playing with her pussy, she was wet and started opening her legs. I gave him the nod and he run his hands down the front of her dress and started playing with her tits, she was loving it and to my surprise she reached around and unzipped his trousers pulled his cock out and started sucking him off . We slowly undressed her and we both got undressed he climbed on top of her and I guided his cock into her pussy. She absolutely loved it and we met him several times before moving on to other suspects

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

It was a few years of talking openly. Then one night after to many drinks we agreed to give it a go! Next thing I know I’m posting photos of myself online in all sorts of situations!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and Mrs used to watch porn together, and talked about fantasys etc.

And effectively turned a spark into a fire, then inferno lol

That's how it happened for us anyways but I'm sure everyones different

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This was the same for us but the inferno happened when we had a dirty weekend away and had got a bit tipsy, it all came out in the open from both of us that night

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