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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are older/mature women attracted to younger guys?

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By *hino96Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Been on the scene 3 years..find alot of couples and single fems dismiss younger guys because of our age which isn't fair at all..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Been on the scene 3 years..find alot of couples and single fems dismiss younger guys because of our age which isn't fair at all.. "

why isn't it fair, you've dismissed me because of my age

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Are older/mature women attracted to younger guys? "

yes, some older women are attracted to younger men. You can search for people who are looking for your age group

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Are older/mature women attracted to younger guys? "

Some are, some are not. «- pretty much the answer to most questions on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all fairness I’m more attracted to someone who is older, works both ways!

And from my experience sometimes younger men do get dismissed but that is due to the other person(s) having had a bad experience.

Each to their own and there is so many search filters on here where you can find people who match your preferences but also theres

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if I fit in "older" bracket but I'm not looking for younger as I find very little in common mentally with younger men. The views, life experiences, expectations are usually very different. Physical connection without mental one is just an empty shell and doesn't work for me.

Plus a lot of the time I hear "you could teach me things" and that puts me right off.

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Are older/mature women attracted to younger guys? "

Me

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Not the age that makes me dismiss a younger guy but the way he is. Acting like a kid expecting me to teach him a thing or two? Instant turn off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on the scene 3 years..find alot of couples and single fems dismiss younger guys because of our age which isn't fair at all.. "

Hahaha it's not fair.

Obviously you are young.

People of our years have life experiences that lead to only one conclusion.

Life is not fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a younger guy not so long a go , we all learned new things and the sex was amazing,

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I definitely like younger guys x

Mrs N

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Let me get my flash card out for you:

["Some are, some aren't"]

Right. Next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be attracted to younger men and admire their looks but that doesn't mean you would want to sleep with them or meet for drinks with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on the scene 3 years..find alot of couples and single fems dismiss younger guys because of our age which isn't fair at all.. "

Yeah, kinda noticed that recently tbh

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Been on the scene 3 years..find alot of couples and single fems dismiss younger guys because of our age which isn't fair at all.. "

It maybe because you have more photos of women on your profile than of you and are advertising for a meet during a global pandemic rather than your age.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I do like a younger man actually ????

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

General rule of thumb is if I could be their mum it’s a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are older/mature women attracted to younger guys? "

This one is....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’ve been with women with a 20 year age gap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on the scene 3 years..find alot of couples and single fems dismiss younger guys because of our age which isn't fair at all.. "

You wont meet 48 year olds, by the same argument that also isn't fair

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Yeah I’ve been with women with a 20 year age gap "

Let me know if you ever visit the south coast...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are older/mature women attracted to younger guys? "

F likes group play with eager young studs as they stay hard for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like guys that are younger than me always have but I won't go below 28 as my kids are there ages too weired for me but younger guys have hot bodies and no more stuff now a days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I’ve been with women with a 20 year age gap

Let me know if you ever visit the south coast... "

I’d like to visit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like guys that are younger than me always have but I won't go below 28 as my kids are there ages too weired for me but younger guys have hot bodies and no more stuff now a days "

Ah so that’s the problem, makes sense

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Its just a moral thing with alot of women but some are just not attracted to younger men it's a bit of both for me but do find more younger men ask to meet than older well older than 40 lol not older than me ! Think there has to be something in common even if it's just a f buddy thing for me 50 ish is my preferred age any older and things sometimes not allways get bit floppy

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am. Mid 30's and over suits me fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently looking for an older woman....

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Yeah I’ve been with women with a 20 year age gap

Let me know if you ever visit the south coast...

I’d like to visit x"

I'll make the trip worth your while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love both men and woman like a younger men / woman for they inexperie and willing ness to learn plus stamina

And love older if I want experience and a great fuck but stamina can be a problem when you want a second round xxx

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Are older/mature women attracted to younger guys? "

Let's just say us older women get more attention. Always a compliment till a 42 year old off here tells me I'm an old woman when I decline his advances.... Aka his loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am attracted to older women. I can’t explain why I just am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always looking for an older women , close to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea i seem to find a few older women messaging me, not complaining at all

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Been on the scene 3 years..find alot of couples and single fems dismiss younger guys because of our age which isn't fair at all..

why isn't it fair, you've dismissed me because of my age"

Very true.

The fact is op that everyone has an age range. I prefer to think that even the 18-99 bracket - who are almost overwhelmingly single males, would balk at the thought of shagging a 90+ year old lady if they were in their 20s (though I fully intend to test this theory out if I’m still around then! )

My issue with very young men is that many seem to think that great sex has to be a la porn, with throat fucking, gagging, hair pulling et al - none of which float my boat.

The only younger guys I meet are ones who clearly know the difference between real sex and porn, and who can hold a mature, confident conversation about something other than sex or football in between bouts of shagging.

There are plenty of great young guys out there, but they’re not always easy to find!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on the scene 3 years..find alot of couples and single fems dismiss younger guys because of our age which isn't fair at all..

why isn't it fair, you've dismissed me because of my age

Very true.

The fact is op that everyone has an age range. I prefer to think that even the 18-99 bracket - who are almost overwhelmingly single males, would balk at the thought of shagging a 90+ year old lady if they were in their 20s (though I fully intend to test this theory out if I’m still around then! )

My issue with very young men is that many seem to think that great sex has to be a la porn, with throat fucking, gagging, hair pulling et al - none of which float my boat.

The only younger guys I meet are ones who clearly know the difference between real sex and porn, and who can hold a mature, confident conversation about something other than sex or football in between bouts of shagging.

There are plenty of great young guys out there, but they’re not always easy to find! "

Hehe well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guy some I find in interesting seeing your different views on the matter, what I've gathered is that the majority of older women, are happy to play with younger guys, if they are intellectually mature and sexual experience. In terms of sexual experience I mean understanding that a women's body, and mind during sex, and knowing that women, don't all necessarily like the same thing?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Thanks guy some I find in interesting seeing your different views on the matter, what I've gathered is that the majority of older women, are happy to play with younger guys, if they are intellectually mature and sexual experience. In terms of sexual experience I mean understanding that a women's body, and mind during sex, and knowing that women, don't all necessarily like the same thing? "

Pretty much.

The guys most in demand on here tend to be guys 30-45ish who have an attractive face, a fit body and an intellect to match it - along with bucket loads of charm and a soupçon of wit!

I know that’s a big package, as it were (fnar fnar) but those are the guys who tend to get the girl on here - as they are in real life! Those under 30 can still be popular with many women - but unless the ladies are just looking for ‘studs’ as some certainly are - the guys will still need to have a lot going for them.

Essentially the guys who do well on here have no issues finding women in the real world either - but they often prefer the honesty of fab - Ie the lack of need to pretend that they’re looking for a long term, monogamous relationship just to get a woman’s knickers off! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally attracted to younger than me but always have been, men my own age I don't find attractive and don't seem to have anything much in common which is a bit rubbish tbh

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