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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. " Glad someone sed it lol because it’s one off the reason I don’t meet first timers for tv/ts don’t want them comeing and then saying it’s not for them and then I am left all night feeling sad and unsexy and wanting to throw everything away x | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. " Thank you xxx - well said xxx | |||
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"So I've had treble the amount of TV/TS look at my profile and message me. Can any guy tell me if they have seen a TV/TS and if they enjoyed it, and what did they like the most. Just wandering " Amazing sex think body of woman with the mind/drive of a man! Great combination! | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. " Lots of guys on here think the same of women on here too! Fellas please be respectful to us and TV/TS. | |||
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"T-girls are the best for a naughty time, generally the oral skills are amazing!! I’d love to meet more with them. There a big difference for me between convincing and a hairy man dressed up! Sorry if this offends anyone. " Yes, there is a difference. Usualy because of the individual's preference. However, if you think that posting something that you think/ know will upset someone, probably best not to say it at all. | |||
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"T-girls are the best for a naughty time, generally the oral skills are amazing!! I’d love to meet more with them. There a big difference for me between convincing and a hairy man dressed up! Sorry if this offends anyone. Yes, there is a difference. Usualy because of the individual's preference. However, if you think that posting something that you think/ know will upset someone, probably best not to say it at all." There a lot of things that may offend people, I don’t think it means I shouldn’t say it or even write what I think! Just my preference | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. Lots of guys on here think the same of women on here too! Fellas please be respectful to us and TV/TS. " Yes it's so demoralising and off putting when men talk about women or tv/ts like they just a human sex doll. Show them respect as we all human beings. They are someone's daughter, sister or aunt. Not a sex object | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. " What they said. | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. Glad someone sed it lol because it’s one off the reason I don’t meet first timers for tv/ts don’t want them comeing and then saying it’s not for them and then I am left all night feeling sad and unsexy and wanting to throw everything away x" I am sure this could easily happen as I heard of this before. People have feelings which some others forget. | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos " Yet nothing on your profile, with your bisexuality and TS/ TV hidden. This is why us bi men get a bad name on here as too many lie! Unfair on those of us open about being bi | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. Lots of guys on here think the same of women on here too! Fellas please be respectful to us and TV/TS. Yes it's so demoralising and off putting when men talk about women or tv/ts like they just a human sex doll. Show them respect as we all human beings. They are someone's daughter, sister or aunt. Not a sex object " Same goes for guys too, as many women on here simply resort them to a big cock, muscle body, heavy cummer, etc. Not having a go at what any of you are saying, but do understand that men have feelings and emotions too, and they are someone's son, brother or uncle. | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos Yet nothing on your profile, with your bisexuality and TS/ TV hidden. This is why us bi men get a bad name on here as too many lie! Unfair on those of us open about being bi " Is it? I think you'll find it's straight guys who get a bad name from everyone on here always wanting to label them as they see fit. Many threads where this has happened on here. | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos Yet nothing on your profile, with your bisexuality and TS/ TV hidden. This is why us bi men get a bad name on here as too many lie! Unfair on those of us open about being bi Is it? I think you'll find it's straight guys who get a bad name from everyone on here always wanting to label them as they see fit. Many threads where this has happened on here." Action speaks louder than words, if males are having sex with males that is not straight no matter what way you want to butter it up. People just need to accept what they are and stop lying | |||
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"Very dirty sluts is what they are " I second that emotion! | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos Yet nothing on your profile, with your bisexuality and TS/ TV hidden. This is why us bi men get a bad name on here as too many lie! Unfair on those of us open about being bi " I completely agree, the very reason I now block all single males, that and the usual ridiculous one liners, I’d suggest this goes beyond even bi-curious, but he is clearly either in denial or ashamed. R x | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. Lots of guys on here think the same of women on here too! Fellas please be respectful to us and TV/TS. Yes it's so demoralising and off putting when men talk about women or tv/ts like they just a human sex doll. Show them respect as we all human beings. They are someone's daughter, sister or aunt. Not a sex object " Sorry to say it, but you can say exactly the same for the way some women talk about men. I guess the moral of the story is be a bit thoughtful and mindful that behind this impersonal website, we are all human and treating people with kindness is better than being unkind or without thought. | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. Lots of guys on here think the same of women on here too! Fellas please be respectful to us and TV/TS. Yes it's so demoralising and off putting when men talk about women or tv/ts like they just a human sex doll. Show them respect as we all human beings. They are someone's daughter, sister or aunt. Not a sex object Same goes for guys too, as many women on here simply resort them to a big cock, muscle body, heavy cummer, etc. Not having a go at what any of you are saying, but do understand that men have feelings and emotions too, and they are someone's son, brother or uncle." Thats a sexual preference and you're just using my line. Lol It's about seeing TV/TS as a sex object saying "oh i never tried one, shall I?" I get it too men thinking asian women are like a different type of chocolate flavour to experiment with. If you're physically attracted to eachother, have similar sexual kinks and got a good connection then go for it. Just don't go for someone just because of what they look like and how available they are, to then just do it and walk away without explanation like they just are free sex workers. I just like how TV/TS are treated like they second best, just a novelty. I shut up now | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. Lots of guys on here think the same of women on here too! Fellas please be respectful to us and TV/TS. Yes it's so demoralising and off putting when men talk about women or tv/ts like they just a human sex doll. Show them respect as we all human beings. They are someone's daughter, sister or aunt. Not a sex object Sorry to say it, but you can say exactly the same for the way some women talk about men. I guess the moral of the story is be a bit thoughtful and mindful that behind this impersonal website, we are all human and treating people with kindness is better than being unkind or without thought. " Anyways, this thread is addressing TV/TS not men. So obviously I mentioned women. So be good if you start your own thread if you wana talk about equality for men | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. Lots of guys on here think the same of women on here too! Fellas please be respectful to us and TV/TS. " Thank you sweetheart | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos Yet nothing on your profile, with your bisexuality and TS/ TV hidden. This is why us bi men get a bad name on here as too many lie! Unfair on those of us open about being bi Is it? I think you'll find it's straight guys who get a bad name from everyone on here always wanting to label them as they see fit. Many threads where this has happened on here. Action speaks louder than words, if males are having sex with males that is not straight no matter what way you want to butter it up. People just need to accept what they are and stop lying " OK. I'm accepting liking tv/ts. I'm not bisexual. Guys do nothing for me. If people feel the need to "out" me as something I'm not, bully to them! At the most, I'd describe myself as "nearly straight" but there isn't a box to tick for that hence straight on my profile | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. " Took the words right outta my mouth, all of this | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos Yet nothing on your profile, with your bisexuality and TS/ TV hidden. This is why us bi men get a bad name on here as too many lie! Unfair on those of us open about being bi Is it? I think you'll find it's straight guys who get a bad name from everyone on here always wanting to label them as they see fit. Many threads where this has happened on here. Action speaks louder than words, if males are having sex with males that is not straight no matter what way you want to butter it up. People just need to accept what they are and stop lying OK. I'm accepting liking tv/ts. I'm not bisexual. Guys do nothing for me. If people feel the need to "out" me as something I'm not, bully to them! At the most, I'd describe myself as "nearly straight" but there isn't a box to tick for that hence straight on my profile " Nearly straight, but not straight. Just like a vegan saying they do not eat meat and not attracted to meat, but still eat meat and call themselves a vegan regardless. Would you still see them as a vegan as they believe they are? A lot of confused men on this site | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. Glad someone sed it lol because it’s one off the reason I don’t meet first timers for tv/ts don’t want them comeing and then saying it’s not for them and then I am left all night feeling sad and unsexy and wanting to throw everything away x" . Awww that's such a sad post . Completely agree with what LisaB said, it does you good to stop and think about the other persons feelings sometimes. | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos Yet nothing on your profile, with your bisexuality and TS/ TV hidden. This is why us bi men get a bad name on here as too many lie! Unfair on those of us open about being bi Is it? I think you'll find it's straight guys who get a bad name from everyone on here always wanting to label them as they see fit. Many threads where this has happened on here." ‘Everyone’? Not me dear..... | |||
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"I find these threads really interesting. For what it's worth, here's my take: I don't actually meet cis women, my sexual preference is for trans girls, that's it, and my profile preferences reflect this. I listed as 'straight' on my profile, because: a. I'm not interested at all in meeting 'guys' in guy mode. b. when I'm with a trans girl, she's exactly that: a girl" Im not sure if this isn't rather a transphobic post? I thought we were being told there was no difference between women, women are women, just some have wombs and some have or had penis's. | |||
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"very dirty sluts is what they are " speak for yourself I... Nah.. I can't tell a lie. A lot of us are | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos Yet nothing on your profile, with your bisexuality and TS/ TV hidden. This is why us bi men get a bad name on here as too many lie! Unfair on those of us open about being bi " Oh you noticed that too lol. Well done for being open and honest about your sexuality. | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. Glad someone sed it lol because it’s one off the reason I don’t meet first timers for tv/ts don’t want them comeing and then saying it’s not for them and then I am left all night feeling sad and unsexy and wanting to throw everything away x . Awww that's such a sad post . Completely agree with what LisaB said, it does you good to stop and think about the other persons feelings sometimes." and while I joke about us being dirty so its yes, I whole heartedly agree with the above. I've literally spent hours getting ready for a meet, show up at the door and then have them message me with abuse and the like. It breaks the spirit and is one of the reasons I mainly meet in clubs now. | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos Yet nothing on your profile, with your bisexuality and TS/ TV hidden. This is why us bi men get a bad name on here as too many lie! Unfair on those of us open about being bi Oh you noticed that too lol. Well done for being open and honest about your sexuality." | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. " | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. " Thankyou I’m glad you support us Much appreciated | |||
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"OP..I'm glad that you are wanting to explore your sexuality, but please remember this. Tgirls are not here for someone's bucket list. They are here for their own desires, and have feelings & emotions too. So by all means explore, but be kind and respectful, too. Glad someone sed it lol because it’s one off the reason I don’t meet first timers for tv/ts don’t want them comeing and then saying it’s not for them and then I am left all night feeling sad and unsexy and wanting to throw everything away x . Awww that's such a sad post . Completely agree with what LisaB said, it does you good to stop and think about the other persons feelings sometimes. and while I joke about us being dirty so its yes, I whole heartedly agree with the above. I've literally spent hours getting ready for a meet, show up at the door and then have them message me with abuse and the like. It breaks the spirit and is one of the reasons I mainly meet in clubs now." . That's just awful Completely agree with you about clubs being the place to go though. | |||
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"T-girls are the best for a naughty time, generally the oral skills are amazing!! I’d love to meet more with them. There a big difference for me between convincing and a hairy man dressed up! Sorry if this offends anyone. Yes, there is a difference. Usualy because of the individual's preference. However, if you think that posting something that you think/ know will upset someone, probably best not to say it at all. There a lot of things that may offend people, I don’t think it means I shouldn’t say it or even write what I think! Just my preference " Maybe it's not what you say, but how you say it? There is a full spectrum of tgirls, from wearing a pair of panties to post op, we all have preferences. If you had stopped at, I prefer convincing, or smooth and convincing then your statement would have been a lot less derogatory to the people who can't for whatever reason be smooth. | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos " Three in a week? Great to see someone openly flouting Fabs rules on meeting at the moment (NOT!) Is there a reason you don’t share your obvious attraction to TV’s on your profile? | |||
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"I know a few people that have met up in the last 2 weeks" There are plenty but not many that would openly admit to three in a week on a public Fab forum. Not the wisest thing! | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos Yet nothing on your profile, with your bisexuality and TS/ TV hidden. This is why us bi men get a bad name on here as too many lie! Unfair on those of us open about being bi Is it? I think you'll find it's straight guys who get a bad name from everyone on here always wanting to label them as they see fit. Many threads where this has happened on here. Action speaks louder than words, if males are having sex with males that is not straight no matter what way you want to butter it up. People just need to accept what they are and stop lying OK. I'm accepting liking tv/ts. I'm not bisexual. Guys do nothing for me. If people feel the need to "out" me as something I'm not, bully to them! At the most, I'd describe myself as "nearly straight" but there isn't a box to tick for that hence straight on my profile Nearly straight, but not straight. Just like a vegan saying they do not eat meat and not attracted to meat, but still eat meat and call themselves a vegan regardless. Would you still see them as a vegan as they believe they are? A lot of confused men on this site" What a coincidence, I'm a vegan too, but I love the occ bacon butty | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos Yet nothing on your profile, with your bisexuality and TS/ TV hidden. This is why us bi men get a bad name on here as too many lie! Unfair on those of us open about being bi Is it? I think you'll find it's straight guys who get a bad name from everyone on here always wanting to label them as they see fit. Many threads where this has happened on here. Action speaks louder than words, if males are having sex with males that is not straight no matter what way you want to butter it up. People just need to accept what they are and stop lying OK. I'm accepting liking tv/ts. I'm not bisexual. Guys do nothing for me. If people feel the need to "out" me as something I'm not, bully to them! At the most, I'd describe myself as "nearly straight" but there isn't a box to tick for that hence straight on my profile Nearly straight, but not straight. Just like a vegan saying they do not eat meat and not attracted to meat, but still eat meat and call themselves a vegan regardless. Would you still see them as a vegan as they believe they are? A lot of confused men on this site What a coincidence, I'm a vegan too, but I love the occ bacon butty " I bet secretely, there are a lot of vegan who slip up here and there haha | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos Three in a week? Great to see someone openly flouting Fabs rules on meeting at the moment (NOT!) Is there a reason you don’t share your obvious attraction to TV’s on your profile? " Maybe they didn't meet through fab, or already knew each other. Fab doesn't govern people's sex lives ffs! | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos Three in a week? Great to see someone openly flouting Fabs rules on meeting at the moment (NOT!) Is there a reason you don’t share your obvious attraction to TV’s on your profile? Maybe they didn't meet through fab, or already knew each other. Fab doesn't govern people's sex lives ffs! " You seem to have a problem with some of my forum comments. Any reason? | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos Three in a week? Great to see someone openly flouting Fabs rules on meeting at the moment (NOT!) Is there a reason you don’t share your obvious attraction to TV’s on your profile? Maybe they didn't meet through fab, or already knew each other. Fab doesn't govern people's sex lives ffs! You seem to have a problem with some of my forum comments. Any reason?" Who are you? | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos " Mad what Outrage a joke comment made lol I’m straight! | |||
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"I tried 3 in the last week. Blowjobs are unreal! However did get caught using a glory hole in the public loos Yet nothing on your profile, with your bisexuality and TS/ TV hidden. This is why us bi men get a bad name on here as too many lie! Unfair on those of us open about being bi Is it? I think you'll find it's straight guys who get a bad name from everyone on here always wanting to label them as they see fit. Many threads where this has happened on here. Action speaks louder than words, if males are having sex with males that is not straight no matter what way you want to butter it up. People just need to accept what they are and stop lying OK. I'm accepting liking tv/ts. I'm not bisexual. Guys do nothing for me. If people feel the need to "out" me as something I'm not, bully to them! At the most, I'd describe myself as "nearly straight" but there isn't a box to tick for that hence straight on my profile Nearly straight, but not straight. Just like a vegan saying they do not eat meat and not attracted to meat, but still eat meat and call themselves a vegan regardless. Would you still see them as a vegan as they believe they are? A lot of confused men on this site" It's partly the fault of the site options. It's either straight, gay or bi. Which assumes a male / female duality. I'm pansexual, attracted to femininity, whatever the actual genitalia is present on my partner, but the closest option is Bisexual. But I can see why some men think that if they are meeting TVs /TSs (another site labelling issue) they're "nearly straight" or heteexible. | |||
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"I don’t mean to bring a downer to this topic but this thread has triggered so many hurtful memories for me. The whole discussion of “trying a TV” sent me right back to my formative years knowing that to most i was just something to be used and thrown away, that I had no worth beyond being a toy thing for someone’s moment of experimentation. I had no chance of ever feeling like I could be wanted and lived for being myself just what service I could provide for anyone who showed me the least bit of interest. Times have changed now in so many ways but please don’t prey on those who are looking for validation and who only feel like they can get it through the attention of others. Like I say, I don’t mean to be a killjoy and I don’t mean to bring a downer to it but just remember that everyone here is a person in their own right and not just an object for you to try. " I think the title of this post was unwisely chosen and I'll thought out. 'trying' a TV? Come on, really? Sounds like they are thinking of trying a new coffee machine or mountain bike, ridiculous. Totally agree with your sentiments, don't let I'll thought out comments upset you. Ignore them and move on. | |||
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"I don’t mean to bring a downer to this topic but this thread has triggered so many hurtful memories for me. The whole discussion of “trying a TV” sent me right back to my formative years knowing that to most i was just something to be used and thrown away, that I had no worth beyond being a toy thing for someone’s moment of experimentation. I had no chance of ever feeling like I could be wanted and lived for being myself just what service I could provide for anyone who showed me the least bit of interest. Times have changed now in so many ways but please don’t prey on those who are looking for validation and who only feel like they can get it through the attention of others. Like I say, I don’t mean to be a killjoy and I don’t mean to bring a downer to it but just remember that everyone here is a person in their own right and not just an object for you to try. I think the title of this post was unwisely chosen and I'll thought out. 'trying' a TV? Come on, really? Sounds like they are thinking of trying a new coffee machine or mountain bike, ridiculous. Totally agree with your sentiments, don't let I'll thought out comments upset you. Ignore them and move on." *Ill | |||
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"I don’t mean to bring a downer to this topic but this thread has triggered so many hurtful memories for me. The whole discussion of “trying a TV” sent me right back to my formative years knowing that to most i was just something to be used and thrown away, that I had no worth beyond being a toy thing for someone’s moment of experimentation. I had no chance of ever feeling like I could be wanted and lived for being myself just what service I could provide for anyone who showed me the least bit of interest. Times have changed now in so many ways but please don’t prey on those who are looking for validation and who only feel like they can get it through the attention of others. Like I say, I don’t mean to be a killjoy and I don’t mean to bring a downer to it but just remember that everyone here is a person in their own right and not just an object for you to try. " I said earlier on it was transphobic. | |||
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"I said earlier on it was transphobic. " Thanks, I know your heart is in the right place. I wouldn’t exactly say it was transphobic though, there’s no hate or anything like that. It’s more about objectification and that’s not restricted to trans folk in any way but it can’t have a disastrous effect on the self worth of trans folk trying to find their place in society. It’s nice to know people find is sexually desirable as long as it’s remembered we’re people just like anyone else who live lives outside of the bedroom too. | |||
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"So I've had treble the amount of TV/TS look at my profile and message me. Can any guy tell me if they have seen a TV/TS and if they enjoyed it, and what did they like the most. Just wandering " Well,there are lots of TVs on this site. Why not just contact a few and ask if they'd like to be your experiment? You'll probably find at least one. | |||
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