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By *k38 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh it's the best! The more you know someone the greater the trust and understanding that leads to better sex.

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By *k38 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hartlepool


"Tbh it's the best! The more you know someone the greater the trust and understanding that leads to better sex. "

Thanks for the reply.

Does it lead to any jealously with the feeling that she has a bf? Lol

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Tbh it's the best! The more you know someone the greater the trust and understanding that leads to better sex.

Thanks for the reply.

Does it lead to any jealously with the feeling that she has a bf? Lol"

Just a great and often reclaim sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a regular girl for the missus?

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley


"Tbh it's the best! The more you know someone the greater the trust and understanding that leads to better sex.

Thanks for the reply.

Does it lead to any jealously with the feeling that she has a bf? Lol"

Hopefully not as long as everything is out in the open its fine. Plenty of conversations about boundaries need to be had and respected by all to work well.

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Tbh it's the best! The more you know someone the greater the trust and understanding that leads to better sex. "

i would agree... as long as you dont overdo it.

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By *ick and janeCouple
over a year ago

Dorset

My wife would choose having a regular guy over having a 1-2-1 anyway , she has had one in the past and would love another one

The problem being finding the right guy ,somebody that understands the role fully and doesn't take liberties would be a very happy and content guy indeed

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By *olyester123Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

we deff would like a regular guy for karen to have some fun with

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Something we are looking for. Someone local to be a regular bull for the wife to meet as often as she'd like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’d be my ideal - a regular, local’ish wife/gf and hubby I could see when mutually agreeable. Perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular fun is best. I believe it's hard to find that person. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very difficult to find a reliable regular guy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very difficult to find a reliable regular guy x"

This is so true. We all appear to be saying the same thing. A regular FB / Bull is all we want. Instead, what happens is the pretenders email without reading the profile or simply think that a few lines with no effort will make them the ones. There has to be someone worth waiting for out there.... until we find them, its a polite no thank you.

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By *uffolkcouple1Couple
over a year ago

Essex/Suffolk


"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?

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Yes! Would love for a regular for Mrs when things blow over a bit more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?

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It is great, can join in , meet on her own and watch via facetime, all good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?

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I do give regular full body orgasmic massage to four married ladies about once a month two of the husbands are not aware. No question of penitration just massage a sensual arousal. Works well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?

Yes! Would love for a regular for Mrs when things blow over a bit more. "

Pity you are not nearer!

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

A regular guy is ideal until they spoil things by getting jealous and trying to dictate who else and when you meet others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve been looking for a while. Both of us just want a regular FB not loads of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a regular, get more comfortable with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s nice to have regular feel more comfortable and nice to make friends

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By *andjcplCouple
over a year ago

stourbridge

Definitely what we’re looking for, unfortunately as others have said finding the right guy is far more difficult than you would think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are both looking for regulars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely what we’re looking for, unfortunately as others have said finding the right guy is far more difficult than you would think. "

Happy to start you off with a sensual massage and see where it goes.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

A regular lady for the lady in this couple would be much more fun.

And no, that's doesn't mean I'm hoping to get in on the action.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Very difficult to find a reliable regular guy x

This is so true. We all appear to be saying the same thing. A regular FB / Bull is all we want. Instead, what happens is the pretenders email without reading the profile or simply think that a few lines with no effort will make them the ones. There has to be someone worth waiting for out there.... until we find them, its a polite no thank you. "

If it’s any consolation, it’s hard to find from the other side too.

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By *jnkjnCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Weve been looking for ages finding genuine guys is harder than you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weve been looking for ages finding genuine guys is harder than you think"

It is and very much so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weve been looking for ages finding genuine guys is harder than you think"

Just sent you a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?

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I would love to be your regular guy.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

A Regular would be great. And that connection would make things even nicer

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By *andystick72Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

I had a regular for 7 months amazing couple, we got on so well

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By *siancouplehantsCouple
over a year ago

K-PAX

Been looking for this for ages but really hard to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A regular guy is ideal until they spoil things by getting jealous and trying to dictate who else and when you meet others."

True

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I'd love to be someone's regular, it appeals to me much more than clubs and socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more than happy for my future partner to have a regular fb as long as it doesn't get in the way of or affect our sex life.

I'd like the fb to be happy with a threesome every now and then, so we can both enjoy her.

But there is always the risk of emotions and feelings with anything like this. I would talk to my partner and make sure things were okay. If I felt that the fb was becoming a little too full on and over stepping set boundaries then I'd want us to question the reasoning behind it.

People will lie about their feelings, especially if they're onto a good thing, and all involved need to be open and honest otherwise it'll never work.

I'd like to be a regular fb with one woman... But only time will tell if it ever becomes a reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very hard to find the right woman

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By *.LBCouple
over a year ago

South

Defo, wife's preference, finding one is the hard part

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By *imBanksMan
over a year ago

Letchworth

I lost my ex to a regular couple we played with and she split them up and married the bloke.

Over 20 years together and she fell for the younger man trap...gutted but moved on.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"What about a regular girl for the missus? "

Is there an application process?...

Just, ya know, asking for a friend..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t mind having a regular girl for the mrs if all was happy, it’s all about communication and just talking about things x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about a regular girl for the missus?

Is there an application process?...

Just, ya know, asking for a friend.. "

Well your friend would have to speak with her about it

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?

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This was our thing a regular quality man for mfm so the lady has double the attention a d pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being someone’s regular as it is very special with someone you know a bit xx

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley


"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?

This was our thing a regular quality man for mfm so the lady has double the attention a d pleasure "

Always great meets when this happens

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Without fully knowing what the LS is like I imagine that having regular or semi-regular FBs and FWBs to have fun, sexy adventures with, where there's trust and rapport and socialising alongside the sex would be the dream / ideal for me. Somewhere in the middle between one-night stands and a full girlfriend / partner.

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Sandbach

I definitely find that regular is much more rewarding and indeed fun..!

Getting to know someone's body and likes/dislikes etc. definitely adds...

I'm not really into one-offs these days due to the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for exactly this.

Needs to be the right guy yhough.

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Mrs has got as regular, he joins us for mmf, or she meets him alone, does me some vids, loads of fun

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By *inman73Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I had a regular guy for almost two years, amazing sex and it worked perfectly, my hubby was fine with it even meet took part in 3somes on occasion, then he found himself a girlfriend and blanked me, he called me about a year later asking to hook up, I hang up. do want another regular but on much different term.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’d love a regular meet. A couple who would let me to take the lady on proper dates with the trust that I’m not interested in stealing someone else’s wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?

I do give regular full body orgasmic massage to four married ladies about once a month two of the husbands are not aware. No question of penitration just massage a sensual arousal. Works well "

How do you massage four married ladies at once?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest the 2 longest regs/partners we have had we actually found on the vanilla scene.

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool


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........................Had a regular years ago, met him at a club when we were going every Friday and Saturday's ,he was about 15 years younger than me, he would stay with us usually every other weekend. Hubby has told me to look for another regular which I intend to do, he does'nt have to tell me twice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A regular woman is definitely better, sex gets better and trust between you. I've found if it's a couple, the two men are best getting on, it's a big thing the trust, if you're meeting his wife/gf without him, if he likes you as a person, it's a good start. A mate of mine used to meet with me/gf for mfm, was good for a few years, then he went abit weird, spoilt it in 2 mins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A regular woman is definitely better, sex gets better and trust between you. I've found if it's a couple, the two men are best getting on, it's a big thing the trust, if you're meeting his wife/gf without him, if he likes you as a person, it's a good start. A mate of mine used to meet with me/gf for mfm, was good for a few years, then he went abit weird, spoilt it in 2 mins."

You mean he gave your cock a little suck when you weren’t looking during an MMF? Lol

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?

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We like having regular people to join us. Much easier when you've gotten to know people and are comfortable with them.

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley

I'd like to be someone's regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A regular woman is definitely better, sex gets better and trust between you. I've found if it's a couple, the two men are best getting on, it's a big thing the trust, if you're meeting his wife/gf without him, if he likes you as a person, it's a good start. A mate of mine used to meet with me/gf for mfm, was good for a few years, then he went abit weird, spoilt it in 2 mins.

You mean he gave your cock a little suck when you weren’t looking during an MMF? Lol "

Nothing like that, just a daft moment of paranoia, he said something, pissed gf off and that was that, I was annoyed for abit, still speak to him though.

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By *en.....emMan
over a year ago

West mids

hard to find a gen regular guy for the wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A regular woman is definitely better, sex gets better and trust between you. I've found if it's a couple, the two men are best getting on, it's a big thing the trust, if you're meeting his wife/gf without him, if he likes you as a person, it's a good start. A mate of mine used to meet with me/gf for mfm, was good for a few years, then he went abit weird, spoilt it in 2 mins.

You mean he gave your cock a little suck when you weren’t looking during an MMF? Lol

Nothing like that, just a daft moment of paranoia, he said something, pissed gf off and that was that, I was annoyed for abit, still speak to him though."

Ahh that’s a shame, just goes to show that it can all go tits up so quick. I know through my own experience

Sorry to hear that, a decent mmf is so damn good too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A regular woman is definitely better, sex gets better and trust between you. I've found if it's a couple, the two men are best getting on, it's a big thing the trust, if you're meeting his wife/gf without him, if he likes you as a person, it's a good start. A mate of mine used to meet with me/gf for mfm, was good for a few years, then he went abit weird, spoilt it in 2 mins.

You mean he gave your cock a little suck when you weren’t looking during an MMF? Lol

Nothing like that, just a daft moment of paranoia, he said something, pissed gf off and that was that, I was annoyed for abit, still speak to him though.

Ahh that’s a shame, just goes to show that it can all go tits up so quick. I know through my own experience

Sorry to hear that, a decent mmf is so damn good too... "

It was great, some folks are just alittle strange sometimes! Thing is I never overstep the mark, trust can be lost in an instant....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not eady finding a good regular trustworth couple or single male.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I'd love a regular fem playmate, Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had several regular couples and it works best if each of us understand why I’m there. One thing only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a regular guy or couple to meet on a regular basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a regular lady friend years ago worked for us then when she got married she left the scene

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By *ettpairCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

We have a couple of regular guys for the wife to have fun with.... obviously it's been a while due to covid....they are hard to find tho...decent guys I mean

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Sandbach


"Not eady finding a good regular trustworth couple or single male. "

Puts up hand... lol

Did I mention I’m in Cheshire and in North Wales a lot with work..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think it's definitely the best way to go, hoping we've found the right couple - in the early stages yet but we're hoping...

People we can just have a drink with as well as fun, either of us with either..

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"We think it's definitely the best way to go, hoping we've found the right couple - in the early stages yet but we're hoping...

People we can just have a drink with as well as fun, either of us with either.."

Definitely, it is the best way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always worked out best for me (being the male party)

Helped sort of build a connection on what each other likes, skips all the chit & really in the end can turn out to be a rather enjoyable experience when done right

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By *reakyandcheekyCouple
over a year ago

derby

We would like one but they are hard to find x

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

We had a reg for a cpl of years...sex gets better and better, would def love a nes regular, but finding is the hardest

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I had a fwb for about a year but he got clingy and spoiled it so now it's once and done for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?

I do give regular full body orgasmic massage to four married ladies about once a month two of the husbands are not aware. No question of penitration just massage a sensual arousal. Works well

Ha Ha just seen your reply I don't of course massage them all at the same time but when each is free to meet.

How do you massage four married ladies at once?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?

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They are as rare as finding a single woman

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By *ee80Woman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Very difficult to find a reliable regular guy x

This is so true. We all appear to be saying the same thing. A regular FB / Bull is all we want. Instead, what happens is the pretenders email without reading the profile or simply think that a few lines with no effort will make them the ones. There has to be someone worth waiting for out there.... until we find them, its a polite no thank you.

If it’s any consolation, it’s hard to find from the other side too. "

True story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id love to be someone's regular!

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

we had a regular guy,, over seven years and it was fucking awesome, wish he could contact us again, think his ungrateful wife found out , it is so more relaxed and the sex is out of this world , and everyone was happy, ok apart from his wife

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I had a regular meet with a couple for years

Great sex , husband and I got on well.

Take his wife out occasionally for a drink back home for fun.

Stayed with them some weekend s.

Sadly they moved abroad with his work.

So looking for another couple or lady if anyone interested.

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By *luffy MoleMan
over a year ago

christchurch

I would love to be that regular.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?

They are as rare as finding a single woman "

They are rarer ! Most single women on here are very genuine , you chat, they say no thanks or yes and then meet and fuck you....we don’t meet guys but from what I hear the men say yes and then don’t even turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about having a regular guy for the Mrs or vice verse?

They are as rare as finding a single woman

They are rarer ! Most single women on here are very genuine , you chat, they say no thanks or yes and then meet and fuck you....we don’t meet guys but from what I hear the men say yes and then don’t even turn up "

You’re kidding me?! Wtf is wrong with these people??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would like one but they are hard to find x"

It works the other way to - if I say I'll turn-up then I always do and give my mobile to keep in touch on the day.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"I would love to be that regular. "

Have you tried prune juice?

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