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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi there i know i have no pics, but does that put you ladies off before looking or that fact im attached too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think a picture is a basic requirement...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi there i know i have no pics, but does that put you ladies off before looking or that fact im attached too ."

I wouldn't chat to somebody who didn't have a pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id chat but not meet if no pic and attached would be a no go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have to be careful as of my job but i am def up fro a meet and more . just cant seem to meet right people to chat with

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By *tensonSwingersCouple
over a year ago

Stenson Fields


"i have to be careful as of my job but i am def up fro a meet and more . just cant seem to meet right people to chat with"

Not many women would go on a blind date, neither would a fair few guys to be honest. At some point your going to have to show your face. Be mindful of rejection though once you have sent a face pic...after all, attraction/beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

As for pics not being shown for work reasons, that's always a biting point, and certainly a bone of contention for many. One of us works for HMRC in a very 'delicate' position, so we have to be mindful of who we show pics to. Same applies to teachers and other such professions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ty i do understand and i will be putting pics on and im in a teaching position

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

imo londonguy, unless you have distinguishing features that you cannot hide, then at the very least a clothed bodyshot is required to get anywhere near any interest.

most of us wont have face pics showing, and most people dont expect that, but some kind of shot is a minimum, afterall, you are in a field of hundreds trying to get a look in on a few women, so have to provide something to catch the eye or inspire the mind.

a shadow and short profile wont do that.

and the fact you are attached wont put off some, but wont get you near most.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ty all for the help i will put some on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attached puts me off right away. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i understand that it puts some people off but im not looking for a full realtionship just friends for fun and more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only search for people with pics and if the faceless find us we dont reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi there i know i have no pics, but does that put you ladies off before looking or that fact im attached too ."

yep, both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ty i do understand and i will be putting pics on and im in a teaching position"

so am I buy doubt if anyone would recognise my lower torso and if they do, what they doing looking on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi there i know i have no pics, but does that put you ladies off before looking or that fact im attached too .

yep, both."

hehehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both put me off, I won't reply if there's no pic and I won't play with anyone attached if the OH doesn't know as to me that's cheating rather than swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

have been told that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fill out your profile a bit more. There's plenty of ladies that will meet attached blokes. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i understand that it puts some people off but im not looking for a full realtionship just friends for fun and more"

Single guy, no pics, non-descript profile, attached.

I'm afraid you'll be at the very bottom of the pile mate. There may be a few blokes lower down who admit on their profiles that they love clubbing baby seals, but thats about it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi to be honest - no photos - i wont reply and I actually respect those who state they are married - prefer honesty

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