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By *anhh4285 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers??

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers?? "

It's all about the profile, a woman will want to read more than a few lines, more about your likes and dislikes, make messages interesting, unfortunately on here for every 1 woman there are about 500 men trying for her attention, just keep your spirits up and don't come across as desperate, also just in the chat rooms too where people are live and active

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers?? "

That's your problem, you've come here thinking its just a hookup site for a quick shag, it isn't.

Plus, we are midway through a global crisis where people are being asked not to meet up with random strangers, especially not for sex.

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers??

That's your problem, you've come here thinking its just a hookup site for a quick shag, it isn't.

Plus, we are midway through a global crisis where people are being asked not to meet up with random strangers, especially not for sex. "
...................Could'nt have put it better myself my dear.

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By *uicylucy19Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

There’s this little virus....

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers??

It's all about the profile, a woman will want to read more than a few lines, more about your likes and dislikes, make messages interesting, unfortunately on here for every 1 woman there are about 500 men trying for her attention, just keep your spirits up and don't come across as desperate, also just in the chat rooms too where people are live and active"

It's not all about the profile. Who you decide to contact and what you decide to say to them are very important too.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"There’s this little virus...."

Wait, where?

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Seem to recall he had a similar thread recently..

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By *anhh4285 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

Thanks for the pointers ...... I'll reevaluate and see what I can do ... yes this virus is a pain in the ass but I have been isolated since January which is officially making me a virgin again ??

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers??

That's your problem, you've come here thinking its just a hookup site for a quick shag, it isn't.

Plus, we are midway through a global crisis where people are being asked not to meet up with random strangers, especially not for sex. "

This, and BTW damn girl your hot

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Wow. You've been here four weeks (during a global pandemic), write five lines about yourself and 22 lines of disclaimer and think your going to get a meet? I think you are only just starting to learn it's not so easy for single guys on here. This is no shagathon.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers??

That's your problem, you've come here thinking its just a hookup site for a quick shag, it isn't.

Plus, we are midway through a global crisis where people are being asked not to meet up with random strangers, especially not for sex.

This, and BTW damn girl your hot "

Awww thanks

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Thanks for the pointers ...... I'll reevaluate and see what I can do ... yes this virus is a pain in the ass but I have been isolated since January which is officially making me a virgin again ??"

Are you giving that "I've isolated so I'm safe" line?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

Have a look at the above thread. That's why people aren't meeting.

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By *uicylucy19Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"Thanks for the pointers ...... I'll reevaluate and see what I can do ... yes this virus is a pain in the ass but I have been isolated since January which is officially making me a virgin again ??"

Yeah... cobwebs

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Thanks for the pointers ...... I'll reevaluate and see what I can do ... yes this virus is a pain in the ass but I have been isolated since January which is officially making me a virgin again ??"

We've all had to make sacrifices

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By *adyx4Woman
over a year ago

Durham


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers??

That's your problem, you've come here thinking its just a hookup site for a quick shag, it isn't.

Plus, we are midway through a global crisis where people are being asked not to meet up with random strangers, especially not for sex. "

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By *anhh4285 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

I haven't come on here for a quick shag .... if I wanted to do that I could.

I have come on here to try different things and as it's the first time I have been single in 9 years I thought I may as well try it

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers?? "

Big pointer: Just because you don't want to chat, women are not just going to drop their keks for you. Get used to chatting. That is the first step to meeting somebody. I think you have a very unrealistic view of how to get a woman interested in you.

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By *anhh4285 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

I do get that I really do ...... but when someone says they want to do something after days of chatting then vanishes it's a bit hurtful. I am a man of my word and if I say I am going to do something I will no matter what

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I haven't come on here for a quick shag .... if I wanted to do that I could.

I have come on here to try different things and as it's the first time I have been single in 9 years I thought I may as well try it "

That may be, but to quote you...

"I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP"

That sounds to me like you want a quick shag. You may not have meant it but that's how it looks to me and I doubt I'm alone in that.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I do get that I really do ...... but when someone says they want to do something after days of chatting then vanishes it's a bit hurtful. I am a man of my word and if I say I am going to do something I will no matter what "

Well that's good, and I would advise you make a point of that on your profile. There are a lot of complaints on here about reliability. If you can convince somebody you are not a time-waster and will turn up reliably, that will certainly be to your advantage.

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'd stop now, whilst the hole you are digging doesn't get any deeper..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers?? "

buy a hooker

or dominatrix if you are into pegging

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I do get that I really do ...... but when someone says they want to do something after days of chatting then vanishes it's a bit hurtful. I am a man of my word and if I say I am going to do something I will no matter what "

Can I point out that it's currently against site rules to ask for meets other than socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the pointless legal notices are longer than the profile... That's a turn off. Also you've been here a month. That's a wink of an eye in fab time. Males outnumber other profiles by miles. Make yours stand out.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Oh Lordy, I despair.

What’s covid again?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

All single men here take a long time to get established. It's estra tough during lockdown as people have their priorities as health, family, employment, friends and pretty much most things other than no strings hookups.

Ee can individually create our own expectations and it's wise to do so.

Learn what the site is for and how it's permitted to use it. Sexual meets are not permitted at the moment.

Many people especially don't want to have minimal interaction before meeting, when it is allowed. There are thousands of single men and men in couples here, so there's choice aplenty. Those who fit and invest their efforts wisely do better m

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Please have the decency to reply in the forum and not pm.

To reiterate, it’s fools like you that’ll continue to fuck everything up. A small sacrifice in a relatively small period of time will help this to pass. Was getting your dick wet worth poor Betty who you passed in Tesco living her final days on a ventilator alone without her family??

Don’t be so selfish

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By *anhh4285 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

Did I once say I wanted to meet now?? There is nothing wrong in having something to look forward to.... Betty isn't going to get sick because I am planning a meet is she

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did I once say I wanted to meet now?? There is nothing wrong in having something to look forward to.... Betty isn't going to get sick because I am planning a meet is she"

I would refer you to your OP

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here


"Did I once say I wanted to meet now?? There is nothing wrong in having something to look forward to.... Betty isn't going to get sick because I am planning a meet is she"

“Want to meet and ASAP”

Yep, that implies you want to meet now.

As does the sentence where you state you don’t want to chat.

So yes, there is a higher risk of poor Betty getting sick because of you selfish behaviours.

Unsure what you don’t understand about this.

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By *anhh4285 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

ASAP as soon as possible does not mean now. Me being in lockdown at the start of the year had nothing to do with Covid ...... I had shingles and it's dangerous to pregnant women and people who are having chemotherapy maybe I should have made that clear sorry for any confusion

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here


"ASAP as soon as possible does not mean now. Me being in lockdown at the start of the year had nothing to do with Covid ...... I had shingles and it's dangerous to pregnant women and people who are having chemotherapy maybe I should have made that clear sorry for any confusion "

So? There’s still this worldwide pandemic, you’re not going to die because you haven’t played hide the sausage for 7 months...you might if you got covid though. I don’t in the slightest feel sorry for you having to go in lockdown because we’ve all had to make that sacrifice. Your post fully implies now, and I know I’m not the only one to interpret that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers?? "

Yeah sort your attitude out and stop treating women like free prostitutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest it looks more like you're simply trying to illicit any type of conversation you can because you're not getting replies to mails and are frustrated.

At any rate, if you do want to find a playmate then write something individual to the person whom you find attractive.. nothing is more off putting than a cut and paste email that basically says do you wanna shag... It might be a sex site but everyone want to feel valued.

Manners really do go a long way...

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By *014shadowCouple
over a year ago

Fresno

Change your negative remarks put more info in you profile. We do chat sometimes for a week or more the ladies have to feel a connection. Good luck to you.

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You’re doing swinging wrong, that’s the answer that sums it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really surprised you're not deep in clunge yet

What's wrong with you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clunge???

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"There’s this little virus....

Wait, where? "

I thought they'd now got some cream for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers??

That's your problem, you've come here thinking its just a hookup site for a quick shag, it isn't.

Plus, we are midway through a global crisis where people are being asked not to meet up with random strangers, especially not for sex. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on here for months, even before the pandemic and it's not easy for a single guy no matter what is going on in the world.

That being said it's not easy for couples, single females, bi's, tv/ts's or in fact any person on fab. That is the one thing I have come to understand!

Yes some people will get more attention than others, more messages than others but with come all the chancers/wannabes/dickheads who feel that because someone is on fab and they put up a cheeky post it gives idiots the right to send a "fancy a f**k now" message and get disgustingly rude when told no!

If we're very lucky we'll get one or two people to talk to. Once we're all able to go out and meet properly then we may get a chance to meet those one or two people, but even then anything more is not guaranteed.

I'm playing the patience game. One day it'll happen. One day

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By *um4usbothCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers?? "

You shouldn’t e looking for a meet yet. Covid is still out there and if you do meet you’re breaking the law

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By *i-Bi-BabyWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers?? "

I’m probably repeating what a few people have said on here but...

1- women on this site are not free prostitutes to be used at your leisure.

2- It takes time to form a connection with a person and build trust - anybody who meets a stranger at a moments notice does not have much regard for their personal safety.

3- the whole “what am I doing wrong?” “Feel sorry for me” thing does not work. It’s a massive turn off and personally makes me less likely to talk to you.

4- although you protest, it certainly reads as though you have joined this site through the pandemic and have expected to meet people despite it being illegal and morally wrong.

5 - face pics - although face pics are certainly important for establishing attraction, I find it off putting if a person has them in their public gallery. Discretion is very important to most people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do guys treat this place like its an instant sex hookup site, it's a swinging site. Just get to know people and see where things go.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

It would be handy to put a link to this thread on your profile that will get the girls rushing to reply

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

I dismiss any profile with one of those silly disclaimers

It takes time to find someone to connect to and even then they still just ghost. That doesn’t just happen to you.

If you want instant gratification then buy an hour with someone from a different site

Some people struggle for meets and some don’t.

It’s not a buffet where you sign up and take your pick.

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By *i-Bi-BabyWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Also - your profile states you’re looking to meet “ a woman who knows what she wants and has her life together who also appreciates a good man when she has one”

For someone who doesn’t want to chat how will you know of a woman has her life together? Do you require her to have a minimum 2:1 degree...or perhaps you’re going to run a credit check?

Looking at your posts and profile it would seem you have quite a warped view of women and a very entitled attitude that should be a major red flag to anybody considering meeting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also - your profile states you’re looking to meet “ a woman who knows what she wants and has her life together who also appreciates a good man when she has one”

For someone who doesn’t want to chat how will you know of a woman has her life together? Do you require her to have a minimum 2:1 degree...or perhaps you’re going to run a credit check?

Looking at your posts and profile it would seem you have quite a warped view of women and a very entitled attitude that should be a major red flag to anybody considering meeting you."
basically in lehmans terms if you aint a hollywood superstud you got no hope is what the quoted text is trying to say but all i can advise is just be patient & a meet will happen.

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By *itch74Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"It would be handy to put a link to this thread on your profile that will get the girls rushing to reply"

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By *itch74Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers?? "

There's nothing special about you that stands out or appealing, maybe you should try other dating sites where they actually do put out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hijack but can someone point me in the right direction too as I'm not getting much interest.

I've been on here weeks now. I've taken some shitty pics out of my phone and stuck em on here with no thought so should be absolutely dripping in wet sticky clunge.

I'm impatient and won't wait for all this fanny on here to fuck itself while I sit at home refreshing my page to no views, while sat in my cloth face mask I made out of a pair of socks (saw it on Google), so it's a diablicle liberty.

I was thinking of taking 23 pics of my cock at different angles so you clunge bags can see what you're actually missing, is this a good idea? Or should I include a Lynx can for size?

Any feedback helpful as I'm fucking gorgeous and won't be around here forever if no one takes me up soon, I'm not impaitient tho I just deserve better.

Thanks for any ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hijack but can someone point me in the right direction too as I'm not getting much interest.

I've been on here weeks now. I've taken some shitty pics out of my phone and stuck em on here with no thought so should be absolutely dripping in wet sticky clunge.

I'm impatient and won't wait for all this fanny on here to fuck itself while I sit at home refreshing my page to no views, while sat in my cloth face mask I made out of a pair of socks (saw it on Google), so it's a diablicle liberty.

I was thinking of taking 23 pics of my cock at different angles so you clunge bags can see what you're actually missing, is this a good idea? Or should I include a Lynx can for size?

Any feedback helpful as I'm fucking gorgeous and won't be around here forever if no one takes me up soon, I'm not impaitient tho I just deserve better.

Thanks for any ideas. "

Sky remote please, any other units of measure are not acceptable.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Also - your profile states you’re looking to meet “ a woman who knows what she wants and has her life together who also appreciates a good man when she has one”

For someone who doesn’t want to chat how will you know of a woman has her life together? Do you require her to have a minimum 2:1 degree...or perhaps you’re going to run a credit check?

Looking at your posts and profile it would seem you have quite a warped view of women and a very entitled attitude that should be a major red flag to anybody considering meeting you. basically in lehmans terms if you aint a hollywood superstud you got no hope is what the quoted text is trying to say but all i can advise is just be patient & a meet will happen."

How on earth did you get that? Nobody saidanything about beinga superstud, just treat us like human beings instead of a cum dump. It's not difficult.

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By *i-Bi-BabyWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Sorry to hijack but can someone point me in the right direction too as I'm not getting much interest.

I've been on here weeks now. I've taken some shitty pics out of my phone and stuck em on here with no thought so should be absolutely dripping in wet sticky clunge.

I'm impatient and won't wait for all this fanny on here to fuck itself while I sit at home refreshing my page to no views, while sat in my cloth face mask I made out of a pair of socks (saw it on Google), so it's a diablicle liberty.

I was thinking of taking 23 pics of my cock at different angles so you clunge bags can see what you're actually missing, is this a good idea? Or should I include a Lynx can for size?

Any feedback helpful as I'm fucking gorgeous and won't be around here forever if no one takes me up soon, I'm not impaitient tho I just deserve better.

Thanks for any ideas. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hijack but can someone point me in the right direction too as I'm not getting much interest.

I've been on here weeks now. I've taken some shitty pics out of my phone and stuck em on here with no thought so should be absolutely dripping in wet sticky clunge.

I'm impatient and won't wait for all this fanny on here to fuck itself while I sit at home refreshing my page to no views, while sat in my cloth face mask I made out of a pair of socks (saw it on Google), so it's a diablicle liberty.

I was thinking of taking 23 pics of my cock at different angles so you clunge bags can see what you're actually missing, is this a good idea? Or should I include a Lynx can for size?

Any feedback helpful as I'm fucking gorgeous and won't be around here forever if no one takes me up soon, I'm not impaitient tho I just deserve better.

Thanks for any ideas.

Sky remote please, any other units of measure are not acceptable. "

But it'll look bigger next to a can of Lynx Africa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You run your profile how you like. You do the meets as you like.

If you want ‘meet now, no chat’ that’s fine. Somewhere on here may want the same - it can take time to find that.

If you want to try the chat, then meet route, there’s some great tips from the ladies above my message.

My biggest tip would be: don’t bitch about it, especially on status updates. It gets noticed.

Good luck

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I haven't come on here for a quick shag .... if I wanted to do that I could.

I have come on here to try different things and as it's the first time I have been single in 9 years I thought I may as well try it

That may be, but to quote you...

"I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP"

That sounds to me like you want a quick shag. You may not have meant it but that's how it looks to me and I doubt I'm alone in that. "

No you're definitely not alone in thinking that. But at least he's not covering up the fact that it is all he wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How on earth did you get that? Nobody saidanything about beinga superstud, just treat us like human beings instead of a cum dump. It's not difficult. "

Its what all women want aint it? A hollywood adonis who can throw them around the bedroom lets face it we are all shallow & if you dont have the look regardless of personality, dick size or skill in the bedroom you wont get any interest plus you ladies set double standards all the time i mean no offence its just how women on here & other sites have come across to me plus its been proven on a well known video streaming platform

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"

How on earth did you get that? Nobody saidanything about beinga superstud, just treat us like human beings instead of a cum dump. It's not difficult.

Its what all women want aint it? A hollywood adonis who can throw them around the bedroom lets face it we are all shallow & if you dont have the look regardless of personality, dick size or skill in the bedroom you wont get any interest plus you ladies set double standards all the time i mean no offence its just how women on here & other sites have come across to me plus its been proven on a well known video streaming platform "

No what women want is a chocolate cock that ejaculates £20 notes & a hot guy with a tray of fresh baked cakes on constant demand

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Apart from the current global pandemic stopping people from meeting you have to factor that you are 1 out of thousands of profiles all trying to gain the attention of females, we’ve been on here for 4 years And have had literally zero luck trying to arrange a MFF and not being biased but mrs L2 is one of the hottest women I’ve ever met in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah you see, ‘ASAP’, that’s where your problem lies mate. If you want a sprint not a marathon, you’re in the wrong place.

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By *i-Bi-BabyWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"

How on earth did you get that? Nobody saidanything about beinga superstud, just treat us like human beings instead of a cum dump. It's not difficult.

Its what all women want aint it? A hollywood adonis who can throw them around the bedroom lets face it we are all shallow & if you dont have the look regardless of personality, dick size or skill in the bedroom you wont get any interest plus you ladies set double standards all the time i mean no offence its just how women on here & other sites have come across to me plus its been proven on a well known video streaming platform "

Dad bod for me all day everyday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No what women want is a chocolate cock that ejaculates £20 notes & a hot guy with a tray of fresh baked cakes on constant demand "

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Dad bod for me all day everyday! "

Ha ha ha whatever

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over a year ago


"Apart from the current global pandemic stopping people from meeting you have to factor that you are 1 out of thousands of profiles all trying to gain the attention of females, we’ve been on here for 4 years And have had literally zero luck trying to arrange a MFF and not being biased but mrs L2 is one of the hottest women I’ve ever met in my life "

What??? Fab doesn’t shock me often

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"

How on earth did you get that? Nobody saidanything about beinga superstud, just treat us like human beings instead of a cum dump. It's not difficult.

Its what all women want aint it? A hollywood adonis who can throw them around the bedroom lets face it we are all shallow & if you dont have the look regardless of personality, dick size or skill in the bedroom you wont get any interest plus you ladies set double standards all the time i mean no offence its just how women on here & other sites have come across to me plus its been proven on a well known video streaming platform "

Wow, I'm so glad you told me exactly what I want and how shallow and what double standards I have. Sorry for only wanting to fuck someone I have some kind of attraction to.

Do you not realise its YOUR attitude that's the problem? Thinking that it's the women's fault they won't fuck you, trying to take our choice away by making offensive comments aimed at guilting us into doing what you want. I point blank refuse to give my body away just because some men stamp their feet.

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By *i-Bi-BabyWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"

How on earth did you get that? Nobody saidanything about beinga superstud, just treat us like human beings instead of a cum dump. It's not difficult.

Its what all women want aint it? A hollywood adonis who can throw them around the bedroom lets face it we are all shallow & if you dont have the look regardless of personality, dick size or skill in the bedroom you wont get any interest plus you ladies set double standards all the time i mean no offence its just how women on here & other sites have come across to me plus its been proven on a well known video streaming platform

Wow, I'm so glad you told me exactly what I want and how shallow and what double standards I have. Sorry for only wanting to fuck someone I have some kind of attraction to.

Do you not realise its YOUR attitude that's the problem? Thinking that it's the women's fault they won't fuck you, trying to take our choice away by making offensive comments aimed at guilting us into doing what you want. I point blank refuse to give my body away just because some men stamp their feet. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How on earth did you get that? Nobody

Wow, I'm so glad you told me exactly what I want and how shallow and what double standards I have. Sorry for only wanting to fuck someone I have some kind of attraction to.

Do you not realise its YOUR attitude that's the problem? Thinking that it's the women's fault they won't fuck you, trying to take our choice away by making offensive comments aimed at guilting us into doing what you want. I point blank refuse to give my body away just because some men stamp their feet. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How on earth did you get that? Nobody saidanything about beinga superstud, just treat us like human beings instead of a cum dump. It's not difficult.

Its what all women want aint it? A hollywood adonis who can throw them around the bedroom lets face it we are all shallow & if you dont have the look regardless of personality, dick size or skill in the bedroom you wont get any interest plus you ladies set double standards all the time i mean no offence its just how women on here & other sites have come across to me plus its been proven on a well known video streaming platform

Wow, I'm so glad you told me exactly what I want and how shallow and what double standards I have. Sorry for only wanting to fuck someone I have some kind of attraction to.

Do you not realise its YOUR attitude that's the problem? Thinking that it's the women's fault they won't fuck you, trying to take our choice away by making offensive comments aimed at guilting us into doing what you want. I point blank refuse to give my body away just because some men stamp their feet.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How on earth did you get that? Nobody saidanything about beinga superstud, just treat us like human beings instead of a cum dump. It's not difficult.

Its what all women want aint it? A hollywood adonis who can throw them around the bedroom lets face it we are all shallow & if you dont have the look regardless of personality, dick size or skill in the bedroom you wont get any interest plus you ladies set double standards all the time i mean no offence its just how women on here & other sites have come across to me plus its been proven on a well known video streaming platform

Wow, I'm so glad you told me exactly what I want and how shallow and what double standards I have. Sorry for only wanting to fuck someone I have some kind of attraction to.

Do you not realise its YOUR attitude that's the problem? Thinking that it's the women's fault they won't fuck you, trying to take our choice away by making offensive comments aimed at guilting us into doing what you want. I point blank refuse to give my body away just because some men stamp their feet. "

come on be fair to the guy"its been proven on a well known video streaming platform" seriously? pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How on earth did you get that? Nobody saidanything about beinga superstud, just treat us like human beings instead of a cum dump. It's not difficult.

Its what all women want aint it? A hollywood adonis who can throw them around the bedroom lets face it we are all shallow & if you dont have the look regardless of personality, dick size or skill in the bedroom you wont get any interest plus you ladies set double standards all the time i mean no offence its just how women on here & other sites have come across to me plus its been proven on a well known video streaming platform

Wow, I'm so glad you told me exactly what I want and how shallow and what double standards I have. Sorry for only wanting to fuck someone I have some kind of attraction to.

Do you not realise its YOUR attitude that's the problem? Thinking that it's the women's fault they won't fuck you, trying to take our choice away by making offensive comments aimed at guilting us into doing what you want. I point blank refuse to give my body away just because some men stamp their feet.

come on be fair to the guy"its been proven on a well known video streaming platform" seriously? pmsl"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How on earth did you get that? Nobody saidanything about beinga superstud, just treat us like human beings instead of a cum dump. It's not difficult.

Its what all women want aint it? A hollywood adonis who can throw them around the bedroom lets face it we are all shallow & if you dont have the look regardless of personality, dick size or skill in the bedroom you wont get any interest plus you ladies set double standards all the time i mean no offence its just how women on here & other sites have come across to me plus its been proven on a well known video streaming platform

Wow, I'm so glad you told me exactly what I want and how shallow and what double standards I have. Sorry for only wanting to fuck someone I have some kind of attraction to.

Do you not realise its YOUR attitude that's the problem? Thinking that it's the women's fault they won't fuck you, trying to take our choice away by making offensive comments aimed at guilting us into doing what you want. I point blank refuse to give my body away just because some men stamp their feet. "
i think ive hit a nerve oops my bad oh well such is life cant hanfle an opinion then dont make a comment

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"

How on earth did you get that? Nobody saidanything about beinga superstud, just treat us like human beings instead of a cum dump. It's not difficult.

Its what all women want aint it? A hollywood adonis who can throw them around the bedroom lets face it we are all shallow & if you dont have the look regardless of personality, dick size or skill in the bedroom you wont get any interest plus you ladies set double standards all the time i mean no offence its just how women on here & other sites have come across to me plus its been proven on a well known video streaming platform

Wow, I'm so glad you told me exactly what I want and how shallow and what double standards I have. Sorry for only wanting to fuck someone I have some kind of attraction to.

Do you not realise its YOUR attitude that's the problem? Thinking that it's the women's fault they won't fuck you, trying to take our choice away by making offensive comments aimed at guilting us into doing what you want. I point blank refuse to give my body away just because some men stamp their feet. i think ive hit a nerve oops my bad oh well such is life cant hanfle an opinion then dont make a comment "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers??

That's your problem, you've come here thinking its just a hookup site for a quick shag, it isn't.

Plus, we are midway through a global crisis where people are being asked not to meet up with random strangers, especially not for sex. "

This! All of this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How on earth did you get that? Nobody saidanything about beinga superstud, just treat us like human beings instead of a cum dump. It's not difficult.

Its what all women want aint it? A hollywood adonis who can throw them around the bedroom lets face it we are all shallow & if you dont have the look regardless of personality, dick size or skill in the bedroom you wont get any interest plus you ladies set double standards all the time i mean no offence its just how women on here & other sites have come across to me plus its been proven on a well known video streaming platform "

Wow...

Ok, so for a start with that attitude you’ll get no where. This is first and foremost a swingers site. Connection is key!! Most of “us woman” have various types and preferences. Yes physical attraction is important, but I’d not touch an adonis with the personality of a wet mop.

Be confident in yourself and stop moaning about your lack of luck. Liking yourself will make people flock to you. Making assumptions about all women means you’re effectively cock blocking yourself.

Good luck.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

OP

Stick to dating sites if you’re looking for single girls mate. It’s much easier to meet single girls there than here, just be honest about what you’re looking for when on the apps, and you might be surprised at the positive responses, even for more adventurous things. Just have to time it right and phrase it well.

This place isn’t really geared up towards singletons at all, as it’s a swinging site after all, so it’s not supposed to be.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Apart from the current global pandemic stopping people from meeting you have to factor that you are 1 out of thousands of profiles all trying to gain the attention of females, we’ve been on here for 4 years And have had literally zero luck trying to arrange a MFF and not being biased but mrs L2 is one of the hottest women I’ve ever met in my life "

Ps, you’re not being biased, but it might be quite intimidating to a lot of other women because Mrs is indeed stunning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Wow...

Ok, so for a start with that attitude you’ll get no where. This is first and foremost a swingers site. Connection is key!! Most of “us woman” have various types and preferences. Yes physical attraction is important, but I’d not touch an adonis with the personality of a wet mop.

Be confident in yourself and stop moaning about your lack of luck. Liking yourself will make people flock to you. Making assumptions about all women means you’re effectively cock blocking yourself.

Good luck. "
fyi im not moaning about my lack of luck i gave an opinion plus how things are percived from my own point of view i have alot of luck on here & i do agree in part to what you say but i also disagree too but ill agree to dissagree im leaving it at that ive put my 2 cents in this forum & thats me done

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"Ah you see, ‘ASAP’, that’s where your problem lies mate. If you want a sprint not a marathon, you’re in the wrong place."

Is there a right place for a sprint? Lead the way my good man!

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers??

That's your problem, you've come here thinking its just a hookup site for a quick shag, it isn't.

Plus, we are midway through a global crisis where people are being asked not to meet up with random strangers, especially not for sex. "

Global crisis?

Asked not to meet?

Seriously...I hadn't heard, what's it all about?

Anyone else know about this?

Has it been on the news?

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers?? "

Gosh..I logged on at least 10 minutes ago and not one woman has contacted me yet demanding unrivalled passion from me. Can anyone advise what's going on, this site is ridiculous.. Full of dreamers and time wasters!

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers??

Gosh..I logged on at least 10 minutes ago and not one woman has contacted me yet demanding unrivalled passion from me. Can anyone advise what's going on, this site is ridiculous.. Full of dreamers and time wasters! "

.. Must be 15 minutes now...

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By *ookup75Man
over a year ago

kent/london

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By *ookup75Man
over a year ago

kent/london

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By *ookup75Man
over a year ago

kent/london


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers?? "

A million men to 1 woman is the problem lol

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers?? "

It took us longer to arrange a meet, and Mrs is fairly striking, so just be patient my friend.

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers??

It took us longer to arrange a meet, and Mrs is fairly striking, so just be patient my friend. "

Well, whomever he/she/they were, all I can say having seen your other halves bottom photos is... Wow, lucky person/people!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"That's your problem, you've come here thinking its just a hookup site for a quick shag, it isn't.

Plus, we are midway through a global crisis where people are being asked not to meet up with random strangers, especially not for sex. "

So true

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"

How on earth did you get that? Nobody saidanything about beinga superstud, just treat us like human beings instead of a cum dump. It's not difficult.

Its what all women want aint it? A hollywood adonis who can throw them around the bedroom lets face it we are all shallow & if you dont have the look regardless of personality, dick size or skill in the bedroom you wont get any interest plus you ladies set double standards all the time i mean no offence its just how women on here & other sites have come across to me plus its been proven on a well known video streaming platform

Wow...

Ok, so for a start with that attitude you’ll get no where. This is first and foremost a swingers site. Connection is key!! Most of “us woman” have various types and preferences. Yes physical attraction is important, but I’d not touch an adonis with the personality of a wet mop.

Be confident in yourself and stop moaning about your lack of luck. Liking yourself will make people flock to you. Making assumptions about all women means you’re effectively cock blocking yourself.

Good luck. "

What he's probably saying is that he will fuck anything as long as it's breathing but that 'breathing anything' wont go anywhere near him.

Hardly surprising he's bitter and backtracking.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers??

It's all about the profile, a woman will want to read more than a few lines, more about your likes and dislikes, make messages interesting, unfortunately on here for every 1 woman there are about 500 men trying for her attention, just keep your spirits up and don't come across as desperate, also just in the chat rooms too where people are live and active

It's not all about the profile. Who you decide to contact and what you decide to say to them are very important too."

Exactly - chemistry isn’t linear. And people typically reveal their true selves accidentally , so profiles are often unhelpful

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

What a twit ...

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"What a twit ..."

Twit... Such a great word, severely underused these days as people tend to use expletives instead...let's all make sure we use the word twit as least once this week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What he's probably saying is that he will fuck anything as long as it's breathing but that 'breathing anything' wont go anywhere near him.

Hardly surprising he's bitter and backtracking."
you are so wrong

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers??

It took us longer to arrange a meet, and Mrs is fairly striking, so just be patient my friend.

Well, whomever he/she/they were, all I can say having seen your other halves bottom photos is... Wow, lucky person/people!"

Thank you! She works very hard on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After the pandemic is over and meeting new people is actually allowed, you can then come back to the forum if your struggling. Right now, it’s chat only.

Once we can meet again and I know I’m giving advice in the forums, but here’s my advice... don’t take advice from the forums. Probably less than 1% use them regularly use the forums and a lot of this give the same advice. Despite what you’ll be told in here (these are the people who use it as a social media site), loads of people use Fab as a hook up or sex site, so don’t get too despondent.

Over meany years I’ve met a lot of people same day after a bit of a chat and a flirt and not just for a quickie.

Let lockdown finish and give it chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mustn’t have woken up yet. I can write far better than the above post would suggest. Must proof read before posting

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

A Prostitute should be a better fit for guaranteed sex without putting in any effort

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Even in normal times it can take weeks of communication to arrange a meet you will find this site very frustrating if you thought it would be that easy the type of meets you looking for you may find occasionally early hours on a weekend occasionally you will find couples looking for guys after a night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem desperate for a shag even now that we still can't meet. As other people have said, it seems like you joined fab to find someone to fuck without having to put any effort in. It's the opposite. Women are bombarded with messages on fab.

I'm not keen on your pictures either to be honest.

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By *anhh4285 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

I thought I would let this run out as I don't have the time to prove every single point.

I haven't joined fab for a quick shag at all I have joined to expand my sexual limits ....

I don't think all women are prostitutes at all nothing is further from the truth .... do not make me out to be an arsehole and an anti feminist for asking a question.. to all the people who actually helped me out thankyou I really appreciate it.

I generally don't bite to stupid remarks but you with the big ass I don't like your pictures either

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By *amfabMan
over a year ago

Luton

Your not doing anything wrong dude I've been here over a year it's not as easy as sign up and shag... unfortunately, but that's just not how the cookie crumbles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought I would let this run out as I don't have the time to prove every single point.

I haven't joined fab for a quick shag at all I have joined to expand my sexual limits ....

I don't think all women are prostitutes at all nothing is further from the truth .... do not make me out to be an arsehole and an anti feminist for asking a question.. to all the people who actually helped me out thankyou I really appreciate it.

I generally don't bite to stupid remarks but you with the big ass I don't like your pictures either "

You might not agree with how others on here are viewing you but the fact that those opinions seem pretty unanimous should be telling you that that is how you are coming across. Maybe you should try and take some steps to fix that.

I don't think that personally insulting other members on here is going to help your cause much tbh. The poster above didn't mention anything about your looks, only the quality of your pictures.

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By *anhh4285 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

I never intended to insult or upset anybody I am not like that... i asked for help as to how to expand on my horizons .... everyone is entitled to their own opinion but when it's a direct attack I won't just lay there and take it..

The last lady who messaged me last I will revaluate how i come across if you look a few messages above mine you will see what I mean

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers?? "

And there us your problem..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never intended to insult or upset anybody I am not like that... i asked for help as to how to expand on my horizons .... everyone is entitled to their own opinion but when it's a direct attack I won't just lay there and take it..

The last lady who messaged me last I will revaluate how i come across if you look a few messages above mine you will see what I mean "

Please use the "reply and quote" button so we can see who you are replying to.

I did see the post you are talking about. I don't believe it was a personal attack. You say you're not willing to offend/insult etc and yet you brought someone's body into it.

You have asked for advice and we have all given it to you and still you remain defensive and unwilling to accept that the vibe you are putting out is what is putting people off.

Your problem is you say you want to meet ASAP without putting the effort of chatting on here first in. That's not how this works. Women aren't just going to drop everything to come meet you without getting to know you first. If you were a woman would you just go meet a stranger because they asked you to? Especially one off a swinging site where anyone can pretend to be someone else? It wasn't like that before the pandemic and it's even less so now. If you don't want to spend some time establishing a connection then I would suggest you try another avenue for instant meets. You may have to pay for some of them though.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP...do you even really know what swinging is? I'm not sure you do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yet another person who thinks swinging is all about instashag, grow up dude, swinginging isnt like that

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By *anhh4285 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

I do know what swinging is but I am starting to believe that I come across as a self centred misogynistic dinosaur.

Nothing is further from the truth and I am sorry if i upset people it was never my intention. I asked for some advice and if I could go back and not ask I would as caused more problems than it was worth.

If you are one of those people I upset I am sorry it won't happen again

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Thanks for the pointers ...... I'll reevaluate and see what I can do ... yes this virus is a pain in the ass but I have been isolated since January which is officially making me a virgin again ??"

I hate being rushed into meeting someone pre covid times. Just because a woman enjoys casual sex, doesn't mean she just meets you, without knowing who you are for a quickie. Us women have to think more about our safety, you could litterly be just anyone and only having two short conversations isn't going to cut it. Need to build a rapport, have you tried asking the person interested in you (she definitely needs to make it clear she's interested in you) to have a cam chat as during lockdown, that's the best you're going to get. But if you're attitude is I don't do chatting and you make it clear to the woman straight away, I be surprised how many women would agree to this. As I certainly wouldn't. I'm sexually motivated by the connection I have with a guy mentally and physically regardless how casual the relationship is. Abeit, there might be women on their profile that mentions nsa sex so maybe more likely interested in a quickie.So choose wizely who you message. Also remember a woman gets way more messages than men. For example, I get 20-100 on average a day. Good luck OP

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I do get that I really do ...... but when someone says they want to do something after days of chatting then vanishes it's a bit hurtful. I am a man of my word and if I say I am going to do something I will no matter what "

tbf that sounds like they changed their mind about you once they known enough. Or they busy chatting to another guys and dropped you. It happens to all of us, you're in a really competitive environment where you need to be really selective who invest your time in. You can tell when someone genuinely wants to meet you by the way they chat. I definitely chat in a different way if I'm genuinely want to get to know someone. I get put off super quickly by certain things they say or do. So maybe that person thought abit like me? Who knows, just accept it as what it is, develop a thick skin and keep trying. You might be unfortunate to meet fakes, liars, cheaters, ghosters and prick teasers online. Trust me, we all have issues with FAB, some people are honest enough to admit it. Some pretend nothing bothers them at all and they have amazing times. I once had amazing time with a fabber so I still in hope of more positive experiences. Try being a woman for a day and see the amount of time wasting messages we have to trowel through.

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over a year ago

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers?? "

Not read the whole thread so maybe someone else has already said similar.

Your problem is expecting too much from just having a profile on here.

Even in normal times it just isn't enough, but at the moment it's akin to Mission Impossible.

The solution is firstly to be patient, the virus problem will ease one day.

When it does, get out to clubs and socials and get yourself known.

The profile is just another tool in the box, helpful yes, but it won't do the job on its own.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Been on here for a month or so now and don't seem to have any luck with women..... I am not interested in endless chats I want to meet and ASAP any pointers?? "

You might want to rethink your profile header? It reads like you’re a woman looking for a guy

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"I thought I would let this run out as I don't have the time to prove every single point.

I haven't joined fab for a quick shag at all I have joined to expand my sexual limits ....

I don't think all women are prostitutes at all nothing is further from the truth .... do not make me out to be an arsehole and an anti feminist for asking a question.. to all the people who actually helped me out thankyou I really appreciate it.

I generally don't bite to stupid remarks but you with the big ass I don't like your pictures either "

Classic

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By *014shadowCouple
over a year ago

Fresno

There has to be a connection or it ain't going to happen. I do the fishing to find guys she does the chatting. It's up to her if we play or not. We do a social first there are some guys we declined to go any further.

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

Comedy gold is this thread..be good to hear from the OP to see how he's getting on...especially now the holiday snaps have made an appearance.

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