FabSwingers.com forum: Another one of those

By *aughty_builder87 OP Man
over a year ago

Keston

With everything very slowly getting back to something close to normality, everyone going about there lifes in a slightly modified way, i am starting to think about meets after lockdown and it raised the age old question, how am I going to go about it. Then I thought about clubs and how much more conversation I have in clubs then I do on here and I asked my self why. The simplest solution I had is that clubs limit how many men they let in, and here there are exponentially more men than women. This seems to cause a double issue, for men there is a lack of options where on the other hand women have too many options. Maybe that isnt the issue and I'm reading it wrong, happy to discuss it.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In clubs or any other social situations you get the person's appearance and real life personality to shine (or not). Also, the conversations are different, even if it is in a swingers clubs where many people presume others are there just for sex and would be happy to have sex with just anyone. You wouldn't really go to a person in a social situation and straight away say, for example, "wanna fuck?" or "faf?" or similar, would you? So yes, there are way too many men on here, especially those who believe this site is full of free prostitutes that would drop whatever they were doing and meet them asap. That's why people who actually do want to get into swinging scene are told to go to clubs or organised socials, get to know people and let themselves be known for their real personalities, not their online ones.

By *aughty_builder87 OP Man
over a year ago

Keston

"In clubs or any other social situations you get the person's appearance and real life personality to shine (or not). Also, the conversations are different, even if it is in a swingers clubs where many people presume others are there just for sex and would be happy to have sex with just anyone. You wouldn't really go to a person in a social situation and straight away say, for example, "wanna fuck?" or "faf?" or similar, would you? So yes, there are way too many men on here, especially those who believe this site is full of free prostitutes that would drop whatever they were doing and meet them asap. That's why people who actually do want to get into swinging scene are told to go to clubs or organised socials, get to know people and let themselves be known for their real personalities, not their online ones. "

Yeah I totally get that, clubs are great for social experiences, and miss going to them, I am just being priced out of my local clubs atm as I need to save money. The bad single males on here make it alot harder for the genuine men to get seen.