FabSwingers.com forum: WOULD YOU STOP THEM ????

By *ohn n jodie OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

HERES THE SCENARIO, your in a mmf 3 sum situation and youve just gone down on his wifes delightful pussy and hyoir giving it your best ! , next thing you feel his lips wrap around YOUR COCK and he starts giving you a hell of a good sucking even though your not remotely bi , my question is DO YOU STOP HIM OR NOT ???? , or go along with the fact its all in the moment and if i stop him it may stop all the fun continuing ?, do you let him carry on because he is so damm good at it ? , or do you now have the opinion " shit i may be slightly bi after all" ? I wonder how many times this has happened and let to guys actually going down the bi path that otherwise they had never even considered ? Genuine answers please xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has it happened to you???

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Pink has it happened to you

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

Yes that’s how I started and now love bi MMF fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess you should have discussed boundaries before things started really.

However if it feels good I'd go with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pink has it happened to you"

Ha ha no! Mr Pink is 100% straight! Just intrigued!!!

Love reading the forums in the morning!!!

K x

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By *lueyes69Man
over a year ago

coventry

I’d let him carry on

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

i could do with a cock suck right now im so horny my cock is rock hard and throbbing lol

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

go along with it. then tell yourself I'm straight but continue having your cock sucked off when you have more threesomes. I often heard from men, they enjoy their cock sucked whether man or woman.. usually men do it better than a woman which is totally understandable. I love boobs but hell no I'm not bi. just think some look sexy. But would i let a woman lick me if she's amazing at it? yes... but i tell her I'm not fucking her unless she looked like Angelina Jolie

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By *_can_see_your_pixelsMan
over a year ago

Gods own County

I would stop.

This happened to me on one of my first visits to a club, everything was going swimmingly all enjoying ourselves until with hubby without warning wrapped his lips around my cock as I was licking wife's pussy.

To say I freaked out is an understatement, but I politely asked him to stop and then left the room and the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends if youd previously told them that you weren't interested in male contact. If hes gone ahead and done it without your permission then all play should stop! That's totally out of order no matter how good it is.

If anyone attempted to do something I hadn't given my consent to, they'd get a smack in the face and their marching orders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure my husband and i would wonder why the other guy said he was straight.

That is after we have kicked the guy out while threatening to call the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a gay man who enjoys cock. I think some protest to much. Some I wouldn’t touch with someone else’s mouth never mind my own, usually the ones complaining on this thread, though if the guy sucks you off and you don’t want him to you politely tell him OFF of maybe a discussion before is appropriate. I have been invited by a wife to attend a mmmf two “straight” guys A bi wife and myself as she wanted to see how her straight friends would receive a gay man. All agreed before, Let’s just say they did and through experience I can tell you they had done it before with a man and enjoyed everything done to me and me to them. Usually the man protest to much, is a sign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, that’s how it started for me. Most exciting and erotic experience ever.

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

Let him carry on and enjoy the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't stop them lol but being orally bi ,I won't jump on another cock without discussing it before the play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with the flow

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

id probably encourage them

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By *ohn n jodie OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

Thanks for your replies !, yes it did happen to me , the split second it did my initial reaction was to push him away but it felt so good and as that is were us guys keep our brains i just went with it and so glad i did as i was rewarded with a double bj off the two of them st the same time , both greedily sucking on my cock and balls and as my eyes were closed i deemed it fine !, i guess thats why im now bi and so glad i am as there are so many horny bi couples out there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well are you enjoying it or not? If you are - where is the problem? Being bi is not a crime. You have joined mmf after all. There may have been different expectations with mfm...

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By *ick-meMan
over a year ago

high peak

I say I’m straight but exactly this happened on a mmf meet contact turned into bi 3way and it’s amazing all 3 pleasuring each other - I can’t wait to find another bi mmf couple...

So yes go with the flow and enjoy...,

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Personally I think before play boundaries should be established first

If they had said he’s hi and likes to suck cock and you hadn’t before but was curious to try all well and good but going ahead and doing it in my eyes is just plain rude and disrespectful

The outcome could have been truly disastrous !

I would be incredibly angry if someone took advantage of a situation i was in and did something to me I wasn’t comfortable with. I’ve stopped play when even discussed boundaries were ignored

Lucky you were up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, definitely. If there's been a discussion before hand he'd know I wasn't bi, and if there wasn't (unlikely) then that person should also not just assume

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Kinda how I discovered my bi side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh for heavens sake, just saw this.

It's only a blow job, how's that turn you into 'something'?

Reading to much into it.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Sounds a bit of a dickhead to me.

I too have been in this situation (seems disturbingly more common than I’d like to have thought) and the straight guy was mortified.

It was me that did the shouting!

What a way to disrespect someone’s personal boundaries.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

This is a consent violation. Scene immediately over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh for heavens sake, just saw this.

It's only a blow job, how's that turn you into 'something'?

Reading to much into it. "

You wouldn't be too happy if you were kicked in the balls without consent so what makes a blowjob different? It's not about "turning in to something", whatever that means, it's about overstepping a limit.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Oh for heavens sake, just saw this.

It's only a blow job, how's that turn you into 'something'?

Reading to much into it.

Totally agree - can you imagine if this was a woman writing that someone had sexually touched her without consent ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmm surely that's sexual assault...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Personally I think before play boundaries should be established first

If they had said he’s hi and likes to suck cock and you hadn’t before but was curious to try all well and good but going ahead and doing it in my eyes is just plain rude and disrespectful

The outcome could have been truly disastrous !

I would be incredibly angry if someone took advantage of a situation i was in and did something to me I wasn’t comfortable with. I’ve stopped play when even discussed boundaries were ignored

Lucky you were up for it

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

If any one of our boundaries were ignored we'd be throwing their arse out!

If you've already said anything goes then great but misunderstanding because of poor communication is simply not being clear in the first place.

You wouldn't go to a restaurant and order dinner not knowing what was going to be on the plate...

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We are very clear on this before play but sadly it has happened twice which is why we now avoid bi men.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We were in a moresome situation in a club when one of the guys, a stranger, reached out and touched my partners cock. It was a complete turn off for both of us and for the other two guys. All three immediately went limp, the mood was lost and what promised to be a great session was over. If you're really straight - and many guys are - guy on guy contact is a total turn off. The physical reaction demonstrates that. You simply cannot "go with the flow".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have never will

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Yes. It stops. Because I’ve discussed beforehand that I’m not bi-curious at all (though not remotely homophobic) and a line would have been crossed!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

As an orally bi male the idea that someone oversteps the boundaries is wrong, consent, self respect and respect for those we meet is fundamental in this aspect..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That happened to me. I decided I was more bi-curious than I thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us we like to discuss boundaries beforehand so yes it would have stopped instantly.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I would have stopped immediately and told them I’m leaving, whatever you agree to prior to play is consensual but to do something during, without even asking is wrong.

There’s plenty of scenarios I could mention that we would all agree is totally out of order. So a man suddenly getting my cock out and attempting to give me oral is just the same, unless agreed in advance or asked during play.

As someone mentioned if a woman was saying the same thing, there’d be more sympathy or understanding. Consent is the same for both sexes, I don’t suddenly change the rules mid play and expect the same respect likewise.

Rant over

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By *ohn n jodie OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

Sexual violation ?? We were all there for one thing " no strings sexual activity , to start drawing guidelines up to me takes all the fun out of it and i prefer it to be spontaneous rather than . " thre wife will want 5 mins of oral, followed by her sucking you for 5 mins, then you fuck her on top for 5, climb off then i fuck for 5 , then we both cum on her tits !! Its all a bit scripted really, for me it should be all in the moment and a " no" will always mean no ! I could have said no when the guy initially wrapped his mouth around my cock but i didnt , how about id put 4 fingers in his wife and frigged her furiously but she preferred just 2 and me to do it slowly ? She would say " no" and i wouldstop or she says " i prefer it slowly with less digits ideally, at the end of the day were meeting virtual strangers and they will all like different things at different times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with it more likely. Maybe return the favour who knows until it happens

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We have met 6 guys off here 4 had straight in profile all but 1 asked hubby to suck them

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By *asycouple777Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Wife put my dick in someone’s mouth while she was being fucked

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Wife put my dick in someone’s mouth while she was being fucked"
sounds hot that i love your wife's pussy looks so yummy xx

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By *asycouple777Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Thanks

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By *ohn n jodie OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

Is any guy totally straight ? Is any woman totally straight ? For me its if they want to experiment with it as ive no doubt they have " bi " thoughts at some point , any women who watch porn ., do they look away when two women are pleasuring each other ? Would we even be on a swinge rs site if we were not experimental ? Straight laced " sex once a week missionary is good for some but not for others ! My motto " try it, you just might like it " !!!!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Sexual violation ?? We were all there for one thing " no strings sexual activity , to start drawing guidelines up to me takes all the fun out of it and i prefer it to be spontaneous rather than . " thre wife will want 5 mins of oral, followed by her sucking you for 5 mins, then you fuck her on top for 5, climb off then i fuck for 5 , then we both cum on her tits !! Its all a bit scripted really, for me it should be all in the moment and a " no" will always mean no ! I could have said no when the guy initially wrapped his mouth around my cock but i didnt , how about id put 4 fingers in his wife and frigged her furiously but she preferred just 2 and me to do it slowly ? She would say " no" and i wouldstop or she says " i prefer it slowly with less digits ideally, at the end of the day were meeting virtual strangers and they will all like different things at different times!

I think you’ve missed the point a tad

It’s not a case of being scripted ....

It’s a case of boundaries

For instance , I would never want to do anal with any meet. I put that in my profile and I would expect whoever I was with to respect that and if they didn’t and tried they should expect a smack in the face

Now if we had discussed that it might be something I would want to try with them then that would be different and of course during play if they tried and I said no then I wouldn’t be upset because we had talked about it and I just wasn’t feeling it

There’s a massive difference between scripted play (which some people actually like) and just the ‘do’s and donts’ that will make for an enjoyable time

Surely finding out what any partner, whether casual or love gets turned on by is what makes it hot !

Assuming someone is up for everything you want would make you an extremely selfish sexual partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a consent violation. Scene immediately over. "

this

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By *ohn n jodie OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

My point is were all different,some like scripted, some dont , some like rough sex, some dont, some get off being dominant, some like being sub and " used" , some dont, some get off doing anything to please hubby, so e get off on doing anything to please wifey !, a no is always going to be a no , also i would like to think you can stop a man giving you anal by merely clenching your cheeks and closing the door ? Unless youve got yourass up in the air and its winking at him ?? Bottom line is NO MEANS NO! then if ignored it becomes a sexual violation !, simples

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"My point is were all different,some like scripted, some dont , some like rough sex, some dont, some get off being dominant, some like being sub and " used" , some dont, some get off doing anything to please hubby, so e get off on doing anything to please wifey !, a no is always going to be a no , also i would like to think you can stop a man giving you anal by merely clenching your cheeks and closing the door ? Unless youve got yourass up in the air and its winking at him ?? Bottom line is NO MEANS NO! then if ignored it becomes a sexual violation !, simples "

‘Stop a man giving you anal by merely clenching your cheeks and closing the door’

Did you actually just right that ?

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By *rSuave88Man
over a year ago

Mirfield

Id probably go soft and it would totally ruin the mood

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

So suddenly it's up to the woman to stop the man if he tries for anal?

This is exactly what pre-discussed boundaries and respect of those boundaries is all about, avoiding crap like this.

Cross them and all play ends, period.

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"I wouldn't stop them lol but being orally bi ,I won't jump on another cock without discussing it before the play."

Orally bi here too and I think a quick conversation would make the play time much smoother. Being picky, and saying no is ok in this lifestyle.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"‘Stop a man giving you anal by merely clenching your cheeks and closing the door’

Just facepalmed so hard I shouldn’t need any Botox this month!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not a good sucking if you’re not bi. In which case yes, unless he wants a quality stream of vomit over him x

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

OP if you are not remotely bi you WOULD stop him.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Is any guy totally straight ? Is any woman totally straight ? For me its if they want to experiment with it as ive no doubt they have " bi " thoughts at some point , any women who watch porn ., do they look away when two women are pleasuring each other ? Would we even be on a swinge rs site if we were not experimental ? Straight laced " sex once a week missionary is good for some but not for others ! My motto " try it, you just might like it " !!!!"

Yes some are totally straight and we fast forward porn with just two women in it as we don't enjoy it...however this does not translate into once a week missionary position sex....theres far more variety than these options.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"‘Stop a man giving you anal by merely clenching your cheeks and closing the door’

Just facepalmed so hard I shouldn’t need any Botox this month!

You couldn’t make it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP if you are not remotely bi you WOULD stop him."

Bi and gay men don't know the meaning of the word straight

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"It’s not a good sucking if you’re not bi. In which case yes, unless he wants a quality stream of vomit over him x"

I’ve been there

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

So suddenly it's up to the woman to stop the man if he tries for anal?

This is exactly what pre-discussed boundaries and respect of those boundaries is all about, avoiding crap like this.

Cross them and all play ends, period."

Agree.

Op: Yes, no means no and any violation of those boundaries is assault. You do realise that some people ‘freeze’ in situations and this can also be classed legally as assault. Which is why it’s very important to discuss boundaries beforehand.

However, your statement saying if a woman (or man) has their ass up in the air that’s an invitation for anal?

Not only is that victim blaming, this is the scenario why some straight couples won’t meet bi couples. It gives the responsible community a bad name. Furthermore, your statement to stop anal is to clench your cheeks together, reminds me of the headline a judge said whilst presiding over a r@pe case: all women needed to do was to keep their legs together.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We’ve been on a few socials with let’s say quite “naughty” men and in some cases women, but mostly men who do this kind of thing and generally work really damn hard to push boundaries. But I guess it’s part of the dynamic - seduction, negotiation, acts of service and little punishments so it’s never been a problem. But honestly can’t imagine getting angry or upset if someone did something we really didn't like we just handle it like adults and say seriously I don’t like that , stop doing it. Can see the need to call in armed police

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"OP if you are not remotely bi you WOULD stop him.

Bi and gay men don't know the meaning of the word straight "

Actually we do, and the meaning of 'Fab straight' which is what a guy would be if he let and enjoyed another man sucking him off lmao

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"‘Stop a man giving you anal by merely clenching your cheeks and closing the door’

Just facepalmed so hard I shouldn’t need any Botox this month!

Jesus Christ - quite scary reading that is that really what we are up against?

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"We’ve been on a few socials with let’s say quite “naughty” men and in some cases women, but mostly men who do this kind of thing and generally work really damn hard to push boundaries. But I guess it’s part of the dynamic - seduction, negotiation, acts of service and little punishments so it’s never been a problem. But honestly can’t imagine getting angry or upset if someone did something we really didn't like we just handle it like adults and say seriously I don’t like that , stop doing it. Can see the need to call in armed police "

I guess that attitude is easier as a couple as you have someone in your corner as a single woman meeting men who are far stronger ‘pushing boundaries’ can easily turn into something else

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

So suddenly it's up to the woman to stop the man if he tries for anal?

This is exactly what pre-discussed boundaries and respect of those boundaries is all about, avoiding crap like this.

Cross them and all play ends, period.

Agree.

However, your statement saying if a woman (or man) has their ass up in the air that’s an invitation for anal?

This

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm sure hubby would run a mile lol

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’d say I’m straight before meet so hope that would never happen wouldn’t be a happy chap if did straight Is straight Wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your replies !, yes it did happen to me , the split second it did my initial reaction was to push him away but it felt so good and as that is were us guys keep our brains i just went with it and so glad i did as i was rewarded with a double bj off the two of them st the same time , both greedily sucking on my cock and balls and as my eyes were closed i deemed it fine !, i guess thats why im now bi and so glad i am as there are so many horny bi couples out there xx "

This is the spirit..just close your eyes a think of England...

Pleasure is about the sensation given and received.. The mouth is not gender orientated so please don't descriminate..

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"This is the spirit..just close your eyes a think of England..."

You know when you got involved In a thread and wish you hadn’t cos you have to read the ‘they’re getting worse’ replies. Well, that.

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By *aintscoupleCouple
over a year ago

st helens

Knowing that we are a straight couple i would politely tell him to FUCK OFF!

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"As a gay man who enjoys cock. I think some protest to much. Some I wouldn’t touch with someone else’s mouth never mind my own, usually the ones complaining on this thread, though if the guy sucks you off and you don’t want him to you politely tell him OFF of maybe a discussion before is appropriate. I have been invited by a wife to attend a mmmf two “straight” guys A bi wife and myself as she wanted to see how her straight friends would receive a gay man. All agreed before, Let’s just say they did and through experience I can tell you they had done it before with a man and enjoyed everything done to me and me to them. Usually the man protest to much, is a sign. "

So based ok your extremely limited experiences, you deemed that if someone protests, they’re actually into men? Lol. Super short sighted there

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I think people should ask before assuming consent is automatically granted for anything and everything, personally i would stop play if this happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is any guy totally straight ? "

Yes, loads are, me included.

If a guy did it to me in a MFM I'd be fucking livid. Boundaries are always discussed and agreed, crossing them is just fucking wrong.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Is any guy totally straight ?

Yes, loads are, me included.

If a guy did it to me in a MFM I'd be fucking livid. Boundaries are always discussed and agreed, crossing them is just fucking wrong."

Spot on

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Is any guy totally straight ?

Yes, loads are, me included.

If a guy did it to me in a MFM I'd be fucking livid. Boundaries are always discussed and agreed, crossing them is just fucking wrong."

Exactly right ... we set boundaries in all areas of our lives so why wouldn’t we when it comes to our intimate likes

I have to be honest tho the only times I’ve been in a play scenario where someone has blatantly ignored rules all occasions have been from women !

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By *aptinfaptastikMan
over a year ago

Derby

Isn't MMF saying you'll play with the guy...MFM that your strictly for the lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not been in that situation... yet!

But generally I’d go with the flow, I’m not sure how I’d react if a guy came on to me 1-2-1, but in a mmf situation I’m sure I’d be shocked at first but then just let them get on with it, especially if I was enjoying her pussy.

As you can most probably tell, I’m looking for my first experience with a couple.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

hmmm, without asking if it's ok, that would be overstepping the mark,

same goes for that other statement made too, just wrong

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Major violation! I wouldn't want to play with anyone who can't respect boundaries. I'm bi and I've sucked and even fucked a couple of str8 husbands during 3sums, but strictly consenting play only! Wouldn't dream of touching another guy uninvited.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Enjoy it, it all feels good

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By *oerow16Man
over a year ago

Essex/ London

No way would love this to happen to me

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Had this happen once at a party, there were 5 of us (mmmff)

Wondered who, looked down, looked back up and carried on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let him carry on as had some great blow jobs from guys and like giving them myself or sharing a nice cock with my female friend at times but I am bi so like giving and receiving. As well my friend likes to watch me getting fucked by a hung guy too which we enjoy doing too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That happened to me. I decided I was more bi-curious than I thought."

I’ll add it wouldn’t happen now because I do discuss boundaries beforehand, however I was naive and a relative novice when this happened. Interesting thing was his wife told him off, saying “You can’t do that, you don’t know if he likes that kind of thing.” I appreciated that, but said that he could carry on

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Depends on if you've discussed boundaries like this before hand or not.

If you babe and they do it any way then that's assault really.

If not then I guess you have to either lay back and enjoy it or tell them to stop. But if it fes good why would you stop them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if boundaries are crossed then yes i would stop otherwise what other boundaries are going to be broken ..plus its not consensual if youve not agreed or said thats off limits and that then becomes a whole new ball game ...rules are rules...

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I met a couple who told me implicitly what they like and how they’d like the meet to pan out. Including if I had to finish or not. What it wasn’t was a ‘script’ of what was going to happen minute by minute, blow by metaphorically blow

If I’m told no oral to the woman as she prefers her husband to do it, fine I know my boundaries but if during the play she changes her mind and asks for it, fine as long as I consent to do it (I would).

We are all adults on this site, able to communicate verbally and non verbally a guy pushing his penis in my face towards my mouth is a non verbal come on, but snatching it away also sends a message.

So respecting people boundaries and ensuring consent is available for all, during a meet is certainly possible and should be part of the overall experience.

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By *icks and SucksCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Usually best to discuss boundaries as others have already mentioned. However if you are in the “I’m enjoying this” camp and comfortable after the initial surprise then carry on. If you’re not comfortable then you should say something - swinging is still based on consent and if you’re not happy/enjoying/etc then NO is perfectly acceptable a word to be used

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By *untocum1000TV/TS
over a year ago

newmarket

Has happened to me ...changed my whole outlook ...love bi sex now

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By *scarsexMan
over a year ago

Stevenage

Like other have said I normally ask some questions first to see what’s they are into. If they didn’t say anything and the guy started doing that, I would stop him. It’s not my thing and would explain it to him in a polite manner. If things got awkward, I would leave.

I have a clear idea what I like and dislike. To me this behaviour would be disrespectful in a way. And yes, I know that sometimes we get crazy with sex. Those going in that direction, don’t attack me. But it’s not what we agreed first.

Look at it like this: the woman says she doesn’t want anal sex. Would you go and do it just because you want to???

I’ll leave it there

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

What amazes me is the number of bi guys on Fab claiming that nobody is totally straight. That sounds incredibly predatory, a bit like claiming a woman never means no when she says no. Believe me, there are plenty of guys who are totally straight and there is nothing that will make them lose an erection faster than another guy trying it on. We have played with bi guys, but always on the condition that they play straight.

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By *ohn n jodie OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

Hi again, so glad my initial post as caused quite a stir !! , still all missing the point ! How many married guys go to bed on a saturday night for " fun" and try it on with their mrs hoping for as much sexual activity as they can get ?? " can i make love to you dear ? A no reply and the turn over in bed means "no" and he has to accept tnat ( wether she has an headache or not , the point is he accepted the no as aand has to try to sleep with an erection in his pyjamas ! If he DOES NOT get a no he carries on and hopes his wife will turn into a raving nymph !, who goes to bed having already discussed previously what sex they will be having , how long for , who cums first !, Just go with the flow and let happen what you want to happen at the time !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would let him carry on as long as it feels good for you why not x

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Always a polite no thanks, no exceptions. To all those who say you’d never know it’s a guy....I don’t care. If I knew, I’d feel awful and i worry that it wouldn’t ever leave me.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Reading this has given me some food for thought. Maria

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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago

North West, Outer Letterkenny area

Am I missing something OP as you are listed as a Male Male couple. But to answer your question no, all stuff agreed beforehand. If that mean I say I don't want to be sucked off by the other male ,then thats what I mean. Not kind of mean like some suggested. If its a no its a no.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

My husband is straight with no interest in men.

We have been swinging many years and he us not even a tiny bit bi-curious.

We would consider the scenario posted by the OP to be sexual assault.

If any bloke tried that with hubby, despite being a chilled chap, they are likely to get decked and reported to the police.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"HERES THE SCENARIO, your in a mmf 3 sum situation and youve just gone down on his wifes delightful pussy and hyoir giving it your best ! , next thing you feel his lips wrap around YOUR COCK and he starts giving you a hell of a good sucking even though your not remotely bi , my question is DO YOU STOP HIM OR NOT ???? , or go along with the fact its all in the moment and if i stop him it may stop all the fun continuing ?, do you let him carry on because he is so damm good at it ? , or do you now have the opinion " shit i may be slightly bi after all" ? I wonder how many times this has happened and let to guys actually going down the bi path that otherwise they had never even considered ? Genuine answers please xxx"
. Now a days I discuss my boundaries before any adult fun with a couple as a few years ago at Rios I was invited by a couple to join them in the private / rest room with two other guys whilst in the room the guy grabbed my cock gave it a wank for about 5 seconds and asked me if I was ok with this.I said no I stayed in the room for about 10 minutes and watched as the couple wanked and sucked the two other guys.The couple asked me if I had changed my mind about playing I then asked to leave the room which I did. I am pleased that I stayed and watched as I now realise that bi play is not for me.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"The mouth is not gender orientated so please don't descriminate.."

I was sexualy assaulted by a guy when I was a kid, so excuse me for not wanting another man's mouth around my cock.

I have absolutely no problem with people of other sexualities, as I know the problem was solely with 'that' individual.

People's reasons are not always down to discrimination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi again, so glad my initial post as caused quite a stir !! , still all missing the point ! How many married guys go to bed on a saturday night for " fun" and try it on with their mrs hoping for as much sexual activity as they can get ?? " can i make love to you dear ? A no reply and the turn over in bed means "no" and he has to accept tnat ( wether she has an headache or not , the point is he accepted the no as aand has to try to sleep with an erection in his pyjamas ! If he DOES NOT get a no he carries on and hopes his wife will turn into a raving nymph !, who goes to bed having already discussed previously what sex they will be having , how long for , who cums first !, Just go with the flow and let happen what you want to happen at the time !!! "

Your comparison above to the original scenario does not make sense.

A married hetro couple I'm sure would still discuss certain boundaries such as anal sex or pegging these being a little more kinky for some, the run of the mill stuff of course won't be discussed everytime before they have sex.

A MFM scenario whereby one guy is straight and another bi is a totally different scenario. No comparison at all.

There is no going with the flow where Male Male contact is concerned for me, it's a hard line not to be crossed.

I've never tried it and dont need to to know I wouldn't like it as some others above have suggested.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Let him carry on.

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"It depends if youd previously told them that you weren't interested in male contact. If hes gone ahead and done it without your permission then all play should stop! That's totally out of order no matter how good it is.

If anyone attempted to do something I hadn't given my consent to, they'd get a smack in the face and their marching orders."

Well said

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"The mouth is not gender orientated so please don't descriminate..

I was sexualy assaulted by a guy when I was a kid, so excuse me for not wanting another man's mouth around my cock.

I have absolutely no problem with people of other sexualities, as I know the problem was solely with 'that' individual.

People's reasons are not always down to discrimination."

So sorry this happened to you, this is one of the reason I ensure boundaries are agreed

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By *uicybbwWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

My theory is it’s all about the orgasm

All about the pleasure and living in the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it wasn't on the menu, then its a dish served cold

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By *ikiLoverMan
over a year ago

Brighton

If it's a complete turn off then put a stop to it (politely preferably since it wasn't clear), just like you would any other sexual act. If it isn't a turn off, then go with it, especially if actually you're enjoying it.

Don't let the preconceived notion that you won't like it stop you from enjoying something that you are enjoying! And you don't have to then suddenly rush to change your 'label' of straight or bi or whatever. You enjoyed it, and that great. Done.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Got to be honest, I think some of the stuff you’ve said in this thread is deliberately playing at what you think are ‘grey’ areas to make violating someone and ignoring boundaries ok in your own head.

If someone’s said I’m straight in advance, you don’t even try for it. They shouldn’t have to defend your schlong with their poop snipper.

If someone’s said they’re straight, don’t have a cheeky suck of their cock. It’s not ok.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’d stop him. I’m straight not Fab straight lol.

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By *oriarty99Man
over a year ago

London

Why are gay people obsessed with trying to turn straight people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’d insist he carried on. Then I’d gesture to her to join him and have both feasting on my cock and balls..

Don’t knock it until you try it fellas. It’s even better than you’ll think it’ll be lol

I’m bi and proud by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something similar happened to me with a couple I met. Met in a pub, all the chat went well, then before we all went to heir hotel (above the bar) the guy said let’s go outside whilst she goes and gets changed.

Literally the last thing he said before we went back in was “ oh she likes to watch me suck cock is that ok?”

I’d never done anything like that but said, erm I’m not sucking yours but yeah no drama...

It was one of the best blow jobs id ever had and all whilst his wife was sat across my face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is on here straight don’t always mean straight, it’s confusing , all the messages I get from straight married men ,

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Isn't MMF saying you'll play with the guy...MFM that your strictly for the lady"

Not this again. No it's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha Exactly this has happened to me&I honestly tell you didn't even cross my mind say stop or pue shared it Fuck yeyll away cos Fuck he sucked Cock good...

.When they share it wow,but he took control&made me cum buckets...Never thought before but since ive had handjobs off fellas which I love,Been Sucked off by tranny's T-Girls&Fellas if I struggling for Pussi I just accept one many offers I always have..Do love convincing Tranny Suckin my Cock...heeheehee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"go along with it. then tell yourself I'm straight but continue having your cock sucked off when you have more threesomes. I often heard from men, they enjoy their cock sucked whether man or woman.. usually men do it better than a woman which is totally understandable. I love boobs but hell no I'm not bi. just think some look sexy. But would i let a woman lick me if she's amazing at it? yes... but i tell her I'm not fucking her unless she looked like Angelina Jolie

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I heard the men Suck Cock better argument many times but in my experience rare woman that loves too suck Cock still by far best overall

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

I think if it wasn't agreed on before it's plain rude and disrespectful, not cool.

If he took the chance and you liked it good luck to him but doesn't make it acceptable imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would stop as i'm totally straight... And the fun would also stop as it would turn me off

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By *intteaMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Feels like this is two questions at least

1) is it okay to have you cock sucked by other guys - yes

2) is it okay for people to cross previously agreed boundaries - no ( imagine if they had tried something less socially acceptable with out asking. We’d all jump to the “unacceptable” answer then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance in hell would this happen, if anyone has straight on profile but even thinking about it change your profile to bi curios.

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By *ohn n jodie OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

Still reckon its a 50/50 split opinion on this , maybe all who attend swingers clubs as an example should be given a checklist of things we do and things we dont then hand them out to couples they are " attracted to and potentially may like to play with , then everyone can sit down, read and cross off couples who dont 100% fit into their criteria !! Good god live for the moment ! Example to another couple - " we shan't consider playing with you as the wifes looking for someone the same, age/ weight and height as herself so its not going to happen no matter how lovely people you may be !, or " sorry were looking for a couple were the guy has a 6.2 inch cock as my hubbys and im afraid yours is closer to 7 !! . Its taking all the fun out of it and the thrill of the moment surely ?? Crikey we have enough rules and regs to adhere to in our life , why make more ???? If theres anattraction to play , then play !!!! Thoughts please ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thoughts please ??"

Nothing to do with rules, if a guy is truly straight he wouldn't want another guy sucking his cock

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By *ohn n jodie OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

Guess its each to their own then ! I wonder how many married guys are on here seeking fun they cant get at home because the wifes " gone off sex , or " shes never gives me oral sex but i absolutley love it and " need it to be happy "! Or even single guys who are lucky enough to be invited to a 3 sum situation will go there expecting to recieve oral sex as part of the session ? Or the woman will be expecting to recieve oral sex off the man ? I guess its back to the checklist again !! Biggest bull i come across is guys who are " only bi in a 3 sum and will happily use that comment as a way to get the 3 sum on as a way of getting to the woman and have no intention whatsoever of playing mm in any way ! Very naughty indeed

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Still reckon its a 50/50 split opinion on this , maybe all who attend swingers clubs as an example should be given a checklist of things we do and things we dont then hand them out to couples they are " attracted to and potentially may like to play with , then everyone can sit down, read and cross off couples who dont 100% fit into their criteria !! Good god live for the moment ! Example to another couple - " we shan't consider playing with you as the wifes looking for someone the same, age/ weight and height as herself so its not going to happen no matter how lovely people you may be !, or " sorry were looking for a couple were the guy has a 6.2 inch cock as my hubbys and im afraid yours is closer to 7 !! . Its taking all the fun out of it and the thrill of the moment surely ?? Crikey we have enough rules and regs to adhere to in our life , why make more ???? If theres anattraction to play , then play !!!! Thoughts please ??"

You know people don't just walk up to other people in clubs and just start shagging, right?! They talk before hand to see if they want to shag and during that chatter they can discuss their boundaries, likes and dislikes, hard limits etc. Then if all are in agreement they then go off and shag.

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By *odjamMan
over a year ago

woodford

Love bi threesomes. He could carry on sucking my cock and I would happily suck his.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guess its each to their own then ! I wonder how many married guys are on here seeking fun they cant get at home because the wifes " gone off sex , or " shes never gives me oral sex but i absolutley love it and " need it to be happy "! Or even single guys who are lucky enough to be invited to a 3 sum situation will go there expecting to recieve oral sex as part of the session ? Or the woman will be expecting to recieve oral sex off the man ? I guess its back to the checklist again !! Biggest bull i come across is guys who are " only bi in a 3 sum and will happily use that comment as a way to get the 3 sum on as a way of getting to the woman and have no intention whatsoever of playing mm in any way ! Very naughty indeed"

The latter you have quoted, is apparently quite common!

Just to add something - if you tried it once, doesn't make you bi.

You could never experience again in your life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let him have his fun; like you said OP it sounds like he was good at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When this happened to me I was like 'wtf?'. But realised it felt amazing. Started me down the path to much better 3 some meets

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Yet your argument seems to be if there's no attraction to play just go with it, you'll enjoy it.

Not quite sure what point you're trying to make, and I'm not sure you are either, but at it's core seems to be "I'm bi and if you're not you're just too hung up on rules".

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Like people said it’s up to boundaries being discussed. If this happened I would tell him to stop and leave the room.

I did have an incident years ago when a guy deliberately. Took my cock in his hand. I told him to stop. It was not the fact he did it it was more it was without my permission that pissed me off

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I can’t believe some of what I am reading on this thread. It’s getting worse by the hour

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By *orkiemanMan
over a year ago

Morley

Surely all boundaries will have been discussed beforehand. If the guy knew the hubby was straight then why would he go anywhere near him?

That is why so many couples won't meet bi men because they think we will dive straight on the guy! Bi guys also play straight when the situation calls for it.

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By *ohn n jodie OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

Ive met couples before and had the " discussion" beforehand with the male half saying " she will do thus , loves doing that , " do this to her it sends her wild " ! All Comes to all he hasnt discussed the " agenda " with her at all and he just hopes this scenario will happen and is depending on the fact a stranger is " making all themoves " and she wont say anything and just go along with it much to his satisfaction , trust me this can happen and has ! In my defence im under the impression shes lving what im doing and unless i hear a no then im none the wiser

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Absolutely I'd stop them. I have zero interest in having a bloke suck my cock, no matter how good he might be at it. I don't want it. Just like you can tell me all day long your curry is the best, I'm still not going to eat it, I can't stand curry.

But the fact that he'd just gone ahead and done it would probably make me leave. I wouldn't just grab a woman's pussy in a group scenario, I'd make sure I got the ok first, and I would expect the same. Either by asking, gesturing, whatever works best in the moment. But don't just assume I'm going to be ok with it.

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By *inytitsbigcockCouple
over a year ago

glos

Well never had a guy suck my cock but probably just go for it if it felt that good

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It would stop there and then and he would leave within seconds.

No plans with a man here.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Boundaries need to be set beforehand and adhered to.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Ive met couples before and had the " discussion" beforehand with the male half saying " she will do thus , loves doing that , " do this to her it sends her wild " ! All Comes to all he hasnt discussed the " agenda " with her at all and he just hopes this scenario will happen and is depending on the fact a stranger is " making all themoves " and she wont say anything and just go along with it much to his satisfaction , trust me this can happen and has ! In my defence im under the impression shes lving what im doing and unless i hear a no then im none the wiser "

You don't talk to her about it at all? That's weird.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"It would stop there and then and he would leave within seconds.

No plans with a man here.

This exactly! To say I'd (he) be less than happy is an understatement. Angry, annoyed and violated comes to mind. Very disrespectful of boundaries.

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By *ohn n jodie OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

99% of the time its the man in the couple that contacts us, he makes all the arrangements and what " they" want to happen and what fantasies they are hopi g to fulfil, we always ask to speak to the lady on the phone to prove she actually exists and apart from the " are you looking forward to it and " we will do our very best to make sure your relaxed and have a great time thats as far as it goes , should we be saying right first we will suck on your breasts, then one of us will start to rub your pussy and insert fingers whilst the other one works up from your breast and puts his cock in your mouth , then one of us will start to fuck you , then we will spitrooast you and swop over, then hubby can join in , then one of us can rest and wank , then one of us will cum on your breasts as your wanking us off , the other will then re insert his cock into your pussy and fuck u very hard till he cums !,, you get my point ?, it takes all of the pleasure out of it , go with the flow and jwhat happens will happen !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're overthinking things. Chill and go with it.

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By *ohn n jodie OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

Exactly !, thats what we do !, its the others on here who say its a " sexual violation " etc if we do something they didnt want to do ! A very high percentage of wives will only be " going along with it" to please hubby and make him happy because she loves him so much !! I wonder how many females in a swingers couple are the instigator in their fun and the man is just " going along with it " just to see her happy ? A very small minority no doubt , i really cannot imagine when we next meet a couple we sit down and they get a checklist out in front of us with a " ok to do that , not ok to do these things , she may do these things , kills it stone dead for me

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

"I guess you should have discussed boundaries before things started really.

However if it feels good I'd go with it. "

This with bells on...

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I would definitely STOP them and I know that my dick would go limp. Boundaries have to be set before play and respected

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By *ip7Man
over a year ago

caister

I'd think my luck had changed as I'd be so happy to have a threesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo let him carry on. Might even return the favour

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

Definitely let him carry on.

I was in an MMF one and taking her missionary and a guy just slipped his cock into me from behind, was toe curling....wish I could find another couple like that..

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Exactly !, thats what we do !, its the others on here who say its a " sexual violation " etc if we do something they didnt want to do ! A very high percentage of wives will only be " going along with it" to please hubby and make him happy because she loves him so much !! I wonder how many females in a swingers couple are the instigator in their fun and the man is just " going along with it " just to see her happy ? A very small minority no doubt , i really cannot imagine when we next meet a couple we sit down and they get a checklist out in front of us with a " ok to do that , not ok to do these things , she may do these things , kills it stone dead for me "

To me this kind of post smacks of ignorance, arrogance possibly lack of intelligence??

Because if its not sexual violation to do something some body doesn’t want to do then what is it?

My wife enjoys anal but to assume every lady we meet also enjoys it would be stupid, then who is to blame, me for trying it on or her for not wanting to engage it in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play in couples but not with solo guys. I don’t mind the group aspect at all, his mouth her mouth, his hand or her hand on me - makes no odds in that setting. But I would never touch anyone without consent or prior agreement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"99% of the time its the man in the couple that contacts us, he makes all the arrangements and what " they" want to happen and what fantasies they are hopi g to fulfil, we always ask to speak to the lady on the phone to prove she actually exists and apart from the " are you looking forward to it and " we will do our very best to make sure your relaxed and have a great time thats as far as it goes , should we be saying right first we will suck on your breasts, then one of us will start to rub your pussy and insert fingers whilst the other one works up from your breast and puts his cock in your mouth , then one of us will start to fuck you , then we will spitrooast you and swop over, then hubby can join in , then one of us can rest and wank , then one of us will cum on your breasts as your wanking us off , the other will then re insert his cock into your pussy and fuck u very hard till he cums !,, you get my point ?, it takes all of the pleasure out of it , go with the flow and jwhat happens will happen !"

Now you're taking it to the extreme. Nobody suggested what you mention above, just a discussion around boundaries as in what is a no go.

No I will not go with the flow. I do not want to be touched by men in a sexual manner. Your stance that men like me should just roll with it is frankly ridiculous.

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By *cooby5555Man
over a year ago

galway

"HERES THE SCENARIO, your in a mmf 3 sum situation and youve just gone down on his wifes delightful pussy and hyoir giving it your best ! , next nothing you feel his lips wrap around YOUR COCK and he starts giving you a hell of a good sucking even though your not remotely bi , my question is DO YOU STOP HIM OR NOT ???? , or go along with the fact its all in the moment and if i stop him it may stop all the fun continuing ?, do you let him carry on because he is so damm good at it ? , or do you now have the opinion " shit i may be slightly bi after all" ? I wonder how many times this has happened and let to guys actually going down the bi path that otherwise they had never even considered ? Genuine answers please xxx"
no way why would you stop that kind of pleasure would probably cum instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as I'd love a blowjob I don't think that I could go through with it.. I had a guy try it on with me unexpectedly before and it totally freaked me out.

I wouldnt at all be surprised if the guy who attempts to do that gets a smack to say the least.

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By *ozydeeCouple
over a year ago

knutsford

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By *ozydeeCouple
over a year ago

knutsford

we were playing in a room in cupids manchester , my wife and i in a 69 position , group of men watching touching my wife up , i obviously couldnt see and was licking her pussy . she was sucking me off and knowing i was about to cum she offered my cock to a bloke eagerly watching her sucking me off , i had no clue but she knows im open minded , he deepthroated me to my balls while i unloaded a huge load . after i said wow that was amazing and she told me it wasnt her but the man , he was sat smiling and thanked me . wow what an amazing experience and one i’d loveto do again.we always chat about it and it turns us both on massively x

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

If I was meeting a couple and he classified himself as straight and bi play hadn't at all been mentioned.

I wouldn't touch him sexually.

Theres no way I'd sexually touch someone who considered himself straight without him giving me some sort of clear indication he wanted me to do that in the moment.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Essentially if someone does something physically to you when boundaries have been set, it’s actually sexual assault. So yeh, don’t even bend those rules if you haven’t agreed it or you might find yourself in a heap of legal trouble

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

He would have my blessing

and he would be rewarded

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By *ohn n jodie OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

Some seem to still be missing the point !, my initial post was " boundaries were not set prior " , my point being it happened in the moment when your obviously turned on at that point and the only thing to contend with is that the superb blow job your recieving is not from a womans mouth ! Do you stop him or not ?? Or call the police and charge him with sexual assault !!! Were swingers for gods sake ! How many hubbys/partners/ fuck buddies would end up in court if their wife whilst giving him a goodsucking said " please dont cum in my mouth "! Hands up all the hubbys who have go e past the point of no return and have done ??? Quite a bloody lot i imagine

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I love this kind of threesome play so I can’t answer your question properly. I was curious when I started meeting couples so was happy when it happened the first time.

What I really love is a small party of couples, so that when this happens I don’t know to start with whether it’s one of the ladies or guys wrapping their lips around me

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I haven’t a bi bone in my body, yet I still keep getting messages saying, “ I bet I could turn you”.

Some just by- pass cognitive thinking when the blood has bypassed their brain to get to their dick.

If it happened to me, there would be an interesting reaction. Probably not one they had anticipated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d personally go with the flow. I’m yet to play with a guy and have a huge MMF fantasy I’d love to play out. I’m only orally curious but I know it the guy was hot and it was in the moment I’d be down with it more so if the woman involved was into it and made it obvious by being vocal.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Nope my husband would stop it dead, end of play and your man would be out the door fairly lively. He is straight so why would we even need to have a discussion with the other guy prior as regards bi play

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

If boundaries were not set then surely its best air on the side of caution?

Every meet ive had either as a couple or a single many years ago has started with a discussion about likes/dislikes and fantasies etc. If you have not been given the green light to do something and are unsure surely its better play it safe rather than grabbing anything and everything in sight?

Not everyone is into everything thats why there is a little section on the bottom of profiles where people can tick boxes that suit them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some seem to still be missing the point !, my initial post was " boundaries were not set prior " , my point being it happened in the moment when your obviously turned on at that point and the only thing to contend with is that the superb blow job your recieving is not from a womans mouth ! Do you stop him or not ?? Or call the police and charge him with sexual assault !!! Were swingers for gods sake ! How many hubbys/partners/ fuck buddies would end up in court if their wife whilst giving him a goodsucking said " please dont cum in my mouth "! Hands up all the hubbys who have go e past the point of no return and have done ??? Quite a bloody lot i imagine"

Regardless of boundaries being discussed or not, the fact I am straight as says on my profile should be enough. I don't get the whole bi guy thing trying it on with straight guys thinking its acceptable.

It's wrong, not acceptable in any fucking shape or form.

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By *ebaucherouspoetMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Had an experience that was similar and helped decide for me that bi curious didn't cut the mustard anymore. Was in a threesome with a gorgeous couple and while the Mrs sat on my face I felt an amazing blowjob start, hadn't been expected but was thoroughly enjoyed nonetheless!

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By *ohn n jodie OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

A NO SHOW OF HANDS ? hardly surprising , males in a couple on here are not daft, your not going to say you had hoped your wife would do more than she had before in a 3 sum (nearly every guy wants the sex to be hornier and dirtier than the last ) or even tne fact you had given your word you woukdnt cum in her mouth but she sucked you right to the point of no return and your going to shoot down her throught anyway !( ask most men, its a control thing and we all want to do it !) im just being totally honest on here , how many others are ?? Its all about fantasy , would you put your cock through a glory hole if you were going to recieve the best blow job known to man " to completion ?? But would it be a man or woman on the other side ?? Your thoughts please ?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"A NO SHOW OF HANDS ? hardly surprising , males in a couple on here are not daft, your not going to say you had hoped your wife would do more than she had before in a 3 sum (nearly every guy wants the sex to be hornier and dirtier than the last ) or even tne fact you had given your word you woukdnt cum in her mouth but she sucked you right to the point of no return and your going to shoot down her throught anyway !( ask most men, its a control thing and we all want to do it !) im just being totally honest on here , how many others are ?? Its all about fantasy , would you put your cock through a glory hole if you were going to recieve the best blow job known to man " to completion ?? But would it be a man or woman on the other side ?? Your thoughts please ?

No I would not be happy one single bit to put my cock in a glory hole and it be sucked by a guy, which is why I'd never put it in one without knowing. Couldn't give a hoot how good he can suck, it's a man and I don't get any satisfaction from that, fair play to those who do but not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it the point of a glory hole that you don't know who's on the other side and just enjoy the sensation? Not heard of them being labelled "straight cock", "other cock".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in mmf where I was in missionary position fucking the guys wife, when I feel his hard cock run up against my ass cheeks.

We had discussed sucking each other we both enjoyed, I was quite shock but it did feel good so I him carry on.

Was so hot and very intense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I would never use a glory hole even if there was only a slim chance a guy might be on the other side.

Also yes, it's great to have hot naughty sex but doing anything with another guy would kill the moment for me.

You seem to not be able to accept there are genuine straight guys that don't find any kind of action with another guy a turn on.

And... telling each other before play you're sexuality isn't a check list, it's just making sure we all know each others boundries.

Tony

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Well we only meet couples where the guy is listed as straight so hell yes I stop him and then I freak the fuck out.

It's absolutely and categorically not for me. It's not flexible or negotiable.

Anyway, I would have made it very very clear straight male play only to begin with.

Never been an issue so far.

Nothing against bi guys, just not our thing. Never ever do anything to anyone that they've made abundantly clear is a no go. It's asking for trouble.

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By *ohn n jodie OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

I accept fully that there are 100% straight guys out there and respect that they are ,my only point is sex is all in the moment , in that instant if you have a play with the same sex at that sexy moment it does not mean your suddenly a bi or lesbian , we label things enough as it is ! If your in a 3 sum situation and shes getting a good fucking inches from your face and he pops out so you guide him back in for him or you now suddenly a " bi" guy??? I think not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I accept fully that there are 100% straight guys out there and respect that they are ,my only point is sex is all in the moment , in that instant if you have a play with the same sex at that sexy moment it does not mean your suddenly a bi or lesbian , we label things enough as it is ! If your in a 3 sum situation and shes getting a good fucking inches from your face and he pops out so you guide him back in for him or you now suddenly a " bi" guy??? I think not"

He wouldn't be fucking inches from my face as I wouldn't want it that close to my face... and I wouldn't want to "pop" it back in for him as I wouldn't want to touch another guys cock...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop him, and likely grip him by the throat just to emphasise my opinion ..think that answers it Lol

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

No it's not "all in the moment". Straight is straight. That, by definition means no sexual contact of any type with people of the same sex. Letting another guy touch my dick in the way you define is not exactly straight in my book. Medical reasons aside, I would not let another man handle my junk in any manner ever.

Look, I get that a lot of people see the sexual spectrum as a shade of gray with limitations on what they will or wont do but for some of us it is absolutely black and white.

As I said earlier, no I would not let a guy touch me and if he did "in the moment" then that is a complete disrespect of my boundaries which would have been defined before hand anyway.

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