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By *renchie007 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Hi everyone, I hope that everyone is well, I am looking for a little bit of advice or help. At the moment I am not getting much luck on here, can you all please check my profile out and see if I need to add anythin

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

What do you say when you approach people? A lot of guys utterly mess that one up. Don't fall into that trap.

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By *renchie007 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Well id usually first read the profile so I can show that I read there profile and then introduce myself, what I'm like, what I enjoy and what I do.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Well id usually first read the profile so I can show that I read there profile and then introduce myself, what I'm like, what I enjoy and what I do. "

That sounds better than most of the messages we get.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

To be honest, I don't think you need five dick pics. Are you thinking we don't know what it looks like by, say, number three?

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By *uicylucy19Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

I get lots of messages. Too many to reply to.

If one says ‘hi’ or ‘hi there’ I don’t bother. If it’s just a page of cock pics with nothing else then I just delete it - regardless of how beautiful they are (or otherwise). If there’s an actual message I tend to look at the profile and reply if there’s something to reply to. If someone approaches me then I don’t really expect to have to start the conversation

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley

A nice polite hello, like you say a full read of the profile and pictures, compliments on them, and from what their profile says you can judge how to address them and go from there, just bear in mi d it's roughly 1000 men to 1 woman lol but luckily most of those are 1 liners

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By *renchie007 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

ok just modified this so I put them into my friends only pictures

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I think your profile is pretty decent. You say you are looking for a travel buddy. If travel is your thing then I suggest you expand on that a bit like saying where you have been and where you would like to go. It's a good point of conversation and could spark an interest in somebody.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"A nice polite hello, like you say a full read of the profile and pictures, compliments on them, and from what their profile says you can judge how to address them and go from there, just bear in mi d it's roughly 1000 men to 1 woman lol but luckily most of those are 1 liners"

it's because women get annoyed with the constant bashing from men... please don't ever talk to a woman like they a free sex worker... totally off putting

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By *renchie007 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

ok thanks also can I send you a message and you tell me if my messages are good?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"ok thanks also can I send you a message and you tell me if my messages are good? "

Is that to us? It's a good idea to use "Reply and quote" so we can see what message you are responding to.

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By *renchie007 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"ok thanks also can I send you a message and you tell me if my messages are good?

Is that to us? It's a good idea to use "Reply and quote" so we can see what message you are responding to. "

Oh ok its actually my first time using this forum so not sure how to use it but yes it was to you

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"ok thanks also can I send you a message and you tell me if my messages are good?

Is that to us? It's a good idea to use "Reply and quote" so we can see what message you are responding to.

Oh ok its actually my first time using this forum so not sure how to use it but yes it was to you "

Yes you may.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"ok thanks also can I send you a message and you tell me if my messages are good?

Is that to us? It's a good idea to use "Reply and quote" so we can see what message you are responding to.

Oh ok its actually my first time using this forum so not sure how to use it but yes it was to you

Yes you may. "

Fair play to you both, it's lovely to see someone supporting somebody with their profile and not negatively criticise them.

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By *renchie007 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"I get lots of messages. Too many to reply to.

If one says ‘hi’ or ‘hi there’ I don’t bother. If it’s just a page of cock pics with nothing else then I just delete it - regardless of how beautiful they are (or otherwise). If there’s an actual message I tend to look at the profile and reply if there’s something to reply to. If someone approaches me then I don’t really expect to have to start the conversation "

Ok thanks for the advice and can I also send you a message and let me know what you think of my messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok thanks also can I send you a message and you tell me if my messages are good?

Is that to us? It's a good idea to use "Reply and quote" so we can see what message you are responding to.

Oh ok its actually my first time using this forum so not sure how to use it but yes it was to you

Yes you may.

Fair play to you both, it's lovely to see someone supporting somebody with their profile and not negatively criticise them. "

Lots of people are hugely supportive and helpful to newbies on here

Unfortunately, alot dont take the advice given, and think " Ive got a huge member" will have them rolling in pussy by Tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put fake pictures up of a muscly guy in the same t shirt as you and miss the head out then put 1 real picture up of you with the t shirt on with your head visible

seen many guys do this and then you see them in threads about losing weight and shit like that even though they are meant to be built like a tank

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